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"Cmon do we really believe the astrological connection stuff?"

Yeah, the more you learn the more valid it gets. Alcheme and I had an awesome conversation about the reason behind the Libra male, Scorp female attraction. Her explanation was awesome.

astrological connection stuff?? yes to a certain degree but I wouldn't live my life by it as a rule 😛...Leo? yes I am and patience?? well before I met Libra I was known as the most impatient person I knew LOL....he's taught me that for sure and it has actually helped in other areas of my life so he's been good for me there 🙂......yes they may very well remember everything you say...OMG mine remembers everything about me and I was shocked he disclosed what he knew only a week ago!! I almost fainted and thought it was because he cared a great deal about me (maybe he does and I dont know it and/or he just won't/can't admit it to me or himself)....the little things you'd normally shrug off they can remember - well he can anyway...most of it utter nonsense LOL. Im pretty much the same, I'll take everything in and remember it because I guess Im interested in that person...if I wasn't, I wouldn't remember half as much 🙂.....Leo and Libra?? yeah well we do seem to hit it off both physically and mentally and we have a really wonderful time when we do get together and it seems a real shame that I am looking at perhaps ending things but well that's another story...we'll see how he takes what I've got to say next week.

I really don't know what to suggest but if your heart isn't into #2, then let him go and focus on #1....you may be in for a ride from hell but sometimes its not the destination that's reached that's the best part, the journey is one hell of a scream!!! Just protect your heart and you should be fine 🙂 You're a scorpio!!! You're a strong woman.....you're half way there 🙂

May the force be with you 😛

OMG I put up way too many of those smiley faces, etc...why don't you people tell me off— what is wrong with you— LOL

OK mental note - STOP using them so much Chatzee!!!!

I like 'em, Chatz girl ESPECIALLY when they look like you're licking your lips.

thank you kindly....mmmm yes well thinking of that...nah, I'd better not...I think there's enough flirting going on around here lately...will save it for another day!

We might get kicked off this site if we continue with the raunch hahahaha

Actually, Chatz, it DOES seem that Leos love using their tongues quite a bit.

(Is that raunchy?).

"discussion on Libra Male, Scorpio female"

does this mean there is no hope for this relationship - all sites I read say forgetaboutit, dont go there, youllbesorry, lol

Re: Libra #1

Here's the way I figure it, I have nothing to lose. If I leave him alone like you say, he'll think Im not interested and I'll lose him anyways, if I continue to contact him and he tires of it and tells me to take a hike, still the same outcome. Right? LOL So you right about the "hellofaride". And you are also right I might get him, then what—?? Thats' why sometimes I back off cause it scares the ditty out of me. Probably once every two weeks Ill hit him up and call or text, he always answers, that's it. Havent actually seen him since xmas 2006.

we are suppose to get together as he owes me for the superbowl "bet". Ive been waitingfor him to call on that, no response yet. Ugh, shall I forget about this Libra guy? Im soooo dumb I keep trying and writen to you guys about it. Sorry, I know you are all tired of my crap. Kick mme please know some sense into me.

Do Libra guys ever tell you to get lost or just slither away?

knock some sense into me - sorry

snakes slither. Guys just leave or don't show up. Libra guys, it seems, go away, think about you a lot, then come back again. Neve knew a guy tell a woman to get lost unless she's in border-line psycho pursuit.

Sorry about the slither. lol

What constitutes a pyscho pursuit? This libra must be different as he has told me he's told some to well, not that radical, just that they are not good together and he's not answered their phone calls and they finally just get the hint (he's told me this).

Well, being an Air sign, he can probably say that completely rationally without any emotion. Would just a decision he's made. MOST men I know wouldn't do that because they're still interested in the possibility of s-e-x with that woman.

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Thanks, feel bad about your Libra gal. I dated a Scorp guy who told me he just wanted someone to date so he could go to movies, etc. (since he had just gotten divorced) I thought it to be a good idea, I was attacted but put it out of my mind when he said that, so when he went in to kiss me on the lips (after about 3 or 5 dates) I also turned my head. It was confusing to see a person as I thought wanted to be a friend then completely turn it the other way. Well, guess what after the head turning incident I never heard from him again. I would have continued to see him to see how things went if he didnt just "go away as you say".

OK Shirley, from one scorp who attracts these crazy dudes and has been involved with them over the years...

Here is the deal: Initial attraction phenominal... Sexual attraction outstanding...

However, we: Like to be straight forward, no reading between the lines crap. Want what we want when we want it. Used to being desired and when we aren't get uninterested, unless (like the libra guy) we keep getting sucked back in.

They: Have to ponder over decisions, why does she like me? Does she like me? Will we be compatible? Can I handle the strong spirited and aggressiveness— blah, blah, blah..

It is a mutual understanding the two have to come to, in order to make it work. Lib/scorp do misunderstand eachother often, that is why communication must be clear... Also, we have to learn to chill and not be so intense (scares them)and they must learn to be direct and responsive in whatever they may be feeling...

Combo could be wonderful. Understanding and communication is crutial. Nic, alcheme what say you—

no disrespect chatz but libra's (immature libra's) are big flakes, I just posted a whole bit on the Aqua board, I lived with a Libra, they are all frills and fun but when it comes to committments, that's just too heavy for them.

This Libra sounds like the immature, non-committal type, actually I just kicked a libra guy to the curb due to his bad behavior, I just walked away, no explanation, no why's or what for's because I respected this person and was still treated like sh*t and this wasn't a love interest, just a platonic friendship.

From my experience, some libras are all surface, if they let you in, you can find depth but it's rare that they show this side to themselves...it's a ME ME ME ME situation. Taking and not giving back and don't seem to understand that they should.

Your doing the best thing by walking away and honestly he probably will keep his distance because he's a flake lol!! Sorry I couldn't help it.

Wish u all the best!

Now go out and get you a real man!

typo...leo board I posted on regarding libra men

Well queen you hit the nail on the head. The initial attraction to each others sexaulity and spirit are phenominal. My only long relationship was with a Scorp girl, almost 5 years. In some areas you connect in ways you previously thought was impossible with the opposite sex, and in others it is easy to start operating just one degree off and be in a state of confusion where you don't.

BOTH of them have to surrender themselves to the core principles of the other person, what makes them tick. You may not completely agree with what you discover, but both signs strongly value unconditional understanding and when this level of acceptance of the other person, all of their strengths and flaws I think that a long lasting love isn't not only possible, but intensly rewarding. Possibly, maybe definately more so than any connection with another sign for each of them.

They are both really intense in different areas. The Libra guy quantifies love and passion intillectually and is curiously consumed by the Scorpio girls natural boiling emotional intensity. On the opposite side the Scorpio girl quantifies the intillectual through her emotions and is in turned consumed by his natural ability for his minds natural intensity. They represent more than any other combination be it zodiac or personality the opposite, complimentary strengths. They can't help but feeling that there are cirtain things about them that can only be truely understood through each other.

The Libra guy has a turbulant and tormenting permanent dark side, but CHOOSES optimism and light which is what everyone else sees in us. The direct opposite is true for Scorpio girl in that they have a beaming light optimism inside of them but the dark suspicion is what is picked up by the rest of the world. One represents the others inner mystery and this is the cause of the magnetic attraction. They each want to surrender to the other feeling they are the living answer to the parts of themselves they can't quite grasp. but you have to accept the fact that it will result in a strong desire to consume the other. This love is as selfish as it is selfless...if you can simply accept that your looking at a truely intense and fulfilling situation. They show a side to each other they secretly want to show the world and it naturally comes out around each other.

Alch has an awesome explanation of this using zodiac symbolism...I would rather her tell it if she wants because I don't want to botch it.

tiki33, appreciate your input.

Some libra's dont even know what makes themselves tick. My Libra #2 last night at dinner said he'd never or never has gotten married because there is NO divorce in his family and he knows he would have alot of divorces and doesnt know why but knows its him.

Do Libras ever think about people/love interests/friends during the day like the rest of us. Do they ever wish they can have a certain person and persue them or do they just say "what the heck,on to the next one"? Do tell.

Do they ever wish they can have a certain person and persue them or do they just say "what the heck,on to the next one"?

Very much so.

Very much so on which account. They think about people and wish they had and persue or just say what the heck, or lol both.

Are you thinking about someone right now?

The pursuit and the end result (the accomplishment of getting what you've set out to achieve) is what it's all about. And also why it has to be done 'our' way or we're not interested.

So, if these chaps dont call, that means they are not interested and best to let go, right? If YOU call them and they answer that doesnt count and it still will never end up to become anything right?

Well don't generalise too much. And it depends on how long you've known each other etc.

Am accidental run-in is good. Can you arrange that?

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Im not understanding what an accidental run in would do. Ive seen him before and he is always endearing, but thats it. Like I said before he always asks for kisses and hugs. That is why its sooo confusing.

I call and we talk or text on the phone, but HE never calls me. We are suppose to be friends, yet I do all the calling. Is that normal for a Libra? Is it laziness?, Ive asked him why he never CAlls ME and he says he doesnt know why. Its almost like he only talks to me cause I call him—?? Like boy you are LUCKY today to be able to talk to me. lol

If that is how it feels then listen to yourself. You're probably spot on...

Well, if you think I should go with my real feelings, Im feeling he's just not quite sure about me and cant quite let go yet, otherwise he would have by now. I think I stroke his ego and he likes the game playing, so I continue to play the game. I dunno, just a feeling.

Why not back off for a while? Once he realises that you have backed off he can decide what his feelings are and do something one way or another. That way you don't have to do anything (do less bascially) and it's on him. If he wants you he will come after you. We're not all that shy...

shirley, I'd recommend what Libra says!! Its really hard to do at first and you'll probably have to do it over and over and over and over again (repeat over many times ok?? LOL) but you will get used to the times in between and yeah....do less and he may indeed want more

don't call him either...make him wonder

alright thanks to you all - ill go with the consensous(spelling) - just one more questions, who much time we talking - month, months, weeks. lol

well in my experience its between 2 and 11 days LOL...but I've seen it can be weeks and even a month or so.....guess it all depends on your own individual case. I know that if I make contact he will reciprocate within minutes and it takes a LOT for him to make the initial contact but now I MAKE him contact me first otherwise we don't communicate LOL....it has worked for me anyway

awesome - thanks a bunch - well see how it goes.

Im not sure its "awesome" but yeah ok I'll take that LOL

Nic, funny how I seem to hit so many points on the Libra and with all my experience and attraction to them, I stil am confused by them, but I guess I just accept them for who they are, not that they are wrong, they just are who they are.

I never had an issue with my libra calling and i mean NEVER, we dated almost 2 years and he called me no matter what, if a libra male isn't calling consistently or hardly ever it's because he isn't that into you (not trying to be mean) it's the truth...libra's aren't that hard to figure out, they are pretty simplistic, if they like you a whole lot he will call you everyday, (mine did), he will hang out with you ie movies, mall, dinner, clubs, do whatever your into because they are social people and you will know who his family is right away, if he keeps his distance, it means he's doing his thing and being with you at HIS own convienance.

Most libras have no problem verbally saying they want you and if he doesn't say it, he will demonstrate it, much like leo's in this department, my libra told me within a week he loved me and we were inseparable. Of course I showed him effort that I wanted him in my life etc but he reciprocated and I eventually broke it off with him, he would have stuck around doing his thing with me but I was sick of all the surface stuff, laziness (not working) using his charm to get his way etc.

don't get me wrong he had alot of great qualities so I'm not knocking all libras because I love them but at that point in my life I needed a solid, mature guy.

good luck girls, I sincerely hope your libra's aren't mess'n with your heads but it sounds like a head trip to me.

tiki33 its always good to see another point of view, particularly from somebody who has been there - thanks for that depressive description of what we're going through LOL.....

" if a libra male isn't calling consistently or hardly ever it's because he isn't that into you..."

Or because it is easier than listening to someone bitch and moan about not calling later. Hate to say it.

Tiki, it totally depends on where that Libra is at the time. Was with my ex 8 years and married 6 and had 2 libra involvements prior, so, it doesn't mean they aren't into you, there are a number of reasons they could not be contacting you. I had some of the same issues with my ex and after two years of not being together he still holds hope.

As far as my libra friend as a scorp I have insight and totally know if this were a different time in his life we would so be on... He really cares and in his own way loves me. However he is damaged and unable to give me what I deserve. So again, it totally depends on where they are in life, mentally and timing is always a factor... Trust I know.

LOL Nic...LOL

QS...phew!!! Thanks for that and there I was thinking she might just be right - phew!!! LOL

No, not quite. It all depends on the individual Libra and what place he is in, cause like I mentioned. they all started in high persuit...

looks that way

nic:

Hi - I dont get the cookiemonster comment.

*libra not calling and just not into you*

Yes, I get he probably isnt into me but when I do get the urge to call him which is about every couple weeks (Ive learned to not complain about not calling after reading this site) he usually talks to me on the phone like he really cares. He calls me back when he sees I have called and apologizes when he doesnt pick up. So, its like a mixed message thing and I just keep hanging on.

as we do, as we do *sigh*

Shirley, if he never initiates calls. Never calls you w/o you calling him. I would pretty much say he isn't interested. However, even when they are calling sometimes, like with me. Wait and let them call sometime, not all the time but sometime. My libra friend doesn't hear from me after a few days before a week mostly he either calls or texts me just to see how I am and sometimes gets slick about hooking up. Sometimes just to talk... Sometimes I answer and sometimes I don't wait a day or two, and when I do that he either calls again or pick up on damn near the first ring when I do call.

If he isnt interested at all - why even pickup? why not just let me go on calling til I just quit——??

Hmmm QS now you've broken me!!! Mine NEVER calls but he does text of his own accord.....he NEVER EVER calls but answers if I do!!! He seems to live his life via texts/emails/msn and avoids talking on the phone all together....he has declined calls when I've been with him but always answers when I do......gawd confusing 😢

oh Shirley - we're a great pair aren't we—

Chatz, he is communicating. If he perfers texts then OK. He texts you on his own. I wouldn't call or text anyone who didn't call or text me. Sheer uninterest. Shirley he answers because he doesn't want to be rude... The Libra, mannerable and charming, however, although confused at times, know how to contact you if he wants to.

They may not be into us the way we deserve is the bottom line. They might to some extend really care about us, like LS said, however either don't in the way we want or can't.