DennyV......THE TRILOGY (Page 2)

Go Denny!!

LOL @ Zen, yeah, I pretty much think most guys are jackasses, so I'm refreshed to see something positive and finally the GUY stressing about pleasing a woman. I love my male friends to death, but they are super shady!!! LOL!

last night I was laying in bed...and 12:30am i get a text form her "sweet dreams. Have a great night...do you have clinicals tommorrow?"

so im like "yea, too bad it didnt start snowing a few hours ealrier...we could be having tea and cupcakes now 🙂"

shes like "aww that sounds nice...would you have kept me up all night?"

i said "until we collapsed" (because i told i dont sleep i just go until my body collapses

shs like 'where was my bed"

i said "I would have given you mine"

i called her and she didnt answer...i didnt leave a vm....she may be getting ready for work... i'm not ocd'ing it...im not ocd'ing it....im not ocd'ing it...hahahaha

see...no ocd because she called me back....talked again for antoehr 2 hours ....

Are you a virgin Denny? Or is that too personal?

hahaha...No, im not a virgin....what would make you even ask that question?

Because they think you're moving too slow.....

what do you want me to do? propose?

seriously, yous tell me what you would like me to do?

ok...next time i see her i will kiss her

D, I sent you a PM.

thanks ....i sent one back

Yeah it was just the fact that you haven't even tried to kiss her yet.

glaciers move faster. Lol leo!

yea yea

So when do we get to see a picture of your lovely lady? Oh and will you tell her all about us when you get together—

ok what does idk stands for and ocd — I'm lost

Idk is "I don't know". OCD is"Obsessive Compulsive Disorder"

Yeah, you need some physical contact.
It's clear she likes you...but if she's not physically attracted to you it just won't work.

I mean don't push sex for awhile either... but definately you need to start the cuddling and hand holding and kissing. Don't end up in the friend zone.

You aren't in high school anymore. 🙂

Can you imagine how long it'll take to have sex— hehe DennyV chapter 15!

Just a word here..

Maybe she jumped into relationshipsss too fast like a lot of us Libra women....

I think she just wants to know if he is real..

It must be sooooo hard 4 both of them at this point.

SEX isn't love remember Libra''ssss

We want mental, physical and some cupcakessssss

Blessings on you Denny and ur gf!!

shes not my gf yet!!!

🙂

🙂 bull shity

😛

LOL @ Thairis!

I'm curious... WHAT do you guys talk about during all those long phone calls—?

I'm Not in to Country Western Music... But I heard these lyrics..

A little less talk and a lot more action.. Denny log off and just go do something.

Don't talk don't come on DXP...

Until u get a gf

idk what we talk about...everything....

all i know is...she texts me almost every night at 12:30am "hey, you up" or "hey are you tired"...so of course, knwoing i have to be up at 5:30am, i respond with "yea im up, whats going on?" and then a couple texts later, she calls me..and we wind up talking til 4am. Right now im on 45 min sleep. And i had the hospital all day today. 45 minutes sleep. Its a miracle i made it. And the same thing on tuesday. I talked to her til 5am on monday night..had to be up at 6:00am tuesday morning and i survived classes til 5pm. IDK how im doing it.

Last nigth, Im in bed listening to my ipod trying to fall asleep...but she alwasy texts me at night and calls a few minutes later. And we just talk and talk about everything. I asked her about dinner on saturday...and then i asked her if she wanted to come over sunday for the super bowl because i have the house to myself again. So we'll see what happens.

45 min sleep!!! hahaha dude you're so dating 😛

do you both support same teams?

ok Den let's hear a bit more if you have gotten ur sleep— HA

hahahahahaha

DENNY! REPORT ASAP!!! 😛

Denny, did you run away and elope already—?

Denny! Where are you?

(I noticed he got increasingly defensive with everyone giving him more advice. He's got this one in the bag already and I think he knows it now. He finally found his confidence. I don't think he'll be asking for anymore adivce.)

But I would like to hear what happens next... 🙂
I'm nosy.

Maybe he is sleeeeeppppiiiinnnng.

**sniffs**

oh denny, thought you were different from the rest *sniffs* just disappeared without a word and keep us hanging *sniffs*

LOL, Zen, you are so dramatic 🙂 LMAO. I think that Denny is getting much needed rest and catching up on studying.

Denny, I know you've been viewing all your mail as you last logged on today! Be nice to hear from you even if it is just to say thankyou to all those ladies that offered you all their advice & time.🙂

*Cries!!!!!!!!!!!✨

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*Cries!!!!!!!!!!!!!✨

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*Cries!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!✨

hello everybody...cappy dont cry 🙂

a lot of stuff has happened...i didnt even have the energy to come on and post...but im here now

I dont know where I left off, il just pick it up from this weekend. She was going to come over sunday...so i was in the middle of studying....i went and got her the cupcakes she likes from the baker, and i drove around for an hour to 5 different florists looking for a specefic pink rose. I finally found it 5 towns away. So she came over around 6:30ish...i had the candles going agin...this beautiful pink rose and the cupcakes all set on the table.

She comes to my house and she brought Columbian food from this restaurant by her house. So were eating and everything...and everything is good...she also brougth "the notebook" over on dvd...we both never seen it before. So we go on my couch to watch it and we're sitting next to eachother...and for all you people who are like "be more aggressive"...YOU WERE WRONG...because i tried it even though I didnt want to, and i got it stuck up my...u know. I was doing just fine...but all this talk about "its your 4th date...do something..bla bla"...so i figured ok, you guys got a point...well, couldnt have been more wrong.

I tried to kind of like hold her hand in a nice way....and NOTHING...she totally shot it down....so then during the movie we were talking and laughing ...and i just kissed her on the side of her head....again, nothing...kind of gave me a look like "ok". So I walked her out to the car when the movie was done, and i just gave her a kiss on the cheek...again...and a hug...adn I asked her about hanging out Monday?shes like ?Il let you know?.....we had a really great night besides her not being receptive to the little affection i tried to show her....So she calls me that night to let me know she got home ...and we wind up talking for an hour....so you could imagine my OCD sunday night...it was taken to a new level ....so im just like wtf....confused as hell...

so then comes monday....now im just like...ok she dont like me...im backing off....so monday comes, and she calls me wanting to hang out...im saying to myself...wtf?

so i met her at some mall thats half way between us...we ate...i took her to these stores and just walked around...then she suggested a movie so we went back to the mall to see "slumdog millionaire" (very good movie)....and we had a great great time. We hung out from 4-10pm. We laughed and had a good time during the movie...and i didnt try anything...im done trying ot make moves...its obvious she aint ready for it...shes still feeling me out...so for those of you who are going to say anything about being more aggressive...save it...cause im not doing it...i tried it...and i got it thrown back in my face...so im done.

After the movie...i drove her to her car...she gave me some grapes....i gave her a peck on the cheek....again....and a little hug...and that was it. But we had a really good time...laughing and talking....it was nice.

When she called me monday, i just didnt get it...im like...why is this girl calling me..she didnt even want to hold my hand. IDK...i dont get it..But we hung out and had a nice time.....im just taking it day by day....what else can i do right? But you can imagine my OCD. I just dont understand this. Ive never in my life been so up and down about anything. Feeling on top of the world 1 min..shot back down to reality the next...then back on top.

I guess shes still not sure about me...but we hung out 5x since Jan 12th. Thats pretty good...and this weekend was the first time we hung out 2 consecutive days....and she brought over columbian food....why would somebody do this if she wasnt interested in me? But if she was interested...then why not hold my hand? IDK..i guess i shouldnt have tried..i didnt do it because people on here told me too...i did it because i wanted to and it felt right. But i guess it was the wrong move. IDK

Good Morning (Afternoon) Denny,

Don't be so worried about if you should or shouldn't have made any moves.

You were gentle in your approach (I think) and she just wasn't ready. What is wrong with that?

She is still sending you signals that she does indeed like hangin with you. It probably will take time.

I think everything is going to work out. You just need to make sure you focus on your school work and your rest.

Hard to be a balanced Libra with all these unknowns but I am pretty sure you are progressing toward a good relationship with her.

leokitten.... not every female is ready to roll

I think she came toward Denny cuz she was afraid she might be used again. My Opinion only MOOO

Anyway I think she might see the real person in him. MHO

Denny... pleese don't make any grand gestures toward her come V-Day...

How about letting her meet ur Mom or go to church...

Ha Ha leokitten...

It has only been a short while.... Maybe he shud get a tatttoooo across his forehead LOL

yea i dont understand it either....it hurts my head too much to think about it

but you're talking about being friendzoned....of course we have to be friends first. Who jumps into a relationship with a stranger— Even she said, you have to get to know the person before you get in a relationship....shes still getting to know me, she said it the other night... Which is fine. We keep having good times when we go out. So we just have to take it 1 date at a time.

Im not going to act like it bothered me that she didnt hold her hand...im just going to keep doing waht im doing...but im not making ANY MORE moves...none. I learned my lesson trying to be a little affectionate...i got it thrown in my face. Maybe she thought it was too early for it...idk....i dont want to think about it cause i dotn get it.

As for V-day....idk what im doing for her. I really dont. We'll see what happens.

Let her initiate things from now Denny, you've done the hard yards and have been knocked back...BUT not completely she's stil calling you and chatting for hours and asking you out which she didn't do before. You're having fun so just do that for a while and eventually something will happen.

Whether it's the friendszone of as gf/bf, I think it's still a nicer world with her in it isn't it?

yea, im not questioning that she dont like me...im pretty confident she has some kind of feeligns toward me...so im just taking it 1 day at a time....hoping that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

I waited over 5 months just to see her....so patients is one thing I do have, although it is tough at times.

So i just pray and hope that God has it in his plans for me and her to be together.

I just have one question here...

Is she from Columbia— If she is from there .. there has been a lot of horrrror goin on there from the drug wars....

If she is second generation, still has family perhaps...

Lets not make this a difficult thing Denny...

If she is third or fourth generation she may be playing you,,,, IDK//

no she was born there...moved here when she was lik 12 or something....

shes not playing with me...i dotn think anyway....I do beleive she likes me

thats fine

I think its more...time will tell

I think she is feeling things out, and obviously hasn't had the best luck with men in the past so she may be being overly cautious. Also, imo, I don't talk to any of my friends (at my age) from 1:30-5 a.m. If I'm talking to someone till the wee hours of the morning:
a. I like them
b. Their husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/SO has left them and they need someone to talk them off the ledge
I love my friends (male and female) to death, but I'm NOT talking to them all night till morning.

na I think her reaction's very predictable - leokitten's a fire sign, we pick up after heartbreak like the past didn't happen 😛 LK don't you dare deny it!!!

--- at 30 Denny, you've seen a lot, there is a lot of caution for people that have had heartbreak --- they will be very careful. They have fixed opinions about the opposite sign and may test you to see how different you are from all their life experiences.

I think she's feeling you out like USC says - don't OCD - enjoy the company, keep the communication consistent and make sure she knows you want more than friendship... keep playing naughty/nice/surprising every now and then, trust me she's prob ocd-ing too if she anything like my libra gfs.

All out gestures might make it seem like you're using a line - she's thinking more permanency now probably - if you think marriage, you spend the rest of your lives together, what is 1-2yrs invested time getting to know each other? 🙂