DennyV......THE TRILOGY (Page 3)

Yup that's a good ont and another perspective he has to take into consideration too...

However, we're not sure of these options - that's why it is vital he invests as equally as she is so he is not left feeling cheated... maybe there will need to be more time it seems before he can get too decisive but that decisive talk has to be done later, rather than sooner.

Just trying to see through the air element viewpoint and avoid the fire too much - it's very different looking from both sides.

* ...but we hung out 5x since Jan 12th. Thats pretty good...and this weekend was the first time we hung out 2 consecutive days....

This is all very good.

Also she brought the Notebook over ? a very date movie. She might be just as sappy as you Denny! ha ha ha ha! 😛

? Who jumps into a relationship with a stranger—

Umm? me. Lol! Usually when I do, they last years. I can usually tell immediately. The only time I am wishy-washy about it is if I really like the guy, as a person, but I am not attracted to him enough to be loyal. (There has only been one exception to this, but that was a person that I was into as much as you are into this girl. I was freaked out. Lol!)

? sometimes a woman might be at a point of low self esteem...she might use a flirtation to have "fun"

I really don't think this is the case.

I think she is hesitating because she is feeling him out. I really do. She also comes from a seemingly more traditional culture.

My roomie can be quite physically cold towards men, mainly because she has been too nice too many times, and been hurt badly.

I say take it slow Denny. Keep doing what you are doing. As someone said earlier, please don't do any grand guestures for v-day. Do something small and sweet that will make her smile. Is she working that day? Maybe get her favorite cupcakes delivered to work or something. 🙂

(sigh)

This always happens to the nice guys.

ask her if she ever wants to kiss you. that is what my dude did with me. i am shy when i am getting to know someone and i take things slow.

her age has nothing to do with her emotional/mental maturity level. dated older men in their 40's who were really immature and dated young guys who were mature.

she might be a late bloomer.

dont do anything grand for V-day? So i guess taking her to see Marc Anthony at MSG is out of the question?? haha...it may be a little too late for that. I got a good deal on really good seats close to the stage...too good to pass up. So dinner and a cocnert sounds good no?

Oh Denny!

I hope you are right about this girl. It would break my heart if you spent all that money and it doesn't work out.

You are a sweetheart. I hope you are right.

did she say yes to the date for vday?

*cringing hoping for a yes*

alright listen...she needs to go to this show...shes going through job changes....shes stressed out....shes got a mortgage to come up with every month...she needs this show....i for one know how important music is...thats why i got the tickets....she needs this show.

Last week i mentioned if i had tix if she would go...and shes like, dotn get the tix they are so expensive...you dotn have them, you dont have them....and i was like...well waht if i did....but she kept saying they are too much money..So i told her dont make any plans cause shes going to the show...

So sure enough i saw 2 tix pop on ebay for 500...great seats....and it seems like a lot of $ $ but you have to see what some of these tix are going for...crazy....so i emailed the guy....he gave me them for $ 465. Now im not going to tell her how much i paid for them.

But let me tell you...i did this because i wanted to...not to get anything from her...i got these tix cause i want her to go to this show....now if she called me the next night and said she never wanted to speak to me agian, i still wouldnt regret getting these tix.
Thats the way i am..i know its hard for some of you to believe...but its true. I want her to be happy, and i know she wants to go to this show...and shes going. I didnt tell her i got the tix yet...im gonna tell her in persn...and when we get to msg, im going to tell her they are all teh way upstairs and in the back....and then when we sit in the seats...she will love it...cause they are great seats.

WOW. She knows how much the tickets cost. It was her idea to go to the show in the first place. Derrrrp.

That would make me madddddd uncomfortable, if I knew some guy - who I'm not even dating - spent nearly $ 500 on tickets to a fricken cheeseballs concert.
You say you're not trying to buy her. But..............I don't know.


I really hope she doesn't fuck you over. I will be more heartbroken than you I think...

"no, there is no way im getting her those tix...first off i cant afford it, and secondly i wouldnt get them even if i could afford it. Too big a thing too soon."


Sheesh. & you thought holding her hand was too big a thing too soon.


I'm just saying, bud.

thats waht OCD does

listen..i got the tix...they are coming in the mail...but she dont know about them yet...so idk wtf to do....imjust being myself...this is the way I am...i cant change that

Well first of all, they are dating. This is what dating is. They aren't in an exclusive relationship ... yet, but they are dating. (What do they teach you kids in school these days. 😛)

* i still wouldnt regret getting these tix.

Denny I hope you are being honest at least with yourself about this. A great peice of dating advice a friend gave me ... never invest more than you are willing to loose. If this girl doesn't work out, are you seriously not going to be bitter? I really hope not.

i would have no regrets getting her these tix if she stopped talking to me

I would be upset for other reasons...but not because i got her these tix...

Fair enough Denny.

'Cause I really think this is really a make it or break move. She will either love you or be freaked out.

You have a good heart Denny. If not this girl (though I am really hoping she is it) then someone else. 🙂

hugs honey!

listen...i followed my heart and i prayed for a sign

the sign was the guy emailed me back with a good price...that was the sign i was asking for

the one thing i dotn want is for her to be freaked out or uncomfortable....which is why im going to tell her straight out...that i got her the tix because i want her to be happy and she deserves to go to this show...but if your going to be uncomfortable in anyway, then il just get rid of them....i want her to know that im not trying to buy her love...it has nothing to do with that...why does everythign come down to money? Cant somebody do something nice for somebody esle once in a while? Does there always have to be a catch?

You have a good heart Denny.

Start saving your money, you need to keep her in the style she is getting used to.

Hey March 17 is St. Patrick's Day... You flying to Ireland—?😛

"You have a good heart Denny. If not this girl (though I am really hoping she is it) then someone else."


I agree. Which is I hope you're not investing too much into this.
But you say you're just following your heart. So let's hope you can't be wrong about this one.

"in most worlds it is a rip off for short term entertainment."

...from a cheeeeseballl, too. :/

if she comes with me and smiles, and had a good time....thats $ 500 well spent

however, i do not want her to think im trying to buy her...i guess il just call her and feel her out....what a debacle this is turning out to be

im giving this girl everything i got inside...my heart, my patients...everything...whats $ 500—

* Hey March 17 is St. Patrick's Day... You flying to Ireland—?

LOL!

(She is just teasing you.)

* im giving this girl everything i got inside...my heart, my patients...everything

Can you afford to loose everything honey? That is what we are worried about.

You see, we are all invested in this. We all really like you and well (if she doesn't go with you to this concert we all might have to fly there and kick some serious butt lol!) we are just worried that you are going to turn into one of those jaded guys, you know?

Yes I am teasing Denny.. But it's a thot LOL she would love Ireland!

Anyway....

Follow your heart and you seem to know what you want.

Just let go a little bit and take care of the day to day stuff.

She did say yes about going out with you on V-Day right———

and I am totally with Leokitten ... if you did that and we were in a serious relationship ... I would LOVE IT! In that OMG! OMG! OMG! yOU SHOULDN'T HAVE!!! kinda way.

But we don't know where she stands. Hence our concern.

idk if i can afford it...but i guess il find out....cant turn back now

* But it's a thot LOL she would love Ireland!

lol! No kidding! I would too! Maybe I should make hints to the old BF. HA HA HA HA!

* She did say yes about going out with you on V-Day right———

I don't think so. I think it is still up in the air.

no she told me last week she woudl go to the concert with me..she just knows how expensive the tix are and doesnt want me spending my money

(((Denny)))

Pats you on the back. I've been there boy. I am totally praying and hoping with you. 🙂

* no she told me last week she woudl go to the concert with me..she just knows how expensive the tix are and doesnt want me spending my money

Oh okay. I didn't know that. I was thinking it wasn't confirmed ... making me even MORE nervous! lol!

well thats when i didnt have the tix

now i actually do have the tix

im thinking about selling the tix

idk what to do

Whoa I hope she isn't hangin round just because of the concert.

Sorry I had to say it.... hugs (((((Denny))))

Yes we are concerned here.

I don't care if you kissed or whatever, has she said anything during your convo's about caring about you—?

I hope I am not making ur OCD go crazy honestly.

No don't sell the tix.... Just go, but this shud be it for a while from you until she does something toward you. NOT MY HUMBLE OPINION ANYMORE.....🙂MY HONEST TO GOD OPIN 😢

this is it for a long while...there are no more holidays....and its not like this guy comes around here all the time...its kind of a 1 time thing. I think shed much rather go to this show then on a Valentines Night cruise w/ me around NYC. Remember i was gonna do that? Well that cost just as much as the tix..and the concert is at least more social.

Im still thinking about selling the tix...i really dont know waht im gonan do. My head is F-ed to say the least.

Well Denny, it is a risk.

I say Do it.

At the very least, you know you did EVERYTHING you could have to win this girl. Karmatically, you did right by someone. You treated someone who was going through a rough time to something special. At the most, she will realize how lucky she is and be blown away.

I think both ways, you win. She will never forget you that is for sure.

* this is it for a long while...there are no more holidays....

What about that trip to Ireland? hee hee hee!

* really dont know waht im gonan do. My head is F-ed to say the least.

K. Put you hand on your heart take a couple of deep breaths then complete this sentence without hesitation, first thing that comes into your mind. (Do it out loud.)

If I wasn't afraid, I would ....

then do that.

if i wasnt afraid, i would take her to the concert....so thats what im going to do

but i think me and her at the the level now where I can just talk to her striaght out..and im going to tell her

"listen I once told you that you deserve all the happiness in the world....i stand by what I said...you deserve to go to this show...I got you these tickets because i know we can have a good time...you got a lot going on with you with changing jobs and all...lets just have a good time....there is no catch, i dont want anything in return...i just want you to have a good time and to be happy. But I dont want you to go if you are going to feel uncomfortable in any way. Thats not my intentions."...something along those lines

practising the line feels a little too...... something 😛

not practicing..just an idea of what im going to say....that just came to me as i was typing it....

idk...i think i just need to dissappear for a little...feel free to keep posting

He's a libra. We don't do spontenatity. lol!

Yeah. You need a break sweetpea. Go take the night off and have some fun. Get your mind off things. 🙂

🙂

good luck denny - poor guy...

if it does work out, I think you should show her this thread - oh boy, will he start ocd-ing about that too?

"At the very least, you know you did EVERYTHING you could have to win this girl. Karmatically, you did right by someone. You treated someone who was going through a rough time to something special. At the most, she will realize how lucky she is and be blown away.

I think both ways, you win. She will never forget you that is for sure."

Word, the worse thing that can happen is that it doesn't work; he learns a valuable lesson and moves on from it. He has a good heart, and I agree little sparrow; she'll have some unhappy chicks if she intentionally hurts him 😉 bet on that, cause I like NYC and would have no problem going to whip up on somebody! LOL, totally kidding. *but am I.....lol✨

I don't think I even care to hear the rest of the story. The good part is over.

idk...i think i just need to dissappear for a little...feel free to keep posting

DENNY! I'm sorry I disappeared on you dude 😛 I'm having so many issues ... relationship ones too actually. With a guy who I guess you could call a Libra -- he's on the Virgo-Libra Cusp.

So yeah, I think 2009 may be Libra year lol.

Keep me posted man! Update for heavens sake

cappy, where you been— good to hear from you

yea, everything is going good. We hung out friday night, had a great time....hung out sunday night, had another great time. We talk during the week via phone and text. Everything is good so far. We are still taking it slow, but we are enjoying ourselves.

Everything is a go for Valentines Day. I got the tix for the concert, so im taking her to dinner, and we are going to the concert. We are going to have a great time...it will be a lot of fun. I cant wait actually 🙂🙂🙂. The more im with her, the deeper and deeper I fall. Its crazy. And i know she enjoys my company as much as i do hers. So we are just taking it slow, 1 day at a time, and hopefully, If its in God's plans, we will end up together. A boy can dream cant he?

Yay Denny! I am so happy everything is going well. Give us an update after the concert? 🙂

You go Denny, we are all here wishing you the best and hopefully your V'Day is better than any of ours!

What I would give to have a romantic like yourself going all out on this day....one can dream though or live through yours...🙂