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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

cappy, where you beenβ€” good to hear from you

Hahahahahaha, I've been here Denny, you just didn't notice me until now πŸ˜›

Hey buddy πŸ˜‰ Actually, I've been a bit absent because I've been dating this Virgo-Libra dude who doesn't seem to like me being on the internet much lol -- no joke. Plus, sometimes I use my cell to log on and I can't do that if I'm on my cell talking to him and he knows that lol! So yeah, we are both going bananas with libra here πŸ˜‰

yea, everything is going good. We hung out friday night, had a great time....hung out sunday night, had another great time. We talk during the week via phone and text. Everything is good so far. We are still taking it slow, but we are enjoying ourselves.

SEE!!! *Victory dance* what did I tell you doll πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ I spent enough nights informing you that things will be okay along with many others. So once again -- SEE!!!! πŸ˜› πŸ˜› πŸ˜›
Taking it slow is a great thing, my guy needs to take lessons from you because he think moving fast is all the rage :O

Everything is a go for Valentines Day. I got the tix for the concert, so im taking her to dinner, and we are going to the concert. We are going to have a great time...it will be a lot of fun. I cant wait actually . The more im with her, the deeper and deeper I fall. Its crazy. And i know she enjoys my company as much as i do hers. So we are just taking it slow, 1 day at a time, and hopefully, If its in God's plans, we will end up together. A boy can dream cant he?

I love the spirituality in that passage πŸ™‚ Yes, thats how I feel and hopefully she will express the same love for you as you feel for her right now. Hey, you never know, it could take time for her to really fall for you and thats OKAY. Nothing wrong with that, some take their time with matters of the heart.

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@USCTaurusGal
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Denny you know I'm wishing you only the best on v-day! May your day be everything you hope and desire. Also, hopefully you'll get some "kisses" so everyone will stop hassling you about that!

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you so much.... πŸ™‚

Today is it. I got a half dozen roses w/ white lilly's for her. The concert, and were going to go to dinner before that also. And she already said she wanted to do something after the concert too. So I hope everythign goes good tonight. I really do. I put a lol of time and effort into making tonight very special for her. Hopefully after tonight, she wont be able to remember any of her ex-bf's names. hahaha....No, thats now why im doing all this. Im not trying to out do anybody. Im doing thise for her because she deserves it and im crazy about her.

Wish me luck everybody. Because tonight is it. Tonight is goign to be a great night. But right now i have to clean the car, gas it up, clean the house, kill some ocd, hand write her the note I want to give her, and get ready. So, I will talk to you all later or sometime tommorrow to let you know how it went. Happy Valentines Day everybody! Hope you have a good one. God Bless.

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Denny's gone into hiding because of all the negative comments. Leave him alone, when/if he gets the girl he may come back to tell us all but he's OCDing over our comments now.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Ummm there aren't really that many negative comments. For the most part, there were just cautions to take things slow.

If he is worrying about things, I take it, it didn't go well.

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@Crab711
17 YearsCancer

I've been reading this for months, laughing, it's almost as good as an ongoing tv show,and I assume that if it went well he's totally immersed in it right now. He is crazy about her, if they hit it off, don't you think they would be spending copious amounts of time together?

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@tamara
19 Years1,000+ Posts

if they hit it off, don't you think they would be spending copious amounts of time together?

if that were the case, he likely would not have the time to log in everyday as he does.

many asked for an update and none was given.....doesn't seem to promising. 😒

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

hey all,

ive been very busy with school and her....but as Sparrow said...it went very very well.

Valentines Day was the single greatest night of my life. PERFECT in every way.

For all you wondering, yes we kissed...and it was the most beautiufl thing in the world. We actually kissed a few times after the night was over...but it was a great great night.

She actually got me a Valentines Day card and wrote in their how special she thinks I am and other stuff. And gave me a $ 50 gift card to Macys.

I havnet seen her since then cause of school and her work...but we talk...and God willing, everything will work out. I cant be completely happy until she is officially mine. But right now, everything is good. I just keep praying to God and hopefully everythign works out.

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@USCTaurusGal
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Yeah little sparrow. It was beautiful. I told one of my girlfriends about his date and how it went. I don't cry, but she did. LOL. I think he should be fine now πŸ˜‰
Go Denny!

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

i really really hope so....i really really hope you are right USC

I just want it to be official you know....but it takes time, i know this.

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@USCTaurusGal
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Everybody is different in relationships -- there is no right or wrong, although there may be some right or wrongs based on peoples own idealogies, and what they like or do not like. Some people like to move really fast ..... others move slower; some have a slow start, but a sprint once it gets going. It just really depends on the individuals, but once you get to a certain point and it crosses over to the other side of the relationship, trust me, you will know, because they will be different with you (in a good way). I'm a person who doesn't trust very easily, so it takes awhile for anyone to get close to me, whether it be a friend or someone I'm dating. I'm a naturally suspicious person(blame my parents), so I feel people out for a long time before I let them into my world. On the flip side, once I like someone, I'll do anything for them (well, within reason - lol). My whole point is that everyone is different, and it's good to use information you receive from friends, family, etc, but ultimately it's up to you and her and what works for you two. Period. (rambling over -- I'm hopped up on nyquil so I need to go jump in the bed).

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

she thought of me to get me that....works for me..im not complicated

and what she wrote in the card was very sweet....she didnt have to ge me anything or write me anything

oh and dont worry...nobody can bring me down

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

aaawww, you extravagant leonine females- love y'all πŸ˜›
I see your point but you're looking at the material side to this... I think Denny would have been happy with a dead rose stuck inside the card or just the card with the lovely things she wrote...

Frankly, I've had extravagant gestures from a Leo and not appreciated it at all, because at the end of the day, who are you trying to make happy? yourself or the partner? Equalising gifts is just well, I don't know... isn't it about doing what you can afford to begin with and what you feel right? idk, God I've confused myself!

Denny was happy coughing up any amount for the date, I doubt he was expecting a materially equal gift, maybe expected a hot kiss πŸ˜›
Way to go Denny!

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

as for the 'thought', we can't guesstimate what she was thinking, it's futile...

--- did denny mention something he like at macy's, so she got him the card?
--- did she want to tone down the lovey dovey ness of the card?
--- does denny have it all and she couldn't think of what to give him?
--- does she know denny well enough to think about what he wants?
--- does she not want to give him false hope?
--- does someone who doesn't like someone take time out to give them Val card and personalize it by writing a personal message on it?
--- did she want to pay him back with a little something for what he got her so was a last minute present?
--- is she broke?
--- does she think men are supposed to do the all-out romantic gestures?

see why we can't guesstimate her thoughts? it could be anything!!! but Denny got some make out! that's the point --- it's nice to see a guy taking it slow

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

I actually don't think the gift card is that bad especially given the written sentiments on the card, considering where she is with this relationship and her own financial woes. They are just dating. They aren't in a committed relationship .... yet.

It was his choice to go all out. If she matched him, it would have been a lie as she is there yet and since this is the beginning, that is okay.

I think the sentiments on the card are very, very, very promising.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

FWIW I am terrible at shopping for other people. I tend to wonder around and around and around and freak myself out. I am good at little guestures more so, than big gifts. πŸ™‚

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@tamara
19 Years1,000+ Posts

lol ladies! the point i was trying to make was there was a lack of balance here. it actually had nothing to do with the gift or the cost of the gift.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

* holding his hand while watching the notebook,

Holidn his hand, at that time, would have been a lie.

* giftcard & sentiments on the card

were not. This subtle.

Had she not been genuine I think she would have held his hand and had sex with him more so than what she has done. It is subtle stuff, but it is there.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

Actually, tamara, I think she's balancing it out nicely from where I'm standing... I think Denny's a bit over the top (understandably) and if in her shoes, would make me highly uncomfortable...
If she gave him something equally big, I would be very suspicious but that's me

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@tamara
19 Years1,000+ Posts

i totally agree with you zen, our Denny may gone over the top. i too would feel highly uncomfortable. The new shoes just wouldn't fit for me. but he is his own man and can make his own decisions.

ah well, again, best of luck Denny!