DennyV's saga.....part 2 (Page 6)

Furry - did you see the videos he sent her? 🙂

(Irish - do you have strong Scorp placements? I am just curious. You kinda sound more like my Scorp female friends than my Libra female friends. 🙂)

Jesus I am good! lol!

I have a lot of Scorp gfs and they would agree with you point on point.

Sort of off topic but not. It got me thinking about my Scorp best friends wedding and one of my Libra best friend's weddings. They are hands down my two favorite weddings I have ever been too.

My best friend is a Scorp. They eloped but her wedding reception was in a museum and was fantastic. It was the classiest, most sophisticated wedding I have ever been too. It was beautiful. Her weddingcake has appeared in several magazines despite all her protests re they not having money and it just being a small reception. Her wedding was seriously gorgeous. Not a detail was overlooked. And hands down the most beautiful and possibly the most impressive event I have ever been too. It was perfect in every way.

Contrast with one of my other best friends a libra. Her wedding was probably the most fun I have ever had at a wedding because it was the complete opposite. It was chaotic as nothing went well but she really didn't care. She was in it to have fun and it was very fun, laid back and incredibly casual. The few decorations she had, she made herself. She went around from table to table pouring wine for everyone insisting they drink more since she paid for it. Ha ha ha! The music sucked so they had crazy dance contests. People were up on stage singing along. People started having so much fun with the weird music, because Libra friend and her husband were. Eventually, people were getting on the dance floor and doing crazy interpretive dance by themselves! The last song of the night, everyone who was left stood in a line with their arms around each other singing. The food was blech, the music sucked something awful, the venue was nondescript, I don't remember any flowers at all, just the little cranes she had made from paper. BUT it was what she wanted. She wanted a big party where it was fun and didn't really care about anything else.

Both weddings left such an impact on me and I have been to some pretty impressive affairs. But both wedding represented the girl essence of the girl involved perfectly. the Scorp's being pristine and beautiful, the Libra girl's being fun, care-free and very les affairs.

Oddly, they both married Leos.

* they didnt really 'get' her enough to really love her...

I really believe this is the curse of the Libra woman.

* mine was like your scorpio friend and so not like your libra friend

That was what tipped me off! That and my Scorp friend is all about traditional, pull-out all the stop romantic guestures. (Actually, I have five close Scorp friends they are all this way.) They would be drolling over the limo with champagne in the back. I would be shuffling my feet and hoping no one would notice me. lol!

* but he has to leave after sex

HA ha HA HA! I actually use to date this way. Nothing makes a man so clingy as a girl who has sex with him then immediately heads home. LOL!

* so your scorp friend loves to be treated that way, right??....that shows love to me, when i am treated that way

Yep. All of them. They get that. I don't.

My best friend and I have an agreement not to talk about my dating life anymore because we see and experience love so very differently.

Any my Scorp best friend is one of the classiest, most elegant people I have ever met. She looks like a queen. And you should see her walk! rarrrr! ha ha ha ha!

* but once she is done with a hobby....it is done...onto the next!

Yeah. I am this way too. My Virgo ex said I lacked focus. F him! I think I just get very excited about something new and jump in both feet, then I get tired of it and move on to the next thing. 🙂

* now im getting to thinking too much and that im too hard to understand and that i wont ever meet the one that does really get me

I TRULY understand this feeling Irish. I really do. I struggle with believing in love for myself. I believe in it whole heartedly for other people but for me .... I am not sure anymore. It really makes me very sad.

Poor Denny is going to come back to a kidnapped thread. Sorry Denny!

Bye Furry!

I always hang in too long as I always hope I am wrong. 🙂

I think a good nap would do me a world of good. It always does. 🙂

Gone with the wind *IS* a great movie.

Have a good night darlin!

what the heck happened here?

hahahaha..its true...i cant leave these threads for more than an hour...hahaha

lol Denny, you must read them all too! we read all of yours 😛 😉

yes of course.

...i think i have to start a new thread soon....I think il title it "the triology"

lol!

We were just amusing ourselves. lol! Oops.

lol - enjoyed the amusement park sparrow 😉
shall we expect an action packed trilogy? following the trend fron the sequel... by the end of 1, we didn't realise date no 2 will occur by the end of week 2?

hey we should start taking bets 😉

^^^LOL @ Zen *in Austin Powers voice* "Oh beeehaveeee 😉" LOL
Seriously Denny, you are gonna need to start a new thread; this one is blown up!

I know....I will soon

so whar are we betting on and what kind of odds am i getting?

Okay Denny It is me DRUNK with my friend.

She think yo are hot and if you play the guitar for her re: Libra girl she is yours.

I asked her opinion. She kind of agree with me. She doesn't necessarily want you to spend money just do something sweet and unexpected.

I asked her. She says, "I think it is more special if the guy gives them to me. If the waiter brings them, I think it is flamboyant display for everyone else, it isn't about me." She also says, "When I dated Mike he bought me a beautiful earrings, eventually he bought me the matching necklace. When he introduced me to the family, it was this my gf see the earrings I bought her, see the necklace I bought her? His aunt had to ask my name. It made me feel like something pretty on his arm but I didn't matter."

However, she is in favor of the indoor picnic (and the guitar ... she told me to write that.) I am really surprised. I thought my Libra friends would think the indoor picnic was weird but I stand correct. She says, "I think that is f'in' sweet."

I asked her what does romance mean to you. She answered, "Flowers? Candles? Guitar Solos? If a man wrote me my own song? I would be his for ever ... and you can tell him that." She says, "'cause he is cute too." HA HA HA HA. "A guitar solo? Pretty words? I would be his forever.

I also REALLY like pretty/clever words. It is my total weakness. Look up Softcookie's political posts. Even though they aren't romantic at all, the man knows how to form a sentence and be clever. THAT is sexy to me. Coverdinscars also said something very clever/sexy in the Leo forum. Me and her agree, sexy clever words are the weekness of every Libra girl.

Lots of love! little sparrow and baby sparrow. (she is 9 years younger but shares my b-day.)

hahaha...sparrow you are too much

tell her thank you for the compliments

so you think I should write her a song....but i cant sing!!!! 😢 F-me..there is always something with me

so im going to call her tommorrow or wednesday and try to set something up for this weekend....what should I do. I was thinking try taht place by her that she wants me to eat at and a movie.

ask your friend about V-day and the boots...u know what im talking about...i sent you a message

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30316295&l=e29c7&id=26104173<BR>
In case any of you were wondering what my grandmother or motehr looked like...here is a pic....i want to be buried with this pic

hahahaha...that picture is funny

interesting...

i just talked to my good friend..she is in her 40's but we are very close...she is very smart and is really into horoscope....so she knows the story of me.

She said that because I was raised by my mother and grandmother , taht i am not aggressive enough and that im not being aggressive enough with this girl. She said that this girl likes me and is waiting for me to make a move on her. She thinks that im being way way to passive and that the 3rd date is where I shoudl make a move to kiss her and start being more aggressive

Now im not saying I agree with what she is saying...i do agree that I am not being aggressive but that is just my nature...im very respectful, especially toward women...I dont want this girl to think im in it for the hook-up..cause im not. I told my friend that i dont want to turn her off by leaning in for a kiss and its not there...But then my friend was telling me that this girl may get turned off if i DONT do try to do something...

so i just thought i would share...i mean..ultimately, im going to do what i feel...im not going to go out with this girl and try to kiss her just becaue my freind said i should...ulitimately, im goign to do what I think is appropriate...and if the oppurtuinity comes, who knows, maybe i will take it....but tahts up to me...but i dont think the 3rd date is too soon to try a kiss...but like i said, it all depends on teh situation

dude are you talking to yourself? 😕
anyway, you do have a point, at the end of the day, it's what you're comfortable with at your pace, as long as you keep the communication going... did u do the same with your ex-gfs?

so whar are we betting on and what kind of odds am i getting?

when the sack action's going to happen - looooooong loooooong time away from this OCD-ing 😛

Sparrow, that was great!

ive been pretty good with the OCD...come on, give me some credit

HA HA HA on my drunk post. Poor cooks. HA HA HA.

I hope that made sense to you. I was typing while she was talking and a few words here and there are missing. Like senario one with having waiter bring flowers to the table. I've got a bad cold coming on and heading back to bed. If I remember, I will ask her re: boots.

^^^ this is what I've been trying to pass on to denny !

even the guys... if she was a decisive sign, it definitely wouldn't have taken this long i don't think

LOL Snapple! Could you imagine?

BTW you can get away with all that devil-may-care attitude because you are a leo. I am not sure a Libra guy could pull it off. But you are bang on why Libra women swarm around you like little bees.

* i can't believe you took this much time just be confident and compliment her and use clever wording and subtle hints etc. Don't be too direct but certainly show her your desire for her the hunger should be in the eyes .

TEASE! Ha ha ha!

alright so we spoke today via text and phone

but i was sitting here and I got this great idea.

im thinking about booking a Valentines Day (night) cruise around NYC. They have gourmet food, jazz, roses, champagne w/ glasses we can take home. I think its a great idea. But maybe too much? I mean they give us 6 roses...we have our own private table. Its just a thought...but i have to make sure shes going to come iwth me. Its like $ 400 per couple. Now il dish it out, idc...but i have to make sure shes going to come with me...and will she like it?

What do u think?

yea...i mean the one thta i described was like top of the line Valentines Day cruise..

I can try to see if there is another one maybe less done up

i left her a vm today letting her know that friday was a good day for me to do her taht favor and pick up the xmas gift her old job got her

so she text me back "thank you but Im going to be in the area so i am able to pick it up...hop all is well'

so i texted back, no problem and i told her taht I had a half roasted chicken and a cucumber & tomato salad that I could bring her on her dinner break if she was hungry

but she was leaving work in half hour so then she said she would call me..and she did

adn we talked for about 40 min...but what a difference in the conversation..for the better
she seems so much more comfortable talking to me..its like night and day

so im thining about this cruise....its just a thought..but i think its nice.

well im going to try to hang out with her again this wee..im going to call her thursday and ask her waht shes doing...im thinking of asking her about goign to that italian restaurant by her and then going to a movie....

Look at you Denny! You are pulling out the big guns now!! LOL, I ain't mad atcha', I'm just surprised. Anyway, I agree that you should try to get some additional "face time" with her before you ultimately decide, and DEFINITELY get an affirmative that she would attend something like this with you before you plunk down your cash. Something like that is likely non-refundable, so I want you to make sure 100% before you do it. Obviously you wouldn't tell her what you are planning on doing, but make sure she knows it's something that needs a firm committment. It's less than a month away, so you better get to work "wooing" her!
And don't forget to do her homework. Incidentally, somehow see if she is afraid of boats or gets motion sickness. That could be a bummer. I'm not a big boat person (makes me kind of nauseous), but I don't mind speed boats (go figure). So,find that out too, before you make your final decision.

idc about spending the $ $ $ ...i just dont want her to be uncomortable during the cruise ...maybe its too much or something with the half dozen roses they give us? idk...but the $ $ , i could care less.

USC...check ur inbox

I meant for you to do "your" homework! LOL, typing too fast.

we were also talking today and she hinted out that she lieks Godiva chocolates....i pay attention to every word that girl says

Got it Denny. I tried to send you a reply, but I was on my blackberry and it didn't appear to go through, so I'll re-reply (apologize if you get it twice 🙂).

no problem....check again..i think i sent another one

yo check this out...she sends me a text at 11pm..."are you up"...so i text her back..."of course, I was just about to email you...whats going on?"

she calls me at 11:30pm...we just got off the phone now..its 1:15am.....

We talked about a lot of stuff...a lot of hints toward finding sombody too....and this and tha...there were a lot of inuendos going on.

we talked about our families....nice convo...i mean...2 hours.... 🙂🙂🙂

Im falling in love with this girl...i can tell...and i think shes starting to like me.....she has the day off tommorrow...i wonder if she'll contact me in anyway.

but for her to text "are you up" and to call me and talk for 2 hours....wow

my night is made...adn the whole time im talking to her...im just looking at my crucifix thanking God ...because he has been with me through all this...and he made this possible...i prayed to him so much...and he answered

yippppppeeeee !!! seeeeeeeeeeeeeee - doesn't have to be face-to-face time! just get her thinking of you... love those "are you up?" text messages... they say so much!

Hey, the v-day splash seems much unless you won't blink at $ 800 plus other nik naks... ?

Hey Zen! I think he said it's $ 400 per couple, but he's ok with that. Yep, it's definitely says a lot since SHE reached out to him!!

* but you need to at least kiss the girl before you plunk down that kind of moula.

Agreed!

I think it really depends. If she is into you, she would love it. If she isn't into it, she'll be uncomfortable. All my Libra friends that I have talked to this about, myself included, said that if she isn't as into you yet you are in danger of overdoing and pushing her out the door. My too much is much less than everyone else's. I am pretty sure baby_sparrow would be on board this one and my roomie too.

but you need to at least kiss the girl before you plunk down that kind of moula.

concur! there's a lot of time to show that moula side I think... a lot needs to be tied down first...

yea sorru, $ 400 per couple it is! you shouldn't try to work and dxp... bad bad bad 😉

We talked about a lot of stuff...a lot of hints toward finding sombody too....and this and tha...there were a lot of inuendos going on.

we talked about our families....nice convo...i mean...2 hours....

Im falling in love with this girl...i can tell...and i think shes starting to like me.....she has the day off tommorrow...i wonder if she'll contact me in anyway.

but for her to text "are you up" and to call me and talk for 2 hours....wow

my night is made...adn the whole time im talking to her...im just looking at my crucifix thanking God ...because he has been with me through all this...and he made this possible...i prayed to him so much...and he answered


YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DENNY 😄 😄 😄!!!!!!

WHAT DID I TELL YOU 😉 😛 🙂

i know...last night...we talked about everything...we talked school, future, kids, sleeping (zzz) with your significant other, marriage, religion. And she was throwing so many hints out too. At one point shes like "your going to get married, dont worry"...so i was like "yea but im not going to just marry anybody...i dont want there to be any doubt about my wife" and shes like...keep your eyes open, you never know who God iwll bring into your life...and this and that. Then she made anotehr reference about wishing she lived closer to her job and hinted again about staying in the spare room at my house if the weather was bad. The only reason we hung up was because her phone was dying but she didnt want to hang up, i actualy ended it cause i has to be up at 5:30am for the hospital. And then we were talking about how i cant sleep...and shs like..oh maybe you have alot on ur mind...is there anythign I can help you with. Now of course i didnt come out and say taht i cant sleep because i think of you every 9 seconds...i just played it off like..."no i dotn think so..(meaning she cant help me)...i just have trouble sleeping'...i just played it off...But i threw my hints in there to let her know that a lot of waht I was talking about through out the convo, whether relationship or wahtever, was about her. She has off today, so i wonder if she'll get in touch with me. If not its ok, i have school work to do to keep myself busy......but that conversation last night was a defining moment for the relationship....defenetly good things...im very excited....next time we hang out, i just feel like im going to kiss her...not because its date #3, but because i feel closer to her after last night...its weird.

so wait, if she was beside you, you'll slepp like a baby? 😛

CAPPY!!! YAY!