Ever been described as not very emotional?

I've been told this by my Aries bf, my Sag father also thinks i'm the same. What do they want from me?! LOL! Maybe it's the lack of fire...I kind of take pride in that aspect of myself, but i'd like some insight into what bothers others about it and what exactly they are looking for...

Aquarius moon - yep

Yep, Cap moon here. Still waters run deep.

Posted by Pisces_Are_Sweet
Yes sorry. In lots of environments an absolutely brilliant asset to have but in love relationships an absolute killer for those of us who are able to show them. A lot of us speak from the heart whereas my experiences tell me with a libra, it's all from the head.

I think also that sadly, what is believed by potential mates to be emotion, is an initial passionate flurry of soppiness before the spark dies out.

Other than that great people who I get along with very well ?

I think also that sadly, what is believed by potential mates to be emotion, is an initial passionate flurry of soppiness before the spark dies out...

Not all potential mates have this experience; just the ones we don't want.

Posted by Pisces_Are_Sweet
Then they themselves should slow the hell down, not give someone a title that is not yet warranted, not offer false words, and feed them all the banter that make them sound and appear like they are really serious then no? Just comes across as very superficial when the going gets a little tough and ultimately quite fake. We all assess via emotions in the end surely, but most of us are mature enough in older age to deal with that side of things and treat people accordingly, whether choosing to continue or end relationships.

Unless they are obviously an unbalanced Libran perhaps, typically indecisive and therefore getting blindsided by their own analysis paralysis, in which case who on earth would want to be with someone like that?

I am definately emotional, but when it's called for. Its just that typical day to day life, not much phases me. As if it should? Maybe I like to preserve energy for those REAL emotional times.

My Cancer bf and others say that I overthink things. My first response is always logical vs emotional. However, I have very deep emotions, maybe even deeper than those who wear them on their sleeve, but I don't feel it's necessary to show that in my day to day and only when called for.

Posted by confusedlibra78
My Cancer bf and others say that I overthink things. My first response is always logical vs emotional. However, I have very deep emotions, maybe even deeper than those who wear them on their sleeve, but I don't feel it's necessary to show that in my day to day and only when called for.

Amen!

No I'm the perfect boyfriend.

Posted by uchiha
No I'm the perfect boyfriend.

Ohhhh nooo Virgo/Libra-been there! EEK! Still friends though at least lol.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by uchiha
No I'm the perfect boyfriend.

Ohhhh nooo Virgo/Libra-been there! EEK! Still friends though at least lol.

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lol how was your experience with that person?

Posted by confusedlibra78
My Cancer bf and others say that I overthink things. My first response is always logical vs emotional. However, I have very deep emotions, maybe even deeper than those who wear them on their sleeve, but I don't feel it's necessary to show that in my day to day and only when called for.

Same here. Not every emotional person likes to show their emotions or wear them on their sleeves. My cap sun just wants to ignore the crazy emotions sometimes though

No one has ever told me that, so I don't think so. My moon conjunct my rising kind of makes it hard for me to hide my emotions sometimes, that even I don't know it's showing.

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Posted by uchiha
No I'm the perfect boyfriend.

Ohhhh nooo Virgo/Libra-been there! EEK! Still friends though at least lol.

lol how was your experience with that person?

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It was interesting to say the least lol. He took very well care of me financially, but emotionally he was a fridge-fitting for the thread! He never stuck to his word, had no issues with belittling me and talked ALOT. Like non stop, I did read about this in psychology though apparently it is a way of avoiding your own and others emotions. I'm not sure if there was something more going on than just the Virgo/Libra cusp thing lol! He was also very selfish and tended not to compromise. It wasn't enough of a partnership for me. Very one sided type of thing. I want a team player, someone who does US. Hopefully have that now 🙂

I am the opposite

The last guy I was with said he loved my ability do show emotion. He said it was very feminine 🙂

I also think if a woman can show her emotions, it can act as a gateway for the man to open up to his

Libra, where is your man's moon?

Posted by MyStarsShine
Libra, where is your man's moon?

Moon in Aries

Posted by PVJamz
Libra emotion is very hard to pick up on. I can sense that you feel passionately about things, but you all kind of come off like Keanu Reeves. This always confuses me because I attract Libras, but I feel like we aren't emotionally connecting, while they feel things are going great.

What does it mean to come off as Keanu Reeves? Are you able to describe what exactly feels missing or give me some sort of example? Seriously feel like theres something i'm missing when it comes to this topic...lol

I think a lot of men like softness in a woman and a part of this is showing emotion

Having said that, you are what you are.....you know?

Posted by MyStarsShine
I think a lot of men like softness in a woman and a part of this is showing emotion

Having said that, you are what you are.....you know?

It's very odd because IMO I definately do. Positive emotion though. I don't get upset or pissed off with much-I think this is what they mean. I just don't let the little things get to me.

Yes, often. However, it is inaccurate.