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Hey Librans!

Okay, so, little sparrow will know what I'm talking about. LS, what strategy would you suggest for attempting to win back the second libra? I was thinking I would send her a myspace message, because I have no other way of contacting her, and saying "I want you back, and I want to go out with you. How can this be achieved?" but thats probably too extreme, so I haven't done it.

no myspace messages my friend. dude find out her address and send her a letter. something creative. myspace message = not creative.

won't she be creeped out by me getting her address? I actually know where her mom lives, which is where she lives once in a while, so maybe it's not THAT creepy, since she invited me over there once.

I have noticed tat libran girls disappear for a while just like that without giving any reason. and most cases i guessed the possible cause and after months or even years when i got her back, found out that i guessed right.

*** won't she be creeped out by me getting her address?

YES! DO NOT do this. You get filed into the scary psycho guy file. You DO NOT want to be filed there.

Do you know anyone who knows her?

What was the reason thelibran?

I do know someone that knows her.

Your best bet is to "run into her" and be charming.

Well, the charming part will be easy, but running into her won't be. I don't think.

what happened the last time you chatted? how did things end?

I know there are a few times when an old flame has emailed me out of the blue and invited me out to catch up and it was very exciting as it was unexpected.

but don't do anything yet. we need to think it through a little.

The last time we actually chatted was around the time she went to visit some family out of town. She seemed diminished somehow, like distant, which was weird. Before this we had made plans several times, and each time she flaked out, placing the blame on the fact that she couldn't get a hold of the person I know that knows her who was also going to be included in the plans. Like maybe a week later I left her a cute little comment to let me know when she was back in town or whatever, but I never got anything back. Eventually I got annoyed and deleted her from my friends. Later I found out that two family members had passed on, so she was all messed up from it, and had a new boyfriend as well, so I felt really bad, and sent her an apology. That was like 3 months ago, and I still have never heard anything from her. I used to have her phone number, but it stopped working.

So you don't know if she has this boyfriend still or not? I would leave it alone. It would be different if you knew for sure she didn't have a boyfriend, but why cause trouble if she is dating someone? I would imagine the reason why she hasn't responded to you in 3 months is because she is still dating her boyfriend that you found out about.

Does she know about your myspace page? If so, post something there by chance. If she still reads it, then great! But let her contact you.

Banini

Do you think you could find her number again?

Yeah, I think I still have all of her numbers.

bad idea to call her.....

I think so too. I would feel really awkward calling her.