How do I know a libra man's intentions without asking?

So I've been seeing a libra man that I work with for a couple weeks (2 dates and a lot of flirting, kissing and talking about hooking up). Second date was really nice. Ended up cuddling on a bench at the lake watching the sunset.

He was interested in seeing me everyday for the first few days. But we both work a lot and haven't had a chance to connect outside of work in over a week. He's still very flirty and gives me these "looks" all the time at work. He will touch me whenever he gets the chance. I catch him staring at me and checking me out a lot and he always just smiles when I catch him. He keeps saying we will make it happen.

Today he even said something that caught me off guard. That we shouldn't have sex because I might fall in love with him and that can't happen (it was kind of jokingly) and then said "who knows? Maybe we'll fall in love with each other..."

I'm a Taurus woman, Scorpio moon and he is libra sun, Virgo moon.

Any insight would be wonderful lol

I guess my concern is that he's very freshly out of a relationship and I'm worried he might only be in it for the sex as it's all we've talked about lately...

only with the passing of time will you know his intentions.

Yeah I think you're right. I'm not exactly the most patient Taurus but I've been pretty good with him so far lol

You can't know anyone's intentions without asking.

What are your intentions with him?

Posted by TauRisser

Today he even said something that caught me off guard. That we shouldn't have sex because I might fall in love with him and that can't happen (it was kind of jokingly) and then said "who knows? Maybe we'll fall in love with each other..."

What a strange thing to say... sounds like reverse psychology/manipulation. If sex isn't the only thing you're looking for, then I would stop entertaining topics pertaining to that. It could give him the wrong idea.

I would also hold off on sleeping with him until you get to know him a bit better, especially with him being fresh out of a relationship.

Almost dated a libra man. We texted a lot - about what we wanted from relationships in general amongst other topics. Everytime i wanted to go down deeper and more serious topics, he always somehow turn the convo back to lighter more sociable topics. My scorp venus i think was starting to be fed up. Because he had said that it was time he should be more serious about relationships and he wanted to start a family soon etc etc so i thought wow thats a lil' too much right now but i was still feeling ok about it. And then he dropped the bomb that he was playing around with a few other women too, including his ex. LOL. They are slippery af, best thing to do is to ask them outright and see if they give you a straight answer.

We're still friends although not close ones even though i got pwned lol. Libras are fun to talk to and do social stuff with but don't get caught up in that.

Posted by DMV

What are your intentions with him?

I like him. I knew within 5 minutes of meeting him that we would end up on at least one date and likely seeing each other. TBH I'm a little nervous to let anyone in again but I am trying to let my walls down a bit and see where it goes. I definitely want to be physical with him and I could fall for him if things are good but I don't want to get hurt again...

Posted by Horsey

Almost dated a libra man. We texted a lot - about what we wanted from relationships in general amongst other topics. Everytime i wanted to go down deeper and more serious topics, he always somehow turn the convo back to lighter more sociable topics. My scorp venus i think was starting to be fed up. Because he had said that it was time he should be more serious about relationships and he wanted to start a family soon etc etc so i thought wow thats a lil' too much right now but i was still feeling ok about it. And then he dropped the bomb that he was playing around with a few other women too, including his ex. LOL. They are slippery af, best thing to do is to ask them outright and see if they give you a straight answer.

We're still friends although not close ones even though i got pwned lol. Libras are fun to talk to and do social stuff with but don't get caught up in that.

That's crazy! My ex is libra which is why the hesitation...I guess I could try to broach the subject. Not an easy one for sure!

Posted by tiziani

Oh damn, co workers.

Lol yeah! Hence the hesitation!

Posted by Horsey

Almost dated a libra man. We texted a lot - about what we wanted from relationships in general amongst other topics. Everytime i wanted to go down deeper and more serious topics, he always somehow turn the convo back to lighter more sociable topics. My scorp venus i think was starting to be fed up. Because he had said that it was time he should be more serious about relationships and he wanted to start a family soon etc etc so i thought wow thats a lil' too much right now but i was still feeling ok about it. And then he dropped the bomb that he was playing around with a few other women too, including his ex. LOL. They are slippery af, best thing to do is to ask them outright and see if they give you a straight answer.

We're still friends although not close ones even though i got pwned lol. Libras are fun to talk to and do social stuff with but don't get caught up in that.

Thought I would update you. He is slippery AF! He's been acting weird the last couple of weeks I noticed that he wasn't answering my texts at night (he would wait until he was at work) and then he started avoiding me at work when I started asking him if everything was OK because he was being weird at work as well. And I had this bad instinct that he was still with his "ex" or had gone back to her. I found out 100% sure that he is with her! And he has been avoiding me like the plague as if he knows that I know! It's making things really awkward at work and I ended up having to send him a text message tonight telling him that I'm not interested in seeing him anymore so he doesn't have to worry and that I'm not stupid and that I deserve respect because I couldn't get him alone for more than 10 seconds today. We have to work together so I said to him we're both adults and we should be able to have a discussion because of that

Just like my ex! No fucking backbone!

Posted by TauRisser

Thought I would update you. He is slippery AF! He's been acting weird the last couple of weeks I noticed that he wasn't answering my texts at night (he would wait until he was at work) and then he started avoiding me at work when I started asking him if everything was OK because he was being weird at work as well. And I had this bad instinct that he was still with his "ex" or had gone back to her. I found out 100% sure that he is with her! And he has been avoiding me like the plague as if he knows that I know! It's making things really awkward at work and I ended up having to send him a text message tonight telling him that I'm not interested in seeing him anymore so he doesn't have to worry and that I'm not stupid and that I deserve respect because I couldn't get him alone for more than 10 seconds today. We have to work together so I said to him we're both adults and we should be able to have a discussion because of that

this is a super late reply...

At least you found out soon enough before you got burned!

Posted by inmercury

And why do you even want a discussion with him? I think he's aware that it's just to make you feel better about being played and he doesn't want to deal with it. Please don't try to guilt trip a guy into feeling sorry for you. It will only embarass you.

Lol as if it isn't embarrassing enough that he pulled all this at work? Told people at work about us seeing each other? While he was on a "break" from his relationship with our managers cousin?? Then makes me look like an idiot because everyone at work knows what's up and I don't...trust me. I did the right thing by talking to him. I confronted him last week. He got mad but I don't care. He and I haven't spoken since at work. But today he and I were chatting about mundane shit and joking around with coworkers and he stole a chance to be alone with me and told me he wants to still talk and be friends. Just wish he wouldn't give me that look still... it's gonna take me some time to feel really comfortable with him again but it's really all I wanted was for us to be cool with each other at work. I'm not asking for a lot here. And he knows it.