how do you know if a libra man IS interested (Page 2)

OK, so i am going out with friends this weekend and he will be there. this is the 2nd outing we are attending with the both of us there. He never attends these things but last time i asked him if he would consider going and to my surprise he showed up. I have noticed other things as well...whenever i am texting someone from my phone and i glance in his direction i notice he gets his phone out like he is expecting to receive the text. Just little things like that. So should i flirt my little butt off with him this weekend? Keep it on somewhat conservative level of course i don't want to be like climbing in his lap or anything....well i do but i don't want to freak him out. What do you think?

I've found libras flirt with everyone. But he'll make a move if he likes you. Mine did.

ok, thank you. i will keep that in mind! can't wait til this weekend

well. how did the weekend work out?? Only because I am in the same sitch. with a Libra. I dont want to make first moves. But now that I think of it- I am tired of being hounded by men (feeling like a piece of a**). it is sort of nice to feel that I hold the reigns when it comes to holding hands or kissing the guy-which I felt soo stupid kissing the guy, at it was really nothing to tell the girls, but... then I am left hanging until the following Friday in order to find out where we stand. I still dont know. I had signals from the guy that he liked me (his sister hadnt even clued in) and i think i am right. i know i am right. but again, i too dont want to scare the guy off...

well the weekend went well. Which is funny that i say that because we didn't even end up hanging out. But, i did hear from him. Which is definitely an improvement. i'm not always making contact first. we talk more often and flirt way more. Hang in there sister. Patience is the key. I am really starting to believe what they say "all good things come to those who wait". I left mine alone and made no contact for 3 days. The 4th day he messaged me first. I had just about given up. They seem to be able to sense that because right before u r truly done if they want u they will let u know. Are u a libra as well. See i am and he is. Kind of different for me. Never been interest in one of my same sign

man these libra guys are hot one day and cold the next

yeh we/they are like that by nature. heh

They are only like that until they're in love though.
I don't know if this is a libra trait, or just my boyfriends, but it seemed at first when we were just friends he was always keeping "a safe distance" even though it was OBVIOUS feelings were developing. Now he says he never wanted to get attached to me. But it's too late. ;P Almost 5 years later.
Maybe this guy is doing the same thing?

OMG! that sounds so familiar. mine is doing the same thing! Just recently our conversation has been getting on a more personal level. The flirting has been punched up a notch for sure and he actually made a first move if u wanna call it that. So maybe thats what hes doing trying to keep me at a distance so he won't get attached. I think he already is. He doesn't like it that when he doesn't hear from me. So i guess all i can do is be patient and wait and see. Thanks brianafay!!

like i said, hot one day and now back to cold the next...Sometimes i think i should either close the window of opportunity...basically give up

or just kick back and wait and see what happens. i have heard that if you make your move and let them know you are interested and then drop back a bit they will try to reel u in to be close again....what do u think?

Good luck with that...who knows what goes on in the mind of a LIbra!!!

Could go either way couldn't it?? LOL.....just enjoy yourself in the meantime (could be quite a wait either way)...dont sit around for a man, ESPECIALLY a Libra.

My ex Libra always enjoyed it more when I wasn't chasing him (although he enjoyed being chased)...you just have to get the right mix but again, who knows what goes on in the mind of a Libra.

Enjoy the ride, and don't be too serious - it could be just that, quite a ride 🙂

Well, thanks for the advice! I will definitely keep that in mind. As of now I am stopping the chase. So i guess i will wait and see!

Oh and u can bet your ass I am not going to just sit at home and wait! I like him and he is worth it but I am going to be out and about enjoying myself!

how do they go from asking u if u r up for a nooner to not responding to any of your messages. Talking and getting to know u in every aspect of your life.....to nothing. Defense mechanism you think?

If you are interested in him..... let me be the first to tell you hun.... "Congratulations... you are now a string attached to his finger as he waves you around in a cycle"...... basically.. if you like him... your screwed... He is playing you.. the end.. i dont care if i dont know him.. i know all libras... trust me. out of experience, believe me... he is using you for his pleasure.. listen... Here is what is basically hapening.... you guys starting talking and then he made u feel special... after a while u and him talked more. then.. later on, he randlmy stopped talking to u..... the only way he WILl talk to u, is if u talk first... guess what, he likes the attention.. he craves for attention... wen u give it... he feeds in more... confuses you more, and u end up liking him more.... he is cycling you.... its very hard to get out.... you cant stay mad at those bastards.... they give you one smile and ur back to libran world. They come up to you to talk that ONE day... you are stuck on them... they say hello to u, you jump on them.... now.. he is ignoring you again... ur like wtf... u are being cycled on his finger... get out girl.. run.... run away... i am telling you... they are all players.. no matter how smart, cute, nerdy they are.... RUN chick! RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN

ZP, Why did you hunt down and pull up a thread that is almost 2 years old??

Ok 3 years, who the fuck cares it's soooo out dated!

Spose your the fashion police too!

Was that for me? Because I Cant see it...

Probably not something I'd want to look at anyhoo, right?

Oh well I'm surprised then and I do apologise KOL, wish I could see it myself.

Posted by zodiacperfection
If you are interested in him..... let me be the first to tell you hun.... "Congratulations... you are now a string attached to his finger as he waves you around in a cycle"...... basically.. if you like him... your screwed... He is playing you.. the end.. i dont care if i dont know him.. i know all libras... trust me. out of experience, believe me... he is using you for his pleasure.. listen... Here is what is basically hapening.... you guys starting talking and then he made u feel special... after a while u and him talked more. then.. later on, he randlmy stopped talking to u..... the only way he WILl talk to u, is if u talk first... guess what, he likes the attention.. he craves for attention... wen u give it... he feeds in more... confuses you more, and u end up liking him more.... he is cycling you.... its very hard to get out.... you cant stay mad at those bastards.... they give you one smile and ur back to libran world. They come up to you to talk that ONE day... you are stuck on them... they say hello to u, you jump on them.... now.. he is ignoring you again... ur like wtf... u are being cycled on his finger... get out girl.. run.... run away... i am telling you... they are all players.. no matter how smart, cute, nerdy they are.... RUN chick! RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN

LMAO! That generalization sounds just like something I would say a year ago.

Posted by zodiacperfection
If you are interested in him..... let me be the first to tell you hun.... "Congratulations... you are now a string attached to his finger as he waves you around in a cycle"...... basically.. if you like him... your screwed... He is playing you.. the end.. i dont care if i dont know him.. i know all libras... trust me. out of experience, believe me... he is using you for his pleasure.. listen... Here is what is basically hapening.... you guys starting talking and then he made u feel special... after a while u and him talked more. then.. later on, he randlmy stopped talking to u..... the only way he WILl talk to u, is if u talk first... guess what, he likes the attention.. he craves for attention... wen u give it... he feeds in more... confuses you more, and u end up liking him more.... he is cycling you.... its very hard to get out.... you cant stay mad at those bastards.... they give you one smile and ur back to libran world. They come up to you to talk that ONE day... you are stuck on them... they say hello to u, you jump on them.... now.. he is ignoring you again... ur like wtf... u are being cycled on his finger... get out girl.. run.... run away... i am telling you... they are all players.. no matter how smart, cute, nerdy they are.... RUN chick! RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN

hahaha.....this is sooo funny!!