I feel sexually connected with my ex's new gf (shes libra im gemini)

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Is it weird that I feel a connection with this libra and kind of think that she feels it too in a weird way?

So, i fell in love with an aquarius male. felt like soulmates I THOUGHT. but he had a gf the whole time. went back to her, but the weird thing about it.... the fact he did catch feelings for me has kind of made her obsessed to know about what we did because she had no idea about me. but its kind of made me in a weird way feel connected to her like i feel like she wants to know how i had sex with her man because shes attracted to me in a way. and in a way i kind of feel it back to her...this happened 3 months ago but her and i still text back and forth arguing about he he has a deeper connection with. and he doesnt even talk to me. but idk if shes caught feelings or she just gets turned on by picturing her man have sex with other women. ldk i never felt this before lol its like we are enemies that are in competition but i want to know more and more about her. he claimed she was big and ugly.....but i recently was arguing with her lol and she sent a video of herself and shes hot we look really similar and we are really attractive not to be shallow but yea....is this common with libras why wont she let it go and am i right is it because she kind of gets turned on by imaging me and him fuck bc her and i look similar?? idk lol
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Posted by Arielle83

I had sex with the chick an ex bf cheated on me with. We met by accident thru mutual friends at a party and she was mad he cheated on me and seduced me. She didn’t get why he would cheat on me cuz she said she never would have.

I was 22, she was 27.


There you go.

Sucks about the cheating but this is way healthier than the repressed route a lot of "competitive" women take.

We all know "competitive" is a euphemism.
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I kind of agree.
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Posted by Arielle83

I had sex with the chick an ex bf cheated on me with. We met by accident thru mutual friends at a party and she was mad he cheated on me and seduced me. She didn’t get why he would cheat on me cuz she said she never would have.

I was 22, she was 27.


There you go.

Sucks about the cheating but this is way healthier than the repressed route a lot of "competitive" women take.

We all know "competitive" is a euphemism.


I kind of agree.


You remember I even asked you for you take on it, the last time it was happening lol
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It's very interesting to watch the progression. Also very amusing when that competitiveness turns completely into something else LMAO
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but i honestly dont want her i want him. i just want her to see him and I together and i want to see them together bc i want to see how he fucks us different and who he likes more bc i would be able to tell. and i have to see it myself or its like in my mind she's irrelevent tbh

Posted by tiziani

Not weird and very common.

If I were the guy I excuse myself from the whole thing and let you guys have your bi-curious affair.

He must be a little naive to still be entertaining it and maybe he has weak boundaries. But he's really the least important person in the whole thing. It's about you and her now.

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I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.

My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.

There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.

Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.

As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.

On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “

It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.

Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.

Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “

My conclusion is “ Normal “
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Maybe ask if she wanted to watch?


I did! i said might as well have a three some since he cant choose and shes like hunny he chose but i think she only wants to know about how we fucked so she can see if he fucked me better and what it was about me and how i fucked him that made him cheat on her for like 2 months without her ever knowing. and i honestly want to know bc of that too bc it still hurts he dropped me when she wanted him back bc it really felt like instant connection the sex the adventures were so out of this world. i just cant believe that he feels that connection with her too or better and i need to know and i want her to know too so it fucks with her head and hates him so he comes back to me bc he just needs to see me again and i know its a rap and he will be mine again and she needs to see him with me so she feels and sees that connection he has with me over her
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Posted by Arielle83

I had sex with the chick an ex bf cheated on me with. We met by accident thru mutual friends at a party and she was mad he cheated on me and seduced me. She didn’t get why he would cheat on me cuz she said she never would have.

I was 22, she was 27.


what were your feelings behind wanting to hook up with her too, i want to know im having trouble identifying EXCACTLY why lol with my situation so can u elaborate bc maybe i can figure our why shes obsessed with me
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but i honestly dont want her i want him. i just want her to see him and I together and i want to see them together bc i want to see how he fucks us different and who he likes more bc i would be able to tell. and i have to see it myself or its like in my mind she's irrelevent tbh

Posted by tiziani

Not weird and very common.

If I were the guy I excuse myself from the whole thing and let you guys have your bi-curious affair.

He must be a little naive to still be entertaining it and maybe he has weak boundaries. But he's really the least important person in the whole thing. It's about you and her now.

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It's not really about whether or not you want her. It goes deeper than that.
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I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.

My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.

There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.

Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.

As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.

On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “

It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.

Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.

Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “

My conclusion is “ Normal “




i think i read somewhere that women are just kinda bisexual in general or something like that.. or maybe its just mutables lol like i mean this girl is a gemini

anyway, my libra ex had this sag ex gf and i've seen pics of her, heard things about her, found her very attractive and i even told him: 'hey listen, what if she's the one and you're hanging out with me? i mean she sounds like she could be'.. he thought i'm being sarcastic and got weirded out but i was serious

like him talking about her's making her seem really attractive to me.. like i ain't even gonna get mad if they did get together and i left him in the end anyway so it's not like i'd have the right to say much
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I think it’s natural for both sexes to be attracted to the other sometimes. As far as defining sexuality we’ve decided it’s based on whoever you end up with in bed with at night.

*shrugs *

Yeah the way other’s talk about their ex’s can be pretty telling sometimes.
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Posted by Sag898

I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.

My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.

There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.

Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.

As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.

On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “

It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.

Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.

Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “

My conclusion is “ Normal “




see this is what i was looking for in an answer lol thank you but so im kind of new to astrology but i appreciate it alot but what is it about my sign gemini (06/04/1990) and her sign libra 10/02/1990 ?? How do i figure out that kind of stuff about me that u know about you?

is it common that libras are secretly bi-curious? shes like a goody good in graduate school for nursing and im a stripper lol like we are different there but i think its weird that her and I are both considered soulmates for him. i just want to be able to look up what it was about her that made him want her more and what we have in common that he liked. i think he fell for me hard but bc she was blindsided by it all and they have kids i think he just felt bad eventually and tried to give it a shot again with her but i know he cant stop thinking of me bc it was obvious even his mom said he hasnt looked so refreshed and happy and carefree for a while
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Posted by Sag898

I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.

My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.

There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.

Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.

As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.

On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “

It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.

Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.

Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “

My conclusion is “ Normal “




i think i read somewhere that women are just kinda bisexual in general or something like that.. or maybe its just mutables lol like i mean this girl is a gemini

anyway, my libra ex had this sag ex gf and i've seen pics of her, heard things about her, found her very attractive and i even told him: 'hey listen, what if she's the one and you're hanging out with me? i mean she sounds like she could be'.. he thought i'm being sarcastic and got weirded out but i was serious

like him talking about her's making her seem really attractive to me.. like i ain't even gonna get mad if they did get together and i left him in the end anyway so it's not like i'd have the right to say much
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what are mutables lol but i think thats how she feels. she said they had problems for awhile and they were broken up when him and i had our thing but i think shes just saying that to make herself okay with the cheating.or maybe its true and shes worried that hes actually in love with me but just with her bc he felt bad and they have kids. i think this is that situation exactly
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Posted by Sag898

I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.

My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.

There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.

Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.

As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.

On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “

It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.

Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.

Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “

My conclusion is “ Normal “




see this is what i was looking for in an answer lol thank you but so im kind of new to astrology but i appreciate it alot but what is it about my sign gemini (06/04/1990) and her sign libra 10/02/1990 ?? How do i figure out that kind of stuff about me that u know about you?

is it common that libras are secretly bi-curious? shes like a goody good in graduate school for nursing and im a stripper lol like we are different there but i think its weird that her and I are both considered soulmates for him. i just want to be able to look up what it was about her that made him want her more and what we have in common that he liked. i think he fell for me hard but bc she was blindsided by it all and they have kids i think he just felt bad eventually and tried to give it a shot again with her but i know he cant stop thinking of me bc it was obvious even his mom said he hasnt looked so refreshed and happy and carefree for a while
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Your welcome lol as for the astrology part you can look up her chart.

She’s a nurse? Lol @ goody good most people in the medical field are freaks 😂😂 jk

I looked up the Cap girls chart. She had a Venus in aqua a libra moon and mars in Taurus. She actually had more common with me than him haha

I’m not an expert at astrology. Others on here are though
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but i honestly dont want her i want him. i just want her to see him and I together and i want to see them together bc i want to see how he fucks us different and who he likes more bc i would be able to tell. and i have to see it myself or its like in my mind she's irrelevent tbh

Posted by tiziani

Not weird and very common.

If I were the guy I excuse myself from the whole thing and let you guys have your bi-curious affair.

He must be a little naive to still be entertaining it and maybe he has weak boundaries. But he's really the least important person in the whole thing. It's about you and her now.


It's not really about whether or not you want her. It goes deeper than that.
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right and thats what im trying to figure out lol so can u help me figure out that lol
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Posted by Sag898

I think there are so many reasons that could happen. They call it Eskimo brothers or sisters.

My ex Leo has good taste in other women in our in between phases.

There was a cap woman who was like one of the most beautiful girls I’ve ever seen. I was pretty sure she was 100% gay though.

Another one was a Leo who I didn’t find as attractive but seemed to really like him. He treated her badly and I remember having dreams of rescuing her and making love to her lol.

As a mars Scorpio & Lilith I think I naturally look at the darker and complex ideas towards sexuality or situations.

On a surface level people are gonna react to this thinking “ what the hell “

It’s very common that the man you date has an ex or romantic interest you could have stuff in common with. After all birds of a feather is a real thing and at play here.

Also from the male side my ex Leo met my ex Scorpio and they use to talk behind my back lol eventually that got ironed out because there was some overlap in dating them which caused it. But they had a bromance going on for a second there haha.

Also my other ex Scorpio met my ex libra they too started with hatred for the other but after meeting turned ( which was by chance ) it turned into “ If I didn’t see him a competition I would like that dude “

My conclusion is “ Normal “




see this is what i was looking for in an answer lol thank you but so im kind of new to astrology but i appreciate it alot but what is it about my sign gemini (06/04/1990) and her sign libra 10/02/1990 ?? How do i figure out that kind of stuff about me that u know about you?

is it common that libras are secretly bi-curious? shes like a goody good in graduate school for nursing and im a stripper lol like we are different there but i think its weird that her and I are both considered soulmates for him. i just want to be able to look up what it was about her that made him want her more and what we have in common that he liked. i think he fell for me hard but bc she was blindsided by it all and they have kids i think he just felt bad eventually and tried to give it a shot again with her but i know he cant stop thinking of me bc it was obvious even his mom said he hasnt looked so refreshed and happy and carefree for a while
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Do your chart and hers. What's your moon, mars, Venus and mercury? What's hers?
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Is it weird that I feel a connection with this libra and kind of think that she feels it too in a weird way?

So, i fell in love with an aquarius male. felt like soulmates I THOUGHT. but he had a gf the whole time. went back to her, but the weird thing about it.... the fact he did catch feelings for me has kind of made her obsessed to know about what we did because she had no idea about me. but its kind of made me in a weird way feel connected to her like i feel like she wants to know how i had sex with her man because shes attracted to me in a way. and in a way i kind of feel it back to her...this happened 3 months ago but her and i still text back and forth arguing about he he has a deeper connection with. and he doesnt even talk to me. but idk if shes caught feelings or she just gets turned on by picturing her man have sex with other women. ldk i never felt this before lol its like we are enemies that are in competition but i want to know more and more about her. he claimed she was big and ugly.....but i recently was arguing with her lol and she sent a video of herself and shes hot we look really similar and we are really attractive not to be shallow but yea....is this common with libras why wont she let it go and am i right is it because she kind of gets turned on by imaging me and him fuck bc her and i look similar?? idk lol


You guys are arguing still through text? Just shoot her a message and say that you're kind of turned on by how she talks to you lol The Aqua doesn't talk to you anyways. She will either want to meet up or stop contacting you lol Pretty easy!