I just don’t get my Libra man...

I was in a relationship with my Libra man for 1 1/2 years.

It was a pretty rough relationship, we were arguing and fighting a lot... but we both knew we still love each other no matter what and we continued trying. We believed in us and we actually talked about marriage and kids and that he really wants to marry me.

(My other ex was also a Libra and the first 2 years were also almost the same, but in the end it worked out and we ended being together for 5 years. So I know that no matter how hard the beginning might be, it can work out)

We also knew from the beginning on that he would move to another country but this was never a problem for me because I would have gone with him.

One week before he moved he broke up with me because we were fighting too much, he can’t handle my anger (I’m an Aries), he’s moving away anyways, he’s not ready for something serious and he doesn’t love me anymore. One day later a friend of hours told me that he also thought that his new flatmate in the other country was super hot.

The end of the relationship was really ugly.

Still I let him go and I moved on. Even went on two dates.

3 weeks later his friends started to text me that he misses me and he did a mistake. I ignored it because I was actually in a good place.

A few days later he showed up at my door, with flowers and letters.

He took a last minute flight to tell me that he made a mistake, he loves me so much, he wants to marry me and that he accepts me as I am with all of my anger break outs.

He also told this to all of mine and his family. That he really wants to marry me.

My family convinced me to give him another chance.

2 days later he flew back again but since I started a backpacking trip after he left, he decided to join me on the last 10 days of the trip.

I was a month on that trip, so during the first 3 weeks I was on the road we were talking on the phone at least 3 times a day and it went actually quite good.

The first day he arrived was also super nice, we had a really good time and also the second day was nice.

On the third day he started again to get angry because of my behavior.

I was super distanced because I was still hurt. Just because he decided to show up again doesn’t mean that i forgot that he broke up and his words.

So we were fighting during the whole vacation and he left me a letter saying that he’s leaving again while I was sleeping and when I read it I texted him and suddenly it was just a joke and he wanted to get us food...

After an hour he came back crying and it was just a joke and why am I so mean to him... I have to admit that I said some pretty bad stuff that day and at the end of the day he showed me the ring he bought for me and he wanted to propose but now he’s not doing it anymore because of how I am...

Even after this horrible vacation we still tried.

But still it wasn’t going well at all. I was distanced and he was it too.

We talked about it and I decided that I should chance it but he remained like this.

So I called him out on it and he said he can’t be different because he lost some of his feelings.

But he still wanted me to go and visit him, he was really persistent on that, so I booked a flight.

2 days before the flight I talked again with him because I wasn’t feeling really welcomed to go there.

And I said that I really love him but I can’t be in a relationship where he’s not willing to put 100% in.

I can’t take a flight and go to him when he can’t even show me some love.

He agreed and said that he understands me and that he wanted me so bad to go there and that he wanted to give us another chance and that he still loves me.

I still decided to end it.

One day later he texted me how I’m doing and that it’s so hard for him and he misses me. During the conversation we started to fight again and I said maybe due to the circumstances I also lost my feelings. It wasn’t the truth, it was something that I said out of impulse.

He got really mad.

One day later I apologized and told him I didn’t mean it and if he’s doing so bad with the break up and he wanted me to go I could still book a flight for next week. I was also willing to give us another chance.

And then he said no. He doesn’t love me, he’s not ready for something serious, he sees me just as a normal friend, no need for me to go and visit him he doesn’t want it, he doesn’t want me as a gf.

I left it like this and didn’t reply much. After one week I wrote him a letter.

When he got the letter he said that it was the most beautiful thing he ever received in his life, he even had to cry.

But he doesn’t love me and he didn’t do it for a long time, he just said it to me just not to hurt me.

And all the stuff he said when he came back after he broke up was not the truth he just wanted me back.

How can a person go from I love you, I’ll wait for you, I’ll miss you, don’t break up you’re doing a mistake, to I don’t love you anymore in just 2 days??

Why did he even come back after he broke up the first time??

When he didn’t love me since weeks then why say it and still try to make the relationship work??

I’m standing here now completely confused and feeling played and I just don’t know what to think...

Is this normal Libra behavior?

Did he really lie that he loves me?

How can love disappear during 3 weeks??

Can I just ask what it is that YOU want? Most of what I read is what he wants or is doing.

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Can I just ask what it is that YOU want? Most of what I read is what he wants or is doing.

I wanted to marry him, to move there, to have kids with him.

This still hasn’t changed...

The only thing that I also wanted was that he would be a bit more understanding for my situation, like how I feel and why I act the way I do

Another person dumb in love. Nothing to see here besides foolishness, low self-esteem and desperation.

In all honesty and this is just my opinion. You guys have broken up too many times. I always feel that if you break up, it's for a reason, be it petty reasons as some of those you have listed here are, or more serious reasons.

I really don't get how people can say during arguments you no longer love that person. Why, just why do it. For me personally if you are saying something like that there is something behind it, perhaps you have thought about the fact that you may not really love him. Perhaps he himself has also asked himself that.

Ask yourself is this the pattern to your guys relationship, are you willing to have a relationship like this for a few more years only just break it off completely again, where will you be then.

Do you want to be with him because you see a future, or do you now want to be with him more because you cant have him.

I can get like that, I will want someone just out of principle because they "no longer want me" and then I may not even really love them anymore.

As yourself these questions:

1. Does this relationship bring out the best of you and the best of him

2. The majority of the time, do you feel happy or sad

3. What sacrifices are having to be made by both of you to remain in this relationship

4. Do you share the same goals and passions in life

5. Are you fighting more than you are laughing together

6. Do you make time for one another

7. Do you really love one another, or do you love the person YOU want them to be

8. What regrets would you have staying or leaving the realtionship

9. What value do you add to one another's lives

10. How do you see your future with him in your life as apposed to not having him in your life

Posted by Moonpie

I was in a relationship with my Libra man for 1 1/2 years.

It was a pretty rough relationship, we were arguing and fighting a lot... but we both knew we still love each other no matter what and we continued trying. We believed in us and we actually talked about marriage and kids and that he really wants to marry me.

(My other ex was also a Libra and the first 2 years were also almost the same, but in the end it worked out and we ended being together for 5 years. So I know that no matter how hard the beginning might be, it can work out)

We also knew from the beginning on that he would move to another country but this was never a problem for me because I would have gone with him.

One week before he moved he broke up with me because we were fighting too much, he can’t handle my anger (I’m an Aries), he’s moving away anyways, he’s not ready for something serious and he doesn’t love me anymore. One day later a friend of hours told me that he also thought that his new flatmate in the other country was super hot.

The end of the relationship was really ugly.

Still I let him go and I moved on. Even went on two dates.

3 weeks later his friends started to text me that he misses me and he did a mistake. I ignored it because I was actually in a good place.

A few days later he showed up at my door, with flowers and letters.

He took a last minute flight to tell me that he made a mistake, he loves me so much, he wants to marry me and that he accepts me as I am with all of my anger break outs.

He also told this to all of mine and his family. That he really wants to marry me.

My family convinced me to give him another chance.

2 days later he flew back again but since I started a backpacking trip after he left, he decided to join me on the last 10 days of the trip.

I was a month on that trip, so during the first 3 weeks I was on the road we were talking on the phone at least 3 times a day and it went actually quite good.

The first day he arrived was also super nice, we had a really good time and also the second day was nice.

On the third day he started again to get angry because of my behavior.

I was super distanced because I was still hurt. Just because he decided to show up again doesn’t mean that i forgot that he broke up and his words.

So we were fighting during the whole vacation and he left me a letter saying that he’s leaving again while I was sleeping and when I read it I texted him and suddenly it was just a joke and he wanted to get us food...

After an hour he came back crying and it was just a joke and why am I so mean to him... I have to admit that I said some pretty bad stuff that day and at the end of the day he showed me the ring he bought for me and he wanted to propose but now he’s not doing it anymore because of how I am...

Even after this horrible vacation we still tried.

But still it wasn’t going well at all. I was distanced and he was it too.

We talked about it and I decided that I should chance it but he remained like this.

So I called him out on it and he said he can’t be different because he lost some of his feelings.

But he still wanted me to go and visit him, he was really persistent on that, so I booked a flight.

2 days before the flight I talked again with him because I wasn’t feeling really welcomed to go there.

And I said that I really love him but I can’t be in a relationship where he’s not willing to put 100% in.

I can’t take a flight and go to him when he can’t even show me some love.

He agreed and said that he understands me and that he wanted me so bad to go there and that he wanted to give us another chance and that he still loves me.

I still decided to end it.

One day later he texted me how I’m doing and that it’s so hard for him and he misses me. During the conversation we started to fight again and I said maybe due to the circumstances I also lost my feelings. It wasn’t the truth, it was something that I said out of impulse.

He got really mad.

One day later I apologized and told him I didn’t mean it and if he’s doing so bad with the break up and he wanted me to go I could still book a flight for next week. I was also willing to give us another chance.

And then he said no. He doesn’t love me, he’s not ready for something serious, he sees me just as a normal friend, no need for me to go and visit him he doesn’t want it, he doesn’t want me as a gf.

I left it like this and didn’t reply much. After one week I wrote him a letter.

When he got the letter he said that it was the most beautiful thing he ever received in his life, he even had to cry.

But he doesn’t love me and he didn’t do it for a long time, he just said it to me just not to hurt me.

And all the stuff he said when he came back after he broke up was not the truth he just wanted me back.

How can a person go from I love you, I’ll wait for you, I’ll miss you, don’t break up you’re doing a mistake, to I don’t love you anymore in just 2 days??

Why did he even come back after he broke up the first time??

When he didn’t love me since weeks then why say it and still try to make the relationship work??

I’m standing here now completely confused and feeling played and I just don’t know what to think...

Is this normal Libra behavior?

Did he really lie that he loves me?

How can love disappear during 3 weeks??

Is this normal Libra behavior? yes

Did he really lie that he loves me? no

How can love disappear during 3 weeks?? 

In the famous words of Paul Simon (Libra) there's "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover." Seems ya'll have exhausted all 50, lol. The more you try the easier it is to wave the white flag in this war of roses.

But, what the uck are y'all arguing about. All these paragraphs and no real context. Seems like a bunch of insults, lol. I must say, it all seems funny.

I'm an Aries. Aries and Libra are not a match. He wants you but, you'll never be that demure flower he imagines. He keeps dreaming and hoping and wishing... he just won't admit defeat. But, that's also what he likes. You don't succumb to his charms and he can't bewieve it.

It's good practice for the Libra... he'll be smooth as silk after walking through your fire.

See, Libra will paint a pretty picture around anything (while in the moment). A mangey dog could be taking a diarrhea shit and Libra will put it in a gold baroque frame or ignore it. While Aries will be like... "OMG, what tha lily fuck! Get it the hell outta here. Disgusting" with 50 more expletives.

You irritate each other.

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

In all honesty and this is just my opinion. You guys have broken up too many times. I always feel that if you break up, it's for a reason, be it petty reasons as some of those you have listed here are, or more serious reasons.

I really don't get how people can say during arguments you no longer love that person. Why, just why do it. For me personally if you are saying something like that there is something behind it, perhaps you have thought about the fact that you may not really love him. Perhaps he himself has also asked himself that.

Ask yourself is this the pattern to your guys relationship, are you willing to have a relationship like this for a few more years only just break it off completely again, where will you be then.

Do you want to be with him because you see a future, or do you now want to be with him more because you cant have him.

I can get like that, I will want someone just out of principle because they "no longer want me" and then I may not even really love them anymore.

As yourself these questions:

1. Does this relationship bring out the best of you and the best of him

2. The majority of the time, do you feel happy or sad

3. What sacrifices are having to be made by both of you to remain in this relationship

4. Do you share the same goals and passions in life

5. Are you fighting more than you are laughing together

6. Do you make time for one another

7. Do you really love one another, or do you love the person YOU want them to be

8. What regrets would you have staying or leaving the realtionship

9. What value do you add to one another's lives

10. How do you see your future with him in your life as apposed to not having him in your life

I don’t know managing anger is really an Aries problem...

when I’m angry I just black out and say the meanest things without meaning them and as soon as I’m calm again I apologize for it...

I’m just hot tempered

It’s not that I can’t have him and that’s why i want him

Unfortunately it’s because I really love him and it was the first guy who I could’ve imagined my life with and I’m not an naive teen anymore who experiences a relationship for the first time...

The sad thing is I saw our potential if we would have worked on us...

Posted by tiziani

Times like this are when I'd pay less attention to words and definitely not analyse them. At the end of the day where are you both now? In different countries, if I read right. That says as much as anything to me. If you both wanted to be together, you would be.

As for everything said: lack of trust (normal when you live apart in different countries) and being on the defensive.

Yes we live in different countries but I don’t think the distance is a problem, I would have moved there anyways in 4 months

But yes I agree with the lack of trust! He started to get really really jealous as soon as he moved away...

I wasn’t texting too often when I went out, I was going out too much, he hated it when other people hit on me

But I told him there’s no need for him to worry about it...

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by Moonpie

I was in a relationship with my Libra man for 1 1/2 years.

It was a pretty rough relationship, we were arguing and fighting a lot... but we both knew we still love each other no matter what and we continued trying. We believed in us and we actually talked about marriage and kids and that he really wants to marry me.

(My other ex was also a Libra and the first 2 years were also almost the same, but in the end it worked out and we ended being together for 5 years. So I know that no matter how hard the beginning might be, it can work out)

We also knew from the beginning on that he would move to another country but this was never a problem for me because I would have gone with him.

One week before he moved he broke up with me because we were fighting too much, he can’t handle my anger (I’m an Aries), he’s moving away anyways, he’s not ready for something serious and he doesn’t love me anymore. One day later a friend of hours told me that he also thought that his new flatmate in the other country was super hot.

The end of the relationship was really ugly.

Still I let him go and I moved on. Even went on two dates.

3 weeks later his friends started to text me that he misses me and he did a mistake. I ignored it because I was actually in a good place.

A few days later he showed up at my door, with flowers and letters.

He took a last minute flight to tell me that he made a mistake, he loves me so much, he wants to marry me and that he accepts me as I am with all of my anger break outs.

He also told this to all of mine and his family. That he really wants to marry me.

My family convinced me to give him another chance.

2 days later he flew back again but since I started a backpacking trip after he left, he decided to join me on the last 10 days of the trip.

I was a month on that trip, so during the first 3 weeks I was on the road we were talking on the phone at least 3 times a day and it went actually quite good.

The first day he arrived was also super nice, we had a really good time and also the second day was nice.

On the third day he started again to get angry because of my behavior.

I was super distanced because I was still hurt. Just because he decided to show up again doesn’t mean that i forgot that he broke up and his words.

So we were fighting during the whole vacation and he left me a letter saying that he’s leaving again while I was sleeping and when I read it I texted him and suddenly it was just a joke and he wanted to get us food...

After an hour he came back crying and it was just a joke and why am I so mean to him... I have to admit that I said some pretty bad stuff that day and at the end of the day he showed me the ring he bought for me and he wanted to propose but now he’s not doing it anymore because of how I am...

Even after this horrible vacation we still tried.

But still it wasn’t going well at all. I was distanced and he was it too.

We talked about it and I decided that I should chance it but he remained like this.

So I called him out on it and he said he can’t be different because he lost some of his feelings.

But he still wanted me to go and visit him, he was really persistent on that, so I booked a flight.

2 days before the flight I talked again with him because I wasn’t feeling really welcomed to go there.

And I said that I really love him but I can’t be in a relationship where he’s not willing to put 100% in.

I can’t take a flight and go to him when he can’t even show me some love.

He agreed and said that he understands me and that he wanted me so bad to go there and that he wanted to give us another chance and that he still loves me.

I still decided to end it.

One day later he texted me how I’m doing and that it’s so hard for him and he misses me. During the conversation we started to fight again and I said maybe due to the circumstances I also lost my feelings. It wasn’t the truth, it was something that I said out of impulse.

He got really mad.

One day later I apologized and told him I didn’t mean it and if he’s doing so bad with the break up and he wanted me to go I could still book a flight for next week. I was also willing to give us another chance.

And then he said no. He doesn’t love me, he’s not ready for something serious, he sees me just as a normal friend, no need for me to go and visit him he doesn’t want it, he doesn’t want me as a gf.

I left it like this and didn’t reply much. After one week I wrote him a letter.

When he got the letter he said that it was the most beautiful thing he ever received in his life, he even had to cry.

But he doesn’t love me and he didn’t do it for a long time, he just said it to me just not to hurt me.

And all the stuff he said when he came back after he broke up was not the truth he just wanted me back.

How can a person go from I love you, I’ll wait for you, I’ll miss you, don’t break up you’re doing a mistake, to I don’t love you anymore in just 2 days??

Why did he even come back after he broke up the first time??

When he didn’t love me since weeks then why say it and still try to make the relationship work??

I’m standing here now completely confused and feeling played and I just don’t know what to think...

Is this normal Libra behavior?

Did he really lie that he loves me?

How can love disappear during 3 weeks??

Is this normal Libra behavior? yes

Did he really lie that he loves me? no

How can love disappear during 3 weeks?? 

In the famous words of Paul Simon (Libra) there's "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover." Seems ya'll have exhausted all 50, lol. The more you try the easier it is to wave the white flag in this war of roses.

But, what the uck are y'all arguing about. All these paragraphs and no real context. Seems like a bunch of insults, lol. I must say, it all seems funny.

I'm an Aries. Aries and Libra are not a match. He wants you but, you'll never be that demure flower he imagines. He keeps dreaming and hoping and wishing... he just won't admit defeat. But, that's also what he likes. You don't succumb to his charms and he can't bewieve it.

It's good practice for the Libra... he'll be smooth as silk after walking through your fire.

See, Libra will paint a pretty picture around anything (while in the moment). A mangey dog could be taking a diarrhea shit and Libra will put it in a gold baroque frame or ignore it. While Aries will be like... "OMG, what tha lily fuck! Get it the hell outta here. Disgusting" with 50 more expletives.

You irritate each other.

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But where’s the need in telling me that he doesn’t love me and this already since a few weeks and he was just saying it when at the end he still has feelings...

this is the thing I really don’t get, why lie about it...

you can say listen I love you but it’s just not working, why hurt the other person...

We were arguing about the smallest and dumbest things

For example the last fight was about sports

And I had a problem that he was not really honest to me sometimes

Now it’s exactly the opposite... I see the potential and I still love him but he sees everything super negative and as I said he came to this conclusion 2 days after telling me the complete opposite

Posted by Moonpie

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

In all honesty and this is just my opinion. You guys have broken up too many times. I always feel that if you break up, it's for a reason, be it petty reasons as some of those you have listed here are, or more serious reasons.

I really don't get how people can say during arguments you no longer love that person. Why, just why do it. For me personally if you are saying something like that there is something behind it, perhaps you have thought about the fact that you may not really love him. Perhaps he himself has also asked himself that.

Ask yourself is this the pattern to your guys relationship, are you willing to have a relationship like this for a few more years only just break it off completely again, where will you be then.

Do you want to be with him because you see a future, or do you now want to be with him more because you cant have him.

I can get like that, I will want someone just out of principle because they "no longer want me" and then I may not even really love them anymore.

As yourself these questions:

1. Does this relationship bring out the best of you and the best of him

2. The majority of the time, do you feel happy or sad

3. What sacrifices are having to be made by both of you to remain in this relationship

4. Do you share the same goals and passions in life

5. Are you fighting more than you are laughing together

6. Do you make time for one another

7. Do you really love one another, or do you love the person YOU want them to be

8. What regrets would you have staying or leaving the realtionship

9. What value do you add to one another's lives

10. How do you see your future with him in your life as apposed to not having him in your life

I don’t know managing anger is really an Aries problem...

when I’m angry I just black out and say the meanest things without meaning them and as soon as I’m calm again I apologize for it...

I’m just hot tempered

It’s not that I can’t have him and that’s why i want him

Unfortunately it’s because I really love him and it was the first guy who I could’ve imagined my life with and I’m not an naive teen anymore who experiences a relationship for the first time...

The sad thing is I saw our potential if we would have worked on us...

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But the potential has to be seen from everyone involved.

Either way what ever happens if you are meant to be together. You will be

Posted by Timon

Your relationship is like a yo-yo, up and down you go. One minute is good next minute you're breaking up. It doesn't seem like you're compatible. I think you should stay away from each other for a longer time to sort any confusing feelings out.

Who breaks up in a letter and then say it was a joke? Immature behavior to say the least.

Yes it was really an up and down...

I don’t know, we had the same dreams, same goals, same thoughts about life like 100% the same

That’s why I thought that everything else can be worked out

Yes he is immature. He is a few years younger than me and I was his first relationship that lasted longer than 2 months

But still he’s in an age where you should actually know that something like this is not a joke

also being with someone and expecting so much from them when you don’t love them anymore and even saying “I love you” when you don’t, he’s old enough to know that this is really not ok...

Posted by Timon

Posted by Moonpie

Posted by Timon

Your relationship is like a yo-yo, up and down you go. One minute is good next minute you're breaking up. It doesn't seem like you're compatible. I think you should stay away from each other for a longer time to sort any confusing feelings out.

Who breaks up in a letter and then say it was a joke? Immature behavior to say the least.

Yes it was really an up and down...

I don’t know, we had the same dreams, same goals, same thoughts about life like 100% the same

That’s why I thought that everything else can be worked out

Yes he is immature. He is a few years younger than me and I was his first relationship that lasted longer than 2 months

But still he’s in an age where you should actually know that something like this is not a joke

also being with someone and expecting so much from them when you don’t love them anymore and even saying “I love you” when you don’t, he’s old enough to know that this is really not ok...

You can have the same dreams and outlook on life but still be very different individuals and that difference might be too big of a gap.

If you're his first real relationship maybe he isn't really ready for that commitment yet or know that you're the one he wants to be with long-term. And if you're also not in the same country it makes it so much more difficult when someone isn't fully sure of the relationship.

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I agree...

These were all the reason why he broke up the first time

I just don’t understand why he came back just to leave again 3 weeks later because of the same reasons

after he told me that he made the biggest mistake of his life

When he really thought like this then where’s the point in coming back

this sounds like no fun. why would anyone want to waste their time on that?

Posted by jeane

this sounds like no fun. why would anyone want to waste their time on that?

I agree - stop the constant arguing - that sounds like high school stupid shyte and get on with your life. It would be a mistake to get back together and/or marry if you are both still acting like bickering children

I know it doesn’t make sense to continue like this...

I also know that libras are so indecisive that they can change they’re mind in a second

I’m just wondering if he’s going to change his mind again and come back again...

I thought the last time when he broke up that he really made up his mind and he really didn’t love me but he showed up again

Now he sounds again like he really made up his mind breaking up but is it going to stay like this?

Posted by Moonpie

I know it doesn’t make sense to continue like this...

I also know that libras are so indecisive that they can change they’re mind in a second

I’m just wondering if he’s going to change his mind again and come back again...

I thought the last time when he broke up that he really made up his mind and he really didn’t love me but he showed up again

Now he sounds again like he really made up his mind breaking up but is it going to stay like this?

it sounds like even he doesn't know the answer to that. i doubt any of us would have anything more than a guess to give you.

Posted by jeane

Posted by Moonpie

I know it doesn’t make sense to continue like this...

I also know that libras are so indecisive that they can change they’re mind in a second

I’m just wondering if he’s going to change his mind again and come back again...

I thought the last time when he broke up that he really made up his mind and he really didn’t love me but he showed up again

Now he sounds again like he really made up his mind breaking up but is it going to stay like this?

it sounds like even he doesn't know the answer to that. i doubt any of us would have anything more than a guess to give you.

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Any guess is better than the clueless state I’m in now...

Posted by Moonpie

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

In all honesty and this is just my opinion. You guys have broken up too many times. I always feel that if you break up, it's for a reason, be it petty reasons as some of those you have listed here are, or more serious reasons.

I really don't get how people can say during arguments you no longer love that person. Why, just why do it. For me personally if you are saying something like that there is something behind it, perhaps you have thought about the fact that you may not really love him. Perhaps he himself has also asked himself that.

Ask yourself is this the pattern to your guys relationship, are you willing to have a relationship like this for a few more years only just break it off completely again, where will you be then.

Do you want to be with him because you see a future, or do you now want to be with him more because you cant have him.

I can get like that, I will want someone just out of principle because they "no longer want me" and then I may not even really love them anymore.

As yourself these questions:

1. Does this relationship bring out the best of you and the best of him

2. The majority of the time, do you feel happy or sad

3. What sacrifices are having to be made by both of you to remain in this relationship

4. Do you share the same goals and passions in life

5. Are you fighting more than you are laughing together

6. Do you make time for one another

7. Do you really love one another, or do you love the person YOU want them to be

8. What regrets would you have staying or leaving the realtionship

9. What value do you add to one another's lives

10. How do you see your future with him in your life as apposed to not having him in your life

I don’t know managing anger is really an Aries problem...

when I’m angry I just black out and say the meanest things without meaning them and as soon as I’m calm again I apologize for it...

I’m just hot tempered

It’s not that I can’t have him and that’s why i want him

Unfortunately it’s because I really love him and it was the first guy who I could’ve imagined my life with and I’m not an naive teen anymore who experiences a relationship for the first time...

The sad thing is I saw our potential if we would have worked on us...

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a person with a high temper that Libra can manage. We don't like to be constantly fighting with the one we love. We like peace and harmony the majority of the time. If we fight too much with our lover we start to lose feelings. What was causing you to get angry at him?

Posted by Moonpie

I know it doesn’t make sense to continue like this...

I also know that libras are so indecisive that they can change they’re mind in a second

I’m just wondering if he’s going to change his mind again and come back again...

I thought the last time when he broke up that he really made up his mind and he really didn’t love me but he showed up again

Now he sounds again like he really made up his mind breaking up but is it going to stay like this?

And you don't sound strong enough to make up your mind - insane - somebody shyte or get off the pot lol sorry but I could not deal with that crazy wishy washy back and forth tug and pull. I would not allow that to happen by ending it, period, and moving on with my life and staying solid. But that's me.