@Librapride18
12 Years
I've been visiting home I ran into my Ex!
How to Announce Your Engagement to Your Mother
Share your news honestly and confidently, choosing a calm moment to talk. Express your feelings clearly and be prepared to answer her questions. Remember to listen to her concerns and reassure her of your happiness. Open communication helps build understanding during this exciting time.
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Yes it really did what can say. I guess nothing...sorry
"ran into my ex... we've been courting"
Ex and courting are not typically used concurrently...
Well that's a logical thing to do.
And desperate.
And stupid.
That said, it would be wise to make it a very, very long engagement if you insist on such immature behavior.
Well oh my. I didn't need all of that. I simply wanted to know how to tell my mother but I thought about that and we've been communicating but you know honestly you guys the love was on fire ...I had no choice my mom had to leave so I did too and I wasn't of age the separation made our hearts grow fonder. We haven't even had sex in over a year and I'm in love with him more than ever
Tell him that if it's a girl, you want to name her after you. If it's a boy, he can name him after him.
Okay thank you love I will keep that in mind if we do decide to have lil cute babies.
Posted by Librapride18
Well oh my. I didn't need all of that. I simply wanted to know how to tell my mother but I thought about that and we've been communicating but you know honestly you guys the love was on fire ...I had no choice my mom had to leave so I did too and I wasn't of age the separation made our hearts grow fonder. We haven't even had sex in over a year and I'm in love with him more than ever
I highly doubt it's love you're feeling.
If you're not sure how to tell your mom, it means you aren't making a very smart decision. If you were, you'd be excited to tell her and not here asking us how to approach it.
I think you two need to talk about how you're going to handle this, example being a long engagement or not. You should clearly make it one considering the circumstances so you aren't legally bound to each other and stuck if things go to shit.
Once you two have the details worked out, then address it with your mom. I'd think her biggest concern would be the same sentiment mentioned by most of those who responded here.
Marriage isn't something to fuck around with. How old are you?
Thank you for all the Advice is what I would like to begin with. I am very aware that our circumstances are a little aloof as if we aren't sure of what we want but when I say I love this man and believe that he is the bread to my butter and I am the peen in his nut I'm talking no jelly. Me and him have been through the fire before we even met each one of another I will say we are both mature for our ages and both of us know what we wantz I won't continue to discuss that with you all if something changes I will begin with another post from me the op. My mom and also his mom are trying to rebuild relationships with 1 uh nuhther what? I'm 19 he's 20. Wh
Posted by Sugarfoot
Congrats! You seem happy about it 🙂Why not just tell her straight out? "(John ) asked me to marry him."
Thank you sugarfoot the thing is him and my mom were quit cool until we decided to part way but thank you buu
Did he give u a ring?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Well that's a logical thing to do.And desperate.
And stupid.
Honey bunches of shit your opinion is of know vsule when it comes to my fianc? if you don't want to help a sistah out please EXITED. For I get excited in pop off in your marker. lOL
Posted by SamCancerGirl
Did he give u a ring?
Hi honey bunny were saving for that we both don't have fun right now only needys Muah kisses!
@librapride: how long were you 2 together as a couple? How old are you? 17? 16? 20?
@sugarfoot I will tell her when the time is right.
Posted by Geminlove
@librapride: how long were you 2 together as a couple? How old are you? 17? 16? 20?
Well we have know each other for about 4 years and we dated on and off for two out of those four years yes we had our issue but what young love doesn't? We were still trying to figure each other out also trying to figure ourselves out. I stated our already but I will again he is 20 and I'm a year younger than him
@tsarina that's all a matter of opinion I believe but again I'm not asking for opinions on my marriage. Oh no not in this particular forum not from me the op.
Just please don't get pregnant. You are allowed to be immature and wishy washy, as you are given your sign and your age. But it's not funny when people involve an innocent child in their stupid childish games.
@aquarius09 thank you for your opinion I don't like it or need it but thank you!
It;s your life you said yes, obviously you like this man. Why was he an ex? on his part or yours? Tell mom : "I am an adult now, I have found love in a guy I adore, I would really appreciate your blessing as I have made a huge move towards my future. I love you mom and want you to be apart of it."
Posted by aquarius09
Just please don't get pregnant. You are allowed to be immature and wishy washy, as you are given your sign and your age. But it's not funny when people involve an innocent child in their stupid childish games.
She's right. go for the multiple year birth control (IUD 5 years, it's not the only option but you're GYN can discuss that with you and get it as soon as possible.) By the time you take it out, you'll be 24 years old.
Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
It;s your life you said yes, obviously you like this man. Why was he an ex? on his part or yours? Tell mom : "I am an adult now, I have found love in a guy I adore, I would really appreciate your blessing as I have made a huge move towards my future. I love you mom and want you to be apart of it."
I love this man. My first love .....we were separated when I decided to move I will not say more...when I do decide to tell my mom I will tell her of my great love for him and yes it has been my decision to stay with this man for the rest of my life . Thank you!
Posted by aquarius09
Just please don't get pregnant. You are allowed to be immature and wishy washy, as you are given your sign and your age. But it's not funny when people involve an innocent child in their stupid childish games.She's right. go for the multiple year birth control (IUD 5 years, it's not the only option but you're GYN can discuss that with you and get it as soon as possible.) By the time you take it out, you'll be 24 years old.
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Posted by aquarius09
Just please don't get pregnant. You are allowed to be immature and wishy washy, as you are given your sign and your age. But it's not funny when people involve an innocent child in their stupid childish games.She's right. go for the multiple year birth control (IUD 5 years, it's not the only option but you're GYN can discuss that with you and get it as soon as possible.) By the time you take it out, you'll be 24 years old.
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Your advice is way off topic. Lol certainly not needed. But is Libra's
You make no sense. Please exit if you don't wish to contribute to the conversation @feby16aqua
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No matter what we tell you, you'll do what you want. Whether this is a mistake, only time will tell. Don't bring children into the picture until you're settled into your marriage.
Hey Little I'm going to leave it at that. I told you once your opinion is not needed I love him and will forever love him the fact that you don't either of us and would feel as though we wouldn't make perfect children possesses me and pisses me off. When you learn me know me and grow me then you can say what you want until then yes I will do what I want when I want. Bye headache
Advice is seldom welcome; and those who want it the most, always like it the least.
Thank you quoting machine ms. I live by science and the books. But I don't need advice for marriage that is going just fine. And I've told my mom she was ecstatic !!!! Ok ??
Stop being defensive. No harm was meant by any comment that I've made.
Oh I just tried to think that made my brain hurt. Bye.
Posted by feby16aqua
I'm feeling aylin 😄
*snort*
Op, you're 19 years old and an idiot. Nuff said. :/ Your question has been answered, and many here are telling you to simmer down as you're still in a child like mentality and will be til you're 25.
Again, make it a long engagement. As someone else said, I also don't know of many who got married that young and stayed married.
Of course you think you love this guy and cannot fathom life without him. You started dating him when you were barely a teenager. This is all you know.
If you insist on such asinine logic, by all means. But at least make it a prolonged engagement. Finish school first before you get married. Or set out for another similar goal before tying the knot. Life is not a Disney movie.
@SamCancerGirl Hood morning I just had a nice cup of coffee so I'm feeling a little spruce. I thought I would update you all on my coming together with my karmic flame I love that man. But any-who?? I'm getting off topic. Let's begin.
Last night babe and I decide that we would go and get eloped this very morning so we rode out in the Cadillac to the courthouse downtown and We did it!!! I'm so excited and grateful. So far that's it we still don't have the funds lol only needys but I will keep you all up to date with anything new🙂 thank you nosey sam for being concerned LOL
This chic suffers from Disney Princess Disorder. Your attempts at logic and rational thinking is wasted on this fairy tale. Facts be damned! She loves this manchild with all her heart...even though three weeks ago she couldn't stand him (that's an assumption and while my timing may be slightly off, I'm right).
All you wicked witches trying to rain on her parade can "exit thread left" before you get a house dropped on you...my pretty.
My favorite line in this thread so far was where in the same sentence stating their ages at 20 and saying how mature they are, she be spellin wurdz lyk diz.
Posted by Librapride18
I will say we are both mature for our ages and both of us know what we wantz
This one. It made me lol for realz.
Posted by feby16aqua
hood sun lol. haha funny times. What's your sun sign?
That's obvious I'm a libra my husband is a scorpio. Turbulent but beautiful. Lol and yes we're having really good times!!!
Posted by LibraSid
This chic suffers from Disney Princess Disorder. Your attempts at logic and rational thinking is wasted on this fairy tale. Facts be damned! She loves this manchild with all her heart...even though three weeks ago she couldn't stand him (that's an assumption and while my timing may be slightly off, I'm right).All you wicked witches trying to rain on her parade can "exit thread left" before you get a house dropped on you...my pretty.
My favorite line in this thread so far was where in the same sentence stating their ages at 20 and saying how mature they are, she be spellin wurdz lyk diz.
@librasid
Honey you may want to mind your business we are very mature and we definitely know we are ready to merge and take it to the next level. Love will withholds us as it has.
At this point I don't even know why I'm responding to any of yous.
Posted by LibraSid
This chic suffers from Disney Princess Disorder. Your attempts at logic and rational thinking is wasted on this fairy tale. Facts be damned! She loves this manchild with all her heart...even though three weeks ago she couldn't stand him (that's an assumption and while my timing may be slightly off, I'm right).All you wicked witches trying to rain on her parade can "exit thread left" before you get a house dropped on you...my pretty.
My favorite line in this thread so far was where in the same sentence stating their ages at 20 and saying how mature they are, she be spellin wurdz lyk diz.
@librasid
Honey you may want to mind your business we are very mature and we definitely know we are ready to merge and take it to the next level. Love will withholdsus as it has.😄
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Wth are you laughing at?
Omg u eloped?? Wow that was fast!!!
Posted by Librapride18
To be honest I haven't read all the previous post but I will say that.But me and babe have been doing the doo wop all morning he left me
Feelingggg sloth
But I will say he left me feeling a little loose. Loose.
This post and the status play by play. Left me in tears.
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Good for you!! High fives Hunty.
Posted by LibraSid
This chic suffers from Disney Princess Disorder. Your attempts at logic and rational thinking is wasted on this fairy tale. Facts be damned! She loves this manchild with all her heart...even though three weeks ago she couldn't stand him (that's an assumption and while my timing may be slightly off, I'm right).All you wicked witches trying to rain on her parade can "exit thread left" before you get a house dropped on you...my pretty.
My favorite line in this thread so far was where in the same sentence stating their ages at 20 and saying how mature they are, she be spellin wurdz lyk diz.
@librasid
Honey you may want to mind your business we are very mature and we definitely know we are ready to merge and take it to the next level. Love will withholds us as it has.click to expand
24 hours ago you opened this thread referring to this dude as your ex. Now he's your husband and you're positive you're ready.
Ugh you tricked me! I started to use logic and facts again...you're right. Where are my manners. Congratulations to the bride. Go make him a sammich.
Awesome trolling chick.
Posted by SamCancerGirl
Omg u eloped?? Wow that was fast!!!Scorpio dude knew he had to lock her down before she woke up from whatever he gave her.
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Dainbramage?
Posted by Damnata
Awesome trolling chick.Is that a confession?
This was you trolling?
😱
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You know, I am such an idealistic person..in my mind there's no way people like her exist in reality so I believe all of them are trolls.
Posted by Librapride18
and I am the peen in his nut I'm talking no jelly.click to expand
That line made me pause too. I didn't want to think about it. Shouldn't that be reversed? That doesn't quite work either...AHHH! Bad visual!
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Hello lovelies I've been visiting home. I ran into my ex this has been my first time seeing him we haven't been together romantically but we have been courting. I will say that I love this man deeply still... but guess what he proposed to me last night and I said Yessss! Now my only problem is how do I tell my mother??