Libra and games. Lol.

Profile picture of Ilovemyaqua
Ilovemyaqua
@Ilovemyaqua
11 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 518 · Topics: 42
So I had a colleague who is a Libra. We would be a little flirty initially but I wouldn't bother much. He, on the other hand was much more interested. He had just gotten out of a long term relationship, I was still not ready for any relationship. So it was only mild healthy flirting. He was more actively pursuing though. So soon after he gets into a fling with this other colleague. That girl was very insecure and eventually he reduced contacts with me. However, he never let her know we still talk.

2 months back I and him kinda made out. It just happened and I wasn't sure how I felt about it. I had been developing mild feelings for him since November though, and then this happened. He also told me he wanted to be with me than the other girl and I just brushed it off and said we're better off as casual. He has now moved to LA and I'm here in India. Before he went I confessed to him I liked him a little(you know how unsure Taureans are) .

So all we can do now is talk. He told me his fling ended after he moved to LA. The thing is, since the start, it has always been him pursuing and me either completely brushing it off(earlier) or taking it slow(now). So if now ever there are times when I pay more attention to him or want to talk to him more, he'll play hot cold. And other times when I'm being myself, he'll be pursuing me. Which is really funny.

Why all these games if you like me, or was he only attracted?
Profile picture of Ilovemyaqua
Ilovemyaqua
@Ilovemyaqua
11 Years500+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 518 · Topics: 42
Posted by sweethearts
We don’t do complicated very well. The distance alone is that. There’s other fish to fry close by and that will grab our attention quickly.

If he is there permanently and you are in India, I can’t see there is enough for him to continue pursuing you. A deeper connection should have been made when you were in the same city.
Yeah. I pretty much think that too. The attraction was stronger when we could see each other. It'll eventually fizzle out, from both sides. I think it has started a little on this side now.