Libra man/Aries woman

I met this charming, hilarious man 5 months ago and have fallen hard for him. Now that some time has passed I see some traits that are kinda disturbing. First off he has this meddling ex girlfriend that he refuses to set straight when she flaps her mouth. I know he loves me and there is no love connection any more (she is married but lives in the same area as him)between them but he tells me things she says and comments she makes that I feel deserve a retort and she needs to be told to butt out. Now comes the part of him that I perceive as WEAK. He whines and says he just wants to keep the peace, cant we all just get along blah blah blah. I really hate a man who is wishy washy and this is how he is coming across, I guess my question is ARE LIBRA MEN WEAK? As an Aries I pride myself on my strength and my ability to speak up at all times and set people straight (HA) is there any hope for our 2 signs to get along as I do love him, he is a good guy all around

They are weak for someone that's fire or air dominated.

It's that indecisiveness and intense need to be liked all the time that can make these particular men a pushover. All the libra men in my circle are pretty nice and tend to be pushed around. If I can find myself a libra with a backbone, I'm going after them.

If you want to love a Leeb as an Aries, you have to love everything you hate about yourself, first.

Not sure how other axes work. Regardless, say what you just typed here to him, just keep responsebility for own words.

Depends on your idea of weakness I guess. A damn is pushed and beaten, does that make it weak? Keeping the peace is a hard thing to accomplish, than to simply let things be, look at the situation in the middle east. Its easier to keep fighting than to sit through and reconcile and see the issue through the eyes of others. I can create just as much bedlam as I can harmony, it really is just how the scales tip. You love him but you focus on his one weakness, and chastise him for it. Why dont you be the person who helps him become stronger. The damn with enough time will break if exposed to enough pressure, why not be the person who reinforces and repairs the broken bits. So that it can bear any burden or load and watch as it shapes the world around. If you really do love this man stand up to yourself and set yourself straight. You can be the strength when he has weakness. He can bear the load that you are to stubborn to let go. He offers a strength that you lack (patience) and you offer a strength that he lacks (decisiveness). Signs dont really matter in the end, its the people and their desire to make it work, so make the damn thing work

@aquarius09 I am not weak to an element, a sign or the placement of the stars. I am weak to those that I love, but that does not make me or any other man weak; regardless of sign.

Posted by elguapolibra
Depends on your idea of weakness I guess. A damn is pushed and beaten, does that make it weak? Keeping the peace is a hard thing to accomplish, than to simply let things be, look at the situation in the middle east. Its easier to keep fighting than to sit through and reconcile and see the issue through the eyes of others. I can create just as much bedlam as I can harmony, it really is just how the scales tip. You love him but you focus on his one weakness, and chastise him for it. Why dont you be the person who helps him become stronger. The damn with enough time will break if exposed to enough pressure, why not be the person who reinforces and repairs the broken bits. So that it can bear any burden or load and watch as it shapes the world around. If you really do love this man stand up to yourself and set yourself straight. You can be the strength when he has weakness. He can bear the load that you are to stubborn to let go. He offers a strength that you lack (patience) and you offer a strength that he lacks (decisiveness). Signs dont really matter in the end, its the people and their desire to make it work, so make the damn thing work

@aquarius09 I am not weak to an element, a sign or the placement of the stars. I am weak to those that I love, but that does not make me or any other man weak; regardless of sign.

very well said

Posted by wildjflippin
I met this charming, hilarious man 5 months ago and have fallen hard for him. Now that some time has passed I see some traits that are kinda disturbing. First off he has this meddling ex girlfriend that he refuses to set straight when she flaps her mouth. I know he loves me and there is no love connection any more (she is married but lives in the same area as him)between them but he tells me things she says and comments she makes that I feel deserve a retort and she needs to be told to butt out. Now comes the part of him that I perceive as WEAK. He whines and says he just wants to keep the peace, cant we all just get along blah blah blah. I really hate a man who is wishy washy and this is how he is coming across, I guess my question is ARE LIBRA MEN WEAK? As an Aries I pride myself on my strength and my ability to speak up at all times and set people straight (HA) is there any hope for our 2 signs to get along as I do love him, he is a good guy all around

When it comes to issues like this, yes. They can be just as stubborn and strong willed as we are when it comes to issues, but it's that stupid ass "keeping the peace/refuses confrontation" shit that makes them appear weak. As I've said before, for a logical sign, they sure don't act on this trait very often since their logic is based in people pleasing and trying to keep the peace. It's not always done in the best interest of the situation or those around them.

However, that said, you need to do or say something to encourage him why this is a problem. With Libras I've known, I've seen people take advantage of their good nature. I've either had to stand in and help them out when this crap happened, or tell them straight up why their approach isn't going to be good overall. They want to be this supposed logical sign, so you have to give it to them with logic.


Generally, you should be concerned that his ex still has so much say and presence in his life. Do they have kids together? If not, she shouldn't be around in any capacity, tbh. I see this as becoming a huge problem since you've already voiced your dislike for it and he's done nothing about it except make excuses and admit to not wanting to confront the situation. If he was truly over his ex, she wouldn't have this much say in his life and he'd be able to tell her to fuck off. That's not a good sign, tbh. Why the eff is he pursuing new relationships if she's still very much a part of his life? Sounds like he's using dating and new relationships as a band aid, tbh.

Posted by elguapolibra
I am weak to those that I love

Pay attention to this.

Posted by wildjflippin
I met this charming, hilarious man 5 months ago and have fallen hard for him. Now that some time has passed I see some traits that are kinda disturbing. First off he has this meddling ex girlfriend that he refuses to set straight when she flaps her mouth. I know he loves me and there is no love connection any more (she is married but lives in the same area as him)between them but he tells me things she says and comments she makes that I feel deserve a retort and she needs to be told to butt out. Now comes the part of him that I perceive as WEAK. He whines and says he just wants to keep the peace, cant we all just get along blah blah blah. I really hate a man who is wishy washy and this is how he is coming across, I guess my question is ARE LIBRA MEN WEAK? As an Aries I pride myself on my strength and my ability to speak up at all times and set people straight (HA) is there any hope for our 2 signs to get along as I do love him, he is a good guy all around

you don't sound very compatible. i can only see this becoming more of a frustration for you. do both of yourselves a favour and keep moving.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by wildjflippin
I met this charming, hilarious man 5 months ago and have fallen hard for him. Now that some time has passed I see some traits that are kinda disturbing. First off he has this meddling ex girlfriend that he refuses to set straight when she flaps her mouth. I know he loves me and there is no love connection any more (she is married but lives in the same area as him)between them but he tells me things she says and comments she makes that I feel deserve a retort and she needs to be told to butt out. Now comes the part of him that I perceive as WEAK. He whines and says he just wants to keep the peace, cant we all just get along blah blah blah. I really hate a man who is wishy washy and this is how he is coming across, I guess my question is ARE LIBRA MEN WEAK? As an Aries I pride myself on my strength and my ability to speak up at all times and set people straight (HA) is there any hope for our 2 signs to get along as I do love him, he is a good guy all around

When it comes to issues like this, yes. They can be just as stubborn and strong willed as we are when it comes to issues, but it's that stupid ass "keeping the peace/refuses confrontation" shit that makes them appear weak. As I've said before, for a logical sign, they sure don't act on this trait very often since their logic is based in people pleasing and trying to keep the peace. It's not always done in the best interest of the situation or those around them.

However, that said, you need to do or say something to encourage him why this is a problem. With Libras I've known, I've seen people take advantage of their good nature. I've either had to stand in and help them out when this crap happened, or tell them straight up why their approach isn't going to be good overall. They want to be this supposed logical sign, so you have to give it to them with logic.


Generally, you should be concerned that his ex still has so much say and presence in his life. Do they have kids together? If not, she shouldn't be around in any capacity, tbh. I see this as becoming a huge problem since you've already voiced your dislike for it and he's done nothing about it except make excuses and admit to not wanting to confront the situation. If he was truly over his ex, she wouldn't have this much say in his life and he'd be able to tell her to fuck off. That's not a good sign, tbh. Why the eff is he pursuing new relationships if she's still very much a part of his life? Sounds like he's using dating and new relationships as a band aid, tbh.

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i forgot to chime in on the ex... Agree on the part of letting the ex go completely, i usually cut all ties except for the last relationship i was in. She wanted to stay friends, which in hindsight w

The funny thing is libras ok with exs but let u bring up an ex or them come around all hell will break loose. His ex should mind her business and he shouldnt tell u. Be discreet and learn to tell his ex hey mind ur business relationship should be private and no one should be saying anything to anyone or exs.

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Posted by aquarius09
They are weak for someone that's fire or air dominated.

It's that indecisiveness and intense need to be liked all the time that can make these particular men a pushover. All the libra men in my circle are pretty nice and tend to be pushed around. If I can find myself a libra with a backbone, I'm going after them.

and water. sheet i couldn't with this dude.

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You got fire in you, girl. My comment stands. I know a girl that's double cancer surviving a libra man and his selfishness.