Libra Women Have Loads Of Sex Appeal Until......

you get them into bed....

these are the absolute worst lovers i have ever been with, and it seems to be a recurring theme among them as to date, i have been with 3 of them...

libra women are very beautiful and very charming indeed, but very SELFISH...in bed and in life....

whoever coined the term "dead fish" was thinking of a woman with a lot of libra in her chart....

probably they all got turned off after seeing you naked.

Lol. My libra (not a woman of course) is rather fabulous and considerate in bed actually. Maybe it is just the women...

I always thought the Virgo girls were the real horrors in bed, though.
All the ones I knew were very promiscuous, and very sloppy. Like the thought of them in bed with anyone made me cringe and it totally didnt help that they liked to brag about their escapades too. Like it was really important to them that people know they are sexually active - who cares——? Wierd.

@ virgo-libra:


water sign guys are the best lovers out there..

i don't think any woman who has tried their share will deny this...


@ the libran:

funny you should day that, because it is ME who gets turned off by THEM after having sex with them!

you women just can't stand to be the loser, can you?

i have noticed that with libra women...


and don't even get me started on virgo women...

as far as sexual chemistry goes, they get the thumbs down...except there was this one vigro chick i dated for a while who had a scorpio moon and hooking up with her was HOTTT!

otherwise, i generally leave a virgo before i take her...

but libras, boy, i tell you...

they are just like that shiny car that you like to take out and show off because its pretty and costs a lot of money, but really, when you drive it, it performs in a really mediocre way that totally underwhelms expectations...

sorry, libras...i just like you women much better as friends...

thelibran's a guy I think...

water sign guys are the best lovers out there? have you been with them too stillwaters? o.o

haha Stillwaters...problems with libras and virgos in bed, huh? Did you ever wonder if maybe the problem lies in the constant (you) and not in these women's astrological signs?

ha my boy would tell you i'm far from a dead fish 🙂

"but libras, boy, i tell you...they are just like that shiny car that you like to take out and show off because its pretty and costs a lot of money, but really, when you drive it, it performs in a really mediocre way that totally underwhelms expectations...sorry, libras...i just like you women much better as friends..."

It has been my very recent experience that libra men are as well. uptight, lack creativity and most certainly cannot "go the distance." It is my hope that another libra will come along and change my opinion of the males. For now, I'm hunting virgo and cancers.

doubt they're looking to change your opinions, without the right chart placements, strong enough attraction, etc...there's always going to be something a little not quite right...

lol.. my reply was for the OP.

simple logic. you got many gals in bed who turned out to be cold fish. common factor in each case - YOU. Go take a good look at yourself in the mirror. or ask a libra friend if you have any.


Libra gets turned off by mannerisms, awkward gestures, your hidden intentions and subtle judgments which pop up inside your brain.

@ virgo-libra:

no jokes here...sorry...i am quite serious...

waters produce a reflection....this is a metaphor for water sign lovers both male and female...


water signs are so intuitive and understanding of their partners needs (especially pisces) that when making physical love to us or even sensual contact, it feels like you are making love to yourself....

in all honesty, the way that a water sign man touches a woman more often than not is the way a woman wants to be touched...

just my two cents, and i have a lot of experience with women of all signs...

sex is actually a water sign selling point...

oh, you didn't know?

and as far as water and air not being generally compatible, think about steam and you will see what i mean...


@ depressedangel:


libras are a go for me most of the time because the woman are always so pretty! and there is almost nothing i love more than a pretty face....

libras are like a beautiful piece of art...nice to look at and admire, but LOOK, don't touch...you will get disappointed with the texture once you handle it...

sorry about the metaphors and all, but i can't help it!

i keep hoping with each new libra i invite into my life that it will be different and maybe with THIS one i will find sexual chemistry...but i am always let down in the end..

the most horrible sex i have had has been with libras, and there are two in mind right now....

the other two libras in my past were actually ok sexually, but they don't enjoy enough variety and they just aren't kinky enough!!! too vanilla!

libra ladies, please learn to change it up once in a while...variety is the spice of life...

but i guess thats why libras love me so much, because i bring flavor and variety into their lives and they desperately need that...they do get easily bored...

@ zenalchemy:

hardy har har...


@lolibrave:

well actually even when the sex was bad with the libras, they would never admit it was bad, because one thing i know about women is, when they can't turn a man on it HURTS them and makes them feel inadequate, especially LIBRAS because they love to please so much...

so even if you are saying the sex was bad, they will never admit it, because they think its like saying they are bad, when that is not the case...

and i am far from the problem...

i can't keep libra women away from me and that is a fact...libra women have been a recurring theme in my love life...

i have dated 3 of them serio

now mind you, i likely have had more than 2 random, steamy hookups with libra chicks, its just that i never got around to finding out that they were libras...actually a third randon libra chick just came to mind, but that was only a one night stand, a boring one at that.....

i actually had a threesome with her aqua friend and i was sooooo much more into the aqua the whole time that the libra eventually gave up and left us alone!

hahaha...libras are funny like that...they can't stand rejection...

and even though a couple of those random libra encounters were steamy and definitely memorable, i didn't have sex with them, so i could have been disappointed in the end...

i am hoping one of you ladies will change my mind though! i still have time..



@ the libran:


thanks for the advice, but no thanks...

i don't need it...

and if you are wondering about any of my libra friends or lack thereof, refer to the above...

sex is actually a water sign selling point...

oh, you didn't know? no really? first I'm hearing of this...

and as far as water and air not being generally compatible, think about steam and you will see what i mean...
hmm, thought about this, and isn't steam a temporary/short term effect? not long term? so indicates short term compatibility for water and air, right?

water signs are so intuitive and understanding of their partners needs (especially pisces) that when making physical love to us or even sensual contact, it feels like you are making love to yourself.... who wants to make love to themselves? isn't the difference in another person's love idea what we seek to balance ours?

my 1 cent --- water thinks it knows people's intentions, needs, etc...due to their heightened intuition...

I don't think I've come across a water sign who doesn't think they can ACCURATELY sense what people are feeling...ok this may be on point with a fellow water sign, but with other signs, that don't have a deeper or lasted feeling or don't view the world from water perspective, while water's dwelling on the fact that they've figured out how someone feels like 2hrs ago, they don't realise that that feeling is not the same 1hr later...
I think the heightened intuition is great and protection against the outer world but thinking this gives you a view into another human's needs, intentions and wants, will be highly disappointing time and time again...I've seen this happen.

((it feels like you are making love to yourself))

so u mean having sex with pisces gives the feeling of masturbation—

BLUE EYED SCORP ;***It has been my very recent experience that libra men are as well. uptight, lack creativity and most certainly cannot "go the distance." It is my hope that another libra will come along and change my opinion of the males.***

I have to ditto that comment. It isn't that my ex-libra was bad sexually but he was too predictable and very "routine" when it came to sex for me. He, by far, was the most boring I've ever had.

He, on the other hand, craved to have sex with me I'd have to assume because of the endless depths of creativity and spontaneity that Pisces bring to anything they do. (sex is no different). My Libra just wasn't very aggressive in initiating anything new or taking the lead to do anything other then "the-same-old-thing" . When he initiated sex I'd wait to see where it would go and it was so agonizingly predictable. Blah, boring and we were "done" just when I was getting started. He admitted that sex with me, during and after we broke up, was the best for him he'd ever had.(duh) But you'd THINK he'd learn something new and try some of those new things he learned on his own with me. But no, he was mediocre to the core. Just wanted to be pleased and not so much the other way around.

Now scorpios and Sags.......have been the best for me consistently when it comes to sex and being exceptional.

It's doubtful that I'd let another Libra get the chance but.....never say never. I MUCH rather adore my libra as a friend. NOT as a BF or a lover.

But as others have stated before. One man's garbage may be another man's treasure. When it comes to sex...It isn't always chart compatibility that makes a couple click. Sometimes....good sex is great sex and their sun sign as NOTHING to do with it. 😉

what it comes down to is not EVERYTHING is determined by astrological sign. everyone is different. and by the way stillwaters my worst sex (and only bad sex i EVER had) was with a picses by the way 🙂.

This guy is something else.


As for libra boys...im soooo gonna make on my sub 😉

@ virgolibra:

you make no logical sense right now...i find that virgos have a lot of difficulty with logical exercises...

they are more of a manual type that you command...they are good at taking orders, basically, but not critical thinking, even though they ALWAYS over-analyze everything to the point of becoming an anxious neurotic who is prone to radical weight fluctuations...

but let me stop getting ahead of myself..

as long as she is looking into water (me) and is seeing her reflection (herself) that means she doesn't like herself! SIMPLE....

so what you mean is that obviously, she was not feeling herself and i agree! libras usually have a low self-esteem...

and as far as your ill-advised, false analogy about steam, in spite of what you think about steam, it can power a locomotive that weighs thousands of tons for journeys that stretch thousands of miles...

and steam can do all of this CLEANLY without harming the environment!


@ zenalchemy:

you are entitled to your opinion...


@ thelibran:

although most everyone will agree that actual sex is better than masturbation, water signs have a way of making you feel like they know your deepest sexual desires...and they they go about fulfilling them!

so, its like if you had a choice of how you could have sex (like you choose how you masturbate) a water sign makes you feel like how you would feel when you are masturbating, EXCEPT imagine that the dildo or whatever being used is another person...

THAT is how you feel with a water sign...


@ templeofjag & blueeyedscorp:


i knew i wasn't delusional...


@ evan:

why are you so interested in the size of my "wiener?"

oh, its because you are a virgo and inherently have issues with sexual inadequacy...

as good as lovers as pisces men are, virgos are the EXACT OPPOSITE...

after all, virgo and pisces ARE polar opposites and virgo IS in its detriment in pisces...

go figure...

and evan, i don't refer to my thing as a "weiner"...it seems the only men who do that are male virgos who like to internet stalk other men on the net and attack project their virgoan sexual inadequacies upon other males by whom they feel threated...

starting to make sense?

i will break you down, evan...keep it up...i am soooo game...


@ lolibrave:

how convenient?

and libras usually never have bad sex...its not about the sex to them...


as long as they have a warm body next to them who they can cling onto, that

is all that matters to them...

"I guess you wanted to say "gonna make one my sub"?

That's cool Have fun!"


I shall 🙂

LMFAO @ Zena's 1st post

@ virgo-libra:

i know its confusing, but you continually fail to demonstrate the sufficient brain power to even carry on a simple discussion...you can't manage to even grasp your feeble mind around the concept of a refelction for god's sake!

and then you wanna catch a temper with me!

so typical...

be not so thin skinned....

and then you resort to childish name calling! how infantile!


grow up will you?


and i am sorry i haven't been hanging around dxp long enough to be cool enough to converse with you in your little "dxp slang", but thanks for the tree-trunking comment...

i have no clue what a "tree-trunking genius" is and i don't wanna know, but thanks for the stimulation!


@ ashley:

i agree with you....

and, some of the best sex i have ever had has been with a sag...these women give scorpios a run for their money in bed, and outside of the bed they are bearable to say the least...

i would put my money on a sag girl before i put in on a scorpio, i mean, after all, they are like the mistress on the side who will do everything your wife won't! (if you have a wife)...

i mean, "sexual inhibitions" doesn't really exist in the sag vocab from what i have experienced..

and i am sorry you have had bad experiences with pisces, but they have a way of giving you the full spectrum, from goood to bad...

they only do that when they feel comfortable with you, though...it must have been special..

and virgo-libra, if your b'day is september 20, that would be really, REALLY scary...

what would be even scarier is if....i will stop now..it can't be you...

you just seem so familiar to me and bring back so many bad memories!

I haven't finished reading this whole post and I have lots to say.

Steam analogy is more fire and water not air.

Air water would be more wind on the ocean, or some rain analogy. Both are actually quite cool not hot.

But shhhh you! I am trying to craft a reply. lol!

I think this thread is actually enlightening. For one, StillWaters, I don't find your observation insulting or see it as a display of your sexual inadequacies. Though you do have a way of saying things that I can see how it pisses people off...

However, I have definitely felt this way with some men before. Sag men especially. I didn't know how to intuit what he wanted, he didn't know how to turn me on. There was 0 chemistry. I felt that way about a Scorp man as well. I felt that way about a Picses as well. And when I feel that way, you're right, I do not become the agressor and think of things on my own.

Lady M: you've got it. At least for me Libras are subs. We like to follow the lead and please please.

My best lover was an Aqua...we were totally freaky kinky crazy. To this day I've never experienced anything like it. I lost every inhibition I have and we had wild awesome sex. He was dominant over me and ordered me around. He and broke things off but kept coming back for the sex...it was mutual that it was the best ever for us both.

Now that I know what it's like to experience that complete loss of inhibition, I know that I have them...if that makes any sense. I haven't been with a man since who can get me away from them.

I have had good sex with Taurus and Gemini, too.

StillWaters, it is likely that you don't know how to take control of your libra ladies in the bedroom. No, we're not the most imaginitive lovers, but we do follow a lead enthusiatically.

For the record, my roomie, thank GOD she will never see this, has been referred to as a dead fish. She is Libra sun with 5 planets in Virgo and I know for a fact, she has never really ?enjoyed? sex. The Virgo keeps her from fully surrendering control which, I believe, is essential to a woman's pleasure.

I contrast that with some other friends, myself included, that tend to be objects of sexual fixation and obsession especially after sex.

I am not saying every connection is a great one. I am not the best sex every person I have been with, nor are any of those people the best sex I have ever had.

Admittedly, I have never told a man he is bad in bed. I would rather try to praise what I like in hopes they do more of that and build up their confidence.

I think one of the major problems that men have with Libra women is exactly what stillwaters has hinted at through out his postings. Men tend to get weird with Libras and that they treat us like pieces of art not to be touched. They will be too timid and afraid of hurting us. Well ? umm ? that doesn't work.

Having several Libra women in my very close confidence, and being a 5 planet libra myself, I can tell you not one of them, including my roomie, likes a timid lover. It is a huge turn off. ALL of us like an aggressive, sometimes rough, sometimes in public sex, especially if it is unexpected, spontaneous, and comes as a surprise.

The thing is not every lover gets this because not every lover knows how to get inside our heads and turn us on.

We generally don't lead our lovers but follow them. We need partners that intuitively know our limits and bring us to them.

In my experience, the only men who got me sexually were Leos and Aquas.

The problem with water signs is they assume they get us. They don't. And relying on my Libra sisters, each one of us has reported that exact problem with Scorps and Pisces. They generally think they are being clever and telling us what we want but we are sitting there completely baffled because they are so dead wrong. I have actually had this happen with very close Scorp female friends as well and it is a terribly lonely feeling because in those moments you realize they don't understand you at all.

I have never been with a Pisces so I can't really comment personally.

? so, its like if you had a choice of how you could have sex (like you choose how you masturbate) a water sign makes you feel like how you would feel when you are masturbating, EXCEPT imagine that the dildo or whatever being used is another person...

Perhaps this is the problem. I am not into masturbation.

"Having several Libra women in my very close confidence, and being a 5 planet libra myself, I can tell you not one of them, including my roomie, likes a timid lover. It is a huge turn off. ALL of us like an aggressive, sometimes rough, sometimes in public sex, especially if it is unexpected, spontaneous, and comes as a surprise."

Yes yes yes.

I am five planets too!

"The only legitimate stereotype is that the two best lay of all the signs are Scorps"

lol...nope. not always 😉

* i don't think any woman who has tried their share will deny this...

Raises her hand and steps forward. I haven't been with all the water signs only Scorp, several of them, and they WORST lovers I have ever had. By a long, long, long shot. One even, did his business on my coat. Nothing says sexy like a dry-cleaning bill. LOL!

Another became sexually fixated on me for years because of the experience he had with me. At one point, a few years ago, he started telling me all his sexual fantasies. I was pretty bored because, although I think he meant to arouse me ... they really did nothing for me. He is a mid-career artist and much of his art for seven-eight years revolved around his fantasies about me. It was very odd as I got nothing out of the experience. I was trying to get him off quick once so he would last longer and well .... he got off and that was the end of that.

? in all honesty, the way that a water sign man touches a woman more often than not is the way a woman wants to be touched...

This is untrue. Seriously. I am not lying.

I have a large number of Libra girlfriends. We have discussed this. All of us agree Scorp was the number 1 worst lover, followed by Pisces. Even a week ago, another libra and I were discussing how timid Scorps were and how it was the worst sex ever on one of these threads.
(I have, however, heard good things regarding Cancer but that was only tried by one of us and now that she is has actually been with a fire sign she is recanting and has put Aries as number one. He is the only fire sign she has been with. Libra is now her number 2, followed by cancer at 3.)

? water signs have a way of making you feel like they know your deepest sexual desires...and they they go about fulfilling them!

Again this is untrue.

I believe this is what water signs want to believe but in my case, and in the case of my close libra friends, this is simply not true.

In general, water signs miss the mark with us. They don't get us and don't know how to turn the dial to on. I sincerely wish this wasn't true as there have been a number of Scorp men I have been attracted to but I never get anything out of it ... except a dirty coat and a lot of hassel.

* Yes yes yes.

* I am five planets too!

.... hee!

I will concede that one of the Scorps, the Scorp who spunked on my coat, was actually a really good kisser. Because of that, I gave him a couple more tries.

He always thought he was such a bad boy meanwhile I was thinking ? ?Honey, I did crazier stuff on a bus in highschool.? He was such a boring, boring, boring lover. I eventually gave up.

ew...my scorp lover had the softest kissing...I was literally cringing under the touches. I like to be man-handled...I'm the one who's supposed to be soft! I've been with 2 scorps and neither were any good, one was downright terrible.

Aqualeo, I'm not sure how to answer your question about them, I've never been with a Libra man myself. But, libras don't show their leadership, they just LEAD. You wouldn't notice you were being led by Libra. We are very subtle, which is what makes us good leaders.

Think of it though: a lot of CEO and other men of power like to be submissive in the bedroom, to be dominated. People with power like to lose control somewhere.

* I like to be man-handled

Agreed! Nothing like someone who has to have you NOW. mmmmmm ... happy thoughts!

AquaLeo

Lacking a penis and never really being with a Libraman myself ... I am not sure. (I also don't really know that many Libra guys and none of them well enough to ask.)

I agree with Muse. I tend to lead through guiding not really overt shows of power or anything like that. Well ... guiding and stubbourness. If I don't want to, I won't.

My roomie was telling me about her session with her personal trainer. She was explaining some exercise to me and then started to laugh. She said, "You would just look at them like they were crazy and say I'm not doing that ... then you wouldn't." Which is true. lol! I can lead by absolute stout refusal.

Back to your problem ...

I can be dominating in bed. It doesn't happen very often and isn't my preference. Usually, it is when I am drunk and/or REALLY need to get off and I don't know the other person incredibly well.

I can take the lead but I prefer to offer suggestions for which to be surprised with later. I don't like doing that in the moment. I also have to have enormous sexual respect and trust with the other party.

There is an exception.

I can be "animalistic" in bed but usually that only comes out with partners who have pleased me and aroused me to that point. I allow myself to go there for them but only because they have gone there for me first. Does that make sense? I will go as far as my partner has gone but no further. This is what I mean by allowing my partner to lead.

I initiate sex all the time. But to me, that is different than leading.

I think I am incapable of pushing someone else to their boundaries unless they have sexually proved that they get me and can go there with me by taking me their first.

I also can be incredibly sensous in bed but again that is only if my partner has went there first.

shrug.

Hahaha....im a libra/scorpio I got the best of both worlds I got scorpio charecteristics in bed...lady in the streets freak in the sheets lol. But libra women are great in bed...libra women are just hard to please...maybe is just you. Idk just a thought.

calthorpe ! you're rare 😛

About this whole Libra/Pisces thing, I've noticed that sometimes Pisces can be quite envious of Libras of their own sex, and quite competitive, more than with other signs. And yet they make really good friends? Strange.

yea the attraction's heavy like the Cancer/Aqua or scorpio/gemini --- I think it's the quincunx aspect --- like two signs having little or nothing in common about their life outlook that they attract each other but this is the exact reason they're better off friends because too many differences to work on for a relationship to last but friendship has no demands...

* You're giving away free advise you do realise!

Absolutely! Isn't that the point? lol!

I think every woman at hearts wants to be seduced. Most men don't get the how of it especially water signs and that is a true tragedy of our times.

I doubt he will ever really get, really get, a libra girl. She might love him but I doubt he will ever get one the way that he wants to.

* I've noticed that sometimes Pisces can be quite envious of Libras of their own sex, and quite competitive, more than with other signs.

OMG! I have had this in most of my friendships with Pisces. Pisces women are crazy compeitive with me and I have no idea why especially as I don't compete for men.

I remember this crazy Pisces girl who I use to hang out with until she proved just how shallow and devoid of compassion she truly was. I never got it because we were foils in every way possible. She was tall, blonde, athletic beach volley ball player. I am petite, dark brown hair, and artsy. I have ZERO interest in athletics. Obviously, the men who are truly attracted to her won't be truly attracted to me because we aren't a type. Yet she would compete and compete and compete.

DA, is that the same as the Zodiac movie made 2007?

Ash, no I would never step in your territory !



Calthorpe...tsk tsk tsk --- how dare you use work as an excuse? you think you have a right to a life? Ash, did you give her permission for that?

hmm, thanx DA... been meaning to pick up the book - saw the movie but there was something off with some scenes - I think the nuances...books paint better pics for me.


Lol - ash, yea love can't be caged but it can babysit eh 😉

@ virgo-libra:

i think you are missing one important thing in your argument (well, a lot more than one, but there is only so much time in a day!)

but, the most important thing that you fail to acknowledge is that while i MAY have known this thread would "get to someone" you took the bait in the end and here we are!

i started this thread, remember? you got offended in the end and "thin skinned" is not a word i would use to describe myself...

but like always, virgos do get an A for effort and i won't take that away from you!

you do try even though you are misguided and completely illogical and irrational most of the time!

i ain't mad at ya, though!

@ littlesparrow:

as a student of logical reasoning, i would dare say that you analogies as far as water/air are concerned are totally false...

first of all, steam BY DEFINITION is

"WATER IN THE FORM OF AN INVISIBLE GAS OR VAPOR"...

vapors are by definition,


"A VISIBILE EXHALATION"


what does a thing "exhale" if not air or gas?

humans breathe air and when we breathe we inhale and after we inhale we....get the drift?


quite simple really....


so air and water together make steam....and the "rain analogy" you suppose is also FALSE...


a better analogy other than steam for water and air together is FOG or a MIST....



and quite wise of you to say you won't comment further on pisces since you havent tried any yet...

in my experiences, libras usually get hooked when they do...they cant help it, though...


but you libras do like your hedonistic addictions so a pisces addiction is good for you!

pisces brings out the best in you all and you will get all the love you want and more!



and masturbation is a good thing...even when you are getting sex regularly...

i jerk off MORE when i am sexually active...



@ virgo-libra:

let it go already!


don't you have anything better to do than take offense to what i write and react so

poorly as you do?

you are personification of a knee-jerk reaction!


learn to get a better grip on your emotions, hun....



@ amusealibra:

thank you for not taking any of this personally, darling!


and as far as me "not taking control of my libra ladies in the bedroom" i have had at least 3 instances where the girls were TOTALLY HOT but when it came time to do the act, i couldn't get it up for them....not once, not twice, but eventually, i just gave up!

just something about them was just sooooo not sexual....its like they were just laying there and i don't like to be the one doing all the work...

i know how lazy you libras are! you always want people to do everything for you, and they usually do just because you all are almost always so pretty and charming!


but like i said before, there are a couple of libras who i have had some memorable sex with and they have the rug burns to prove it...they won't be forgetting me either anytime soon...




@ ardentaries:

pisces are the best, thank you...


i have had good sex with scorpios, but they have always told me how good I was!


we won't choke you or beat you...unless you want it of

course!


that's gotta count for something!:-)

@ calthorpe:


now i REALLY know i am not delusional...

far too many people have come forward and corroborated the fact that libras are mostly all shine and no substance (in the bedroom at least)...

sickwater, time to bailout and get out of libra board.

fog and mist reduces visibility and ofter brings a lot of accidents. tats wat happens when air sign mates a water sign. If u hv a small weeny and few libra gals laughed abt it, go project ur insecurity elsewhere. your attitude in this board itself is a turnoff and that explains why u found cold fishes in ur bed. So stop wasting everyone's time.