So, this may be a long one.. I hope I can get the honest advice after you finish reading this. WHAT do you feel when you read this and if you were in her shoes, what runs through your mind? Anyways, I've known this Libra Woman for about three years, I thought nothing of her but just a classmate when we first met. We saw each other everyday and thought nothing of each other and I found out she had a "lover" in another state. So I started to dig and see what this woman's plans were and as she described her plans I realized what she actually wanted to do. She was trying to "have an education" at where her lover was at, now don't get me wrong I supported the idea but I also warned her to do this because she wants to get an education and not because of someone else because sometimes, people only take 3 steps for you and you walk a mile. Not everyone is willing to give the same effort you give them. I gave her that advice and she did not heed it, but who would right? I was just a simple classmate trying to pass the class, she was too pretty and kinda naïve to what she was getting herself into. So in the end, she gave me her number and we kept in touch, but not immediately after the class.. A year later we reconnect and she tells me how her first year went and it sounds both good and bad, not going much into details here but the main points were is that the other guy she wanted to be with started to only use her. it took her a while to snap out of it and she became really upset, this happened on and off for some time and I tried to make her realize that she is not worthy of someone like that.. More time passed and my last relationship with a Pisces (I thought I should mention I am a Gemini) ended because her family did not like me despite being supportive to her, but that's another story.. anyways, I was really upset over the loss of my woman at the time and she was going through the same grief and pain at the same time as me. She was miles away from home and alone, while going to school, and I always think that she is a strong woman for enduring all that and I admit I would have bailed a long time ago if I were in her shoes. With this happening to us, we bonded and started sharing our thoughts, feelings and anything else we wanted to talk about. We supported each other to make ourselves feel better, I did ask her to return back to our home state so she can have the support of her family and friends, of course I want to be included in her batch of friends when she wants support. She firmly said she wanted to finish her schooling and I decided to support her with anything she needed help with. a few months passed without us connecting, I let her do her own thing and she surprisingly messaged me asking if we could talk on the phone and of course I agreed.. She called me and asked me how I was doing, the usual greeting and I asked her if something was wrong and she told me she realized where her real home is at, and that was her home state where she left before she went on this long journey. I told her I would help her any way possible and every time I offered my help she would be grateful I gave her my support. We do talk on the phone for long periods of time, sometimes all day and she says she likes it when I am on the line with her, even if we are doing nothing, no talking or anything. Now I don't mind if she doesn't talk to me for a day or two but deep down I want her to message me but it wont bother me if she doesn't. I did offer to go see her for a week and she was on the edge between yes and no. She mentioned she didn't want to add a cost to my spending because of her. She didn't want a reason to spend money only because of her (I don't mind if I do) but I don't wanna force anything on her. While I was mentioning my visit to her, she did say things like "we can watch movies, go out to eat together and go to church, etc" and it felt nice for her to have me included in her plans, I never felt more involved with someone. But at the same time I was receiving a promotion at my job and she wanted me to focus on that, even though I would definitely go see her... she did mention that we could hang out when she came back to her home state, where I live of course. now I am confused, I am aware that she values friendships and is a kind person. I do feel like she has some sort of attraction towards me but I am not sure if I am being too hopeful... My questions are over time, she will see me as her best friend and I don't mind that, we've shared our emotions and have bonded over time but will she ever like me more? Perhaps to do everything with, I am upset that I went through sadness and thought my last woman was serious with me.. I fear that she wont really like me as much or something. Does she care for me? Does she want me around her? I was surprised she did consider me going to her apartment in a different state to spend time together and show support to each other. We support each other over the phone and I am not pressuring her with any of her choices, I do give advice and give an opinion when she asks.. If a libra woman can share her heart with me, id greatly appreciate it! ❤️
