omg is this a joke wtf

yoooooooooooooooooo what is really good with these libras being so damn persistent like never in my life have I encountered two human beings who will not take NO for an answer.
one libra i used to hook up with like fucking 5 years ago man and i deaded him cause hes a loser and his life is not together lmaoo and he still hits me up to this day to chill and talk like its been 4 YEARS wtf i dont get it ?? is this a joke, if i curved you the first 50 times what makes u think i will hang out with you the 51st? now let me tell you about my old libra coworker who was obsessed with me and asked me to hang out almost every single time after work and i kept denying him like dude no i wanna chill with my family and friends and i have things to do. i left that job 6 months ago and this just texted me asking to hang out.

why cant libras just leave things in the past and accept no for an answer? like seriously i can not get rid of these two dudes, i am in shock... first of all why are texting me on a friday night when i havent seen you in 6 months like im out..... is this real life someone tell me cmon bro get over it

Posted by libraqueen
Since he already had you he sees you as an easy hookup. You can't really go from being willing to do no strings attached to being not attainable. In a libras eyes once they got you they can always have you as long as they're persistent. Sorry! To get rid of them tell them this:

"I know we hooked up in the past but I was in a bad place and I don't want you anymore and I never will. I've found someone better and I can't downgrade"

It'll hurt their ego enough where they don't want you anymore. Lol girl, next time don't be so damn good in bed. Men will always come back if you're good. If you don't want stalkers for life don't be a goddess in bed haha

i never slept with him and never would hes grosss damn guess its my personality lmao, it was a meaningless hook up. he never had me, but i think he thinks that. HA boy bye

Because THEY didn't decide it was done.

So they won't take no for an answer if they still think that they have a chance.

...which is where YOU'RE at fault. Stop answering them or giving them any sort of response.

LOL..Now that's a rariety because all you ever hear on this site is the Libra man not being attainable and emotionally unattached, dead beats, azzholes and so on and so on and so on..lol, but again, it's something with Taurus and Libra that is magical. Can't put my finger on it, but there's something that keeps them intertwined. You also said you never gave them the good goods, so like "Libraqueen" said, you may need to bruise their ego's to make them leave you the hell alone!!

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because THEY didn't decide it was done.

So they won't take no for an answer if they still think that they have a chance.

...which is where YOU'RE at fault. Stop answering them or giving them any sort of response.

she's gonna tell us she tried this and it didn't work (she's just that addictive)

if she really wants to get rid of them, all she'd have to do is say this:

"you know, I've been wanting to tell you sthg .. your father/brother is kinda cute .. I wouldn't mind getting to know him better while you're in the same room with us .. if you see what I mean" *naughty face*

AIN'T NO MAN IN HIS RIGHT MIND GONNA CONTACT HER AFTER THIS !

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no im not gonna lie lol. i answer him 3 out of 10 times they both contact me and thats because i feel bad

i didnt even mention the 3rd libra man who i blocked last year from contacting me and after just one month of me blocking him he contacted my best friend asking about me and where i am andwhats wrong with my phone

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
yoooooooooooooooooo what is really good with these libras being so damn persistent like never in my life have I encountered two human beings who will not take NO for an answer.
one libra i used to hook up with like fucking 5 years ago man and i deaded him cause hes a loser and his life is not together lmaoo and he still hits me up to this day to chill and talk like its been 4 YEARS wtf i dont get it ?? is this a joke, if i curved you the first 50 times what makes u think i will hang out with you the 51st? now let me tell you about my old libra coworker who was obsessed with me and asked me to hang out almost every single time after work and i kept denying him like dude no i wanna chill with my family and friends and i have things to do. i left that job 6 months ago and this just texted me asking to hang out.

why cant libras just leave things in the past and accept no for an answer? like seriously i can not get rid of these two dudes, i am in shock... first of all why are texting me on a friday night when i havent seen you in 6 months like im out..... is this real life someone tell me cmon bro get over it

A Libra.. couldn't leave a Taurus alone? Wow, that is the first time I have ever heard of that. Usually Libra are not attracted to the signs represented by animals. Cow, or bull, goat.

interesting, do you not like tauruses also? i have three libra best friends. i wish i was making this up but im not. i always attract libras, friends and lovers. its really bizzare to be honest

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Because THEY didn't decide it was done.

So they won't take no for an answer if they still think that they have a chance.

...which is where YOU'RE at fault. Stop answering them or giving them any sort of response.

she's gonna tell us she tried this and it didn't work (she's just that addictive)

if she really wants to get rid of them, all she'd have to do is say this:

"you know, I've been wanting to tell you sthg .. your father/brother is kinda cute .. I wouldn't mind getting to know him better while you're in the same room with us .. if you see what I mean" *naughty face*

AIN'T NO MAN IN HIS RIGHT MIND GONNA CONTACT HER AFTER THIS !

no im not gonna lie lol. i answer him 3 out of 10 times they both contact me and thats because i feel bad

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Stop being a pussy and don't answer. It's that simple. I get that you might feel bad for having to be a hard ass, but if they keep doing it after you've turned them down, that "feeling bad" needs to be replaced with annoyance and not wanting to deal with that garbage anymore.

agree, i was just wondering if anyone else experienced this with libras before. i know leos can be very persistent but i never knew libras were like this

librans can be very stubborn.

^agreed.

People think Libras are passive and the like, which they can be, but they can totally be as stubborn as their opposing counterparts, as well as just as persistent.

Remember, of all the zillion (what went wrong/disappeared—) threads, they all start off the same- HE was going in hot and heavy. He was persistent and initiating contact. Why? Because that's what HE wants and he's going for it.

The reason they take off is because THEY have decided that they're done or the situation isn't suiting them somehow.

They're relentless.

and if they have a Scorp moon, you're pretty much fucked

Also, you like the attention

This is a huge shocker to me, and may only be a male libra thing because never have I ever had a problem accepting that someone does not want me. Their loss. It would shock me, and bruise my ego of course, but because I don’t like being told “no” you only have to say it once. In no way would I give them more times to shut me down. You shut me down once and I’m gone. Lol.

So I don’t know what’s up with these dudes. It’s not a Libra thing though. Sounds more like a water sign thing to do.

Honestly I won’t even narrow it down to just water signs. I can diss guys like you’re doing these two Libras and they do not care, they will still persist. I have guys on my Facebook in my inbox right now having complete conversations with themselves, hoping one day I’ll respond. It’s crazy. Men in general do this when they don’t want to accept the fact the a woman actually doesn’t want them. I have a Cancer that’s persistent like that and I blame his father for telling him the persistence always wins the girl, WRONG! What he should’ve told his son, is she has to first be physically attracted and that goes double if she’s a libra, so his pops screwed him in my case he comes off as a pest at times, especially when I’ve told him point blank that I don’t like him in that way. I barely even like for him to try and hold my hand yet he still tries to date me on some level, it’s like dude the answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Posted by Lyse
This is a huge shocker to me, and may only be a male libra thing because never have I ever had a problem accepting that someone does not want me. Their loss. It would shock me, and bruise my ego of course, but because I don’t like being told “no” you only have to say it once. In no way would I give them more times to shut me down. You shut me down once and I’m gone. Lol.

So I don’t know what’s up with these dudes. It’s not a Libra thing though. Sounds more like a water sign thing to do.

Honestly I won’t even narrow it down to just water signs. I can diss guys like you’re doing these two Libras and they do not care, they will still persist. I have guys on my Facebook in my inbox right now having complete conversations with themselves, hoping one day I’ll respond. It’s crazy. Men in general do this when they don’t want to accept the fact the a woman actually doesn’t want them. I have a Cancer that’s persistent like that and I blame his father for telling him the persistence always wins the girl, WRONG! What he should’ve told his son, is she has to first be physically attracted and that goes double if she’s a libra, so his pops screwed him in my case he comes off as a pest at times, especially when I’ve told him point blank that I don’t like him in that way. I barely even like for him to try and hold my hand yet he still tries to date me on some level, it’s like dude the answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Dear, you come off as a bit inexperienced when some of these topics arise.

Male ego is an entirely different thing and comparing it to a female response isn't going to make much sense. Just because YOU don't behave like this- like guys do, doesn't rule it out as not being a "Libra" thing to do.

Posted by brianafay
Also, you like the attention

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Posted by brianafay
Also, you like the attention

stop being a typical female and making random assumptions, i dont like the attention. the two libras annoy me, the third one is alright, because we are friends before anything. i mean if it were judge law i would admit to liking the attention. just because im a female doesn't automatically make me an attention whore. i am a secretive and closed off taurus. i admit i like being inaccessible but i do not enjoy being annoyed and bothered constantly.

Posted by Lyse
This is a huge shocker to me, and may only be a male libra thing because never have I ever had a problem accepting that someone does not want me. Their loss. It would shock me, and bruise my ego of course, but because I don’t like being told “no” you only have to say it once. In no way would I give them more times to shut me down. You shut me down once and I’m gone. Lol.

So I don’t know what’s up with these dudes. It’s not a Libra thing though. Sounds more like a water sign thing to do.

Honestly I won’t even narrow it down to just water signs. I can diss guys like you’re doing these two Libras and they do not care, they will still persist. I have guys on my Facebook in my inbox right now having complete conversations with themselves, hoping one day I’ll respond. It’s crazy. Men in general do this when they don’t want to accept the fact the a woman actually doesn’t want them. I have a Cancer that’s persistent like that and I blame his father for telling him the persistence always wins the girl, WRONG! What he should’ve told his son, is she has to first be physically attracted and that goes double if she’s a libra, so his pops screwed him in my case he comes off as a pest at times, especially when I’ve told him point blank that I don’t like him in that way. I barely even like for him to try and hold my hand yet he still tries to date me on some level, it’s like dude the answer is NOOOOOOOOOOOO!

i never said i told him to leave me alone once. it has been almost 5 years since i have seen libra one and i have answered him maybe like 5 times.. he messages me like every three months for 5 years now. libra 2 used to text me almost every weekend asking to hang out for like 9 months, i never once hung out with him. i have made it completely obvious that i am absolutely uninterested in both of these men.

i came here to ask if anyone else has been chased by a libra also, didnt know if this was a libra male thing or i just attract some crazies.

It's your Libra rising that's attracting them. And your Taurus sun too. Double venus. You must be gorgeous!

I find Libra-rising people attractive, very pleasing to my eyes.

OP, i'm not sure if this is a Libra male thing. I personally have seen men of all different signs act like this even when you give them nothing to work with. That was my whole point. Your original post came off like you were saying you think this is a Libra male trait, i dont think so. They may have other placements that cause them to act like this, and me personally i think alot of men act like this.

I've been chased by a Libra but it was because i gave him something to chase. I've never seen a libra male or female chase a person when the person is not giving them any bait or any hope or anything to look forward to when the race is over. Thats why i said your situation surprises me. Not saying it can never happen, just seems a little rare in my experiences with Libra men.

Posted by letterbox10
It's your Libra rising that's attracting them. And your Taurus sun too. Double venus. You must be gorgeous!

I find Libra-rising people attractive, very pleasing to my eyes.

i think you are right, it probably is my libra rising that is making me even more compatible with them, where they may want more.

Posted by Lyse
OP, i'm not sure if this is a Libra male thing. I personally have seen men of all different signs act like this even when you give them nothing to work with. That was my whole point. Your original post came off like you were saying you think this is a Libra male trait, i dont think so. They may have other placements that cause them to act like this, and me personally i think alot of men act like this.

I've been chased by a Libra but it was because i gave him something to chase. I've never seen a libra male or female chase a person when the person is not giving them any bait or any hope or anything to look forward to when the race is over. Thats why i said your situation surprises me. Not saying it can never happen, just seems a little rare in my experiences with Libra men.

gotcha. i just found it odd that the men that ever chased me were all libras. one leo and one taurus. but like 4 or more libras. the first two libras were a little obsessive, the 3rd is my friend who developed feelings for me. and the most recent one wasnt obsessive at all, he just went out of his way to get my number and hang outwith me.