Should I dump my libra boyfriend for good? (Page 2)

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My cat's name is Mittens.

He likes to eat cat food.

Make sure you feed him

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Listen i have cancer mars...i can get dramatic and say "you never call me anynore or text me" when i literally got a phone call the day before...

my bull has cancer mars too.

As does mine...double dose of cancer Mars...



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Eh this works too... 🙄

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Posted by Boots1313

Listen i have cancer mars...i can get dramatic and say "you never call me anynore or text me" when i literally got a phone call the day before...

my bull has cancer mars too.

As does mine...double dose of cancer Mars...



*How do u insert gifs?*...

Eh this works too... 🙄

find a gif you like, right click on it, select "copy image address" and then paste here

it becomes a little fiddly if they are on tenor or giphy but for most gifs that should work

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Thanks dude 👌🏼

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Boots1313

Listen i have cancer mars...i can get dramatic and say "you never call me anynore or text me" when i literally got a phone call the day before...

my bull has cancer mars too.

As does mine...double dose of cancer Mars...

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i think it's probably the least compatible part of our personalities. i don't know how he just can't bounce back from arguments or obstacles. it hits him so hard while i've already dealt with it, filed it away and now thinking about what i'd like to eat for dinner.

Girl, give it some time.

Don't jump into a conclusion just yet, see if his lying to you and whatnot

My last ex was a Libra.

Just wait and see if he will come around and tell you for himself.

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Either way. Something tells me she is right because to be honest the libra board is filled with girls being ghosted by a libra. 😛

When there is a change in someone's behavior usually something is up. If your significant other sends you a good morning text at least you can say good morning back or something. It's not that time consuming to send a good morning back lol. If you're interested in someone I bet you would. I'm not saying reply immediately but more than a day and no signs of life and its a libra. Yeh something is up lol.

You might be right.

But libras when unbalanced i know they can't focus on more than one task, so if work or family is out of balance they might be focusing on that over their relationship.

My ex has this issue and he didnt realize it until i mentioned it.

But i guess you would know better than i.

She could very much have been too clingy and made the balance tip over and now he is trying to restore the balance by ignoring her because it's too much for him when she's constantly messaging. When you have a lot to do and someone keeps messaging you and have too many expectations it can be annoying. But if I like someone at least I would let them know I don't have time to talk. If someone I like says good morning I would say good morning. Or later sorry didn't see your message. Didn't have time to talk or something.

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Yes, i believe that is just called being an adult and communicating.

But not everyone is like this sadly

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Either way. Something tells me she is right because to be honest the libra board is filled with girls being ghosted by a libra. 😛

When there is a change in someone's behavior usually something is up. If your significant other sends you a good morning text at least you can say good morning back or something. It's not that time consuming to send a good morning back lol. If you're interested in someone I bet you would. I'm not saying reply immediately but more than a day and no signs of life and its a libra. Yeh something is up lol.

You might be right.

But libras when unbalanced i know they can't focus on more than one task, so if work or family is out of balance they might be focusing on that over their relationship.

My ex has this issue and he didnt realize it until i mentioned it.

But i guess you would know better than i.

She could very much have been too clingy and made the balance tip over and now he is trying to restore the balance by ignoring her because it's too much for him when she's constantly messaging. When you have a lot to do and someone keeps messaging you and have too many expectations it can be annoying. But if I like someone at least I would let them know I don't have time to talk. If someone I like says good morning I would say good morning. Or later sorry didn't see your message. Didn't have time to talk or something.

Ues, i belive that is just called being an adult and communicating.

But not everyone is like this sadly

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i suspect we are only getting the edited highlights too. she probably had a bit of a whine to him "you should text me to tell me you are too busy to text me" "i would never do that to you" etc...

1) incompatible communication style s

2) This is okay behavior for someone you're dating but not relationship with. I don't think it's clingy to expect a text back even if that text says "Hey gm i'm busy, can i call you later tonight/tomorrow/whatever".

It's common courtesy. I even expect it from close friends. I mean that dude bought his gf 6 engagements rings to choose from and he cant' text back? Next.

If I text you good night and you don't text me the latest next morning, I'm calling your mom, siblings, neighbors, coworkers, your pets, 911 because clearly you're missing... or else you would've texted back.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Boots1313

Listen i have cancer mars...i can get dramatic and say "you never call me anynore or text me" when i literally got a phone call the day before...

my bull has cancer mars too.

As does mine...double dose of cancer Mars...

i think it's probably the least compatible part of our personalities. i don't know how he just can't bounce back from arguments or obstacles. it hits him so hard while i've already dealt with it, filed it away and now thinking about what i'd like to eat for dinner.

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My bull is much better at bouncing back than i. Must be his libra moon. I can stew for a little bit...but never for hours or days.

And if food is mentioned then all is well again lol.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Boots1313

Listen i have cancer mars...i can get dramatic and say "you never call me anynore or text me" when i literally got a phone call the day before...

my bull has cancer mars too.

As does mine...double dose of cancer Mars...

i think it's probably the least compatible part of our personalities. i don't know how he just can't bounce back from arguments or obstacles. it hits him so hard while i've already dealt with it, filed it away and now thinking about what i'd like to eat for dinner.

My bull is much better at bouncing back than i. Must be his libra moon. I can stew for a little bit...but never for hours or days.

And if food is mentioned then all is well again lol.

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not with me but he can stew for days when it comes to others. i just don't get it.

with me, when we used to argue a fair amount i remember saying to him "it's done ok? it's forgotten about. let's move on." then have to still dissect it further until he felt completely reassured.

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Posted by jeane

Posted by Boots1313

Listen i have cancer mars...i can get dramatic and say "you never call me anynore or text me" when i literally got a phone call the day before...

my bull has cancer mars too.

As does mine...double dose of cancer Mars...

i think it's probably the least compatible part of our personalities. i don't know how he just can't bounce back from arguments or obstacles. it hits him so hard while i've already dealt with it, filed it away and now thinking about what i'd like to eat for dinner.

My bull is much better at bouncing back than i. Must be his libra moon. I can stew for a little bit...but never for hours or days.

And if food is mentioned then all is well again lol.

not with me but he can stew for days when it comes to others. i just don't get it.

with me, when we used to argue a fair amount i remember saying to him "it's done ok? it's forgotten about. let's move on." then have to still dissect it further until he felt completely reassured.

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Ahh, yes this I have done and expierenced

Hi angie2080,

As a fellow Cancerian, I understand how hard it is. But don't let his actions toward you rule your future love decisions. Clearly, he is not the 'One'. Let him go and let him be who he wants to be.