They always come back... (Page 2)

That is a damaged libra, they all aren't that way.

excellent advice. I must say the exercise thing is an awesome idea...I got into exercise and not only have I lost a dress size and have bought some amazing outfits hehehe....I feel fantastic by getting out there and having fun and getting active. Still miss Libra but there are ever so many men out there...he's only one!!

If the guy can't see how wonderful you are?? his problem....let him find loser women to replace you...you deserve better 🙂

I think we're all pretty sure he'll be back at some stage but time has a strange way of working itself out 🙂

If all else fails, do what I did and find a hot younger guy and let him keep you occupied - trust me, he'll want to...Libra who??

LMAO@Chatz, younger— Ooooohhhh....

GO CHATZY.

Exercise good. I've gotten into cycling. A good way to see the pretty countryside, burn calories, and meet some hot guys. Of course, I'm dating and cycling with my boyfriend, but man oh man are there some hotties.

Got the point guys...He really does have some hold on me...But I know I am strong enough to cut him out of my life...He waits for awhile then contacts me again, only to ignore me again...Who needs it...

Thanks guys...

It would be interesting to see if he remains in agreement with the "not having casual sex" he will no doubt tempt you to see if he still can. However IMO I don't think being friends or professional acquaintances would be good for you because you are still very much emotionally attached. Is there anyone else in your company he can become a client of?

It will probably be healthiest to step away completely and move on. Or it can turn into a rollercoaster ride.

I don't "come back" per se. I am diplomatic, cordial, mature. If you want to talk i'll talk. But it will be cordial. And I wouldn't want exes to get in the way of current's.

Who the hell dug this up??

Posted by Chatz
Yes it could take quite some time, and sometimes not at all...but I have also been told that they can change their minds and from once upon a time being intimate, then being friends, to being "in love"....strange creatures...but good luck if you are waiting...it might be a very very very long wait.

You are right - I hadn't heard from my ex libra except for a few words like "Happy Holidays" for almost a year and he contacted me the other night - wtf - I sent him an email and told him that since he had told me he wanted to date other women that I left him alone and that I am in a relationship so it's best if he doesn't contact me ... thanks VR !

He was most likely just fishing / testing the waters but I am not biting. I would have had a hard time if I wasn't in a relationship because it was good between us but he is admittedly "broken" and I want someone who wants to be with me fully and now I have that so too bad ...

OMG

I just noticed that this thread is ancient ! WTF ? I'm trying to talk to people who are no longer here ?

Spooky!

Posted by youngali
all of my libra exes come back within 2-3 years. it's usually me that never feels the same, plus i don't go backwards. 😏

Really ? wow - I don't ever want to go backwards either but I can't say it isn't tempting for one reason - however, I have a more meaningful relationship with the present Libra and he is present and accounted and always responsive for me ... that disappearing and reappearing crap is for the birds ... I am a one man woman and that old Libra knows this so that is why I told him upfront so he leaves me alone.

He was like "I don't care if there is some guy, I'm coming and that's it" ... wtf - dude you haven't even spoken to me in like 6 months or more ... it was July 4th when we last were together and he told me he wanted to date other women - go on then ...

Posted by Noni05

Posted by tcta
OMG

I just noticed that this thread is ancient ! WTF ? I'm trying to talk to people who are no longer here ?

Spooky!

You did that earlier too in another thread lol but I replied to you ..

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I know I went back because it was picking up again lol did I answer you ?

This is bullshit we go back all of the time.

Posted by hurt-heart
I did offer just friendship after he told me he was not ready for a relationship...he told me to forget that we were ever intimate..so I maintained a friendship with him through texting and the phone..after three months he asked me to go shopping with me as friends...I agreed..

We spent the day together and even though I do have feelings, I understood he was only looking for friendship...half way through the day he hugged me from behind and told me how much he missed and how he likes me more every time we spend time together...I just said we both agreed your not ready...Of course the weakness overcame me and the above situation happened and he turned all cold and mean...

It would seem to me that it is him that cannot control his emotions or he is just using me...bottom line he started something he shouldn't have, because he is not ready and feels he should have an annulment before he has sex/relationship with anybody (been separated for 1o months, wife cheated for last two years)..

So why do I feel like the shit ?? Why is he ignoring me, it should have been the other way around...Why do I have to accept and understand his emotional rollercoaster but when I get emotional he shuts me out ?? Fair, this is not fair...

Silly girl he is just separate... from his cheating wife... is he your only source of information. Mmmm think about it... it is Mercury retro coming kinda timely...

Piscesmoon

Posted by sakesumo
From what I know about Libra men, when it's over, it's over. They don't look back, and most of the libra males I know never remain friends with exes. I am a libra, but personally, I think I may not be your typical libra girl...I remain close with all of my exes and keep them as friends...I do tend to stay in relationships longer than I should only to try and make it work...but in the end, when I make a decision to leave...I don't turn back. But I am good with staying friends. My recent ex of four years told me that I was cold to him...I think when it's emotionally over for us, we don't want to get drawn into the drama of it all...My ex wanted to talk everything out, I was done in my mind...so I was done talking...sounds a little mean...I'm sorry about your situation though. Your guy sounds like he has some issues with his own emotions though, most libras like to be in a relationship...maybe he had bad experiences with them in the past...

You sound exactly like my libra ex. So im not sure if she wants to get back together or shes just friendly. But we still treat each other sweetly when we are together..

Back? Haha no way! When I am done, I am done!

I still care about that person, but not in romantic way