Understanding the Libra Man (Page 3)

Posted by ALibra
If you get him to say he loves you and he's pulling all the stops and as a woman you know what I mean, thats when a men leaves no doubt in your brain that he's crazy in love and Tyra Banks could walk by and he'd only have eyes for you, then you can kick up your feet and watch the fireworks because a libra man in love is like watching a romance movie in 3D.

omg and QFT

Posted by ALibra
Okay, for starters I'll go at RedBerry

I'm glad to see your taking it so well, but try not to read too much into his flighty nature. Its just the air in his chart. He's most likely off to balance other area's in his life that have nothing to do with you. If you are gorgeous, fun, and funny (is a plus) and you smelled great, held good convo then he will be back I can assure you that. Just as hard as it maybe try to follow his lead and not pop off on him. Use his disappearing spells as time for yourself. Use them to your advantage.

Hey ALibra, thanks for responding. I still think you're one of the coolest users here cause you just give spot on advises.

Since I last posted, he had been 'distant' but kept contact via e-mails (light subjects - music/movies). I let him be and didn't really pursue him, kinda stayed still and let him initiate all the contact. Furthermore, I'm pretty good at giving people space cause I need space! My venus is in Aqua. So I can definitely do the whole friendship thing. So things were 'different' for about a week or more. Then suddenly, random phone calls from him and I just took it all in stride.

I can't remember the timeline cause with him, we always lose track of time. We can spend hours talking via phone or in person (hung out as friends). We're now talking on the phone nightly, he calls me several times a day. Sometimes I don't even get a chance to miss him cause he had called again. haha. But I do like it cause he's such a great conversationalist. Plus with him, we really have many things in common and weird coincidences that it always creeps him out. Well I act cool cause you know, everything is still in it's infancy stage and although it's fun to see him get so excited and claiming we have this mad chemistry going on, I rather keep my opinions in my head, for now.

Maybe cause he had said he's done with relationships. He just got out of a 2 year rels in January. And another, I'm not his type.

He hasn't made any forward gestures towards me. Even when we hang at his place, it's all very plutonic. No accidental brushing or things like that.

I swear, I don't even know how it happened but he managed to get me to cook for him and he loves my cooking. He's such a charmer he said 'I wouldn't mind marrying someone who can cook like this.' So besides liking my cooking, he also wants to take me to his fav haunts for

Posted by ALibra
Okay, for starters I'll go at RedBerry

I'm glad to see your taking it so well, but try not to read too much into his flighty nature. Its just the air in his chart. He's most likely off to balance other area's in his life that have nothing to do with you. If you are gorgeous, fun, and funny (is a plus) and you smelled great, held good convo then he will be back I can assure you that. Just as hard as it maybe try to follow his lead and not pop off on him. Use his disappearing spells as time for yourself. Use them to your advantage.

Hey ALibra, thanks for responding. I still think you're one of the coolest users here cause you just give spot on advises.

Since I last posted, he had been 'distant' but kept contact via e-mails (light subjects - music/movies). I let him be and didn't really pursue him, kinda stayed still and let him initiate all the contact. Furthermore, I'm pretty good at giving people space cause I need space! My venus is in Aqua. So I can definitely do the whole friendship thing. So things were 'different' for about a week or more. Then suddenly, random phone calls from him and I just took it all in stride.

I can't remember the timeline cause with him, we always lose track of time. We can spend hours talking via phone or in person (hung out as friends). We're now talking on the phone nightly, he calls me several times a day. Sometimes I don't even get a chance to miss him cause he had called again. haha. But I do like it cause he's such a great conversationalist. Plus with him, we really have many things in common and weird coincidences that it always creeps him out. Well I act cool cause you know, everything is still in it's infancy stage and although it's fun to see him get so excited and claiming we have this mad chemistry going on, I rather keep my opinions in my head, for now.

Maybe cause he had said he's done with relationships. He just got out of a 2 year rels in January. And another, I'm not his type.

He hasn't made any forward gestures towards me. Even when we hang at his place, it's all very plutonic. No accidental brushing or things like that.

I swear, I don't even know how it happened but he managed to get me to cook for him and he loves my cooking. He's such a charmer he said 'I wouldn't mind marrying someone who can cook like this.' So besides liking my cooking, he also wants to take me to his fav haunts for

Ooops didn't mean to double post. The site sent an error message and I had to reload.

Anyway found this link and thought it's a pretty cool read.

Male -http://xstrologyscopes.com/articles/libra/how-to-seduce-a-libra-man<BR>
Female-http://xstrologyscopes.com/articles/libra/how-to-seduce-a-libra-woman

Errr, where did the other half of my post go? hahaha

Anyway in continuation of my original post.

....So besides liking my cooking, he also wants to take me to his fav haunts for food cause we're both foodies.

I've never really had this mad, intense connection with another male before but whatever it is, I'm really having a good time and going with the flow.

Hats off to libra males. You guys are an amazing bunch, disappearing acts and all! xoxo

Errr, where did the other half of my post go? hahaha

Anyway in continuation of my original post.

....So besides liking my cooking, he also wants to take me to his fav haunts for food cause we're both foodies.

I've never really had this mad, intense connection with another male before but whatever it is, I'm really having a good time and going with the flow. I found out his venus is in libra and mine is aqua.

Hats off to libra males. You guys are an amazing bunch, disappearing acts and all! xoxo

ALibra,breaking all my safely guarded Libra codes. I have done a lot of disappearing acts in the past which i sometimes feel bad i did,but i had to. Reading you posts has even made me know more about myself. I am married to an Aries lady,she gives me all the room in the world to recharge my batteries.She dresses nice,never nags etc I did not hesitate to put a ring on it.

"Maybe cause he had said he's done with relationships. He just got out of a 2 year rels in January. And another, I'm not his type."
Thanks girl so much! I enjoy helping you ladies I may not have problems with Libra men because I understand them, but the other men of the zodiac sure do give me problems. Like the Fiery Aries that has won my heart.

Okay minus everything else you typed, this right here is a problem. I don't know what the rest of your post says, and frankly it doesn't matter until he changes mind sets about you, which will have to happen naturally. When I say naturally that means no fishing the net trying to change yourself to fit his needs and wants, it will only make things worse, and you will notice a change in his behavior the moment you go back to being yourself, which can mean a very unhappy and untruthful bond between you two in the end. Time will be wasted on both sides. I suggest you keep things the way they are. Continue to be yourself. For him to say you're not his type, flat out his mouth is a huge red flag that this Libra see's you as a home girl, a friend and nothing more.

However, time does change some people, and with a friendship first anything can happen, but trust me you want this man or any man for that matter to fall for the real you. I had to learn that the hard way. If you get on these zodiac sites and ask all the little tricks to get a man to fall especially judging by his sign, he may fall for tricks and but not you the real you, and it will show once things get serious. I'm in love with an Aries, and we couldn't be more different, but sort of the same. We are like night and day, but I love it! It keeps it interesting, I'm sure I drive him nuts with my hot and cold moments, but still he chases. Which brings me to @Iefness lol.

Awww you're in love with an aries male. Well my cousin is a hot, active aries male who treats his girl very right! I know from him, family and love are priorities. He's one of the most amazing guys I know and I can see why you're in love with him. He's one guy that's more action than verbal. But that could just be him. What I mean is I see him conveying his love in actions and not lengthy conversations. He's very affectionate. Also very positive!!! So much fun to be around.

Oh I need to clarify that he didn't say I was not his type but I observed from his dating past that he's into older women and we're the same age. He's never told me 'you're not my type'.

To be honest, I kinda am the 'real' me and I am going to assume he is 'real' to me as well. But I am taking your advice as a reminder to always keep it real.

Thank you so much for all your amazing insights and taking the time to respond. Your aries male is lucky to have someone like you!

@Redberry, Aww thanks. It's funny that people on this website can see what a treasure I must be just from my words alone, however my Aries unfortunately is 21yrs old technically and 18 yrs old brain wise if you know what I mean. So he doesn't appreciate me, I'm upset and sad most days for myself because I feel I shouldn't have let him in the first place. It took him yrs to get my attention now that he has it, he takes advantage I think. It hurts because I have to see him all the time, because our fams are connected the marriage, so to try to save face I smile anyway and still try to live life. He knows how I should be loved, but he's not ready and doesn't care enough to step up. So just last night, I cussed him out about being all talk and no action, and told him I know he doesn't hear me right now because I keep letting him in, but he can bet that will change sooner than he thinks.

To everyone else thanks for reading, and keep me posted ??_

Yes, you are amazing and it translates from cyber space into our hearts! hehe
Sorry it took a while for me to get back. Work, social life and this libra guy keeps me pretty busy!

Alright, you are right. He is young. When men are young, sometimes their hearts and mind are not in synchronicity which spells mixed emotions for us to deal with.

Be there for him if you still you have it in you but also be ready to let go off it all when you feel you've had enough. Every one has their own timeline. Sometimes it's harder to get a young man to "commit" cause there is so much to think about. Careers are very important to them and once they have stability there, it's easier to "commit".

He appreciates you, just probably not the way us, women need at times. Which is why we must own our lives and have our own independence. Able to live with them and without as well. Plus too much togetherness is smothering. We don't get a chance to miss someone and what's the fun in that?

And if you never let ppl in, ppl can't let you in. 😉

Anyway, how are things now?

Alibra, what a pleasure to have found you =)

Out of all the sites dedicated to Libras, I find this one so refreshing. I've read all pages and gained tons of enlightenment, as a result!

So I just wanted to drop a line a tell you how much I appreciate all of your efforts in shedding some light on all of the grey areas that are Libra man. Thank you for your time!

{Big hugs}

ps: I appreciate everyone else's contribution to this topic, as well =)

Much respect!

@Redberry Thanks so much for your last post, it really helped me out alot. Especially when everyone is so negative when it comes to my aries and me. I only talk to two people about him and they are both more fed up than i am. Problem is i love my aries. We've liked each other long before we even fully knew each other, and at one point we were just cool as hell with one another, so you are right it is hard to walk away. Plus like i said he and i have mutual cousin through marriage so he's always around. As a Libra i can dissapear and come back after months refreshed and able to diss someone i felt didn't care enough. But with this Aries, he's always around at family gatherings, my favorite aunts house, it like ugh! Its bitter sweet seeing him when i want more out of him and trying to let go of him. Crazy thing is he still accuses me of dissapearing. I want to shout, oh you haven't seen me truly dissapear! lol.

Anyway, he and i are okay. I still want to let go and get my emotions in check so i dont start to hate him. I want to continue to "have" alot of love for him, but i dont want to be "in" love with him anymore. Being in love by youself is no fun, and it causes you to dislike the other person for not seeing your worth. I dont want that for us. I genuinely have a soft spot in the pits of my heart for this dude, and if nothing else i want to be his friend. Thats how much i love him.

@shestarrAries You are very welcome! lol. And I'm glad i could shed some light for you. I know my libra fellas can be a handful on you gals, i see the threads come in like hott cakes, everyone wants to know what makes them tick. The only thing i suggest to my readers is that you remember every man is different and studying his sign down to the last sentence in every zodiac book you can find wont get you into his heart. Its a sheer guide, a very sheer guide. You still have to be yourself to make sure he like you for YOU, not the person all of us on this thread told you to act like. My post are to help you understand why he mostly likely said something, did something confusing, and most of all that darn dissapearing that ALL libra's simply cant seem to help doing.

Anyway, i know i'm babbling, and you probably already know all of what i said. So thanks again, and if you need somewhere to post about your crazy leeb, here's the place. lol.

@RELAXCANCER I SENT YOU A REPLY. HOPE IT HELPS ^_^

Hi am a leo woman who jus know a libra man for less den a mth and we r on the verge of breakin up I need help.

He and I we r on a long distance relationship and he is in perth doin his training and he be back on 7th dec 2012.

He say he dun think the long distance relationship will work n so he wans to let go but in the first place he was the one tat convince me that mi by being three years older den him is not a problem n tat this long distance relationship can work out.

and in Jan 2013 he will be moving to canada for trainin and he dun wan to waste my time... We haven been talkin for 3 days already.

I dun noe wat should I do...

PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME GUIDANCE I NEED HELP...!!

@ALibra


I have a question though,

If a libra guy turns cold or ask for some space does mean that he's flirting around? Coz I'm in a relationship with this libra guy, for more than a year now, I'm having some issues at work right now and he's having his own issues too??_ Now he's confussing me there is a sudden change with his attitude we often end up arguing this past few weeks so I decided not to talk about our issues at work cause I thought maybe he thats the reason why he's acting like that (due to too much stress) but it didnt worked.

It started only last month usually he answers my question, telling me if he has a problem then all of a sudden there is a sudden changes he gets easily irritated, he turns cold and lessen the time for each other.

Then he ask for some space cause he feels like he cant do anything for himself, but i didnt do anything, if he wants to do something like going out with his friends or doing his thing i just let him do what he needs to do. before he usually ask me out or visit me more often but now he ask or visit me only once or twice a week but i didnt questioned him about that cause he was able to explain to me that his schedule was changed.

I've read a lot about libra man from the time that he acts differently but I need to know if my libra that suddenly turns cold is cheating on me or he just need to fix something? i need some advise please..

Freiz,

I'm no expert on Libra men. The Libra guy I have been dating for a couple months just told me this recently. He retreats when he is trying to figure out things or something is upsetting him. I was having some issues with him ignoring me for over a week...found out he was having some real personal issues and just didn't want to talk to anyone. It hurt my feelings then, but now I understand better. Things are better! I thought he was messing with me and was moving on, now I see that he really likes me and wants to make it work. Just letting me know how he operates.

I would say just be patient with him. Let him know you are there for him if he needs someone to talk to or someone to just listen. He will know you are still interested but also giving him his space.

@Aramei


thanks for sharing that to me.. I really appreciate it.. we havent talk for a week now I can sense that he's busy with someone he just met or maybe he gets back with the girl that flirts him when we had an arguement on september of this year.. thats reason why i got worried about the sudden changes of his attitude.. guess I'll have to wait then if he comes back or not...

@alibra ive sent you a private mgs hopefully you can help me out with this one

@ Aramei i appreciate what your saying and how you felt is how im feeling now. His phones been off for two days now so i don't know if i've done something to piss him off or what or maybe his just not interested which i really do find very hard to believe considering how he is when his around me. Last week i saw him everything was good as far as i know but since i met him in august up until now his never once had his phone off for two days straight ! I really do hope that this guy is genuine. all im getting from him is mixed signals. And its so funny because in the beginning when we first met he was the one pursuing me he done the calling not that i didn't call but we took it in turns then he said i was his after a week of seeing him non stop. Then i felt like things where moving way to fast and one day when he came round he picked up on it shit shit shit why oh why did i get so scared of him getting close to me so now ever since that time there's definitely been a shift in him. But don't get me wrong whenever i see him we still connect on all levels its just when we go our ways and do our own thing i don't hear not one thing from him and he never sticks to plans he says his gonna call but never does says his gonna meet me but that doesn't end up being the case urghhhhhhhh its almost like i have to do everything i have to call i need to arrange for us to meet which is what i did last week end i booked us a hotel and he showed up but haven't heard anything since then. so i decided not to call left it a week then called Wednesday phone off and again yesterday and today and still his phones off. What the hell is really going on. I need some serious advice from a Libra male or female please. im a leo and leos like to know where they stand

Good lord, start your own thread or a PM if you have a question about your situation. :/ Piggybacking is rude.

SORRY EVERYONE!! I seriously cannot remember my password to my ALIBRA account. Its me though i promise. lol. Hit me up on PinkLibra if these Leeb males get out of hand on you or start to confuse ya! You know i got ya back 😉

Is that a Libra trait..forgetting passwords...LOL

LOL LEAVE ME ALONE ARAMEI!! LOL

I need your help ASAP! Im a Gemini girl, I dated a Libra guy two years ago for about a year and after the break up, we both havent been with anyone else since. He always tried to get back with and would text me asking to hang, and I was trying to get over him so I would say I wasn't home when I really was. But he kept on texting me. Finally I decided to give him a chance. So I was in agoura and he was at his house and I told him to drive to where I was, which was about 30 minutes away, he was with his friends but yet he did so anyways. We talked for a while and then he let me drive his car. The next time I saw him was the very next weekend at a party which he invited me to (he is really popular its insane) I said I had another party to go to, not knowing that we were both talking about the same party. It got shut down and all of these slutty girls were all over him asking for a ride home, but he turned them down and only took me home. We started hanging out for about three months then he somehow persuaded me to do it with him. So I did. About two more months past and we've done it about 4 times now. Once the condom broke and his mom had to get plan b, but that was the third time we've ever done it. Then one night I was out with some of his friends and one of them wanted to get with him, I told them I was with him so they decided to call him. When they asked him if we were together he said no and that I could get with anyone I wanted to. I didn't kiss the boy so I went home and texted him saying sorry. He called me about thirty minutes later and asked if he could pick me up, so he did. We hung out all night until morning and I would of never guessed that that would be the last time I would ever kiss him. He became really distant and if he hadn't chatted me a couple days ago, it would of been two weeks since we've last talked. One night I called him and he rejected my call, but yet when I had my other friend call him (he didnt have her number) he answered it. I didn't talk to him that week until the next friday where I called him, he answered almost immediately, we planned to hang but then he bailed bc he was sick. (a month later) I saw him at a basketball game the other night and when he saw me he was all shocked and said "oh wow, hey!" and we hugged. Without even thinking I walked away and didn't say another word. It's literally been over a month since we've last hung out just us and I don't know what I'm doing wrong! I never chat him first. What do I do?!

I'm about to inbox you.

So I'm a saggitarius and I have a Libra boyfriend and he says he's gonna propose to me. He's one of the most amazing men I've ever met but I wonder if we are actually any good together. Would a Libra man even say he's gonna propose if he didn't mean it?

Posted by saggitarius4realz
So I'm a saggitarius and I have a Libra boyfriend and he says he's gonna propose to me. He's one of the most amazing men I've ever met but I wonder if we are actually any good together. Would a Libra man even say he's gonna propose if he didn't mean it?

Why are you so insecure?

I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a Libra man for a little over 7 months now, btw I'm a Leo, we met on a dating site and got involved with each other it's been somewhat slow, but he was recently divorced and said that he was gun shy (I understood). After a month of dating I suggested taking our profiles down and he agreed and we did still taking thinks slow but having a great time when together we are extremely compatible in life and in bed and even he says this. He broke up with me for a month because he said the stress of his wife was too much to burden on me, but he kept in touch the whole month we were apart via emails telling me he missed me, so we got back together as I had missed him too. Forward to present day in the past month he has been extra affectionate with me wanting to spend more time together, rubbing my ears when seated next to me, kissing me through the night when sleeping together and always bringing over a sweet treat when coming over. However when I have asked (usually during a disagreement) how he feels about me he never ever says anything but I feel like he has gotten closer to me. So here's the problem after having a wonder past month with him I recently discovered that he had changed his photo on his profile on the dating site. Yes I know that I said that we had taken them down, but when we broke up for that month he put it back up. Over the past 2 and half months I stated to him you know your profile is still up and he replied "I know it really doesn't matter to me whether it's up or not as I said before when we had taken them down before." I didn't want to say baby can you take your profile down again I figured my asking him twice in two months he would get the hint we were back together right? Back to the present I confronted him about the site and he claimed that he had changed the picture when we weren't together I told him he was lying because I had stated to him twice after we had gotten back together that his profile was up so I saw the old picture up in til a week ago. He stated he didn't want to talk about it now and I said when can we talk about it and he replied later, we both then got off the phone. It's 3 days later and I have not heard from him. We had other disagreements and when he has said later it meant later I just don't know what this three day passing without communication means to this Libra man, can you help?

Dlady

Alibra, I found this website and have been reading your comments and quotes for about a week or so now. You have really strong insight and from what I've read you have been dead on. I'd like to pick your brain a bit. I joined this website so that I could email you for quick advice. Not sure if you are still on this sight or not. I'll try and send an email. Thanks for your insight.

@tatbubba

I feel how u feel I am a Gem to and I im in love with my Libra man to.

The most difficult man to undeerstand, is a Libra.... I hate disappearing acts and imature thinking always on them..

Need Help in understanding Libra Man!

Hey guys i too join the gang and need help in understanding this libra male. Lol. He is 5 yrs elder to me. Born on sept 30,1985 at 11:48pm. I am sharing the details just in case someone into astrology and can help me out in understanding his birth chart.How we net?1-2 months I was looking for job change. I told this libra male to fwd my resume in his company. I randomly found him on linkedin. Later when I got a call for interview, I messaged on him on gmail that I need his guidance related to interview. He called me on the same day at guided me well. Nxt morning got a message saying all the best.I am sure you'll do well. I called him and said thanks. I met him after the interview. We talked for 5 mins or so and later I went back home.Few days later I said hi to him on whatsapp in evening. He replied at night saying sorry he was out with frnds. I replied nxt morning saying hi again. We exchanged few msges as he was in class. He is presently doing some course which will probably end in August end. His dad passed away when he was young. Since then we started talking almost everyday except weekends when he has classes. He has hectic schedule. Still he used to manage msging on whatsapp while in office and studying at night. We met once in June end after my interview in his company and again in july beginning.Confusion starts-He told me he has this course which needs his attention. We are more than friends but he does not want to unnecessarily push things when he does not have time for them. He used to be exciting and lovey dovey when we met but later he is kind of aloof busy studying, working and his family. I did discuss the same with him on which he said that he does try to take out time for me but cant help. And does know that I feel bad. He too feels bad but right now with the course he can't help.He told me that his mother was looking for a girl for him last year but right now he told his mom to wait as he is busy with this course. I do give him space and let him do his things. But sometimes I really feel like talking to him. He never ignores my messages. I always get a reply. I tried making a plan to meet him last sunday. He told me that he wants to see a movie and requested me to do online booking as he was in class at that time. While I was doing that he suddenly remembers to ask his mother is she has some work. He later msges that he has do wit his mom to a relative place so we will need to cancel the plan. I wa

I was really irritated. He later messaged me in evening saying that he is still there till dinner so he wont be able to message me regularly.I found it weird as I was not frantically messaging or calling him. I just replied alright.
Next morning he himself said hi to me. And continued the convo.
He really a mystery to me. I really dont know what to do. I really like him and dont want to act stupid and lose him. I again tried making a plan this sunday by msging him if hes free and can meet. I called him but he didnt answer my call. Later he msged in evening saying he was asleep so he just saw my call and msg. He doesnt really call me. He said for him msges are more convenient as he can msg while studying or when hes with family.

Physical relation-
When first time we met we kissed each other on cheek.
At the time of our second date he was holding my hand while watching movie. He even kissed on my hand.He was doing this unusual thing ie. he was rubbing my arm with his fingers and rubbing my ear.Later while he was dropping me home he gave me a peck on my neck.
I told him that he is confusing me as he says he likes me but right now he cant into a relationship and then these physical gestures. Later he said that hes sorry for confusing me and he crossed his line. So he did a mistake. Whats on his mind? I really want him.. Does he like me? Are there chances of us getting into relationship after he is done with the course? Is he confused? Is there someone else? Help Me!!!!

Just to add.. I am arian!

The disappearing is unfortunately required for us. I know, I often need to sort things out and most of the time I can't do it when the person being there or constantly asking me questions. More often then not, when I disappear I end up sorting through and finding I was actually wrong. At that point I own up to it and apologize. But I'm less apt to do so if the person doesn't give me the space and time I need to do it. I recently battled with a buddy of mine and he refused to let me retreat to gather my thoughts. It didn't end on a high note. But once we parted ways for a few hours, I saw that at the very least my argument was wrong. My feelings weren't, but how I choose to express them and the example I used was. I immediately (after my time away) apologized for it.

Honey go make your own thread. It's rude to create your own on someone else's.

I've got a Libra man hot on my tail and I've pulled back a little and cooled the jets, so to speak. Was this the right thing to do? I'm just trying to give him his space, retain my mystique, and keep him interested to see where this goes. I'm a Cancer girl, so the Libra mind-set is naturally quite different than mine. I normally wouldn't act like this at all.

Im an Oct libra female and i dated a Sept Libra male. NEVER AGAIN IN MY LIFE.... What a little pansy emotional mess that i wish i dodged. Dont date a libra man unless you want wear the pants in a relationship.

Sept libra men come off as cool, calm and collected, but under that is an emotional mess. STAY AWAY! And also, september libras are different than october libras. October libras are more my style . Maybe because Im a oct libra.

Posted by aribaby108
Sept libra men come off as cool, calm and collected, but under that is an emotional mess. STAY AWAY! And also, september libras are different than october libras. October libras are more my style . Maybe because Im a oct libra.

Emotional mess how? Do share lol.

Posted by ALibra
The Libra-Libra duo.

Ah yes, I agree with Libra Chamleon

If you two have almost the exact same chart, then you will feel like your dating yourself instead of your compliment. And everyone knows a Libra loves someone that will compliment them. For instance if you have a Libra sun, and Aries moon and your guy has a Libra sun, and sagg moon. FIRE WORKS!! But if its Libra all down the chart, you will bore yourselves with all the analytical over thinking, constant debates (not arguing because Libra's hate it) the knocking one another off balance, you will often disappear on one another too.

For example, I am a Libra sun Pisces moon, the guy I flirt heavily with at work is Libra sun, Scorpio. Sometimes he makes me feel as high as a kite, then other times he's possessive, bossy, and seems to think we've created some type of relationship, when that is NOT the case. I haven't agreed to a darn thing. smh. Bottom line, this could either go really good, or really have a lot of turbulence. I've never known a Libra to have a bad union with anyone, except when they are unsure of the person or haven't made up their mind. If a libra is unsure or haven't made up our minds, that's when we create the bad rep, because we don't generally come right out and say just that, like an Aries or sagg would. We keep our partners in our world but not in our face, at least until we can tell them what's really up. It's only fair in our minds. Why lead them on when WE don't even know what's up yet. So we let you go??_meet others, live your life while we make up our minds, we check in from time to time to make sure your still smiling, living, and sometimes just to know you're okay, possibly hoping you will do or say something that will bring us closer to making a decision about you or the situation.

I'm an Aries sun with Libra moon & truly believe a Libra sun, Aries moon would be perfect for me! : ) Are there any on this board?

I've been dating my libra man for almost three months. It's a constant game of tug of war and I'm starting to grow weary.
I'm a cancer but a strong woman - I'm not introverted, but I try to be reserved so I remain presentable.
I met my libra and we hit it off quick. Since we started dating (we have no labels tho - nothing official) we always got along and enjoyed out time together.
We had a hiccup when an ex resurfaced. But he shunned her, we got closer... But ynmom he pushed me away. Then we rekindled, he had family drama, pushed me away again. Since the beginning, he's done this five times. He's brutally honest so I know it's not someone else.
He's forgiving when I'm a typical moody cancer. Were affectionate. He makes me happy. He tells me he cares about me, likes me, misses me... But he became overwhelmed w personal & family stuff then said "space" again. I got sick of if, said I might wanna end it - he understood. I got over it and I got a sentimental "I'm so glad you called... I didn't want this to be over" soliloquy. Thought we were finally good. and he again he says "I just need space and some time." He implied we weren't over, but I could go if I wanted.
I don't want to. But I'm being a typical neurotic cancer and freaking out what this all means. I think everyone is out to hurt me. Is he playing me?
He's always honest and upfront w me, so I don't think he is... But what do I do? He never reaches out first, so this is on me. How long do I give him space and time? I'm ok - keeping busy. But I miss him so much and I just wanna see himS
What is my next step? What does his behavior mean ? Why do libras always need space?
And how can I get this libra guy to trust me and commit to me? I'm a good gal who won't hurt him.
Any tips, id appreciate it.. Thanks!!

Crabbie cakes, this is my old account.lol. I was so shocked to see my post. I'm like hey thats me? lol. Anyway i dont know the password for my "ALIBRA" account anymore, so i will respond shortly either in your inbox or on here. lol. I'm sure lots of women that brouse this forum will be happy you brought this thread up lol.

Okay for starters, Libra??s are air signs, so space is always going to be needed, as a Cancer I understand you are capable of giving it, but you sometimes grow resentment if your partners requires it often thinking they don't care. Libra is an air sign, we need air to breath and continue being our happy bouncy self. If you smother us, we will either ask nicely for space, or just plain do it (disappear). You are being wise at keeping busy and living your life outside the Libra. He will appreciate it. He's not gone, and you need to keep in mind that the two of you are not official.

I'm not sure if you actually took the time to read this thread, but I distinctly point out how a lot of women get mixed up in the Libra web with no commitment on the table. If he has not made you his woman officially then he wont feel obligated to you at all times, and if he senses you are running ahead of him emotionally he may began to detach himself. He does not like imbalance, he doesn't like for someone to like him more than he likes them especially if he hasn't made up his mind about you yet. He will detach thinking it will even the playing field so no one will get hurt and he doesn't look like the bad guy. (this never works, I??ve done this. It only makes the other person mad, but still this is how their mind works) —If I back off, then she will ease up a bit, then we will be even emotionally.?? That's how they think, this goes vise versa. If a Libra notices they are liking you more than then you like them or they start to feel this way, you will experience some hot cold behavior. It may frustrate you but it's only them trying to get on the same page. Read the passage about our tendency to —mirror?? in this thread, it will explain what I mean in further detail.

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Your best bet since there is no solid relationship here, is to play it by ear. As a Cancer I'm going to BEG you not to take every little thing he does to heart. If you do, it will show in your attitude and it will only make the Libra feel as though he has to act a certain way to please you or not to upset you, and if he goes into this mode your situation wont last long. Libra??s are best when they feel they can truly let loose and be themselves. They don't lie as much, and they are more upfront when they are comfortable. So far you??ve done a good job at making him feel comfortable otherwise he wouldn't be so blunt and straight forward with you. Keep that comfort going.

If you want him to commit, well I??d start out by talking to him about solid relationships in general, just to see where his head is. Don't make the conversation too heavy, or the Libra will feel forced to start saying things HE THINKS you wanna hear instead of whats real; to keep the peace. Not good. They always think before they speak, trust me on this especially if they care and really like you. They are very weary of what others think about them, and this is not always a good thing. So when they get around someone that truly accepts them flaws and all, no questions asked they are going to keep that person for life even if only for friendship. If he hints that he has too much going on, and you are certain you want a solid relationship then I suggest you distance yourself, or you will get your feelings hurt.

If you know he is having issues in his life right now, then I suggest this is a perfect time to step into the role of his support system and his friend whom only wants to understand him and help him, NOT tie him down and put more pressure on him (a relationship). If you can get him to open up and talk to you about other issues in his life such as finances, family, or whatever he wont dip as much because now he has a listening ear in you. He will still dip off to himself because he's air sign, but not as much. Libras best relationships start out as friends. If they were your friend first, chances are you got to see the real him, and you still stayed. Also I want to point out one huge flaw of Cancer??s that wont sit well with the Libra. You want a person to show and prove and put it all out there on the table and then and ONLY then will you feel it is safe to play your cards, a Libra wont do it. We hate rejection and are just as scared as you of what the other person may think or do. So remember with a Libra you get what you put out, because they will darn near mimick you. This goes double if they truly like you because they don't want to get rejected or hurt. If you don't call them, they wont call you. You don't fall all over them, they wont fall over you. You get distant, they will too. If you want him to trust that you wont hurt him, then your going to have to trust him too. You have to give trust to receive it in this relationship Crab. Libra is 50/50 right down the middle at all times. No one-sided business or they will back off.

Posted by aribaby108
Sept libra men come off as cool, calm and collected, but under that is an emotional mess. STAY AWAY! And also, september libras are different than october libras. October libras are more my style . Maybe because Im a oct libra.

OMG! I totally agree with that. I thought if was just me who saw the difference between Sept and Oct libras. October libras are much more stable and less prone to the typical textbook nonsense that libra men are associated with on here and other astrology sites.

I think September borns are just messed up! I hate (strong word alert) September! My sister is a September virgo and she's delusional. My ex love interest who I couldn't stand for more than an hour is a September virgo. My ex was a September libra, and I was expecting October libra coolness from him because all my libra guy friends at that point in life were October libras, who I think are pretty cool. In the last 2 yrs I became friends with a lot of September libras, and yeaaahh nooooo!!