Understanding the Libra Man (Page 2)

Oh I believe it gets draining if they have someone who thinks "MEMEME" as an instinct instead of "YOU"
Forgive my bluntness but it grates and one day something will give.. of course if said person is looking for short term, they may go ahead.

And maybe it's your Aries moon speaking on the behalf..

It worked for them..

"and they're gone just as easily i think."

Not gone so easily..

that's why I think its important to find true matches from the start instead of jumping head first and then sopping over something messier than devastating because of emotional attachments that do not fit compatibility stakes.

I am just speaking symbolically, but of course things are always meant to be the way they are for a higher reason

Anyway ALibra, this is how I see your writing. You mentiond you are a Leo Venus, so what you wrote on the Libra woman thread is an extension of yourself - not that it's wrong but it sounds very very Leo and still was a good read. I'm not Leo Venus so I identify with some, but not all of what you wrote.

But you're very masculine as your venus in Leo disposits the sun with it all boiling down to Libra and Leo. So you actually understand Libra mennnnnn very well, being able to put yourself in their shoes. But your Venus and Mars are in fire signs, so naturally you'd gravitate towards firey men - the energies you seek are mercury, mars, venus and jupiter - actually seems like alot of Leo influence. You seem to like Leo type men!

Your Aries Man according to the chart you put up seem to like Taurus/Cancer type - you are also a watery venus in a way - Libra/Pisces but he may end up coming too strongly for you..

but anyway...

Thanks for your insights all. I'll keep you posted ... last I heard from him was yesterday, my Japan time his West Coast time. I got a quick and random "I miss you and can't wait to see you again, xoxo!"

lol 10 days folks, 10 days! lol

Yes damnit those lazy libras...

right AriesGuammie thanks for detaching from the thread and seeing things in another way. Good luck!

You're a natal Virgo, Sutekh?

or Sagittarius, sorry.

Spica, your younger, that could be a reason why my insight on the Libra woman is slightly unfit for you. I look at things completely different now that im older, and by being an air sign I can say I was a little heartbreaker (unintentionally of course. Lol) when I was younger, because back then I REALLY didn't care. I wasn't trying to be mean but, one minute I liked someone, the next I didn't and it could've been the smallest thing that would turn me off. I was really hot and cold when I was younger. I've learned to work on it now that I'm older, but I certainly look at things different.

But you are right, I find I can coach better on the Libra men. Sorry but they do have the ability to flip from masculine mind to feminine. It doesn't mean their soft, it's their crave to be in tune and balanced with their partner at all times, and what better way to do that then to try and see things from her point of view. I would encourage women to get advice from me about the Libra men, I know them like the back of my hand. The Libra men give better advice on the Libra woman. I'm a little one-sided. All I can tell them is what I like, don't like, and wont tolerate, what turns me off. I don't even have many female friends, as ironically enough I get along MUCH better with the opposite sex. Strangely though my friends are always telling me I seem to act and think more like their Libra men. Like my mind is sort of masculine in the dating stages, but im all woman on the outside. Lol. Then once im in love, im mushy, completely woman, however I can flip back to my masculine brain whenever something confuses me. Most of the time I don't always like what my masculine brain is trying to warn me about, so I ignore it sometimes. Gotta work on that too. lol

Posted by Sutekh
yup SAGTACULAR

By the way great site! 🙂

You're Sag Saturn, hohoho I'm olderrrrrrrr 😛😛

"I don't even have many female friends, as ironically enough I get along MUCH better with the opposite sex. Strangely though my friends are always telling me I seem to act and think more like their Libra men. Like my mind is sort of masculine in the dating stages, but im all woman on the outside. Lol. Then once im in love, im mushy, completely woman, however I can flip back to my masculine brain whenever something confuses me. Most of the time I don't always like what my masculine brain is trying to warn me about, so I ignore it sometimes. Gotta work on that too. lol"

You don't have to "work on that".. I think naturally Libra women think like men and Libra men think like women.. sounds wrong, I know.. but ...

weird how it came out. By the way I like your Pisces Moon, it makes you totally masculine and feminine all in one.. very quixotic! 🙂

SPICA you have brightened my whole day. LOL. Thanks. I wish I would've read what you wrote sooner. Anytime someone sheds a light of hope over my Aries situation im like "Now what, what was that?" LOL. But as I wrote, you are right, I do think I explain the men better. Im what Steve Harvey calls "A woman that THINKS like A MAN and ACTS like A WOMAN" lol

@ Spica: You and I are responding so fast we are writing on top of one another. LOL. But its funny you mentioned I act like a leo, I've gotten that a lot lately. Lol. Im not so sure that's a good thing, because I only tap into it when im just dating. When im in love it explains why I want to spoil the person rotten. I've read that Leo's do that, and why I crave their attention love compliments like never before, and constantly need reassurance otherwise my air sign come into place and I disappear. Ahhh, that disappearing I can explain it from the males, but the females ehhhh??_lol

By the way, Im sorry. I assumed you were younger because you said 16 yr old boy. Im 23??_.lol

Oh no, I'm not seeing a 16 year old boy, that came out really wrong, but it doesn't matter.

Your whole chart has final dispositers at Libra and Leo, so you're a Leonine Libra, with a nice touch of pisces in your moon 🙂

Actually I am very worried for you.. you are way too sweet and nice. I used to have a Libra/Pisces friend, I still consider her my closest friend to this day.. but lost touch when we were very young, sadly.

Actually if you asked me I wouldn't support the union from the chart you posted but that's it..

Posted by Sutekh
@ Spica THANKS. I take pride in it.

You're welcome, very niche insights!

Oh...okay

Well i love my Aries, and your right i am very sweet and nice, but i was like that when he and i were kids and the whole time he pursued me over the years, so maybe his cancer moon and Taurus Venus likes it.

Ok, wait till you're 29, see if the Aries still pursues you, he he does then its meant to be...

By then we'll be married. Thanks anyway

Whatever u think u know but u have no idea lol

@VSOP : LOL. Oh okay since you gon come on here hating on my knowledge, how bout you drop a little of your own, im sure the women that come on this board with question marks hanging over their heads from you charming, indecisive libra me would just love more insight. lol. You think you can do better, the floor is yours....

Wow, this sounds way too complicated. It shouldn't be that hard to keep someone around. If it is, then they ain't worth it, imo. Overall, it sounds pretty spot on, but all the finicky details just make one want to go "fuck this," and walk off.

I felt a couple of the ladies coming on here, needed to see this. Sorry for all those that have read it already. Ladies, read this. Understand it, read the comments i posted too. Ask i'll tell you. My mind and the male libra mind sort of ticks the same for some reason. So inbox me if you want, like if you dont want the message board judging you or if you simply dont wanna share with the class. lol. But stop getting mad, and either learn to understand or run the other way when a libra male says "Hi, my name is...." and then flashes that gorgeous renound smile, and proceeds to tell you how beautiful you are and how it would be HIS pleasure to take you out. Sound familiar...

I wish I would of read your advice the day I met my Libra man....good stuff ALibra. I can see how it rings true

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First of all I will say that I thoroughly enjoyed reading all of these post the last few days and respect many of your opinions. I hope my story, what I would like to consider the beginning of something wonderful, does not bore u to tears. I am earnestly seeking your advice and opinions. In addition, I feel like I am in a time restraint. So I'm prayerfully hoping for a reply quickly. If it doesn't come within my time, no worries. Wink

After two days of Pondering I decided to come here and post my story.
Here goes. I am a twice divorced scorpio, first husband Taurus, second scorpio. I was deeply wounded in my last marriage as I loved the man. So I hid myself away for 3 years in a MMORPG game. (I am 46..lol)

Through playing this game, within the first month, I met a gentleman. A gentleman as in no flirts, all respect towards one another. We did not discuss "real life" only game life. However, in the game he has always been called "my Hero" as he's always been there for me. (During this time period and ongoing for a year and 1/2 I was hoping and believing my husband would come home.) The day I decided to divorce my husband, I was in tears and asked my game "hero" if we could discuss real life. When I told him that I had decided to divorce, he came to me in game and picked flowers with me..lol (this may sound weird to those of you who are not gamers.) All he said to me was "Always best to move forwards." This man won my heart as a friend within a month, as I learned more of him and how he carries himself (personality and what he believes of mankind and the why's of it, I have fallen in love. I never told him. I thought he was unachievable for me. I admired him that much. (by the way this is the beginning of our third year playing hard EVERYDAY together.)(I have always given him his space as he has mine.)
I met another friend in game that wanted to marry my character (benefits to ingame marriage.lol) I went to my Hero and told him that My characters heart would always be his. (he helped me build my character from lvl 20 who is now lvl 102 over 3 years.) (Game Hubby quit playing...lol)

I've told him that I wrote down what I wanted in a husband (not to be confused with game) and thanked him because of the person I believed him to be, many of those traits came from him. He thanked me.

Still not flirting, just str8t up convo.

I met another man in game, we became friends, again no flirt as he was in a relationship and I do not mess with other wom

other women's men. He said he is faithful as well. After his relationship broke up, we started talking which led me to another country for three months pursuing marriage with an Aquarian. On my trip, "my Hero" who lives in the same town, took me on a three day road trip. Again, no flirting, slept in the same room in separate beds, total respect for each other and the fact I was there to be with another guy. Before I get bashed for going on the road trip, keep in mind he has been my friend for 3 y ears and my aquarian knew how close we are. After returning back to my country, my hero, in vent amongst all our other friends, (kind of like a conference call) sang an "ode to ______" for almost two hours. If I was not mistaking, I would have said then he loved me. 5 months go by, still giving my hero his space as I've always done out of respect, discover that my aquarian is controlling, beyond what I can handle. (stalkerish) I broke it off with him telling him that I'm on the other side of the world and can't breathe. I have never mentioned anything to my game hero, who met my aquarian and became somewhat friends through me, as I did not want to bog him down with junkie drama.

A week later, I told Hero that I had to break it off with the other, he was driving me nuts. His reply was, "oh really" "backing up? "

A week later I get a message from him that he will be in my country for business. He wants to fly me anywhere I want to go. He takes me on a two week road trip, all expenses paid, and then waits till the trip is over to tell me that he wanted to wait till we were back at my home, in my yard, sitting at a fire, in my swing to tell me he is in love with me. This guy has blown my socks off.!! I have loved him for a very long time, and I would like to believe that through 3 years of friendship and no flirting, we have developed a very deep bond.

When we had to part ways, (business trip) he was extremely quiet. Made me very uncomfortable. He stood in the parking lot and waved as I went down the highway feeling sad and confused because of his quietness.

That was 9 days ago. Tonight is the first opportunity I have been able to speak with him as he is in yet another country. He tells me beautiful romantic things that dive deep into my heart. I know he does not have girlfriend as we have talked on friend level for a very long time. He had his heart broken 6 months before I did.

Why am I writing all this ? I guess to get my thoughts and my story d

Why am I writing all this ? I guess to get my thoughts and my story down.

He is a 38 year old Libra, and I am a 46 year old scorpion who has had some bad relationships and feel like I have learned enough to give the Libra man the space they need to do what they do. My new philosophy which probably goes against a Scorpio's grain is "let people be who they are and do what they do." Then there is peace.

I am planning on leaving in a week to go spend 3-4 days with him while he is in the country still. He says he wants to throw caution to the wind to be by my side but he knows that he can't right now.

I have through little conversations, told him I have loved him a long time. And now that i have read sooo much information on Libran's I don't know how I missed that in his way, he was telling me he loved me as well.

I want a long term relationship with this man. He will be traveling the world after he leaves me at the end of next week.
He is already asking me where we go from here.? I tell him I want to be with him as he tells me he wants to be with me. I am following his lead as I always have. I am a help mate. I want the man to make the final decision after considering both of our ideas, so I'm a new old fashioned kind of gal. ( something i learned that might have helped in my last marriage had I discovered it sooner.

So with all of this said. Recap
I'm a 46 scropio
he's a 38 Libra
We've known each other 3 years as friends with no flirting, and now he's buying me trips to come see him and claiming he loves me. I, being a scorpio, want to play my cards cool and not show my poker hand. BUT I don't want to lose him by doing this. So not sure how to act...lol I'm in love and feel very childish atm. Please leave me some feedback.

One last comment, my 20 year old daughter showed her booty while he was here and he got onto her in a stearn yet sincere manner. In his later apology to me ( she needed it) he told me he would never allow any one to disrespect me in front of him.

AND I'M SORRY IF MESSAGE WAS VAGUE OR UNCLEAR.

I almost did not post from embarrassment of the crazy emotions going on inside me right now.

Thank you

Don't be embarrassed. It's different from what I read on here, but hey it's DXP stay tuned and you'll see your story isn't the weirdest. Anyway, bottom line is he told you he wants to be with you and you said it in return??_I would assume that's a relationship concealed right there. However I always encourage women to NEVER assume with a Libra, that's when things go poof. So always ask straight out what you want, in a calm and sincere way. Never curse, or be overly dramatic, it will only make them go into their shell. They don't like negative vibes in any way. They will do anything to avoid feeling trapped, weak, or bossed around. So with that being said, I say you first need to establish what the two of you are. Are you in an official relationship or not? If you are let me know and I'll tell you how to go from there.

Also if you want advice on how to act during the time spent with him while he's in the country, just be yourself. After all, that is what he's fallen in love with over the past 3 yrs. (WOW. By the way.lol) The only pointers I'll give is the same ones I give every woman, no outfit is too cute when you are with this man. Whip out that cute little outfit, make sure your hair is done. Overall you must look decent, personally many may not agree, but when I was with a Libra few yrs back I always put on my best simply because I looked forward to the compliments and the undying affection he gave when he saw me. He acted like he was proud to have me on his arms, because everyone stared. A Libra looks for a person that compliments them, whether its personality or physical. In a perfect world, its both. But this is earth so, diddo. I've fallen for both at one point. A man with a kick azz personality that smells good, dresses nice, has a lot going for himself, and can keep up good conversation doesn't have to look like Denzel, because in my eyes he will be finer than Denzel. So keep this in mind. Be yourself, look your best, ooze confidence, and be funny. WE LOOOOOVE FUNNY. Love to laugh. You can look at TOC (Taste of Chaos) made a whole thread based off a joke. All the LIBRAS thought it was funny, and appreciated the laugh. We love to laugh so if your funny its a bonus.

Hi ALibra!

OK . . . So . . . my Libra continued popping in and out, with our last conversation being last week. We have previously discussed that I don't like game-playing, and that I don't like his "now you see me, now you don't" antics. He has hinted at wanting to get together, but didn't respond to my inquiries as to when. He asked whether we would have to be "discreet," and I told him that (1) I don't got for sneaking around; and (2) my BF and I had split. He hasn't contacted me since, and there have been opportunities to do so (we continue to work on the same doomed project from Hell together).

I've decided to just cut him loose. I blocked his cell phone number and his e-mail at work. I feel like he has been playing me, and his actions have made me feel very foolish.

What do you think?

I hope all is well with you,

Love, LS67

So what are your thoughts on Libra/Libra relationships?

So what are your thoughts on Libra/Libra relationships?

Libra / Libra relationships can only work if they have drastically different charts beyond the sun sign OR if you "step out of your element".

A Libra Man once fell for me, HARD. But that's because I was emotional and freaky like a Scorpio at that time of my life :-P
Since then, I usually can't be attracted to my sign unless they have a lot of fire or earth.

Rising: Scorpio
Sun: Libra
Moon: Libra
Venus: Virgo
Mars: Virgo

@LibraScorpio67: He hasn't confirmed plans with you because he doesn't want to let you down. Plus I always say if a Libra is in and out, it normally means they are either trying to multi-task, they are unsure of the situation, or they haven't made up their mind yet. He asked if the two of you will have to be discreet, you told him you aint having it. That might've gave him something to think about, and could explain his distant behavior. He knows you will want to be out in the open, and he has to decide if he's ready for all of that. If he's unsure, then there you go. He will be back once he's made up his mind. If you blocked him for emotional and personal reasons I completely understand. When I feel I've become too attached to a man, and I'm left feeling like it's not mutual, then I go completely cold. I act and even try to convince myself that they never happen, at least until I'm over them emotionally of course. Then it's back to reality. If you two work together then your situation is slightly different, and you will want to make your peace with the situation.

I find that most women often have trouble with becoming one with a relationship being over, or going down hill because they hate feeling like they weren't good enough, or they hate to see all the hard work blood sweat and tears they put into a relationship go down the drain. FACT: all women who feel this, 1st thing you need to know is you are NOT alone. We ALL do this, have or will do this. The thing to always remember is who you were when you 1st met dude. How you acted, how you treated him, and most of all how you treated and carried yourself as a woman.

Continued??_

Its important to remember those things, because those are the things that the man fell for in the first place. I understand that those things sort of fade to the background when our emotions come into place, and we have fallen in love, and now we wonder how'd we get there. Write it down if you have to. Retrace ya steps. Fight hard to get back to being that woman. Try to get back to that person he fell for at 1st, and never let her azz go again, no matter how deep in love you fall. Hold onto yourself. It's very important. And also remember, if you are a GOOD woman, and I mean a REALLY good woman, you must know that you are also VERY rare, and if the man has any sense at all, he's not going far.

The Libra-Libra duo.

Ah yes, I agree with Libra Chamleon

If you two have almost the exact same chart, then you will feel like your dating yourself instead of your compliment. And everyone knows a Libra loves someone that will compliment them. For instance if you have a Libra sun, and Aries moon and your guy has a Libra sun, and sagg moon. FIRE WORKS!! But if its Libra all down the chart, you will bore yourselves with all the analytical over thinking, constant debates (not arguing because Libra's hate it) the knocking one another off balance, you will often disappear on one another too.

For example, I am a Libra sun Pisces moon, the guy I flirt heavily with at work is Libra sun, Scorpio. Sometimes he makes me feel as high as a kite, then other times he's possessive, bossy, and seems to think we've created some type of relationship, when that is NOT the case. I haven't agreed to a darn thing. smh. Bottom line, this could either go really good, or really have a lot of turbulence. I've never known a Libra to have a bad union with anyone, except when they are unsure of the person or haven't made up their mind. If a libra is unsure or haven't made up our minds, that's when we create the bad rep, because we don't generally come right out and say just that, like an Aries or sagg would. We keep our partners in our world but not in our face, at least until we can tell them what's really up. It's only fair in our minds. Why lead them on when WE don't even know what's up yet. So we let you go??_meet others, live your life while we make up our minds, we check in from time to time to make sure your still smiling, living, and sometimes just to know you're okay, possibly hoping you will do or say something that will bring us closer to making a decision about you or the situation.

Thanks again, ALibra. You're a treasure.

Love, LS67

Your welcome. Awww Thanks! =)

Well, I unblocked Mr. Libra. I figured that I was being a total freakshow. Good thing, too -- ANOTHER project of ours blew a gasket this afternoon.

We spoke, I kept it professional yet friendly, he flirted away. I've decided to just let him be, and not try to figure him out beyond what he is showing me. If he ever decides he wants more, he'll do something about it. If I haven't moved on by then, we'll see.

Thanks again!

Love LS67

There you go girl!!

Lol. Your welcome.

Posted by ALibra
But stop getting mad, and either learn to understand or run the other way when a libra male says "Hi, my name is...." and then flashes that gorgeous renound smile, and proceeds to tell you how beautiful you are and how it would be HIS pleasure to take you out. Sound familiar...

ahahhaha you're amazing Alibra! Spot on.

I just got to know a libra male this past 3 weeks and there was this crazy, psychic mental connection we were having. Saw each other and spoke all the time but sadly two nights ago he turned cold and I already knew he has turned the tables on me. I could feel it.

A little bummed out but hey, that's just how it is right?

C'est la vie!

Posted by ALibra
The Libra-Libra duo.

Ah yes, I agree with Libra Chamleon

If you two have almost the exact same chart, then you will feel like your dating yourself instead of your compliment. And everyone knows a Libra loves someone that will compliment them. For instance if you have a Libra sun, and Aries moon and your guy has a Libra sun, and sagg moon. FIRE WORKS!! But if its Libra all down the chart, you will bore yourselves with all the analytical over thinking, constant debates (not arguing because Libra's hate it) the knocking one another off balance, you will often disappear on one another too.

For example, I am a Libra sun Pisces moon, the guy I flirt heavily with at work is Libra sun, Scorpio. Sometimes he makes me feel as high as a kite, then other times he's possessive, bossy, and seems to think we've created some type of relationship, when that is NOT the case. I haven't agreed to a darn thing. smh. Bottom line, this could either go really good, or really have a lot of turbulence. I've never known a Libra to have a bad union with anyone, except when they are unsure of the person or haven't made up their mind. If a libra is unsure or haven't made up our minds, that's when we create the bad rep, because we don't generally come right out and say just that, like an Aries or sagg would. We keep our partners in our world but not in our face, at least until we can tell them what's really up. It's only fair in our minds. Why lead them on when WE don't even know what's up yet. So we let you go??_meet others, live your life while we make up our minds, we check in from time to time to make sure your still smiling, living, and sometimes just to know you're okay, possibly hoping you will do or say something that will bring us closer to making a decision about you or the situation.

Well said. Now I understand why its hard for me to just cuss someone out at the drop of a hat like my other libra friend tells you like it is right off the cuff -- leo moon.

ALibra you are the woman I need to talk to. 🙂

I may have met a Libra or two in my lifetime, but as a Sag I'm so flighty I probably never stayed around long enough to know their sign. I have a Libra male friend, I've been knowing him for about a year and I can honestly say I feel as if I know nothing about him. Sometimes he seems like 007. When we're together we get along well and he looks at me like he's looking into me and not at me. As a fire sign sometimes I like to provoke him to get a rise out of him and in return he always asks a week later if I text, "Why do I do him that way?" When he hugs me it's like he doesn't want to let go, but yet we do not have sex and never have. He says my spoiled nature is aggravating, yet he still is around why? What is this here? This man has me confused beyond belief. He talks about how many kids he wants, what kind of life style he wants when he gets married/ if he gets married; I feel like these are conversations bf/gf have with one another. Is he just turning on this, "Libra Charm" I hear so much about or am I just putting too much thought into all of this? Help me understand Libra males please.

Okay, for starters I'll go at RedBerry

I'm glad to see your taking it so well, but try not to read too much into his flighty nature. Its just the air in his chart. He's most likely off to balance other area's in his life that have nothing to do with you. If you are gorgeous, fun, and funny (is a plus) and you smelled great, held good convo then he will be back I can assure you that. Just as hard as it maybe try to follow his lead and not pop off on him. Use his disappearing spells as time for yourself. Use them to your advantage. If he backs off, its okay to tug a little in a sweet flirty way, but if you sense you are doing too much chances are that you ARE, and you need to take two steps back. Sounds like you and him are too early in the game. However, in the beginning a libra is at their best, turning on every charm switch they own in all area's romance, conversation, looks, and even the physical but somehow still coming off as a complete gentlemen, just a really huge flirt.

Not too worry girl. Just remember unless this man SAYS you??re his, you better believe you have A LOT of competition. By the way, a libra will never admit it but we need thinking space, and breathing room, so give us just enough to keep us peaked but never too much to make us run. If you get him to say he loves you and he's pulling all the stops and as a woman you know what I mean, thats when a men leaves no doubt in your brain that he's crazy in love and Tyra Banks could walk by and he'd only have eyes for you, then you can kick up your feet and watch the fireworks because a libra man in love is like watching a romance movie in 3D.

Libra Chameleon: YES! I hate to curse people out, but trust that I WILL. However if I curse you out then I have no intentions on talking to you after it. I don't like people pulling me out of my character like that. Its not lady like. Unlike my Leo friend, if she comes out of her character on a man she will blame him and say he deserved it. Personally I don't think you should give a man or anyone THAT much power to make you THAT angry. Cursing and flipping out doesn't get you heard anyway from someone that does it all the time. I rarely do it, that's why when I DO go off, people are shocked and are all ears. I be fed up.

SourPatchSag: You are a sagg and he is a libra. 2 words fire+air =FIREWORKS!! From start to finish might I add. Think about it, what happens when air hits fire, the flames get bigger.

The trick is how to keep those flames, which these two signs have no problem in doing so once the two of you have a mutual understanding and common ground on where the relationship stands, and where it's headed. If you have two different views then you will always bump heads, and your libra will often disappear, because they dislike the unbalance of emotions and feelings. He stays after you because you are a challenge to him You give him just enough. However being a challenge and toying with someone's emotions are two different things. Be careful not to take part in the 2nd one (toying with emotions). Libra's have a problem with giving the benefit of the doubt even when the obvious is staring them in the face because they love or care about the person just that much. However, they are smart, and once they are sure that they've been absolutely fair and giving you a chance to get with the program, and you don't, then you will be sorry. He will beat you at your own flighty nature because his will come natural as being an air sign. It will not be a game, it will be Libra letting go, and no longer caring, and when we don't care we can be named some of the cruelest people, but we honestly wouldn't see it that way because we would feel like we gave you a shot is our fault your time ran out? No.


I would suggest you have a sit down with him, asking him his intentions and what he wants, that way you get a chance to see if the two of you have the same plans for the relationship an no ones gets left up in the air. Feel me? A chill session with a funny movie to lighten the mood, lots of food, and even a bottle of wine, nothing too over the top because for some reason when a libra senses that they are about to talk about relationships or love, they tend to go Hollywood telling a person what they THINK the person wants to hear, instead of just being honest like you, the sagg. But by you being a sagg I'm sure you will see right through it. You are blunt by nature, so naturally you should be able to tell when someone is being blunt and honest right back, or if they are feeding you bull. When you think he's about to go Hollywood, call him out on it and ask him. So keep the mood comfortable, and soothing.