hopelesscapricorn
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What's going on with my Libra
Posted by thistletongue
Sounds like he’s got abit of Leo in him.. but girl he sounds like a dick. I would just leave lol.
Wow that's crazy, how'd you know!? LOL his venus is in Leo and moon in aries
It's just 8 months.
I'd cut my losses if I were you.
Dude's being a total shit head.
I'd cut my losses if I were you.
Dude's being a total shit head.
Posted by hopelesscapricornWe libras know everything. It might be his sleep schedulePosted by thistletongue
Sounds like he’s got abit of Leo in him.. but girl he sounds like a dick. I would just leave lol.
Wow that's crazy, how'd you know!? LOL his venus is in Leo and moon in ariesclick to expand
Posted by FortunaSee I'm lucky I dont have water placements, God that sounds horrible to me.Posted by hopelesscapricornI am not a Libra, but I have experience with a Libra.
Hey guys, so I've been with my libra for about 8 months now and we've had our minor ups and downs but we always recover and get that "balance" back, so to speak.
He's a music producer so there's times when he gets real deep into this focus mode and I won't hear from him as much. He'll hit me up every day even if he's just sending a one word text but it always seems to turn out combative. Lately he's been super super irritable with me and I can't even think of what I've done to trigger it. Or if I even did do anything in the first place? I've asked him things like "well what's up your butt" and he'll say sarcastic stuff like "there's always gotta be something wrong with me." It's like he internalizes everything I say lately. And I in turn am internalizing this animosity because I don't understand where it's coming from. Is it stress? Is it because he isn't sleeping normal hours? I don't know. I'm a very sensitive person so his moods have been affecting me and I'm trying my best to be patient but it just feels like he's constantly annoyed by me.
It also feels somewhat egotistical the way he's been acting. I congratulated him on a recent achievement he made and he got mad about it lmao. There's this phrase I always say when he achieves something and he asked me to stop doing that because it's wack and corny. I've just never come across anyone who gets mad at you for showing love and support. Granted, he's been hurt a lot in his past. But it's really starting to hurt me and make me feel....helpless. He also always talks about himself. Only! Rarely does he ask how my day is, what I'm up to, how am I, etc. It wasn't like this in the beginning. And I don't know how to get it back or if I ever will....
Anyone wanna chime in on what may be going on? I'm hoping it's not due to a new interest in someone else.
Are you communicative? Do you verbalize your intentions along with actions? Or do you just act and feel actions will speak for themselves?
The Libras I know need communication, even if you are actively doing something they still want to hear it and know why you're doing x, y, or z.
The first part I highlighted above, maybe you feel you aren't doing anything wrong, but in his mind you are and the fact that you're oblivious to it he may not like that. Every Libra I have come across like people to show humility and like to hear you say / own up to your mistakes or imperfections.
The second part that's highlighted, kind of follows what I said previously. He may think that you're thinking you're perfect and he's not. Even if you aren't thinking like this.
Does he know you're a sensitive person? Do you ever show and talk about your sensitive and caring side? Or does he see you as a reactive type of sensitive?
Seeing as he's not here to share his side, if your perspective is a true reflection of how things are... then he sounds selfish. Probably not the best partner for you.
If he has a new interest, he won't tell you--he'd just break up with you, but once he does that then he was already thinking about it months ago, he finally just decided to go through with it.
Most Libras I know have water moons though, so my experience is limited. 🙂click to expand
Posted by FortunaHaving a water moon, I think I'd commit suicide lolPosted by Librasetting777haha, which part sounds horrible?Posted by FortunaSee I'm lucky I dont have water placements, God that sounds horrible to me.Posted by hopelesscapricornI am not a Libra, but I have experience with a Libra.
Hey guys, so I've been with my libra for about 8 months now and we've had our minor ups and downs but we always recover and get that "balance" back, so to speak.
He's a music producer so there's times when he gets real deep into this focus mode and I won't hear from him as much. He'll hit me up every day even if he's just sending a one word text but it always seems to turn out combative. Lately he's been super super irritable with me and I can't even think of what I've done to trigger it. Or if I even did do anything in the first place? I've asked him things like "well what's up your butt" and he'll say sarcastic stuff like "there's always gotta be something wrong with me." It's like he internalizes everything I say lately. And I in turn am internalizing this animosity because I don't understand where it's coming from. Is it stress? Is it because he isn't sleeping normal hours? I don't know. I'm a very sensitive person so his moods have been affecting me and I'm trying my best to be patient but it just feels like he's constantly annoyed by me.
It also feels somewhat egotistical the way he's been acting. I congratulated him on a recent achievement he made and he got mad about it lmao. There's this phrase I always say when he achieves something and he asked me to stop doing that because it's wack and corny. I've just never come across anyone who gets mad at you for showing love and support. Granted, he's been hurt a lot in his past. But it's really starting to hurt me and make me feel....helpless. He also always talks about himself. Only! Rarely does he ask how my day is, what I'm up to, how am I, etc. It wasn't like this in the beginning. And I don't know how to get it back or if I ever will....
Anyone wanna chime in on what may be going on? I'm hoping it's not due to a new interest in someone else.
Are you communicative? Do you verbalize your intentions along with actions? Or do you just act and feel actions will speak for themselves?
The Libras I know need communication, even if you are actively doing something they still want to hear it and know why you're doing x, y, or z.
The first part I highlighted above, maybe you feel you aren't doing anything wrong, but in his mind you are and the fact that you're oblivious to it he may not like that. Every Libra I have come across like people to show humility and like to hear you say / own up to your mistakes or imperfections.
The second part that's highlighted, kind of follows what I said previously. He may think that you're thinking you're perfect and he's not. Even if you aren't thinking like this.
Does he know you're a sensitive person? Do you ever show and talk about your sensitive and caring side? Or does he see you as a reactive type of sensitive?
Seeing as he's not here to share his side, if your perspective is a true reflection of how things are... then he sounds selfish. Probably not the best partner for you.
If he has a new interest, he won't tell you--he'd just break up with you, but once he does that then he was already thinking about it months ago, he finally just decided to go through with it.
Most Libras I know have water moons though, so my experience is limited. 🙂click to expand
Wow I really appreciate you for breaking this down, it makes a whole lot of sense and a lot of what you touched on is stuff he and I have argued over or had disagreements on. He definitely has made little comments to me in the past about being perfect and I feel like sometimes he tries to knock me down. Even if I try to give him constructive criticism he gets extremely defensive. So idk, there's still a little bit of ego and pride involved but I definitely am going to be more communicative. He is fully aware that I'm sensitive, he even told me that he was going to try to toughen me up because I take life too serious, pick things apart, look too deep into things, etc etc. So yeah, I really don't know what's going on here but I hope it doesn't worsen
I am not a Libra, but I have experience with a Libra.
Are you communicative? Do you verbalize your intentions along with actions? Or do you just act and feel actions will speak for themselves?
The Libras I know need communication, even if you are actively doing something they still want to hear it and know why you're doing x, y, or z.
The first part I highlighted above, maybe you feel you aren't doing anything wrong, but in his mind you are and the fact that you're oblivious to it he may not like that. Every Libra I have come across like people to show humility and like to hear you say / own up to your mistakes or imperfections.
The second part that's highlighted, kind of follows what I said previously. He may think that you're thinking you're perfect and he's not. Even if you aren't thinking like this.
Does he know you're a sensitive person? Do you ever show and talk about your sensitive and caring side? Or does he see you as a reactive type of sensitive?
Seeing as he's not here to share his side, if your perspective is a true reflection of how things are... then he sounds selfish. Probably not the best partner for you.
If he has a new interest, he won't tell you--he'd just break up with you, but once he does that then he was already thinking about it months ago, he finally just decided to go through with it.
Most Libras I know have water moons though, so my experience is limited. 🙂
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He's a music producer so there's times when he gets real deep into this focus mode and I won't hear from him as much. He'll hit me up every day even if he's just sending a one word text but it always seems to turn out combative. Lately he's been super super irritable with me and I can't even think of what I've done to trigger it. Or if I even did do anything in the first place? I've asked him things like "well what's up your butt" and he'll say sarcastic stuff like "there's always gotta be something wrong with me." It's like he internalizes everything I say lately. And I in turn am internalizing this animosity because I don't understand where it's coming from. Is it stress? Is it because he isn't sleeping normal hours? I don't know. I'm a very sensitive person so his moods have been affecting me and I'm trying my best to be patient but it just feels like he's constantly annoyed by me.
It also feels somewhat egotistical the way he's been acting. I congratulated him on a recent achievement he made and he got mad about it lmao. There's this phrase I always say when he achieves something and he asked me to stop doing that because it's wack and corny. I've just never come across anyone who gets mad at you for showing love and support. Granted, he's been hurt a lot in his past. But it's really starting to hurt me and make me feel....helpless. He also always talks about himself. Only! Rarely does he ask how my day is, what I'm up to, how am I, etc. It wasn't like this in the beginning. And I don't know how to get it back or if I ever will....
Anyone wanna chime in on what may be going on? I'm hoping it's not due to a new interest in someone else.