Why Are Libra Women

so damn conceited? I've come across a lot of libras and the males have all been cool people, but the women are so into themselves...and I mean EVERY last one of them I've ever known. What is that all about?

They're not all young...some are in their 20s, I don't think I know any in their 30s, and I know libra women in their 40s and 50s...all conceited.

I don't know any leo women, so I can't make that comparison. Okay, yes, the older libra women I know don't have a problem complimenting other women, but they're still very full of themselves. The younger ones I know, those that actually do compliment other women, somehow find a way to include themselves in the compliment.

Awwww i wouldnt let it bother me...Alot of women are jealous esp the ones in their 20s. I guess its just been overly competitive. It sucks really but as long as you can hold your own-let them continue been bitchy.
And as a scorp am sure you have a magnetism that attracts many suitors....🙂

Well conceited is the last word I would call myslef, I give credit where credit is due, I give out complimtens all the time but cant take one to save my life! Infact I dont know any Libra that has really been like that and i hung around with a lot of them in my youth, not so many now. But to me most libras I have come across dont see them selves as any better, or worse then anyone, usually equal.

... and the problem is—

not the ones I know...

I only know ONE Libra woman who's like that... my crazy Aunt. And she's pretty much a psycho. *shrug*

if a libra says something nice to another person while talking about themselves too, it's because of our innate desire to connect with people, to be "we" rather than "me" and "you". we need to relate. it's a total subconscious thing though. we don't do it on purpose at all.

i've spent my whole life having people give me shit (or praise for some bizarre reason) for being so supposedly stuck up and conceited and whatever. and i'm just not. i've barely even got any confidence at all. usually if i'm holding back, it's because i assume that someone just doesn't want me imposing on them. but people will think what they want to think. and walking around with a huge cocky smile and talking to people i don't know makes me feel a lot more bitchy and conceited than keeping to myself does.

and i like leo women. they aren't stucky or bitchy at all. they're very social and regal and stuff, but it's just how they act. they aren't bitchy about it. and they can be some of the nicest people because of it. they'll talk to anyone at all. it could be a homeless man who hasn't bathed in a month, and if he asks her the time, she'll tell him. and she'll be nice about it too.

Maybe she likes you— I say this because I myself can talk and flirt with anyone, except the one that catches my eye...he has to approach me and show me he is interested in me enough to make the first move.

Conceited—? Most people are aware of what their good qualities are, I think we are shy, as Libra Sun says, no problems giving out compliments where compliments are due but find it hard to except them back.

Posted by spica

Posted by DanSingScorp
so damn conceited? I've come across a lot of libras and the males have all been cool people, but the women are so into themselves...and I mean EVERY last one of them I've ever known. What is that all about?

Have you looked around at the other 12 signs before you made your judgment (and found Libra women the most conceited of them all), or do you hold Libras to an impossible esteem that you expect them to be exceptionally polite, humble and self-deprecating?




Insert soft, fading voice, fade to out:

"....Libras rule....."

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hmmm...well...never said Libra women were the most conceited sign of all, and I don't expect anything of them. I just find it interesting that all of the women I know that share this sign also share that characteristic.

Posted by sweethearts
Maybe she likes you— I say this because I myself can talk and flirt with anyone, except the one that catches my eye...he has to approach me and show me he is interested in me enough to make the first move.

Conceited—? Most people are aware of what their good qualities are, I think we are shy, as Libra Sun says, no problems giving out compliments where compliments are due but find it hard to except them back.

i agree strongly with both of these.

i don't think that's what the op is talking about though.

i'm thinking he probably tried busting some libra's chops, and she didn't respond the way he wanted. or he came onto her and called her hot and she said 'yeah i know' or something. as someone who's half scorpio, and who routinely breaks people, i'm aware that scorps like to do that. libras are very difficult to break. we aren't conceited. we just don't give a fuck.

you know that line about "i don't want to join a club that would have me as a member"? libras are the opposite. don't want us, we don't want you either. along the same lines, flattery is the greatest libraphrodesiac. we like people who like us and don't like people who don't. pretty simple stuff.

scorpio likes to challenge people. so of course a scorpio will dislike a libra who puts up the wall. we're open and soft and easy, but if someone wants to be an ass, they'll meet the most stubborn, cocky jerk they never knew existed.

we're mirrors like that. be nice and we'll be nice. be a jerk and you'll think we're jerks.

^OP is a female, not a male Scorp.. although I agree with your points.


DanSingScorp, you just need to get to know them, then they are anything but conceited. It seems to me you only know them from the sidelines, aka acquaintances. Yes they can come across as conceited. I have come across many Libras like that.. they have a wall put up for those they hardly know. Their front is usually chilly and they will probably not approach you first, especially if they are in a group/ with friends.

hmph. i knew i should've looked back to reread the first post.

I detect that you liked a libra girl ,and you might be upset that she did not reciprocate .So you are mad at what you can't have ? I'm not stuck up ,I just am confident.I'm not tryi g to be mean BTW just my opinion.

Posted by LibraLuv
hummm, this is an interesting topic. I have a co-worker who is a scorp... Initially she would give me snarling looks, and made a comment about my complexion being "Very Light" (mind you she is the same complexion okay) and she kept saying it so that other people could hear it. It totally came out of no where...I just gave her a look like "WTF" is wrong with you?? I was totally confused by her behaviour.. So I just walked away and never said anything. Well one day, i was sitting at my desk and I guess my sixth sense kicked in because it popped in my head that she was a pastors wife. so I walked over to her and said, are you a pastors wife? she said How did you know that, I have not told anyone? I said, i dunno i was just sitting at my desk and it just came to me, we talked a little more. She eased up and I went on my way. What I have realized and I know three of them by the way and My grandmother(God rest her soul) was one...In my opinion scorps are just as intelligent as Libra's and I've noticed that it could be half of the problem between the two because both sides think "we know it all" and for a libra, I say what I got to say and that's the bottom line, end of discussion. I do it in such a tactful way of course and they will just say, yea you are right. Because nine times out of ten it is ALL about emotions with a scorp and libra's thinking process is totally logical. Scorps likes the attention and accolades for being smart. libra's couldn't care less whether you think we are or not, we just know we are, we don't need praise in that.

Sounds to me she is jealous of your beauty ..." mirror mirror on the wall , who is the fairest of them all?) we libras love beauty

Hahaha.
I had a libra friend like that, she was quite conceited lol. She did everything in her power to let everyone know she thought she was the best and most beautiful. She even would go as far as trynna make everyone around her feel bad about their looks. GHranted though, she was very young and I dont see her in person much but from what I know she has changed...

Posted by size zero superhero
I don't know too many Libras who are utterly full of themselves. Quite the opposite; Libra is a fairly humble sign despite being concerned with image.
Most often, Libras have specific preferences and taste--which may come off as pretentious--but that's usually not a reflection of self-confidence or lack thereof.

Fire signs tend to be a bit more boastful, IMO.

I totally agree!!!!!!!

I used to know a Libra like that. She wanted everyone to bow at her feet, and swore no one could be more beautiful than she. She was young and loved attention. Now she gained a bunch of weight and I don't think she's like that anymore.

whats wrong with being concieted? there aint nothing worng with that in my eyes

* Why Are Libra Women so damn conceited?

Have you SEEN my breasts?

🙂

* i kinda agree lol my exgirlfriends whom happen to be Libras acted too shallow and conceited and ruined our relationship, but as they grew older and gained a bit of al' weight there conceited transformed into lonely shallow desperation of trying to have a man lol. just goes to show you somethings never change lol.

poor little libra boy. Upset cause libra girls are the pretty ones. Poor baby. 😢

Libras are considered conceited because they refuse to pander to egos and be pushed around.

BOUNDARIES is the word.

If you think Libra is conceited, that means you haven't got to know them, or rather, they haven't got to warm up to you in a way that makes them comfortable.

This is all news to me! I don't get this thread at all!! But, maybe that's why Gems and Libras get along so well. We don't take no shit off nobody!! Maybe what people perceive as conceit is actually "Don't even trip playa, cuz I ain't with that bollshit, so scram punk!!" Could that be it??

🙂

~GM

Man...all of this stuff is subjective anyway. So what's the point? Even people that are humble have some level of conceit/ego. So walking around saying one sign is more this or that is foolish in my book. For instance, Sag men are committment phobes. Honestly, we aren't. While some if us act like we can't grow up and be responsible, which there are examples in both sexes btw, we are very particular in what we look for and most of us are honest about it...well at least the ones I know. So lay off the Libras...no ones perfect lol.

I guess I might come across as conceited to some people because I won't join in silly game playing. If it feels false or fake I'll just ignore and walk. Can't be bothered with it so I guess that could look conceited. I will give complements though. I think it's good if you can make someone feel better by saying something nice about them.

I think shy Librans can also come across as aloof but really they are just waiting until they feel more confident to lower their guard.

Posted by Arielle83
Odd, I'm having issues with a female friend i befriended at work...we are both expats so when we are at work she feels out of her element and that our other coworkers, who are residents, make fun of her or tease her....i dont feel this so i said just work in my area and we can chill...so she did then when we are all hanging out as a group after work she throws me under the bus....

she's also tried to start rumours that im sleeping with the manager because he has given me extra shifts....this is the same manager who she thinks has a crush on her because he told her off for her poor work ethic....i doubt this is a libra trait....

more like a crazy trait!!!

Man, I've had a streak of Libra female coworkers who pulled crap like that. Of the several that have been there, two were sane and I was cool with.

The other three that I can think of... man wtf.

One, I befriended her (nobody else would for stupid reasons) and stood up for her when others were talking badly about her. She decided that she had better things to do once she became a shift supervisor. Shmoozing with the GM and all that and suddenly that made our friendship worthless to her. She also went around blabbing things that I'd told her in confidence. She claimed to be my "best friend." How easily she dropped our friendship was pretty disturbing.

Another slept around like nobody's business. Cried about all her drama and how everyone was mean to her. She was new at the time, so I took her under my wing and was friendly and nice to her (because our workplace can be brutal when starting out). Then she went fricken postal on me and freaked out when I voiced how much I disliked Toms Shoe company. For some reason she took it personally and went around telling everyone that she should just be ready for her dad to die (he was going in for a risky surgery and she was stressing. I told her to at least brace herself for the worst and hope for the best). That chick was a piece of work.

At least those two are gone and nobody misses them. We were all glad when they'd left. The second one sure did a number on that workplace.

We still have another who I'm okay with most of the time, but you cannot trust that chick with ANYTHING. She's an interesting character, needless to say. We can bs about whatever, any time, but I don't trust her as far as I could throw her...

Baffling. The ones who behave this way need a serious reality check.

I felt how you do now with the second one I'd mentioned. I was being nice and she went totally two faced on me. Both were opportunistic bitches.

The one who became part of management tried to pimp me out to some guy from her school. "He said he wanted a no strings relationship. I told him you might be interested."

....

She didn't get why I was offended.

It's weird though, up until I'd met some of these nutters, I hadn't really had any issues with Libras and I got along with them fine (still do). Maybe I was just too young and wasn't paying attention prior... But since these fine gems of human beings rolled in and out of my life, I just keep an eye on the typical signs and stay the hell away. The bad seeds are freaking crazy. I think it's maybe the airiness + insecurity.

We are conceited with a reason.

Posted by Theultra79
All the libra women I knew who came across as conceited were just masking severe insecurities in themselves. I even called one of them on it and she stated that was the case. I'm a libra, so is my mother, sister and BFF. You may think I'm biased but I think we are really hard on ourselves about our looks. Always trying to reach that impossible standard of perfection. Some of us also tend to be shy and quiet, which can be perceived as conceit. Look a little deeper, you may be very surprised at te truth.

This.

But it still doesn't excuse the batshit crazy behavior of the fine examples listed. :/

The ones that I knew, it was pretty obvious that they were insecure. But to go around acting like nut jobs just makes it hard to have much empathy.

My Libra ex was pretty good at hiding her insecurity/ lack of confidence. She really wasn't shy, it's was her being prudent with her words because of her concern for her image. But once she trusted me, she opened up like a book...which showed me how crazy she was at times. She actually asked me a few times "you think I'm crazy don't you." I'd do what she do and just give that charming smile and say nothing lol. I did go out on a date with another Libra and she was completely crazy. I'm black and she was white and we'd known each other since high school. She expressed interest and although I was hesitant, I agreed to the date. She was once married to a black man and was divorced. We went to the movies and she kept staring at the Muslim guy sitting down from us and I noticed she was uncomfortable. I asked her why she kept looking at him and she said that she was looking to see if he had a bomb! My first instinct was to leave her there but I did the gentlemanly thing and took her home. The next day she asked why I hadn't called or texted and I was blunt. I said the fact that you don't see the fact of how your racism would offend me tells me that it won't work. She was my sisters best friend in high school and I told her about it. Only to be told that she was crazy and that's why my sister stopped talking to her years ago lol.

My Libra ex had few friends and really they were just associates. She has this Virgo woman that she hangs with but would wear her out to me when we talked. So I see where everyone is coming from lol.

Insecure people won't always realize what it is that they're doing. Acting that way makes them feel less insecure about themselves because it's a false sense of confidence.

"Well I'm better anyway and these people all suck. I'm so great!"

Sometimes I wonder if they don't get it. Sometimes I've heard the ever so popular 5 year old response of "they're just jealous!"

But that's how insecurity is- it makes people a tad crazy at times...

^I think Aries and Aries Ascendants have a huge problem with Libra energy. It's a given... no dispute about that.

Posted by DanSingScorp
so damn conceited? I've come across a lot of libras and the males have all been cool people, but the women are so into themselves...and I mean EVERY last one of them I've ever known. What is that all about?

i'm actually not gonna deny this. i am conceited but i can also make my actions match the size of my ego so i dont see what's so wrong about it. i can walk the talk. i do think very highly of myself but i'm also kind-hearted and i will help anyone who is in need of my help. i try my best to remain polite most of the time. i don't put people down to make myself feel better. i give out a lot of compliments to people. i want other people to feel good about themselves like i do.