Why is he mad at me.

I recently broke up with my Libra due to him lying to me about a female, he set no boundaries and was really inappropriate with her.

Recently he text me about thanksgiving which led to a small conversation between us, I said something to which he replied "that's bullshit." So I told him "I don't agree with that just like he feels he wasn't wrong for what he did but to me he was." Then he gets mad and said I dumped him for no reason, and that he really wanted us to be together for a long time.

But I feel like he's blowing smoke because he has yet to apologize and try to right his wrong instead he sees nothing wrong with what he did. And I really didn't dump him for nothing, I found out he was talking inappropriately with another female and having her send him inappropriate photos and when I confronted him he flat out tried denying it to me even though I had proof.

He keeps saying that he didn't physically cheat on me so I had no reason to dump him, and I have told him it's about respect, and trust I trusted him to not be doing me won't and he is, that it doesn't have to be physical, what he's doing can lead to it and since he's doing that how do I know he hasn't physically cheated on me. Plus the female that sent him pictures is a female that I questioned him about at the beginning of our relationship because they seemed to flirt a lot, and I asked him to cutoff, block, and delete her off his social media, and he told me he would do what I asked but he didn't. I didn't see her on his page so I figured he did, but I found out she created a new page and didn't put him on it because it's a page with her and her husband.

So anyway now he's mad at me because I called him a liar, told him he hurt and disappointed me and told him to be with that bitch since she was worth him disrespecting me and risking our relationship. I also told him he was really stupid to lose me over another mans wife for some ass shots.

Now for anyone wondering how I found out things I was using his phone, and a message from the girl popped up and that's how I found out he was still keeping contact with her, and I looked at the messages between him and her and saw how inappropriate it was, and broke up with him. He kept denying the pictures, even though I had the proof I told him to just man up and acknowledge what he did but he wouldn't instead he kept saying he never had sex with her, and that she moved to another state awhile ago to which I told him that makes him even more stupid because he lost his own woman for another mans wife that lives in another State.

My question is from what I read about Libras they don't like hurting people and will try to mend their wrong, but my ex won't do that instead he's mad at me for breaking up with him and trying to justify his actions. Is that a Libra trait to not acknowledge your wrongs and apologize for it, and why is he mad at me when he's in the wrong?

Posted by Gemoodeye2
What's the rest of his chart, out of curiosity?

I don't remember everything but from what I do remember he's a Scorpio rising, an Aqua moon, and Virgo venus. I'll look into it and get u the rest.

Posted by SimplyBeinMe
I asked him to cutoff, block, and delete her off his social media, and he told me he would do what I asked but he didn't.

He hasn't honored any of your requests so far. What makes you think he's gonna change if you get back together again?

This one goes in the douche bag jar.

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Posted by Gemoodeye2
What's the rest of his chart, out of curiosity?

I don't remember everything but from what I do remember he's a Scorpio rising, an Aqua moon, and Virgo venus. I'll look into it and get u the rest.

Air moon...meh...my BF is a libra with libra moon. They are not the most compassionate species and mine sees nothing wrong with looking at other women's bodies either. Nothing makes you wanna be closer to your man then knowing he likes looking at other women —??

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I don't care about looking because I know men look, but these was pics sent to him personally and that to me is disrespectful.

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Posted by Gemoodeye2
What's the rest of his chart, out of curiosity?

I don't remember everything but from what I do remember he's a Scorpio rising, an Aqua moon, and Virgo venus. I'll look into it and get u the rest.

Air moon...meh...my BF is a libra with libra moon. They are not the most compassionate species and mine sees nothing wrong with looking at other women's bodies either. Nothing makes you wanna be closer to your man then knowing he likes looking at other women —??

I don't care about looking because I know men look, but these was pics sent to him personally and that to me is disrespectful.

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He asked for them, it's not like she sent them to him out of the blue. The intent behind his communication with her is more hurtful than the images themselves.

You did the right thing in breaking up with him.

Don't waste your time.

Not all Libras are like this.

What's the birthday?

Posted by SimplyBeinMe
My question is from what I read about Libras they don't like hurting people and will try to mend their wrong, but my ex won't do that instead he's mad at me for breaking up with him and trying to justify his actions. Is that a Libra trait to not acknowledge your wrongs and apologize for it, and why is he mad at me when he's in the wrong?

They will hurt you if they feel justified. And contrary to popular belief, no not all acknowledge when they are wrong. Some are more stubborn than others and when you try to present the facts they either get mad and turn it around on you and/or write you off or (best case scenario) prefer to make peace and sweep it under the rug instead of talking about it -but this isn't good because resentment builds. Don't believe everything you read.

Posted by blackphase
You did the right thing and DO NOT look back. They won't apologize because they don't think it was wrong. It won't get any better.. I am familiar with a Libra like this.. the lying, the getting mad when you confront them about their bullshit and pushing it off on to you like you are getting upset for no reason. Only heartache surrounds these types of fellas. Don't go back to him.

Shit isn't that the hard truth! Sad but true!

Hm ass hat. Both of you have some issues to work on but now it's like no one cares.

Posted by tiziani
He probably just feels guilty and the more guilt someone feels the less they care about you.

That's why it's never any use playing the "right" or "wrong" card. No one wants to go out with a teacher.

You broke up with him because you don't feel trust or respect is there. Sensible decision.

So there is no married teachers? Lol

Am I the only one who considers it ratchet as fuck to refer to other women as "a female?"

"He was lying about a female."

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Am I the only one who considers it ratchet as fuck to refer to other women as "a female?"

"He was lying about a female."

Don't get me started.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Am I the only one who considers it ratchet as fuck to refer to other women as "a female?"

"He was lying about a female."

Don't get me started.

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Bwahaha. Glad I'm not alone. I'm starting to cringe when I hear that shit. It's like omg how dramatic and ratchet are you? :/

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Am I the only one who considers it ratchet as fuck to refer to other women as "a female?"

"He was lying about a female."

Don't get me started.

Bwahaha. Glad I'm not alone. I'm starting to cringe when I hear that shit. It's like omg how dramatic and ratchet are you? :/

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I find hugely offensive. Our humanity is striped from us. We are no longer women and people with human rights but "a female". That women themselves perpetuate this way of thinking makes me want to headbutt someone.

What's wrong with saying (typing) woman? It even has less letters ffs.

Simply put, https://www.buzzfeed.com/tracyclayton/stop-calling-women-females?utm_term=.vgPYwLxJW#.dvBMjqKZQ

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Posted by jeane

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Am I the only one who considers it ratchet as fuck to refer to other women as "a female?"

"He was lying about a female."

Don't get me started.

Bwahaha. Glad I'm not alone. I'm starting to cringe when I hear that shit. It's like omg how dramatic and ratchet are you? :/

I find hugely offensive. Our humanity is striped from us. We are no longer women and people with human rights but "a female". That women themselves perpetuate this way of thinking makes me want to headbutt someone.

What's wrong with saying (typing) woman? It even has less letters ffs.

Simply put, https://www.buzzfeed.com/tracyclayton/stop-calling-women-females?utm_term=.vgPYwLxJW#.dvBMjqKZQ

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Exactly. I can't help but think they use such terms to belittle the woman entertaining their douche partner. If she's aware he's taken, then yeah I get it. But there are plenty of situations where the other woman has no idea because dude is a douchebag.

This OP is a prime example. She objectifies the woman in question, yet is here asking about all this stupid fuck shit about the guy willingly doing this to her. I don't see any belittling or derogatory terms used toward him- just ways to see if she could get him back/if there's hope.

Pathetic as fuck.

Wow i broke up with my libra ex (1st bf) for the same reason....

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Am I the only one who considers it ratchet as fuck to refer to other women as "a female?"

"He was lying about a female."

Don't get me started.

Bwahaha. Glad I'm not alone. I'm starting to cringe when I hear that shit. It's like omg how dramatic and ratchet are you? :/

I find hugely offensive. Our humanity is striped from us. We are no longer women and people with human rights but "a female". That women themselves perpetuate this way of thinking makes me want to headbutt someone.

What's wrong with saying (typing) woman? It even has less letters ffs.

Simply put, https://www.buzzfeed.com/tracyclayton/stop-calling-women-females?utm_term=.vgPYwLxJW#.dvBMjqKZQ

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I don't see anything offensive with how the op has used the word.

She doesn't know anything else about this woman except for the fact she's married and went after another man. There's a lot more choice words she could've used instead of 'female'. Which of the two seems more 'ratchet'?

I found out he was talking inappropriately with another female and having her send him inappropriate photos and when I confronted him he flat out tried denying it to me even though I had proof.

Are you two married? You are acting like you have the ranking of a wife. He owes you nothing, marriage means fidelity not boyfriend. Do you have an engagement ring? Why are you acting as if this guy owes you fidelity? Are you under the delusion that a single unmarried man is going to be with one woman? Where do you chicks get this fantasy shit? Lol, He did nothing wrong, you did. You violated his boundaries by going through the phone of a man who is not your husband or fiancée. He owes you nothing. Nothing.. girlfriend just means the chick I bang more than any other chick at his moment. To expect a single unmarried man to give you the fidelity we give our wives is ridiculous. WTF?