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First love stories
Do Libras Fall in Love Easily
Libras are known for their romantic nature and desire for harmony, which can make them fall in love quickly. However, their love also depends on personal experiences and moon signs. They value connection and balance, often seeking meaningful relationships rather than rushing into love.
Mine was an Aquarius
We aren't together but we're still close.
Our egos clash quite a bit but there's still love.
I'm a Libra sun/moon and he is an Aquarius sun/moon.
Falling in love wasn't hard for me then. Now, it's impossible because I push most people away and I get anxious about being hurt again.
Mine was a Taurus.
We are still together. It sounds like quite a feat but it's not. I fell in love for the first time very late in life.
Which answers your question about falling in love easily. It's practically impossible for me.
Sag moon.
Posted by aftershine
how was your first love? Are you still with that person? Please do state your moon sign in your response. Do libra fall in love easily? or nah?
First true love was with another Libra guy, we both had leeb sun and moon.
No we're not together. We talk every few months but I'm personally over it. Took me over a year.
I don't think so...
Taurus if i'm not mistaken. He spoiled me for any man after him romantically-took me on a long wkends for Valentines to Paris, I thought this only happened in movies 😕 Ive had no such luck since-romantically speaking. I was quiet reserved shy accepting etc. It could get quite "aggressive" at times.
The relationship ended after a couple of years with us always arranging to meet up after separate nights out, me stockings and sexy undy clad at some hotel. Funnily enough I went on to live that type of ending out after a couple relationships after him...ODD! Maybe I was a hooker in a past life. lol.
No but it ended well, I knew it wasn't what I wanted and ultimately someone else came along who had more to offer-including a pregnant fiancee (I don't remember his sign) Some older cunt 🙂
Damn are there any success stories? Tbh first love doesn't work out for most people (or maybe thats my exp/people around me).
also idc you can answer regardless of what your sign is
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
Damn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
Posted by aftershine
how was your first love? Are you still with that person? Please do state your moon sign in your response. Do libra fall in love easily? or nah?
First love was a Taurus sun/Taurus moon (I'm a Libra sun/Libra moon). Started our relationship at a pretty young age. I finished college and we got married. Marriage didn't last as long as the relationship before hand. I gave him everything I had as far as what I knew about love. He was my first everything. Unfortunately, we didn't last. As we grew older, we grew apart following two different paths. It got ugly and was a horrible end to a relationship.
I will never love another like I loved him (it will always be a different kind of love to me). But I will also never change who I am to show someone how much I love them ever again. I did all that I could to try and make it work..losing myself in the process (that was my fault, not his).
You live and learn.. Now falling in love is not easy.
A leo met 6 years go broke up for a year got back together in January. .....but at this point i am over it
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
Damn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
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Still haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
My first real love was when I was 20. He is Aquarius. I loved him obsessively in an unhealthy way because I think I would have died for him, had he asked me to. I placed him on a silver platter up to the day I walked in on him kissing another girl. I was crushed... queue weight loss, depression and all things bad.
He tried to reconcile, asked me to marry him. I had the sense to say no. 10 years later I found out he had become addicted to rocks. A sad life he has led to end up like that. I am grateful for meeting him, but I am grateful I never got trapped with him either.
My first love was when I was in high school and that person was a Capricorn. We broke up. It was very devastating for me.
I used to fall in love easily before, but because of many rejections in the past, I find it hard to let my guards down.
Virgo moon here.
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
Damn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
Still haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
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As far as unevolved scorpio or any unevolved star sign is concerned that can't be determined with a natal chart, I think the things you go through are the factors when it comes to this. In my dad's case he was toxic but in terms of astrology he would be an unevolved scorpio, and I have no clue about transcended natal energies.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
My first real love was when I was 20. He is Aquarius. I loved him obsessively in an unhealthy way because I think I would have died for him, had he asked me to. I placed him on a silver platter up to the day I walked in on him kissing another girl. I was crushed... queue weight loss, depression and all things bad.He tried to reconcile, asked me to marry him. I had the sense to say no. 10 years later I found out he had become addicted to rocks. A sad life he has led to end up like that. I am grateful for meeting him, but I am grateful I never got trapped with him either.
damn, girl you dodged a bullet there omg
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
Damn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
Still haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
As far as unevolved scorpio or any unevolved star sign is concerned that can't be determined with a natal chart, I think the things you go through are the factors when it comes to this. In my dad's case he was toxic but in terms of astrology he would be an unevolved scorpio, and I have no clue about transcended natal energies.
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I just meant how to get the positive side of the things represented in our natal chart. ex how can a libra learn to put themselves before others?
First true love.
She was my neighbor a Taurus girl.
I ran into her walking into a convinient store around the coroner of my home, she was walking out, we gazed into each other's eyes and there I knew, she would be mine. I couldn't help but to go look for her and talk to her. & that night I did. We dated 3yrs. She was a virgin and gave herself to me. I was her first.
She was a cancer and my ex-fiancee. Most beautiful woman I've ever met much less been with. Chemistry was through the roof. I made her laugh more than anyone else.
2 problems. She was such a pessimist and a crier. Made me so sad I couldn't stand it. She needed me all the time but she didn't like to socialize. It was our breakup that got me into astrology. No more cancers for me.
I'd say we get infatuated easily. Venus loves shiny things. Commitment though requires a thorough analysis of available information and all the pros and cons.
Damn, ex-fiancee, how do y'all manage to get over your first love? My mom a taurus, stubborn-traditional-loyal-reserved basically embodied all evolved taurus qualities. In her 52 years of life only fell in love with one man, dated only one (him) then married only him (my dad).
He was an unevolved scorpio pessimist-overly sensitive-anger issues and whatnot, he cheated on her and she still wanted to make it work. They are divorced now but its boggles my mind at times how much drive you possess to want to fix your relationships.
Still haven't gotten over her. Dream about her all the time.
That sucks about your rents. Sometimes I think some of us will never overcome out natal energies.
I'm very interested in the idea of evolution of signs and transcended natal energies. Any links you can throw my way?
As far as unevolved scorpio or any unevolved star sign is concerned that can't be determined with a natal chart, I think the things you go through are the factors when it comes to this. In my dad's case he was toxic but in terms of astrology he would be an unevolved scorpio, and I have no clue about transcended natal energies.
I just meant how to get the positive side of the things represented in our natal chart. ex how can a libra learn to put themselves before others?
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To be perfectly honest I don'y have a clue as to how you can do that. I always thought it varies from person to person-like each person embodies both the negative and positive of their natal chart's positions/signs/placements, but it depends on the way they were brought up/lived their lives. Natal chart is a blueprint of sorts but it doesn't have all the answers I guess.
*don't have a clue as to how you figure that out...
1. The first time I went to extreme lengths and spent a lot of time on a relationship was 1-2.5 years ago. I met a really sweet Gemini girl (who I felt rather attracted to), but I kept my sympathies to a minimum b/c at the time I wanted to seem kewl and what not. She started exchanging messages with a friend of mine, but I was too stupid and didn't ask him for her number. Keep in mind this took place during a summer camp.
After roughly a year of not caring, I decided to look at her social media and maybe try to get something going. Sure, she lived rather far away, but I don't mind a LDR. Too fucking bad. The year I started actually paying attention and trying to contact her, she not only disappeared off her school (she stopped attending it in 2015), but there are no other recent public records. I have no idea what happened to her and I wouldn't rule out an illness (since she had asthma) or suicide. This tore me up internally and I have tried my hardest to forget her.
2. Although I avoided relationships for a while (due to my integral emotional instability caused by the first relationship), I recently met a really nice girl who I liked a lot. I had met her a year prior, but I hadn't got my hopes up b/c she was WAY the fuck out of my league (I'm not awful-looking, but I'm slightly shorter than everyone from my team), but this year she was back in this sports camp (not the one mentioned in the 1st text), and while we never really spoke too much outside of a few technical conversations (I will have to admit that I'm a spineless idiot for not asking her out for a dance during the closing party), we seem to click rather well. I have no idea how this relationship will work out (and if she doesn't have a bf), but I am really afraid of fucking up and then having a mental breakdown due to my social anxiety as well as depression.
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
1. The first time I went to extreme lengths and spent a lot of time on a relationship was 1-2.5 years ago. I met a really sweet Gemini girl (who I felt rather attracted to), but I kept my sympathies to a minimum b/c at the time I wanted to seem kewl and what not. She started exchanging messages with a friend of mine, but I was too stupid and didn't ask him for her number. Keep in mind this took place during a summer camp.After roughly a year of not caring, I decided to look at her social media and maybe try to get something going. Sure, she lived rather far away, but I don't mind a LDR. Too fucking bad. The year I started actually paying attention and trying to contact her, she not only disappeared off her school (she stopped attending it in 2015), but there are no other recent public records. I have no idea what happened to her and I wouldn't rule out an illness (since she had asthma) or suicide. This tore me up internally and I have tried my hardest to forget her.
2. Although I avoided relationships for a while (due to my integral emotional instability caused by the first relationship), I recently met a really nice girl who I liked a lot. I had met her a year prior, but I hadn't got my hopes up b/c she was WAY the fuck out of my league (I'm not awful-looking, but I'm slightly shorter than everyone from my team), but this year she was back in this sports camp (not the one mentioned in the 1st text), and while we never really spoke too much outside of a few technical conversations (I will have to admit that I'm a spineless idiot for not asking her out for a dance during the closing party), we seem to click rather well. I have no idea how this relationship will work out (and if she doesn't have a bf), but I am really afraid of fucking up and then having a mental breakdown due to my social anxiety as well as depression.
I'm sorry you had to go through that and while depression and social anxiety are hard to deal with I suggest you put yourself out there its hard as fuck and might feel uncomfortable but its better to face something like that head on. Or at the very least talk to someone about it be it a sibling or a close friend, its just my advice do as you will
Posted by aftershine
*don't have a clue as to how you figure that out...
that's fine. you introduced me to something new and exciting. I'd never heard about evolved/unevolved signs before. Thank you
No, first loves aren't meant to last.
Posted by LadyNeptune
No, first loves aren't meant to last.
My first love! ?
And its true, it didn't last. My parents added locks to the windows! 😭
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how was your first love? Are you still with that person? Please do state your moon sign in your response. Do libra fall in love easily? or nah?