Truth about Twin Flame

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That it does not exist. Believe it or not it is just a good excuse to hold you back and make you feel comfortable with your own mistakes.

There is no other self.

Leave your obsessions behind. Lose your illusions, please.

Real life is about simplicity so there is only one line.

Of course if you want to feed your fears and are very bored (with lots of freetime to kill) you can improve Twin Flame, Triple Flame or multiple flame connections to light your own drama.

Decide.
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To be honest, I've always been a little skeptical of the Twin Flame concept. While it does answer some questions it only creates more. For me, it doesn't make spiritual sense. I won't write them off yet though.

But what really bothers me,, whether they exist or not, is that they're "consumed" just like love is. A product that's bottled and sold. I will admit...it angers me. What I see, just like with soul mates, is that Twin Flames are used to justify doing wrong shit to another person. "I cheated on my husband/wife because my Twin Flame came into my life and we had this connection." It's the notion that anything spiritual is first and foremost about sex and romance...fulfilling some fantasy. Yes, our main purpose here is to grow our souls through perfecting our understanding and ability to love, but romantic relationships is not the first or main purpose spiritual connections exist.

I don't know yet if Twin Flames exist...I doubt it ans maybe because I lack understanding. I do know that people will use any excuse to not develop their souls and their character and the Twin Flame concept is just another way people use another to achieve their own ends.
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I see and here's my ultimate take. While I agree with some points and disagree with others, I simply feel that we are individual souls at the end of the day and that we have soul families.

For me, the purpose of any spiritual connection is to learn a lesson(s) that helps our souls understand what love truly is...especially when it comes to loving others. The truth is we are all connected. With that being said, the main purpose is to understand why another soul impacts us whether it be a soul mate or twin flame. The most valuable spiritual lesson I learned early is that a lot of lessons don't need to be experienced to be learned. As our souls advance, realize that there are spiritual laws that all must follow. What I constantly see, even with twin flames, is that people use that powerful connection to explore what is ultimately a selfishness need...and their soul usually tells them this. "That person makes me feel x." For me, the truth is that no one is needed to make you feel a certain way or to even experience love itself. Love is something that we already have.
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Posted by Saturnlady
Yes, I would definitely distinguish karma and twin flame.

But as long as karma feels reasonable and somehow explainable by outer planets and transits,(synastry or composite) twin flame seems a good excuse for bs.

I experienced a 'twin flame' connection for years. I do have a good insight of it. Otherwise I wouldn't bother to create this thread.




So you've experienced it?

Why in quotes than?
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Posted by Saturnlady
I absolutely agree with beautifulsoul.

What also bothers me is that if you get to know the whole concept of 'twin flame' connection, you ll get even more obsessed with the person. And this is not healthy.
I am not saying if this connection existing or not. I am not sure. However one example needs to be explain yet.

Person who isn't looking for any relationships is meeting people of opposite sex with whom they have great friendly and fun connection. Same day. Same place. Purely business. Jokes, talked, agreements, new beginning in life...

When all of a sudden ONE out of many strikes them as a lightening! Why?

Life is turning upside down in an instant!

For a longest time no sexual or any accounters are happening BUT waking up in the morning becoming easy because that person is suddenly present in your life. There is nothing going on sexually. Just emotionally and you can't explain nor understand why is this particular one out of many is capturing your soul a hostage.

Again I am sayingbos that not a week, nor month, not even a year NOTHING HAPPENS except life had gotten new meaning and this meaning is that particular individual.

Who can explain?
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You obviously haven't experienced a true Twin Flame yet (?)

If so, you wouldn't be so cynical
You sound so above us all who have yet to experience this connection.

Do tell us what we are meant to understand oh chosen one.
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It is not nessesary that you will experience it. A lot of people never experience it.

If you don't have it you don't miss it.

But IF you've got it - it's like winning a jack pot! Millions are playing. Few are winning.

Not that I am saying that finding your twin flame is a winning guarantee! Depends on individual cituation. It could be a biggest grief for many reasons. However your soul gets rejuvenated no matter of outcome.
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Posted by lionspark
i heard how it's damaging emotionally and physically. the end is evident apparently.

-it seems believable enough. idk why people romanticize this though. a stable partner with a great security for long-term aspects which help you improve yourself..is way better
Nothing is better or worse.

It's just simply happens or not.

I wouldn't give it up for any stability.

Simply because love is everything.
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Happy_Aqua
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Happy_Aqua
You obviously haven't experienced a true Twin Flame yet (?)

If so, you wouldn't be so cynical
You sound so above us all who have yet to experience this connection.

Do tell us what we are meant to understand oh chosen one.
Why the sarcasm?


What sarcasm? You've obviously been chosen to meet your tf and felt a connection above and beyond the typical so how does it feel?
It's obvious.

Somehow you have the impression that I place myself above anyone else here because I have experienced something that others here who are judging, haven't.

Would you really be able to listen unprejudiced to anything I have to say on this topic?

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Don't read too much into who said what.

Just share. Those who cares will appreciate it.
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Posted by Happy_Aqua
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Happy_Aqua
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Happy_Aqua
You obviously haven't experienced a true Twin Flame yet (?)

If so, you wouldn't be so cynical
You sound so above us all who have yet to experience this connection.

Do tell us what we are meant to understand oh chosen one.
Why the sarcasm?


What sarcasm? You've obviously been chosen to meet your tf and felt a connection above and beyond the typical so how does it feel?
It's obvious.

Somehow you have the impression that I place myself above anyone else here because I have experienced something that others here who are judging, haven't.

Would you really be able to listen unprejudiced to anything I have to say on this topic?


However how do you know you can find something better? Or maybe someone else found theirs and they are just cynical?

I just don't know how you can actually know...so how did you know?
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That's the thing - you know! Somehow you know and that's it! ?
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Saturnlady
Yes, I would definitely distinguish karma and twin flame.

But as long as karma feels reasonable and somehow explainable by outer planets and transits,(synastry or composite) twin flame seems a good excuse for bs.

I experienced a 'twin flame' connection for years. I do have a good insight of it. Otherwise I wouldn't bother to create this thread.




So you've experienced it?

Why in quotes than?
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Because that time I really believed in this twin flame thing and I took it literally.

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Posted by Impulsv
I dreamt about my tf last night

he came to my childhood home to a party. Wasn't expecting him. I don't recal convo but something about what had gone down. I start to tell him how he had hurt me ect. I go inside for a second n he runs off. Next scene is his wife asking his freinds how guys get together went. They told her there was none. She finds in his suit case a party invitation n finds my address. She goes n confront my mom n sister n they refer her to my name. The. She knows who I am.

Next scene at a school n my tf mad ( mad wife finding out he came to my party n I told her my name. I didn't ) . I take a deep dive in pool n see an unborn child(our?) . I resurface and I run awayn try to escape because I feel tf or god is trying to kill me.

I take a break at my neighbors house . Prepare back pack n suit up to prepare n go back to run as I feel he's catching up

What do u think it means??
That you should clean your mind before you go to sleep.

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Who knows why a non believer would post about something they clearly don't understand. You're trying to make logic out of the illogical. It's a feeling/deep soul knowing. Or you're just a karmic who here to get into the heads of real TFs.

It's true not everyone will get to experience a TF relationship. Also, some may just be making it up in their heads to use it as an excuse to justify their partners behavior, but when they look more deeply into things they'll figure it out, in their own time, because we're all on a different journey.



True TFs will not be deceived by what you're saying.

A TF relationship gives the greatest gift of all!

You find yourself and you're able to come back to unconditional love for yourself and others.

TFs are a complete reflection of the things you don't like or have a hard time facing about yourself this is why you mistake them as a negative energy or negative person, you argue and that causes the push/pull because there's alot inside that you haven't come to terms with and it's your job to figure that out and heal that by yourself, you leave eachother and then come back(mutiple times) because a real TF knows that everytime they do leave they have alot to process about themselves.

You do face alot of pain on this journey and it's all to better you as a person.

To a real TF, there will be no question because it's recognized in your soul.