Can women be alphas too?

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I see them all the time.

The woman berating her boyfriend in public for doing everything wrong.

Is that an alpha or just a bitch?


"Alphas" are supposed to be leaders.

Leaders don't berate others. Leaders teach and mentor. Leaders make those around him or her better.
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Well you're definitely not one. You berate me all the time about cutting your cuticles too close.
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I see them all the time.

The woman berating her boyfriend in public for doing everything wrong.

Is that an alpha or just a bitch?


"Alphas" are supposed to be leaders.

Leaders don't berate others. Leaders teach and mentor. Leaders make those around him or her better.


Well you're definitely not one. You berate me all the time about cutting your cuticles too close.


I have retrograde Jupiter in Aries.

Aries Jupiter represents success through leadership.

But mine is retrograde. I avoid leadership responsibility like @Gemlover probably avoids showering and brushing his teeth.
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OMG We're same! O_O But I want to be the mayor of our town. Am I doomed?
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Posted by TheRabbit

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Posted by Dianna

I see them all the time.

The woman berating her boyfriend in public for doing everything wrong.

Is that an alpha or just a bitch?


"Alphas" are supposed to be leaders.

Leaders don't berate others. Leaders teach and mentor. Leaders make those around him or her better.


Well you're definitely not one. You berate me all the time about cutting your cuticles too close.


I have retrograde Jupiter in Aries.

Aries Jupiter represents success through leadership.

But mine is retrograde. I avoid leadership responsibility like @Gemlover probably avoids showering and brushing his teeth.
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I see what you did here.
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Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Dianna

I see them all the time.

The woman berating her boyfriend in public for doing everything wrong.

Is that an alpha or just a bitch?


"Alphas" are supposed to be leaders.

Leaders don't berate others. Leaders teach and mentor. Leaders make those around him or her better.


Well you're definitely not one. You berate me all the time about cutting your cuticles too close.


I have retrograde Jupiter in Aries.

Aries Jupiter represents success through leadership.

But mine is retrograde. I avoid leadership responsibility like @Gemlover probably avoids showering and brushing his teeth.


I see what you did here.


You know he still has last night's Hot Cheetos mush stuck in his front teeth and gumline.
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I thought Hot Fries would be more his style .
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Posted by TheRabbit

Posted by Dianna

I see them all the time.

The woman berating her boyfriend in public for doing everything wrong.

Is that an alpha or just a bitch?


"Alphas" are supposed to be leaders.

Leaders don't berate others. Leaders teach and mentor. Leaders make those around him or her better.


Well you're definitely not one. You berate me all the time about cutting your cuticles too close.


I have retrograde Jupiter in Aries.

Aries Jupiter represents success through leadership.

But mine is retrograde. I avoid leadership responsibility like @Gemlover probably avoids showering and brushing his teeth.


OMG We're same! O_O But I want to be the mayor of our town. Am I doomed?


Nah.

But I would be sure to not lose your focus. Any small failure could result in becoming disenfranchised with the leadership role. The placement doesn't indicate a lack of leadership skills it just indicates a desire to avoid those roles.

Personally I know I can be an effective leader in the workplace, I just don't care enough to bother with these peasants.
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For some reason, I want to be the mayor of our town but I did avoid lots of leadership roles. How do you reconcile that?
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I think applying alpha and beta to people doesn't accomplish much. They are terms that were first applied to wolves and are now considered out-dated because biologists were studying artificially created packs of wolves instead of natural wolf packs. In a natural wolf pack, Dad is the alpha male and Mom is the alpha female. The pecking order under that is not usually clearly defined and shifts constantly.

But if we must do it, I'd put money on several of the women here to out-alpha most of the dudes.


But nobody can out-alpha DJ even if it's nikkistar 😛
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I think applying alpha and beta to people doesn't accomplish much. They are terms that were first applied to wolves and are now considered out-dated because biologists were studying artificially created packs of wolves instead of natural wolf packs. In a natural wolf pack, Dad is the alpha male and Mom is the alpha female. The pecking order under that is not usually clearly defined and shifts constantly.

But if we must do it, I'd put money on several of the women here to out-alpha most of the dudes.


But nobody can out-alpha DJ even if it's nikkistar 😛


He was very good at winning arguments because he didn't care about anyone's feelings. Is that alpha? If so, being alpha sucks, Bunny. Maybe you should look up to a different kind of manhood. 😉
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Are you trying to say I should look up to hydorah or therabbit? 🙂
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I think applying alpha and beta to people doesn't accomplish much. They are terms that were first applied to wolves and are now considered out-dated because biologists were studying artificially created packs of wolves instead of natural wolf packs. In a natural wolf pack, Dad is the alpha male and Mom is the alpha female. The pecking order under that is not usually clearly defined and shifts constantly.

But if we must do it, I'd put money on several of the women here to out-alpha most of the dudes.


But nobody can out-alpha DJ even if it's nikkistar 😛


He was very good at winning arguments because he didn't care about anyone's feelings. Is that alpha? If so, being alpha sucks, Bunny. Maybe you should look up to a different kind of manhood. 😉


Are you trying to say I should look up to hydorah or therabbit? 🙂


Rabbit is the man. *nods* I'll deny I ever said that, though.

Hydorah has said a smart thing or two before, I guess.

But mostly you should embrace what's naturally awesome about you. I doubt you're really mean like a DJ.
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I like myself for who I am, even if it pisses a lot of people on here. What I do care about is that I'm nice. 🙂