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Posted by geminicandle
Is there a difference between emotional and physical cheating?
What about online cheating? Does that count?
Whatever your definition of cheating is...
My first bf cheated on me... a few times. He was messed up, I tried to make it work. At the time I loved him endlessly --it destroyed me. It changed me to the core. That was the last time someone cheated on me.
I have never cheated on anyone.
However, to my knowledge, I have been cheated on once. The story almost makes me laugh now, although at the time, it was no laughing matter! I was dating my high school sweet heart. I was 22 at the time. We had been together for almost five years. He was my first at everything....evvveerryything. Lol.
Anywho, he and I broke up at the end of summer after I finished undergrad. I felt as though we had grown apart. I moved to Los Angeles, which was an hour from him, and the relationship had run its course. About two weeks after the break up, I get a call. Lol. This girl on the other end, running her flapper trapper about how they had been dating for the past year (or almost). She told me that she had ben giving him money, he had the keys to her house, etc. Actually bragging about it. The first thought that came to my mind was, "ohhhhh that's how he was able to buy me those handbags and take me those places while only going to school with just a part time job." Financial aid my a $ $ ! Lol. Then, of course I got mad but calmed down after a while.
At the end of the day, I was young and he was too. I understood that. It did not excuse his behavior, but we were already broken up so it did not sting as much as it would have had I still wanted to be in a relationship with him. I also had to be real with myself. At the time, I DID live up to the Mars in Virgo stereotype. Lol. We did not start having sex until a little over a year prior to our break up and I was a wee bit uptight. LOL! He probably HAD been cheating on me, and I was na??ve to think otherwise. Lol.
Ohh well. All's well, it ends well. I went on with life and that was that. We are still close friends to this day.
Lesson Learned: For everyone who wont, their is one who WILL. And I took that lesson to bank and never made that mistake again. LOL!
However, to my knowledge, I have been cheated on once. The story almost makes me laugh now, although at the time, it was no laughing matter! I was dating my high school sweet heart. I was 22 at the time. We had been together for almost five years. He was my first at everything....evvveerryything. Lol.
Anywho, he and I broke up at the end of summer after I finished undergrad. I felt as though we had grown apart. I moved to Los Angeles, which was an hour from him, and the relationship had run its course. About two weeks after the break up, I get a call. Lol. This girl on the other end, running her flapper trapper about how they had been dating for the past year (or almost). She told me that she had ben giving him money, he had the keys to her house, etc. Actually bragging about it. The first thought that came to my mind was, "ohhhhh that's how he was able to buy me those handbags and take me those places while only going to school with just a part time job." Financial aid my a $ $ ! Lol. Then, of course I got mad but calmed down after a while.
At the end of the day, I was young and he was too. I understood that. It did not excuse his behavior, but we were already broken up so it did not sting as much as it would have had I still wanted to be in a relationship with him. I also had to be real with myself. At the time, I DID live up to the Mars in Virgo stereotype. Lol. We did not start having sex until a little over a year prior to our break up and I was a wee bit uptight. LOL! He probably HAD been cheating on me, and I was na??ve to think otherwise. Lol.
Ohh well. All's well, it ends well. I went on with life and that was that. We are still close friends to this day.
Lesson Learned: For everyone who wont, their is one who WILL. And I took that lesson to bank and never made that mistake again. LOL!
Posted by aquapiscescusp
My first bf cheated on me... a few times. He was messed up, I tried to make it work. At the time I loved him endlessly --it destroyed me. It changed me to the core. That was the last time someone cheated on me.
how did it change you? trust issues?
Posted by geminicandle
Well, I cheated on my every bf because if I didn't do it, they'd done it to me! Bastards!!
Lol, j/k!!!!!
But in all honesty, I did cheat on my Aries bf before things were officially discussed that it's over. He went to Europe, I was here in USA and the word got to me that he cheated with someone.
Ofcourse, he still called every day, professing his love and being all sweet. I played along...but began to distance myself in my heart and body.
Then I cheated on him with the cancer guy who became my next bf.
Aries never really knew. I didn't have the heart nor courage to fess up. I think he suspected it though, because cancer was my coworker and then aries said " it was that cancer guy, you hooked up before didn't you".
Not realizing he hooked up first.
Oh well, life goes on...
Why not just ask him about what you heard?
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I've been cheated on once a couple years back. Which was caused by the notion of me cheating first.
Other than that, I was in the process of cheating when I was like 17, but didn't get the chance to.
Lol. Every time you kill me!!! Please explain how you were "in the process" of cheating—
Posted by natural25Posted by aquapiscescusp
My first bf cheated on me... a few times. He was messed up, I tried to make it work. At the time I loved him endlessly --it destroyed me. It changed me to the core. That was the last time someone cheated on me.
how did it change you? trust issues?click to expand
Yeah, and that giving it your all... 100 % , not able to. No one will ever get that from me again, it's gone.
Posted by Sagtastic1
In my youth, I cheated. I was so self absorbed it was ridiculous! I broke a couple of hearts in my day and I feel terrible about it now.
Fast forward. Karma is a bitch, my ex husband cheated on me and it pretty much killed me.
"Somewhere in the middle" I had a relationship with a guy who had a girlfriend for two years (a Sag sun/Cap moon like myself) Not only did he physically cheat on his GF, but he did emotionally too. We had and still do have a "bond" that just can't be put into words, but in my eyes, I was with an "involved" man and I knew it wasn't going anywhere so I did not turn down other dates. The funny part about it is I got caught up with a new guy of interest (we did not have sex yet) and the sag at the same time. They ran into each other at my apartment. The Sag was so mad and hurt it was crazy! I'm like, "How are you going to be mad at me when you have a girlfriend??" Well, he went back "home" to his GF and they bought a house together. 8 months later, he came back talking about how he was unhappy with his relationship. SMH Men
Wow! Are you still with the other guy?
Posted by geminicandle
I think in order to be fair, things should be discussed in every relationship what really counts as cheating.
I don't think I'd be mad if my man had a meaningless one night stand. After all, he is just a man.
Why ruin otherwise a good relationship over that?
But if I knew he was falling for someone else, then I'd tell him to go do what makes him happy.
However, men go crazy if girl physically cheats!!!!
Which is why I would never admit it to my aries guy
No need to hurt his ego.
I'm not having ANY of it! Lol.
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by natural25Posted by aquapiscescusp
My first bf cheated on me... a few times. He was messed up, I tried to make it work. At the time I loved him endlessly --it destroyed me. It changed me to the core. That was the last time someone cheated on me.
how did it change you? trust issues?
Yeah, and that giving it your all... 100 % , not able to. No one will ever get that from me again, it's gone.click to expand
You never know... Love is a crazy thing. 🙂
Posted by tiziani
Yeah I emotionally cheated. So I was told. I didn't even know what emotional cheating was at the time.
Anyway when she moved country away I got drunk one night after a close friend bought me a lot of tequilas, the next morning I was engaged to my friend. Emotional cheating done the professional way.
Huh!? You cheated by getting engaged to your close friend?
Posted by natural25Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by natural25Posted by aquapiscescusp
My first bf cheated on me... a few times. He was messed up, I tried to make it work. At the time I loved him endlessly --it destroyed me. It changed me to the core. That was the last time someone cheated on me.
how did it change you? trust issues?
Yeah, and that giving it your all... 100 % , not able to. No one will ever get that from me again, it's gone.
You never know... Love is a crazy thing. 🙂click to expand
OH I know 😛
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by natural25Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by natural25Posted by aquapiscescusp
My first bf cheated on me... a few times. He was messed up, I tried to make it work. At the time I loved him endlessly --it destroyed me. It changed me to the core. That was the last time someone cheated on me.
how did it change you? trust issues?
Yeah, and that giving it your all... 100 % , not able to. No one will ever get that from me again, it's gone.
You never know... Love is a crazy thing. 🙂
OH I know 😛click to expand
🙂 🙂 🙂
Posted by Sagtastic1Posted by natural25Posted by Sagtastic1
In my youth, I cheated. I was so self absorbed it was ridiculous! I broke a couple of hearts in my day and I feel terrible about it now.
Fast forward. Karma is a bitch, my ex husband cheated on me and it pretty much killed me.
"Somewhere in the middle" I had a relationship with a guy who had a girlfriend for two years (a Sag sun/Cap moon like myself) Not only did he physically cheat on his GF, but he did emotionally too. We had and still do have a "bond" that just can't be put into words, but in my eyes, I was with an "involved" man and I knew it wasn't going anywhere so I did not turn down other dates. The funny part about it is I got caught up with a new guy of interest (we did not have sex yet) and the sag at the same time. They ran into each other at my apartment. The Sag was so mad and hurt it was crazy! I'm like, "How are you going to be mad at me when you have a girlfriend??" Well, he went back "home" to his GF and they bought a house together. 8 months later, he came back talking about how he was unhappy with his relationship. SMH Men
Wow! Are you still with the other guy?
Nope! It lasted a year and ran it's course. I had to initiate a break-up because I needed to redirect my focus. The *new* guy still doesn't know he walked right pass the Sag. LOL That's some ol pimp shit. Hahahahaha #YOLOclick to expand
Im going to call you Iceberg Slim from now on... LOL!
Posted by tizianiPosted by natural25Posted by tiziani
Yeah I emotionally cheated. So I was told. I didn't even know what emotional cheating was at the time.
Anyway when she moved country away I got drunk one night after a close friend bought me a lot of tequilas, the next morning I was engaged to my friend. Emotional cheating done the professional way.
Huh!? You cheated by getting engaged to your close friend?
Hey I didn't think it made sense either but I can understand why she was genuinely hurt by it. Was barely a few months after she moved out and she felt I'd betrayed her by spending so much time at work with my "friend" that eventually turned into my fiancee.click to expand
You proposed to your friend while you were still in a relationship with your current gf?!?! Lol. Uhhh yea! That would qualify as cheating. I'd be pretty upset also.
Did you two get married?? LOL. Smh.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24Posted by natural25Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
I've been cheated on once a couple years back. Which was caused by the notion of me cheating first.
Other than that, I was in the process of cheating when I was like 17, but didn't get the chance to.
Lol. Every time you kill me!!! Please explain how you were "in the process" of cheating—
Ahahahah! Well word got to her from the person I was going to cheat with. The person I was going to cheat with didn't know I had a girlfriend, so I guess she heard it through the grapevine. *Shruggs* She ended up telling my girl that I was about to rock her world. Then I got a phone call from an angry female. THEE END. 😄click to expand
LOL!!! Smh. Gotta clean your game up, eh?
Tried to cheat couple of times, but it didn't work??_
Have to change the plans I guess? Any professional cheater out there..:?? Seriously need help..
Have to change the plans I guess? Any professional cheater out there..:?? Seriously need help..
tiziani - OMG!! How old were you? What sign are you with all this craziness going on— Lol.
Sagtastic1 - You should write a book. Every other woman who thinks like a man, or thinks, she thinks like am an is doing it. Ride the wave girl! LOL!
Qbone - I suppose that there is indeed a strategy. Lol!!
Sagtastic1 - You should write a book. Every other woman who thinks like a man, or thinks, she thinks like am an is doing it. Ride the wave girl! LOL!
Qbone - I suppose that there is indeed a strategy. Lol!!
I've never cheated.
Been cheated on, and he told me (she was a recent widow, he was trying to comfort her - yeah, right!) - makes him a much better person, yes?? :/
Ex-husband cheated as well, didn't tell me. But, come on, going to another woman's house for dinner (did tell me), not answering your phone and telling me you fell asleep in your car at the park late at night, empty bottle of Viagra in the truck upon moving to my location... yeah, he cheated on me. Certain of it! Explains his jealous rages... he was always accusing me of cheating. It was bad, my son fell at the park and a father there brought him home, I was accused of knowing the guy and having had probably slept with him. He thought people (men) were sitting in parked cars outside, waiting for him to go to work. He was jealous of me hugging my own brother when he visited. He would claim to have seen me with other guys. Found him outside the Uni with a camera as I came out of a final and was drilled as to why I was getting out early from the test and who I was going to meet. I was a bitch, slut, horror, locked in the closet, he even asked one night if I ever thought he could kill me in my sleep and told my kids he was going to burn the house down with everyone in it. Yeah, happy times...
Been cheated on, and he told me (she was a recent widow, he was trying to comfort her - yeah, right!) - makes him a much better person, yes?? :/
Ex-husband cheated as well, didn't tell me. But, come on, going to another woman's house for dinner (did tell me), not answering your phone and telling me you fell asleep in your car at the park late at night, empty bottle of Viagra in the truck upon moving to my location... yeah, he cheated on me. Certain of it! Explains his jealous rages... he was always accusing me of cheating. It was bad, my son fell at the park and a father there brought him home, I was accused of knowing the guy and having had probably slept with him. He thought people (men) were sitting in parked cars outside, waiting for him to go to work. He was jealous of me hugging my own brother when he visited. He would claim to have seen me with other guys. Found him outside the Uni with a camera as I came out of a final and was drilled as to why I was getting out early from the test and who I was going to meet. I was a bitch, slut, horror, locked in the closet, he even asked one night if I ever thought he could kill me in my sleep and told my kids he was going to burn the house down with everyone in it. Yeah, happy times...
PotHeadVirgo24 - If what you say is true, you're a wise man.... **giving you a Scorpio side eye**
tiziani - Young and indecisive, eh?!?! LOL!! Libras are craazzzyyyy!
I have dated two Libras and I have a close friend who is Libra male. One Libra I dated, was Mr. Too Cool and it was obvious he was a panty sniffer. The other, was controlling. He was so unlike a Libra. The more I would push away the more he would chase after me. It was insane. It took a while for him to leave me alone. And my male Libra friend, claims he wants a relationship but does everything that is NOT conducive to being in a relationship, including dating women he subconsciously knows he will never commit to. Self sabotage much? You Libra men are something else! Lol.
tiziani - Young and indecisive, eh?!?! LOL!! Libras are craazzzyyyy!
I have dated two Libras and I have a close friend who is Libra male. One Libra I dated, was Mr. Too Cool and it was obvious he was a panty sniffer. The other, was controlling. He was so unlike a Libra. The more I would push away the more he would chase after me. It was insane. It took a while for him to leave me alone. And my male Libra friend, claims he wants a relationship but does everything that is NOT conducive to being in a relationship, including dating women he subconsciously knows he will never commit to. Self sabotage much? You Libra men are something else! Lol.
Posted by lildol
I've never cheated.
Been cheated on, and he told me (she was a recent widow, he was trying to comfort her - yeah, right!) - makes him a much better person, yes?? :/
Ex-husband cheated as well, didn't tell me. But, come on, going to another woman's house for dinner (did tell me), not answering your phone and telling me you fell asleep in your car at the park late at night, empty bottle of Viagra in the truck upon moving to my location... yeah, he cheated on me. Certain of it! Explains his jealous rages... he was always accusing me of cheating. It was bad, my son fell at the park and a father there brought him home, I was accused of knowing the guy and having had probably slept with him. He thought people (men) were sitting in parked cars outside, waiting for him to go to work. He was jealous of me hugging my own brother when he visited. He would claim to have seen me with other guys. Found him outside the Uni with a camera as I came out of a final and was drilled as to why I was getting out early from the test and who I was going to meet. I was a bitch, slut, horror, locked in the closet, he even asked one night if I ever thought he could kill me in my sleep and told my kids he was going to burn the house down with everyone in it. Yeah, happy times...
Im sorry but I literally just LOL'ed @ "empty bottle of Viagra."
These men.... SMH.
Posted by BikerCh1ck
I was cheated on my first ever relationship(aries) with a redhead
I was cheated on my second relationship ( saggitarius) with a blonde
I was cheated on my third relationship( pisces) with someone called Rachel
I was cheated on my fourth relationship ( gemini) with someone called Rebecca
I took a break and then got into another relationship with a scorpio that had kept his old gf and was cheating for a year until my friends told me and encouraged me to cheat on him with another gemini. Then I told him. He didn't want to break up. I was faithful and he cheated again on me and they told me. So I cheated again on him with a pisces, then he cheated with someone else then I cheated with another 2 pisces and a taurus and then I dumped him.
So I got couple of years later in a relationship with a Leo that lasted only 3 weeks because he cheated on me with an italian girl.
Finally, my last relationship with a cancer he cheated on me with another gemini girl that looked like a cockroach and I am sure that he dumped me after 2 years of being together to be with her. I wish him good luck he deserves a woman like her.
Yikes..... Wow.... That is crazy..... Smh.
Were there any indications of infidelity with any of them, prior to them getting caught?
Posted by BikerCh1ck
I was cheated on my first ever relationship(aries) with a redhead
I was cheated on my second relationship ( saggitarius) with a blonde
I was cheated on my third relationship( pisces) with someone called Rachel
I was cheated on my fourth relationship ( gemini) with someone called Rebecca
I took a break and then got into another relationship with a scorpio that had kept his old gf and was cheating for a year until my friends told me and encouraged me to cheat on him with another gemini. Then I told him. He didn't want to break up. I was faithful and he cheated again on me and they told me. So I cheated again on him with a pisces, then he cheated with someone else then I cheated with another 2 pisces and a taurus and then I dumped him.
So I got couple of years later in a relationship with a Leo that lasted only 3 weeks because he cheated on me with an italian girl.
Finally, my last relationship with a cancer he cheated on me with another gemini girl that looked like a cockroach and I am sure that he dumped me after 2 years of being together to be with her. I wish him good luck he deserves a woman like her.
Oh my gaaah.
Maybe you need a nice Taurus-- or a Cancer.
o.O
Posted by tiziani
LOL yes, we can be assholes. Douchebags. The feminine men of the zodiac. I've heard it all. All true.
But everything goes better with a smile and some dimples? 😏
LOL! But...but..... but... who can resist a man with DIMPLES! ANNNNND a nice smile— Lol.
I think with a Libra man, the woman is best suited to allow him to lead and chase her - just sit back and not initiate too much. Ha! I think that's why my ex acted the way he did over me. A lot of women typically flocked to him and that is what he was used to. When I flipped it on him, he didn't know what end was up. Lol.
What are some of the responses people get when they have caught their s/o cheating??
My friends and I always laugh because we have known of a few instances where other mutual friends who caught their bf's cheating got the tables completely turned on them. Lol. The woman will present her bf with her evidence and be angry as hell, and he will cleverly find a way to flip it on her and then get mad himself. As my dad used to say, "he would beat her getting mad." LOL. That's that pimp ish..... Lol.
My friends and I always laugh because we have known of a few instances where other mutual friends who caught their bf's cheating got the tables completely turned on them. Lol. The woman will present her bf with her evidence and be angry as hell, and he will cleverly find a way to flip it on her and then get mad himself. As my dad used to say, "he would beat her getting mad." LOL. That's that pimp ish..... Lol.
Posted by EccentricUranianPosted by twinklebluetoes
Never cheated.
I just break up when I'm not into them anymore.
That's me. When I'm done that's what I do.click to expand
When I am done with someone it typically make me nauseous to be with them anymore... So the above typically describes my strategy. For some reason, when Im done. Im D.O.N.E.
Posted by tizianiPosted by natural25Posted by tiziani
LOL yes, we can be assholes. Douchebags. The feminine men of the zodiac. I've heard it all. All true.
But everything goes better with a smile and some dimples? 😏
LOL! But...but..... but... who can resist a man with DIMPLES! ANNNNND a nice smile— Lol.
I think with a Libra man, the woman is best suited to allow him to lead and chase her - just sit back and not initiate too much. Ha! I think that's why my ex acted the way he did over me. A lot of women typically flocked to him and that is what he was used to. When I flipped it on him, he didn't know what end was up. Lol.
You know I can't even lie.... this has proven to be very accurate. Some of my Virgo placements would disagree because it can get tiring, but as a Libra yes... when I get to initiate I feel things I've never felt before. A very protective streak I never knew I had within me.click to expand
Yup Libra men need to have a sense of ownership in order to take a woman seriously. In order to get a sense of ownership and accountability, its been my experience, you all have to INVEST in the woman. Although, you guys will go for the easy one, it wont last long. It will be very superficial, you will grow bored and it will be on to the next.
I think Libra men also like the idea of having a beautiful women or at least a woman that is desirable. In this way you, you guys arent like a Gem or a Aquarius man. For men, desirability sometimes rests in the idea that others are wanting after her. A woman who is easy appears to be desperate and as though.... well... no one desires her. LOL!
Posted by natural25
Who has cheated on their significant other?
Who has knowingly been cheated on?
Please share your experiences.....
I haven't cheated-- if it's over, it's just over-- time to move on.
But I *was* cheated on by the first bf.
I forgave him the first time, but not the second.
And tbh, I really dumped him because he was irresponsible-- Pisces.
Though he had many other FINE qualities-- at 19, it was hard enough taking care of myself-- much less the both of us.
If anyone else cheated on me, I don't know about it. 🙂
Never cheated. Do not see the attraction behind the concept either, be it, emotionally, mentally or spiritually, all very draining.
Even if the heart is fickle, never leave potholes of turd everywhere, instead neatly fill each one up dutifully before moving unto the next. It keeps ones journey on in life, nice and smooth, no drama, less of a bumpy ride, respecting all parties whilst keeping ones reputation in tact.
Even if the heart is fickle, never leave potholes of turd everywhere, instead neatly fill each one up dutifully before moving unto the next. It keeps ones journey on in life, nice and smooth, no drama, less of a bumpy ride, respecting all parties whilst keeping ones reputation in tact.
Posted by Stuckinpurgatory
Heh my first gf was a Leo 🙂.
Yeah-- you Pisces are fun.
My ex was Pisces sun and moon, and he just wanted to have a good time; there wasn't a mean bone in his body.
I was pissed at him for years, but I look back on him now as one my favorite people.
Go figure. 😉
Posted by BikerCh1ck
Posted by Montgomery
Oh my gaaah.
Maybe you need a nice Taurus-- or a Cancer.
o.O
I am flirting with a taurus right now. Fingers crossed he is going to be an honest person. Time will show.
I gave up on cancers. Even the first guy I kissed that was a cancer was a cheater.click to expand
Well-- I'm crossing my fingers too, then. 🙂
If he isn't, you're going to have to get the next one screened by a panel here, at DXP.
Or something.
lol
Posted by StuckinpurgatoryPosted by MontgomeryPosted by Stuckinpurgatory
Heh my first gf was a Leo 🙂.
Yeah-- you Pisces are fun.
My ex was Pisces sun and moon, and he just wanted to have a good time; there wasn't a mean bone in his body.
I was pissed at him for years, but I look back on him now as one my favorite people.
Go figure. 😉
Yeah, she broke up with me one day for no real solid reason. I shrugged it off and went on about my business. She chased me for another few years. Not sure why you would break up with someone you then turn around and want back o.O.click to expand
Idk-- that kind of mystifies me, too.
Maybe she was still feeling territorial.
I was like that-- I wouldn't have gotten back together, but it took a minute to completely detach.
But we had all the same friends, too-- so it was difficult to avoid each other, at the time.
No solid reason-- *not buying it* 😛
Posted by MontgomeryPosted by natural25
Who has cheated on their significant other?
Who has knowingly been cheated on?
Please share your experiences.....
I haven't cheated-- if it's over, it's just over-- time to move on.
But I *was* cheated on by the first bf.
I forgave him the first time, but not the second.
And tbh, I really dumped him because he was irresponsible-- Pisces.
Though he had many other FINE qualities-- at 19, it was hard enough taking care of myself-- much less the both of us.
If anyone else cheated on me, I don't know about it. 🙂
click to expand
Yea.... taking care of a man at any age is never the ideal situation. Lol.
Posted by Sagtastic1Posted by natural25
What are some of the responses people get when they have caught their s/o cheating??My reason was I wasn't getting enough attention (this was in my self-absorbed days)
My ex told me it kinda just happened. Yeah ok, you go out drinking and go back to her brother's apartment to chill. OH she's kissing me, dick get's hard, But it fell in. He had full intentions on banging that girl before we moved from AZ to DC. He probably thought "no one will ever find out" Well, her husband did, and threatened to kill his ass. SMH I am so glad I do not have to deal with that drama anymoreclick to expand
She was married!?!? YIKES!!!
Posted by tiziani
The force is strong in your Libra Moon, natural. Very strong indeed. Just don't go selling all our state secrets to the world will you? 😉
Lol. Yes my Libra moon is strong and my knowledge of SOME men equally as strong. Ha!
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
Never cheated. Do not see the attraction behind the concept either, be it, emotionally, mentally or spiritually, all very draining.
Even if the heart is fickle, never leave potholes of turd everywhere, instead neatly fill each one up dutifully before moving unto the next. It keeps ones journey on in life, nice and smooth, no drama, less of a bumpy ride, respecting all parties whilst keeping ones reputation in tact.
I just love reading your responses. Lol.
Agreed. Cheating inevitably causes more chaos and confusion than it is worth
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by natural25Posted by BikerCh1ck
I was cheated on my first ever relationship(aries) with a redhead
I was cheated on my second relationship ( saggitarius) with a blonde
I was cheated on my third relationship( pisces) with someone called Rachel
I was cheated on my fourth relationship ( gemini) with someone called Rebecca
I took a break and then got into another relationship with a scorpio that had kept his old gf and was cheating for a year until my friends told me and encouraged me to cheat on him with another gemini. Then I told him. He didn't want to break up. I was faithful and he cheated again on me and they told me. So I cheated again on him with a pisces, then he cheated with someone else then I cheated with another 2 pisces and a taurus and then I dumped him.
So I got couple of years later in a relationship with a Leo that lasted only 3 weeks because he cheated on me with an italian girl.
Finally, my last relationship with a cancer he cheated on me with another gemini girl that looked like a cockroach and I am sure that he dumped me after 2 years of being together to be with her. I wish him good luck he deserves a woman like her.
Yikes..... Wow.... That is crazy..... Smh.
Were there any indications of infidelity with any of them, prior to them getting caught?
emotional distance and anger. Also they wanted more private time. Cheating was starting when they were complaining that I was not giving them enough space.
Usually I would give it to them and when I would break the rules and be where I supposed not to be everything was revealed.
With the cancer I was told by the girl. He was the greatest cheater of all. Serial cheater. THat was his behavior in his previous relationship too. When we spoke about his ex in the beginning he told me that SHE cheated on him. After some time he admitted that it was him the cheater.click to expand
Do you think you have learned how to spot deception easier as a consequence of your past experiences?
Posted by Mr. Defense
I cheated on my Sag ex, but it was because she was playing the fence, never being up front, and I'm sure she was doing a little cheating on her own. I cheated on her several times with a Gemini
What was the outcome?
Posted by Mr. DefensePosted by Sagtastic1Posted by Mr. Defense
I cheated on my Sag ex, but it was because she was playing the fence, never being up front, and I'm sure she was doing a little cheating on her own. I cheated on her several times with a Gemini
she probably was feeling trapped
She probably was, but she came to me about the whole relationship thing. Then she decided to withdraw. Needless to say after I cheated, we broke up very soon after that. We're still friends till this day though, which is kind of a shock to me. I don't even talk to the Gemini anymoreclick to expand
Disregard my previous question. It's good that you two were able to remain friends. Similar to my ex and I.
Posted by StuckinpurgatoryPosted by natural25Posted by tiziani
The force is strong in your Libra Moon, natural. Very strong indeed. Just don't go selling all our state secrets to the world will you? 😉
Lol. Yes my Libra moon is strong and my knowledge of SOME men equally as strong. Ha!
Ooh, you must spill your secrets on a Libra moon. The Taurus I am interested in has this placement =O.click to expand
Oh geeeesshhhh!! Lol.
Thats an interesting combination... Earth and Air....
Posted by tiziani
Haha yeah that's another thing we realized last night. It's been a decade (nearly) since we first hit uni/college. jeez.
You mean since your freshman year in college?
Posted by StuckinpurgatoryPosted by MontgomeryPosted by StuckinpurgatoryPosted by MontgomeryPosted by Stuckinpurgatory
Heh my first gf was a Leo 🙂.
Yeah-- you Pisces are fun.
My ex was Pisces sun and moon, and he just wanted to have a good time; there wasn't a mean bone in his body.
I was pissed at him for years, but I look back on him now as one my favorite people.
Go figure. 😉
Yeah, she broke up with me one day for no real solid reason. I shrugged it off and went on about my business. She chased me for another few years. Not sure why you would break up with someone you then turn around and want back o.O.
Idk-- that kind of mystifies me, too.
Maybe she was still feeling territorial.
I was like that-- I wouldn't have gotten back together, but it took a minute to completely detach.
But we had all the same friends, too-- so it was difficult to avoid each other, at the time.
No solid reason-- *not buying it* 😛
The only thing I can think of is that I came down with a sickness for over a month, in which I didn't see her hardly. So maybe she thought I was uninterested? Back then I was all over her. I mean we hung out just about every day and were all over each other. There wasn't anything bad going on, I promise. I mean shit I was 15 and she was 14. First relationship too, so things were so new.click to expand
Ohhhh
I see-- I didn't realize you two were that young when you dated, so yep-- that could have done it.
🙂
BikerCh1ck - Isnt that the truth!
Posted by Stuckinpurgatory
Yeah and she has an Aries Venus :O
Wow.
Well.... That actually might be a nice balance.
I think I have too much passion and the sort going on in my chart....
Posted by tiziani
natural, not to hijack the thread but Jay was on Breakfast Club today -
Let me listen to my boy!
tiziani - thank you!!! You are amazing. Lol. Im watching. I LOVE this man. Idk what it is. Well I do... His talent, his power, his influence, his cool, his accent, serious humor.
LORD! SMH. Brb.... Lol
LORD! SMH. Brb.... Lol
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