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Posted by GemitatiNo she won't be.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by GemitatiStill shit, but I like this one liner of yours so you get a like.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by Arielle83I'm seeing a pattern.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?

Posted by LittleFairyBecause she is delusional?Posted by GemitatiNo she won't be.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by nikkistarBecause you are shit. ?Posted by GemitatiStill shit, but I like this one liner of yours so you get a like.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by GemitatiI just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.Posted by LittleFairyBecause she is delusional?Posted by GemitatiNo she won't be.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by GemitatiDon't be unkind. That's horrible to say.Posted by nikkistarBecause you are shit. ?Posted by GemitatiStill shit, but I like this one liner of yours so you get a like.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by Arielle83So you let him put ice cream IN your ass.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?

Posted by LittleFairyYou've being...delusional! But I believe you were born this way...Posted by GemitatiI just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.Posted by LittleFairyBecause she is delusional?Posted by GemitatiNo she won't be.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by LittleFairyShut ta hell up, Advocate without degree...Posted by GemitatiDon't be unkind. That's horrible to say.Posted by nikkistarBecause you are shit. ?Posted by GemitatiStill shit, but I like this one liner of yours so you get a like.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by GemitatiI bet you don't believe in climate change.Posted by LittleFairyYou've being...delusional! But I believe you were born this way...Posted by GemitatiI just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.Posted by LittleFairyBecause she is delusional?Posted by GemitatiNo she won't be.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentI've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.Posted by Arielle83I'm seeing a pattern.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.
Wtf.
Is this what Gemini drama is?
He's trying to make you jealous lol
And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
Who the fuvk is obsessed?
Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya
This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.
So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.
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Posted by LittleFairyI believe in climax change though...if you know what I mean...unlikely...Posted by GemitatiI bet you don't believe in climate change.Posted by LittleFairyYou've being...delusional! But I believe you were born this way...Posted by GemitatiI just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.Posted by LittleFairyBecause she is delusional?Posted by GemitatiNo she won't be.
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!
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Posted by Arielle83you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?Posted by EffervescentYa I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentYa he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentHe looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. WtfPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentI've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.Posted by Arielle83I'm seeing a pattern.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.
Wtf.
Is this what Gemini drama is?
He's trying to make you jealous lol
And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
Who the fuvk is obsessed?
Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya
This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.
So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.
Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.
LOL
Fuvking weirdo
Tell people the truth and burn his assclick to expand

Posted by einpiscesIt's all good if they are that way in their own world, on their own.Posted by nikkistarI think its much more better for them being delusional, be confident and be happy, than accepting the truth they sucks and be sad, depressed and keep depressed of who they are.
Let's discuss delusions people have
There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.
Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.
Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.
Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional
Logical perspective, i think its not chameleon, chameleon change depending on their surrounding.
I think, its delusional effect, or cant move on/stuck on the past effect.
Well... as long as they did not bother me, they can do whatever they like i guess.
I did not like judging other people who do no bad on me.
Actually, i kinda take pity on those kind of guy.click to expand

Posted by rabidtalkerHmmm why do you ask? Is there something about this aspect?Posted by Arielle83you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?Posted by EffervescentYa I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentYa he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentHe looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. WtfPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentI've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.Posted by Arielle83I'm seeing a pattern.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.
Wtf.
Is this what Gemini drama is?
He's trying to make you jealous lol
And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
Who the fuvk is obsessed?
Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya
This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.
So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.
Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.
LOL
Fuvking weirdo
Tell people the truth and burn his ass
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Posted by rabidtalkerYeah I have the same aspect as her. Do tell us more.
@arielle83 and @ram416 mars-pluto square and obsession is a theme, arielle's kind of describing an obsession of sorts

Posted by Arielle83What don't you understand?Posted by rabidtalkerMars square Pluto. What dis mean?Posted by Arielle83you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?Posted by EffervescentYa I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentYa he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentHe looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. WtfPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentI've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.Posted by Arielle83I'm seeing a pattern.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.
Wtf.
Is this what Gemini drama is?
He's trying to make you jealous lol
And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
Who the fuvk is obsessed?
Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya
This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.
So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.
Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.
LOL
Fuvking weirdo
Tell people the truth and burn his ass
click to expand

Posted by Arielle83More than 12 hours daily 7 days per week?Posted by GemitatiGet a jobPosted by Arielle83What don't you understand?Posted by rabidtalkerMars square Pluto. What dis mean?Posted by Arielle83you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?Posted by EffervescentYa I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentYa he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.Posted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentHe looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. WtfPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentPosted by Arielle83Posted by EffervescentI've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.Posted by Arielle83Posted by Ram416Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.Posted by Arielle83I'm seeing a pattern.
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.
Wtf.
Is this what Gemini drama is?
He's trying to make you jealous lol
And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
Who the fuvk is obsessed?
Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya
This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.
So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.
Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.
LOL
Fuvking weirdo
Tell people the truth and burn his ass
Mars is a planet
Square is the shape
Pluto is a dog...
Easier than have cold desert up your ass!
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Posted by The_AndsActually what she described is the essence of YOU.
What you describe is the essence of #cope

Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.
What the fuvk?
I don't talk to the love bomb freak.
Is this what narcissism looks like?
Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?

Posted by nikkistarIt's simple. Ignorance is bliss. The truth is depressing to them, so they instead prefer to make themselves feel better by living in a state of delusion. Ands is a prime example of that. Although the harder he tries, it's even more indicative of the delusion actually failing to register in his mind so he tries even harder.
Let's discuss delusions people have
There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.
Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.
Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.
Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional


Posted by PetalsThat's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.

Posted by Ram416I agree with 2) being delusional, definitely. But i dont think people who catfish are delusional, they know pretty well what they are doing... Its the same as cheating.Posted by PetalsThat's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
Look at this example :
1) People who catfish
2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.click to expand

Posted by The_AndsPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by The_AndsActually what she described is the essence of YOU.
What you describe is the essence of #cope
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Posted by PetalsWhen I mentioned catfish, I didn't mean they are delusional. What I meant was they use the concept of delusion to their advantage. Of course they know full well what they are doing - if they didn't know it would be too easy to catch them in their own game. So they create a facade, an illusion of an ideal.Posted by Ram416I agree with 2) being delusional, definitely. But i dont think people who catfish are delusional, they know pretty well what they are doing... Its the same as cheating.Posted by PetalsThat's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
Look at this example :
1) People who catfish
2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.click to expand

Posted by Ram416Oh... I agree with that.Posted by PetalsWhen I mentioned catfish, I didn't mean they are delusional. What I meant was they use the concept of delusion to their advantage. Of course they know full well what they are doing - if they didn't know it would be too easy to catch them in their own game. So they create a facade, an illusion of an ideal.Posted by Ram416I agree with 2) being delusional, definitely. But i dont think people who catfish are delusional, they know pretty well what they are doing... Its the same as cheating.Posted by PetalsThat's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
Look at this example :
1) People who catfish
2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.
Although with an odd twist, such effort in order to achieve some sort of self-worth and in most cases, some amount of money, can be considered somewhat delusional.click to expand


Posted by rabidtalkerI can relate so much ?
mars-pluto square can sometimes manifest as you either are obsessed with someone who doesnt care about you or treats you badly or the opposite: someone is obsessed with you and you dont care about them.

Posted by MyStarsShineTheir problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true
Deluded

Posted by Simsimi
Jeez
The ones who can't stop blabbing about achievements in the now ?
Yeah got three mansions, im being paid this and that, next shipment in two.
Cool, want a f**ken cookie ??


Posted by Ram416Wow what an original response...
I had shit years in high school hahah.
Some people choose to live in their delusions because reality is often just too hard for them.

Posted by nikkistarlol
Let's discuss delusions people have
There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.
Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.
Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.
Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes true, but it runs deeper than thatPosted by MyStarsShineTheir problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true
Deludedclick to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineUnless you're both male = no womb to speak ofPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes true, but it runs deeper than thatPosted by MyStarsShineTheir problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true
Deluded
Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is
Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after
Mythclick to expand


Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes exactlyPosted by MyStarsShineUnless you're both male = no womb to speak ofPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes true, but it runs deeper than thatPosted by MyStarsShineTheir problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true
Deluded
Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is
Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after
Myth![]()
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Posted by MyStarsShineYeeeeeee not the best idea, reading/watching something that would hit too close to home. Same goes for Fatal Attraction. Oh god she was in that too.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes exactlyPosted by MyStarsShineUnless you're both male = no womb to speak ofPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes true, but it runs deeper than thatPosted by MyStarsShineTheir problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true
Deluded
Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is
Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after
Myth![]()
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Putting people into boxes and expecting them to stay there equals disaster
Christ, the Stepford Wife thing was probably one of the scariest horror stories i ever heard of
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes exactlyPosted by MyStarsShineUnless you're both male = no womb to speak ofPosted by HeavyEntertainmentShowYes true, but it runs deeper than thatPosted by MyStarsShineTheir problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true
Deluded
Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is
Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after
Myth![]()
![]()
Putting people into boxes and expecting them to stay there equals disaster
Christ, the Stepford Wife thing was probably one of the scariest horror stories i ever heard of
😱click to expand

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There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.
Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.
Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.
Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional