Delusional People

You are on page out of 2 | Reverse Order
Profile picture of nikkistar
Lifelong Cat Lady
@nikkistar
8 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 7399 · Posts: 18799 · Topics: 84
Let's discuss delusions people have

There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.

Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.

Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.

Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional
Profile picture of Gemitati
Gemitati
@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.

What the fuvk?

I don't talk to the love bomb freak.

Is this what narcissism looks like?

Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
So you let him put ice cream IN your ass.

Then you let him eat it out of your ass.

And you call him delusional—

Of course guy thinks you are into him!

Truth or dare...was there cherry on the top? You'll never know right? ?
Profile picture of Gemitati
Gemitati
@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!

?
No she won't be.
Because she is delusional?
I just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.
click to expand

You've being...delusional! But I believe you were born this way...
Profile picture of LittleFairy
LittleFairy
@LittleFairy
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1971 · Posts: 4663 · Topics: 69
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!

?
No she won't be.
Because she is delusional?
I just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.
You've being...delusional! But I believe you were born this way...
click to expand

I bet you don't believe in climate change.
Profile picture of LittleFairy
LittleFairy
@LittleFairy
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 1971 · Posts: 4663 · Topics: 69
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.

What the fuvk?

I don't talk to the love bomb freak.

Is this what narcissism looks like?

Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
I'm seeing a pattern.
Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.

Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.

Wtf.

Is this what Gemini drama is?



He's trying to make you jealous lol

And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
I've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.

Who the fuvk is obsessed?

Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya



This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.

So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.

click to expand


What age is he?
Profile picture of Gemitati
Gemitati
@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LittleFairy
Posted by Gemitati
Start with yourself. You'll be terrified!

?
No she won't be.
Because she is delusional?
I just think you are being over dramatic. I don't think having your delusions washed away is ever scary...not in the end it's liberating and grounding.
You've being...delusional! But I believe you were born this way...
I bet you don't believe in climate change.
click to expand

I believe in climax change though...if you know what I mean...unlikely...
Profile picture of rabidtalker
RabidTalker
@rabidtalker
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 746 · Posts: 5608 · Topics: 190
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.

What the fuvk?

I don't talk to the love bomb freak.

Is this what narcissism looks like?

Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
I'm seeing a pattern.
Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.

Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.

Wtf.

Is this what Gemini drama is?



He's trying to make you jealous lol

And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
I've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.

Who the fuvk is obsessed?

Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya



This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.

So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.



Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.


He looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. Wtf

LOL
Ya he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.

Fuvking weirdo

Tell people the truth and burn his ass
Ya I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.
click to expand

you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?
Profile picture of Ram416
Ram416
@Ram416
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 4530 · Posts: 12486 · Topics: 56
Posted by einpisces
Posted by nikkistar
Let's discuss delusions people have

There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.

Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.

Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.

Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional
I think its much more better for them being delusional, be confident and be happy, than accepting the truth they sucks and be sad, depressed and keep depressed of who they are.

Logical perspective, i think its not chameleon, chameleon change depending on their surrounding.

I think, its delusional effect, or cant move on/stuck on the past effect.

Well... as long as they did not bother me, they can do whatever they like i guess.

I did not like judging other people who do no bad on me.

Actually, i kinda take pity on those kind of guy.
click to expand

It's all good if they are that way in their own world, on their own.

But I draw the line at when they drag other people into their delusion.
Profile picture of Ram416
Ram416
@Ram416
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 4530 · Posts: 12486 · Topics: 56
Posted by rabidtalker
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.

What the fuvk?

I don't talk to the love bomb freak.

Is this what narcissism looks like?

Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
I'm seeing a pattern.
Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.

Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.

Wtf.

Is this what Gemini drama is?



He's trying to make you jealous lol

And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
I've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.

Who the fuvk is obsessed?

Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya



This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.

So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.



Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.


He looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. Wtf

LOL
Ya he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.

Fuvking weirdo

Tell people the truth and burn his ass
Ya I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.
you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?

click to expand

Hmmm why do you ask? Is there something about this aspect?
Profile picture of Gemitati
Gemitati
@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by rabidtalker
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.

What the fuvk?

I don't talk to the love bomb freak.

Is this what narcissism looks like?

Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
I'm seeing a pattern.
Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.

Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.

Wtf.

Is this what Gemini drama is?



He's trying to make you jealous lol

And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
I've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.

Who the fuvk is obsessed?

Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya



This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.

So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.



Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.


He looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. Wtf

LOL
Ya he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.

Fuvking weirdo

Tell people the truth and burn his ass
Ya I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.
you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?


Mars square Pluto. What dis mean?
click to expand

What don't you understand?

Mars is a planet

Square is the shape

Pluto is a dog...

Easier than have cold desert up your ass!

?
Profile picture of Gemitati
Gemitati
@Gemitati
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 2057 · Posts: 38091 · Topics: 1026
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by rabidtalker
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Effervescent
Posted by Arielle83
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Arielle83
Found out last night that Gemini that ate ice cream out of my ass told everyone that I'm in love with him and I'm obsessed.

What the fuvk?

I don't talk to the love bomb freak.

Is this what narcissism looks like?

Cuz I rejected being exclusive with him?
I'm seeing a pattern.
Ya we have mutual frievds and his roommate told me he's been saying I'm texting him etc. When I haven't talked to him in ages.

Oh and that time he kept making out with a new girl but looking at me when I was at the bar.

Wtf.

Is this what Gemini drama is?



He's trying to make you jealous lol

And you hurt his ego because you didn't want to be exclusive with him so he's telling everyone you're obsessed ~
I've gotten with 3 other dudes since. And 2 chicks.

Who the fuvk is obsessed?

Lmfao the dude fell hard for ya



This is the one that kept telling me he loved me and it freaked me out.

So he's actually obsessed if he's talking about me to his mates.



Wow. Is he hot? Nice? Maybe give him a chance. But Geminis are crazy.


He looks like shit. He texted me a few weeks ago asking how I am and told me he's been drunk everyday for the last 3 weeks. Wtf

LOL
Ya he's drunk and I'm obsessed. I'm just so pissed off cuz it's a small town. Now he's telling ppl he's bigger than he is.

Fuvking weirdo

Tell people the truth and burn his ass
Ya I told his roommate that that fool love bombed me and kept asking to be his gf.
you have mars-pluto square or venus-pluto square in your chart right?


Mars square Pluto. What dis mean?
What don't you understand?

Mars is a planet

Square is the shape

Pluto is a dog...

Easier than have cold desert up your ass!

?
Get a job
click to expand

More than 12 hours daily 7 days per week?

No! Thank you! I rather to have ice cream and eat it too!
Profile picture of HeavyEntertainmentShow
HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
8 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4555 · Posts: 7614 · Topics: 100
Posted by nikkistar
Let's discuss delusions people have

There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.

Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.

Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.

Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional
It's simple. Ignorance is bliss. The truth is depressing to them, so they instead prefer to make themselves feel better by living in a state of delusion. Ands is a prime example of that. Although the harder he tries, it's even more indicative of the delusion actually failing to register in his mind so he tries even harder.
Profile picture of Ram416
Ram416
@Ram416
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 4530 · Posts: 12486 · Topics: 56
Posted by Petals
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
That's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.

Look at this example :

1) People who catfish

2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.
Profile picture of Petals
Don't, just don't.
@Petals
8 YearsScorpio

Comments: 110 · Posts: 157 · Topics: 7
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Petals
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
That's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.

Look at this example :

1) People who catfish

2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.
click to expand

I agree with 2) being delusional, definitely. But i dont think people who catfish are delusional, they know pretty well what they are doing... Its the same as cheating.
Profile picture of Ram416
Ram416
@Ram416
9 Years10,000+ Posts

Comments: 4530 · Posts: 12486 · Topics: 56
Posted by Petals
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Petals
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
That's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.

Look at this example :

1) People who catfish

2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.
I agree with 2) being delusional, definitely. But i dont think people who catfish are delusional, they know pretty well what they are doing... Its the same as cheating.
click to expand

When I mentioned catfish, I didn't mean they are delusional. What I meant was they use the concept of delusion to their advantage. Of course they know full well what they are doing - if they didn't know it would be too easy to catch them in their own game. So they create a facade, an illusion of an ideal.

Although with an odd twist, such effort in order to achieve some sort of self-worth and in most cases, some amount of money, can be considered somewhat delusional.
Profile picture of Petals
Don't, just don't.
@Petals
8 YearsScorpio

Comments: 110 · Posts: 157 · Topics: 7
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Petals
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Petals
I think, no one can live in absolute reality, some amount of delusion is always there. Sadly... But then what is delusion? Maybe what I think is reality, will be delusion to u or what u think is reality is delusion to me.... I think its relative.
That's not really the kind of delusion OP is talking about.

Look at this example :

1) People who catfish

2) People who have an ideal and feel the need to impose that ideal onto others,regardless of circumstances.
I agree with 2) being delusional, definitely. But i dont think people who catfish are delusional, they know pretty well what they are doing... Its the same as cheating.
When I mentioned catfish, I didn't mean they are delusional. What I meant was they use the concept of delusion to their advantage. Of course they know full well what they are doing - if they didn't know it would be too easy to catch them in their own game. So they create a facade, an illusion of an ideal.

Although with an odd twist, such effort in order to achieve some sort of self-worth and in most cases, some amount of money, can be considered somewhat delusional.
click to expand

Oh... I agree with that.
Profile picture of EtherealTraveler
DividedWeCapricorn
@EtherealTraveler
8 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

Comments: 261 · Posts: 1160 · Topics: 39
Posted by rabidtalker
mars-pluto square can sometimes manifest as you either are obsessed with someone who doesnt care about you or treats you badly or the opposite: someone is obsessed with you and you dont care about them.


I can relate so much ?

Instead of being the victim, I impose my obsession against crushes who don't like me.

And to add onto that, I'm a delusional sociopath that catfishes. Go figure.

I also have moon square pluto and venus conjunct pluto.
Profile picture of HeavyEntertainmentShow
HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
8 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4555 · Posts: 7614 · Topics: 100
Posted by MyStarsShine
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true

Deluded
Their problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by nikkistar
Let's discuss delusions people have

There are those that live in the "Glory Days". You all know a person, that loves to tell stories about their past accomplishments in high school or in their younger years. They live in the past, and can't step out of it. They are incapable of understanding that the person they were then, is not the person they are now 10+ years later. Physically and mentally.

Then there are the people that believe they "deserve" a certain level of physical attractiveness in a potential spouse, even though they themselves aren't of the same caliber as what they require of their significant other. Reality to these people is only the tangible one that they have built in their mind, but is probably not realistic to their current status.

Then there are the people that may represent themselves to the world as more than what they are. By that, I mean, that they may "say" they are X, Y, and Z to potential spouses, but are really A, B, and C. This isn't always something that can be proven off the bat, but its something I notice happens. I call this the chameleon effect.

Discuss your experiences or why you believe people would opt to be delusional
lol

i like to look back at the past though, i love memories and childhood because it is the journey as a human being to come into this world and look back at the good and bad and what mistakes we did and try and do better.

if we forgot about our past, it would be terrible. we would end up making the same mistakes over and over again. and never learn from it.

and also if someone accomplished something in the past, like running a marathon 20 years ago and can't do it now...they can smile and think, wow!!! i could do it back then without breaking my back and running out of breath and taking heart pills.

no. 2 and 3,

well those are really delusional. and 3 is hoping and wishing.



Profile picture of MyStarsShine
MyStarsShine
@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 37529 · Posts: 41243 · Topics: 331
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true

Deluded
Their problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
click to expand

Yes true, but it runs deeper than that

Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is



Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after

Myth
Profile picture of HeavyEntertainmentShow
HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
8 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4555 · Posts: 7614 · Topics: 100
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true

Deluded
Their problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
Yes true, but it runs deeper than that

Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is

Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after

Myth
click to expand

Unless you're both male = no womb to speak of

Image Not Found

Image Not Found
Profile picture of MyStarsShine
MyStarsShine
@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 37529 · Posts: 41243 · Topics: 331
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true

Deluded
Their problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
Yes true, but it runs deeper than that

Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is

Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after

Myth
Unless you're both male = no womb to speak of

Image Not Found

Image Not Found
click to expand

Yes exactly

Putting people into boxes and expecting them to stay there equals disaster

Christ, the Stepford Wife thing was probably one of the scariest horror stories i ever heard of

😱
Profile picture of HeavyEntertainmentShow
HeavyEntertainmentShow
@HeavyEntertainmentShow
8 Years5,000+ Posts

Comments: 4555 · Posts: 7614 · Topics: 100
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true

Deluded
Their problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
Yes true, but it runs deeper than that

Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is

Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after

Myth
Unless you're both male = no womb to speak of

Image Not Found

Image Not Found
Yes exactly

Putting people into boxes and expecting them to stay there equals disaster

Christ, the Stepford Wife thing was probably one of the scariest horror stories i ever heard of

😱
click to expand

Yeeeeeee not the best idea, reading/watching something that would hit too close to home. Same goes for Fatal Attraction. Oh god she was in that too.

The best thing you can do for yourself and your man is to not attach any labels to what you are. Just appreciate it as it is without making it more complicated. You should've seen the way Jed shut his own mother down a couple days ago. He told her about us and she got very inquisitive about "where he stands". He shut her down good. My heart still skips a beat every time I flash back to it.
Profile picture of lisabethur8
lisabeth
@lisabethur8
13 Years50,000+ Posts

Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Posted by MyStarsShine
When people think that the fairy tale of *happily ever after* with one person for ever is true

Deluded
Their problem is they are too preoccupied with what their idea of a perfect relationship/life is that they fail to see said relationship/life for what it's really like. They put more pressure on themselves and their partner that way. Stupid idiots.
Yes true, but it runs deeper than that

Society brainwashes people to believe that is how it is

Dating > marriage > 2.5 children > happily ever after

Myth
Unless you're both male = no womb to speak of

Image Not Found

Image Not Found
Yes exactly

Putting people into boxes and expecting them to stay there equals disaster

Christ, the Stepford Wife thing was probably one of the scariest horror stories i ever heard of

😱
click to expand



i only saw the last film where the woman orchestrated everything and she wanted the man to be the man and the women be socialites. that was a weirdly "controlled" environment.
First
Previous
Next
Last