@DopeFly
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Posted by DopeFlyPosted by DMVI’m Black and I’ve yet to date
Muslim
Asian
Eastern European
Sag Sun
Muslim...as a race? You do know what a lot of Muslims are non-Middle Eastern and non-North African, right? There are plenty of Black and Asian Muslims out there.
Eastern European as a race kind of made me laugh as well
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Idk if you noticed but the conversation morphed into more than just dating by race.
I shifted with the conversation.
I’m sure that majority of us know the differences between race, religion and the like.
Absolutely never have, and likely never would, but it depends on what you mean by "race".
Posted by DMVWhat’s your race?
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Black.
I only date men that know how to handle my hair and (our potential daughter's hair)....I have curls, they pop, and need to be handled with as much care and love as I do. Dated a Spanish guy that helped me untangle my hair and he washed it with more care than any hairstylist I've ever had.
All the important Sag bits.
9th house too.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by FadedAriPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by DMVWhat’s your race?
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Yes I date out of my race, I’m white and have mostly dated black men (with the exception of one Lebanese guy).
I wouldn’t say I am color blind because I think to be color blind would mean that you don’t see the differences, injustices, inequalities etc between different races and cultures. Mars in sag. Gemini on 9th house but it’s empty, no personal planets in Gemini
Just be real don’t Black Gents just have it all.
I wouldn’t say the men I’ve dated “have it all”, because I’ve definitely had my share of disappointment and heartbreak lol but you can’t help who you love so it is what it is.
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Posted by DopeFlyBTW I'm a Libra, 9th house in Aquarius; Black, Asian, and tribal.
I won't be in a relationship with a White person because I don't want to be taken advantage of by any colonizers.
Dated all but White.
(Not all Europeans or European countries are White, by the way. I've dated Europeans.)
Any social justicy liberals want to pick apart what is wrong with this statement? ☝️
Or it's only wrong if I would say something like 'I won't be in a relationship with a black person cuz I refuse to associate with drugpeddlers.'
Seek counseling. White ppl aren't your problem.
Also, if you dated "all but white" then you also dated Arabs who've raided Africa for slaves for well over a thousand years, or approx about 800 years before the Europeans got into the action. But yeah... white devils, amiright 🤣
Posted by FadedAriPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by DMVWhat’s your race? You haven’t responded.
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Yes I date out of my race, I’m white and have mostly dated black men (with the exception of one Lebanese guy).
I wouldn’t say I am color blind because I think to be color blind would mean that you don’t see the differences, injustices, inequalities etc between different races and cultures. Mars in sag. Gemini on 9th house but it’s empty, no personal planets in Gemini
Just be real don’t Black Gents just have it all.click to expand
Posted by FadedAriPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by DMVWhat’s your race? You haven’t responded.
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Yes I date out of my race, I’m white and have mostly dated black men (with the exception of one Lebanese guy).
I wouldn’t say I am color blind because I think to be color blind would mean that you don’t see the differences, injustices, inequalities etc between different races and cultures. Mars in sag. Gemini on 9th house but it’s empty, no personal planets in Gemini
Just be real don’t Black Gents just have it all.click to expand
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by DopeFlyBTW I'm a Libra, 9th house in Aquarius; Black, Asian, and tribal.
I won't be in a relationship with a White person because I don't want to be taken advantage of by any colonizers.
Dated all but White.
(Not all Europeans or European countries are White, by the way. I've dated Europeans.)
Any social justicy liberals want to pick apart what is wrong with this statement? ☝️
Or it's only wrong if I would say something like 'I won't be in a relationship with a black person cuz I refuse to associate with drugpeddlers.'
Seek counseling. White ppl aren't your problem.
Also, if you dated "all but white" then you also dated Arabs who've raided Africa for slaves for well over a thousand years, or approx about 800 years before the Europeans got into the action. But yeah... white devils, amiright 🤣
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Counseling? Get over yourself.
FWIW I have dated Arabs, but I don't think they knew I was Black until I brought it up later.
Not interested in any feedback or analyses from "cultured" White Liberal sleuths, either.
Posted by Prince_PiscesSure. I can pretty much enjoy all dicks of the rainbow 🌈
Same here.
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by DopeFlyBTW I'm a Libra, 9th house in Aquarius; Black, Asian, and tribal.
I won't be in a relationship with a White person because I don't want to be taken advantage of by any colonizers.
Dated all but White.
(Not all Europeans or European countries are White, by the way. I've dated Europeans.)
Any social justicy liberals want to pick apart what is wrong with this statement? ☝️
Or it's only wrong if I would say something like 'I won't be in a relationship with a black person cuz I refuse to associate with drugpeddlers.'
Seek counseling. White ppl aren't your problem.
Also, if you dated "all but white" then you also dated Arabs who've raided Africa for slaves for well over a thousand years, or approx about 800 years before the Europeans got into the action. But yeah... white devils, amiright 🤣
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We get it.
You don’t date outside your race.
You can leave now.
Posted by LoggerAbsolutely never have, and likely never would, but it depends on what you mean by "race".
Then why are you always mentioning black transgender women?
Posted by WizardzI'm white and the only women I don't like the look of are really pale whites but that's because they look kind of ill to me. Like they never go out in the sun
Hahahahahaaa
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVWhat’s your race?
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Black.
I only date men that know how to handle my hair and (our potential daughter's hair)....I have curls, they pop, and need to be handled with as much care and love as I do. Dated a Spanish guy that helped me untangle my hair and he washed it with more care than any hairstylist I've ever had.
All the important Sag bits.
9th house too.
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That’s been a wish of mine for awhile
Posted by Moloko_vellocetWe get it.
You don’t date outside your race.
You can leave now.
Yeah dating a Filipina atm
Posted by DopeFlyPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by DopeFlyBTW I'm a Libra, 9th house in Aquarius; Black, Asian, and tribal.
I won't be in a relationship with a White person because I don't want to be taken advantage of by any colonizers.
Dated all but White.
(Not all Europeans or European countries are White, by the way. I've dated Europeans.)
Any social justicy liberals want to pick apart what is wrong with this statement? ☝️
Or it's only wrong if I would say something like 'I won't be in a relationship with a black person cuz I refuse to associate with drugpeddlers.'
Seek counseling. White ppl aren't your problem.
Also, if you dated "all but white" then you also dated Arabs who've raided Africa for slaves for well over a thousand years, or approx about 800 years before the Europeans got into the action. But yeah... white devils, amiright 🤣
Counseling? Get over yourself.
FWIW I have dated Arabs, but I don't think they knew I was Black until I brought it up later.
Not interested in any feedback or analyses from "cultured" White Liberal sleuths, either.
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The point isn't what they knew, the point is that you knew they were slave peddlers... then saying u won't associate with whites cuz of our colonial past then go on and date ppl who were handling slaves almost 1000 years before white Europeans. So how do you explain away that to yourself considering your blatant racism that u are so proud of?
Mixed race/heritage, also known as Eurasian.
I've only dated one person who was Eurasian, apart from that none other because there's just too few of us here.
So almost always outside of my race.
Neptune in Sag, 7th house.
MC Aqua in 9th house.
As a white male who's a strawberry blonde ginger(daywalker....I do tan) I've tried and it's a hell naw every time. Soooo no real point in trying anymore. I just find white woman really fucking boring. 7th house libra sun/7th house venus libra/9th house sag mars.
Posted by DMVPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVWhat’s your race?
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Black.
I only date men that know how to handle my hair and (our potential daughter's hair)....I have curls, they pop, and need to be handled with as much care and love as I do. Dated a Spanish guy that helped me untangle my hair and he washed it with more care than any hairstylist I've ever had.
All the important Sag bits.
9th house too.
That’s been a wish of mine for awhile
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Having a man tend and respond to your hair in a loving way definitely adds to bonding. Different level foreplay...
I'm Black but have only been married to Black men but have dated Asian, White, Arab. The best sex of all of them was with a White guy.
Posted by IxiIt's interesting...while I don't have a restriction on dating white women wholesale, I generally don't as I don't want to have to work overtime to translate my experience.
I find it's usually too much work on a day to day to get them to understand things like how race affects me and nearly all of my loved ones. Its not that that work can't be done...but I haven't met any white person who I am so enamored by that I feel that is a worthy cause for a labor of love. While I have and continue to work with some fantastic white folx in the movement those people (and their backgrounds) are not representative of the majority of white people.
If I do put in any of that work its also having to be on guard for unconscious biases, microagressions , outright racism, or gaslighting regarding issues of race.
*like* my relationships need to be a place where I can just "be", not explain what it's like to "be".
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVWhat’s your race?
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Black.
I only date men that know how to handle my hair and (our potential daughter's hair)....I have curls, they pop, and need to be handled with as much care and love as I do. Dated a Spanish guy that helped me untangle my hair and he washed it with more care than any hairstylist I've ever had.
All the important Sag bits.
9th house too.
That’s been a wish of mine for awhile
Having a man tend and respond to your hair in a loving way definitely adds to bonding. Different level foreplay...click to expand
I love having my hair played with.....its so soothing and sensual
My Taurus moon 🌝 says “ooooohhhhh”
Posted by IxiIt's interesting...while I don't have a restriction on dating white women wholesale, I generally don't as I don't want to have to work overtime to translate my experience.
I find it's usually too much work on a day to day to get them to understand things like how race affects me and nearly all of my loved ones. Its not that that work can't be done...but I haven't met any white person who I am so enamored by that I feel that is a worthy cause for a labor of love. While I have and continue to work with some fantastic white folx in the movement those people (and their backgrounds) are not representative of the majority of white people.
If I do put in any of that work its also having to be on guard for unconscious biases, microagressions , outright racism, or gaslighting regarding issues of race.
What about other blacks who do not share
your experience of what it's like to be black in 2021? Do you bother to explain to them and educate them on what experience they SHOULD be having?
Posted by IxiIt's interesting...while I don't have a restriction on dating white women wholesale, I generally don't as I don't want to have to work overtime to translate my experience.
I find it's usually too much work on a day to day to get them to understand things like how race affects me and nearly all of my loved ones. Its not that that work can't be done...but I haven't met any white person who I am so enamored by that I feel that is a worthy cause for a labor of love. While I have and continue to work with some fantastic white folx in the movement those people (and their backgrounds) are not representative of the majority of white people.
If I do put in any of that work its also having to be on guard for unconscious biases, microagressions , outright racism, or gaslighting regarding issues of race.
This. Gone out with over a hundred white girls and ended up marrying the first yellow I dated.
On a side note, pretty sure if I dated ixy first, I'd put a ring on his BBC.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by WizardzI'm white and the only women I don't like the look of are really pale whites but that's because they look kind of ill to me. Like they never go out in the sun
Hahahahahaaa
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?
Weirdo....
Posted by LoggerPosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by WizardzI'm white and the only women I don't like the look of are really pale whites but that's because they look kind of ill to me. Like they never go out in the sun
Hahahahahaaa
?
Weirdo....
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You’re the one who is downlow. Weirdo.
I have dated:
Greek
Danish
Italian
Italian/Hungarian
Polish
Portuguese/Spanish
Spanish
English
French
Finnish
Turkish
I have sun, Mars, Ceres, Juno in 9th house and the 5th house of my birth chart is Sagittarius.
You can tell who the White people are in this thread.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetYou can tell who the White people are in this thread.
No, you can't. This thread shows clearly any race can be racist
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetYou can tell who the White people are in this thread.
No, you can't. This thread shows clearly any race can be racist
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You’re the Whitest
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetYou can tell who the White people are in this thread.
No, you can't. This thread shows clearly any race can be racist
You’re the Whitest
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You're saying it like it's a bad thing
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetYou can tell who the White people are in this thread.
No, you can't. This thread shows clearly any race can be racist
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No question about it!
The people that are so quick to judge other people racist, are the most racist people in society.
All they do is diminish and minimize the impact of the word.
I’ve been getting a lot of attention from some fine men lately and it’s making me think about thinking about starting to date again 😂. They seem really nice so I want to make sure I’m all good before bringing someone else into my life. This one Jamaican guy, he makes me blush every time I talk to him. I end up avoiding talking to him because of it lol. But he’s so handsome and I love his accent. Met another guy and he has a really unique name—Roosevelt. I was instantly interested if not just for that, and the fact that he knew how to dress haha.
yes ❤️
sag venus, 9th house mercury and mars
Posted by Krabsstho his comments on rape were really weird. i'm heavily optimistic. my bad.
What are my comments on rape exactly? Funny how no one's actually able to quote my exact comments despite that my old account is still here..
All I see is a bunch of SJWs paraphrasing things out of context so it fits their agenda.. the way it usually goes with these weasels.
A lot of cringey racial fetishism (+ stereotyping) here. My answer is yes. Currently in an interracial relationship.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVWhat’s your race?
Is love blind for you?
What Sagittarius placements do you have?
What 9th placements do you have?
Black.
I only date men that know how to handle my hair and (our potential daughter's hair)....I have curls, they pop, and need to be handled with as much care and love as I do. Dated a Spanish guy that helped me untangle my hair and he washed it with more care than any hairstylist I've ever had.
All the important Sag bits.
9th house too.
That’s been a wish of mine for awhile
Having a man tend and respond to your hair in a loving way definitely adds to bonding. Different level foreplay...
I love having my hair played with.....its so soothing and sensual
My Taurus moon 🌝 says “ooooohhhhh”
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Yes, it can be quite nurturing. Knowing every part of me is accepted and embraced is important to me.
More about the man's ability to provide that than race/ethnicity.
Posted by KrabssPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Krabsstho his comments on rape were really weird. i'm heavily optimistic. my bad.
What are my comments on rape exactly? Funny how no one's actually able to quote my exact comments despite that my old account is still here..
All I see is a bunch of SJWs paraphrasing things out of context so it fits their agenda.. the way it usually goes with these weasels.
that thread was deleted and i'm not the one to do screenshots. you are weird, to put it mildly. or you have a problem to express yourself, or you troll cause you are bored. or all combined.
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You should know what I said if you think my comments on rape were "weird". So what were my comments?
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetYou can tell who the White people are in this thread.
No, you can't. This thread shows clearly any race can be racist
You’re the Whitest
You're saying it like it's a bad thing
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You think you’re the only white guy that dates outside his race and not make a big deal out of it.
But you actually do make a big deal of it, by pointing the finger at other white people, who date outside their race, and think they make a big deal.
It’s all you.
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Moloko_vellocetYou can tell who the White people are in this thread.
No, you can't. This thread shows clearly any race can be racist
You’re the Whitest
You're saying it like it's a bad thing
You think you’re the only white guy that dates outside his race and not make a big deal out of it.
But you actually do make a big deal of it, by pointing the finger at other white people, who date outside their race, and think they make a big deal.
It’s all you.
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It's all in your head. There is nothing of the sort in my comments. You are responding to the image you have of me in your head rather than what I've actually said. It's pretty common I've realized.
My posts are regarded as trolling when I'm actually making points the self righteous refuse to reflect on, hence "i dunno if you are trolling or..." - automated go to response.
So back to the topic, all I did was point fingers at the racist dating ideology that one or two of the members of the 'correct race' hold, correct race being non-white.
Also, where did I state that I have a habit of dating outside my race? I haven't even shared my dating history. Like I said, you are reading into my comments the image u have of me, rather than what I'm actually saying.
Posted by DopeFlyPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by DopeFlyPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by DopeFlyBTW I'm a Libra, 9th house in Aquarius; Black, Asian, and tribal.
I won't be in a relationship with a White person because I don't want to be taken advantage of by any colonizers.
Dated all but White.
(Not all Europeans or European countries are White, by the way. I've dated Europeans.)
Any social justicy liberals want to pick apart what is wrong with this statement? ☝️
Or it's only wrong if I would say something like 'I won't be in a relationship with a black person cuz I refuse to associate with drugpeddlers.'
Seek counseling. White ppl aren't your problem.
Also, if you dated "all but white" then you also dated Arabs who've raided Africa for slaves for well over a thousand years, or approx about 800 years before the Europeans got into the action. But yeah... white devils, amiright 🤣
Counseling? Get over yourself.
FWIW I have dated Arabs, but I don't think they knew I was Black until I brought it up later.
Not interested in any feedback or analyses from "cultured" White Liberal sleuths, either.
The point isn't what they knew, the point is that you knew they were slave peddlers... then saying u won't associate with whites cuz of our colonial past then go on and date ppl who were handling slaves almost 1000 years before white Europeans. So how do you explain away that to yourself considering your blatant racism that u are so proud of?
Whites have been dishonest, opportunistic and exploitative toward EVERY other race and walk of people they encounter. No kind relations or transparency with anybody, and they expect coddling and open arms in return.
That isn't really the case with people from the middle east. Not to the same extent, anyway.
In theory, even if somebody called my race(s) primitive savages and refused to date me on the grounds of my non-whiteness, I'd still keep it moving and get on with my life.
You wear thin, you have no charm whatsoever and your White entitlement is monumental. I'd chuck my spear at you.
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You mean white ppl have been among the most successful in CONQUERING territories? Cuz that's what it's called whenever non-whites "colonize" different chunks of the world. Conquest, fair and sqaure.
As far as world history goes you are giving white people way too much credit and power.
Also, do you consider Spanish and Portugese white? lol
And labeling a present day random white person as a colonizer for something they haven't done is also pretty fucking insane but it just shows your fragile mental state. Seek help.
That's another weak White defense mechanism; suggesting that other people "get psychological help" when somebody either doesn't agree with you, wants nothing to do with you, or calls you out.
Everyone with a different mindset is mentally ill!
Me, me, me! Worship my gross snorkel-d1ck and fat, furry form! I am WhiteMan, hear me roar!
I'll bet anything that your Filipina concubine has zero self-respect.
I forgot to mention, I have a Sagittarius moon/mercury and it's the second most-dominant sign in my chart(Aquarius is the first).
As mentioned in an earlier post, my sun sign is Libra, but my only other Libra placement is my Venus sign.
My rising sign is Scorpio.
Yeah, Sags do IR dating, but this is 2021, not the 1950s. No pat on the back, sorry.
Posted by DopeFlyThat's another weak White defense mechanism; suggesting that other people "get psychological help" when somebody either doesn't agree with you, wants nothing to do with you, or calls you out.
Everyone with a different mindset is mentally ill!
Me, me, me! Worship my gross snorkel-d1ck and fat, furry form! I am WhiteMan, hear me roar!
I'll bet anything that your Filipina concubine has zero self-respect.
WTH is this ones problema? Geezus
I like what likes me.
On topic with how this thread has turned:
So funny how a racist wants to get up in my chocolate puddin... This ain't slavery time, lol... Who da fuc?
Then, I remember what my Cap uncle told me, "everybody racist except when it comes to sex and drugs." Burn my lil girl ears... But, I watched... He ain lie.
Posted by Moloko_vellocet And White boy bragging about dating a Filipina is his card he’s playing with while he thinks he’s above some White liberal identity. He’s the Whitest stereotype
Bwahaha how am I bragging for simply replying to your assumptions about me ? Or did I dream this part 👇 like, what would have been the accurate response? See now what I mean by seek help?
Posted by DopeFlyI'll bet anything that your Filipina concubine has zero self-respect.
That's your racist assumption about Filipinas. See how we all racist 🙃
Lmaoooo so many social justicy liberal douchebags triggered by me dating a Filipina cuz it doesn't fit their fragile mental state. Y'all preach love and peace but only if you get to decide who gets to love who. You're all so phony and transparent
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IILmaoooo so many social justicy liberal douchebags triggered by me dating a Filipina cuz it doesn't fit their fragile mental state. Y'all preach love and peace but only if you get to decide who gets to love who. You're all so phony and transparent
It’s like you have no recollection of doing this from page 1.
Get psychological help
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Enfant-Terrible-IILmaoooo so many social justicy liberal douchebags triggered by me dating a Filipina cuz it doesn't fit their fragile mental state. Y'all preach love and peace but only if you get to decide who gets to love who. You're all so phony and transparent
It’s like you have no recollection of doing this from page 1.
Get psychological help
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Nope, I'm challenging what you people deem as (non-)racist. You however are sitting comfortably on your pedestal of righteousness passing judgement.
For example, your statement above: I am already considered a racist, but since you are passing that judgement on me it means you consider yourself better than me !
So when @DopeFly passed judgement on ALL present-day whites as "colonizers" while also reducing Filipino women to "concubines with 0 self respect", surely you can understand my bullshit radar is tingling. Bet you she wouldn't have called a Latina the same, or a black woman. So what does it make her? Better than lil' racist old me?
I accept your judgement. I have no problem being labelled as racist if that is the new improved terminology for what I am. But I am taking your delusional ass down with me as long as you insist on posing as someonw better than me. And that's fair.
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BTW I'm a Libra, 9th house in Aquarius; Black, Asian, and tribal.
I won't be in a relationship with a White person because I don't want to be taken advantage of by any colonizers.
Dated all but White.
(Not all Europeans or European countries are White, by the way. I've dated Europeans.)