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Characteristics/traits of the opposite gender?

Characteristics/traits of your own gender?

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@confusingconfused and @Fragrance

Opposite gender (male) :

Things I like about men are that they don't have the same insecurities as women, so they have (usually) a more relaxed attitude to things in the outside world. And they also have a better sense of humour than females. I don't know why that is. But women usually can't make me laugh as hard or as much.

Same gender (female) :

I love the resilience women have to situations throughout life. Getting messed around by men. Getting messed around by who they thought were close friends. (Because for some reason female+female friendships are more emotional than male+male) and then being in the workforce and getting treated lesser than their male counterparts, whilst maybe having kids. And they just deal. I always appreciate the really strong older females I meet that seem like they've been through it all and have seen it all. I am in awe of them.

Posted by confusingconfused
many men are just as insecure 😉

Yeah but in different ways. Men don't seem as uppity as women do on the surface.

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Posted by confusingconfused
many men are just as insecure 😉

Yeah but in different ways. Men don't seem as uppity as women do on the surface.

I think women are more delusional for sure (e.g. imaging the guy has someone else when there's no one else, imaging the guy is interested in her when he's NOT, etc. etc.) 😄

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Yeah, they just have weird thought processes sometimes I guess lol. But men are relaxed. A girlfriend will be like, "why have things between us felt different lately? What's going on?" And the guy will be like, "what in the heck are you talking about? Let's just keep watching this movie please."

I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

Posted by RumiL
I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

Omg when did you get back? ?

Posted by RumiL
I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

Lol exactly ?

The gender binary only constricts the answer...

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Posted by confusingconfused
many men are just as insecure 😉

Yeah but in different ways. Men don't seem as uppity as women do on the surface.

I think women are more delusional for sure (e.g. imaging the guy has someone else when there's no one else, imaging the guy is interested in her when he's NOT, etc. etc.) 😄

Yeah, they just have weird thought processes sometimes I guess lol. But men are relaxed. A girlfriend will be like, "why have things between us felt different lately? What's going on?" And the guy will be like, "what in the heck are you talking about? Let's just keep watching this movie please."

*most* men are... not my ex. he went through my phone and stuff multiple times. smh. I have never gone through anyone's phone and stuff. 😏

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That's good. I haven't done that since my teens!!

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Posted by RumiL
I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

Omg when did you get back? ?

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😄 ..hii.. Just a couple of days.. :p how are you??

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I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

Omg when did you get back? ?

😄 ..hii.. Just a couple of days.. :p how are you??

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Its undefined. Sorryyy!

I'm good. Just was shocked to see your name under my post. Pleasant surprise! 🙂

How are you? How was the dp break?

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I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

Omg when did you get back? ?

😄 ..hii.. Just a couple of days.. :p how are you??

Its undefined. Sorryyy!

I'm good. Just was shocked to see your name under my post. Pleasant surprise! 🙂

How are you? How was the dp break?

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Are you user undefined?? ..and no no.. I came back last week but was inactive:-) thanks a lot Clippty 🙂

I'm fine.. It was good lol :p I enjoyed it, but was too busy/consumed by real life most of the time, that i couldnt think of DXP.. :-) thanks for asking 🙂

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@confusingconfused and @Fragrance

you like boobs too, don't you? 😄

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I'm an ass and legs woman. I don't discriminate on boobs size, but bubble butts and fleshy spankable behinds are a must.

Posted by Explicit
I love when a woman smells good and is clean. When you go in for a hug and you smell a beautiful fragrance and a delicious shampoo/hair product smell on her hair.

I thought the question said what are the few (/many) things we like about the opposite gender n few we like about our own. Or did it say what kind of traits in a women/men do we like? :/

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Characteristics/traits of the opposite gender?

Characteristics/traits of your own gender?

Men : Do not nag like women , do not worry about small things , take things easy, are better with people ie less selfish with strangers , good with maps and directions (only in maps though) , better with numbers

Women : Caring , focused , one who gives more love to family members , better listener , better organising ability , good with finance

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I love when a woman smells good and is clean. When you go in for a hug and you smell a beautiful fragrance and a delicious shampoo/hair product smell on her hair.

I thought the question said what are the few (/many) things we like about the opposite gender n few we like about our own. Or did it say what kind of traits in a women/men do we like? :/

I also like a cute face, and someone who likes to cuddle and be touched.

😛

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? Cuddling is something I love the most!! I'd like it even more than sex I guess(i mean i can only guess 😛 ) N if you think I've a cute face, we are wasting our time here 😛 ?

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@confusingconfused and @Fragrance

you like boobs too, don't you? 😄

I'm an ass and legs woman. I don't discriminate on boobs size, but bubble butts and fleshy spankable behinds are a must.

Yo a Kim K fan? 😆

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Not into silicone heavy butts though.

Posted by yupvirgoo
Besides boobies *chuckles

Their voices are more relaxing. And they always smell SOOOO amazing. And in effect, stuff they have smells good- their clothes, their hair and sometimes even the things they touch. They just smell... nice. And they're more caring too. And they look so soft with their smooth skin and they're so pretty. So endlessly pretty. Plus they're so much more elegant and graceful too. And I like the way they giggle. How their eyes look when you compliment them, how some blush or even how they hit you on the arm gently when you get them flustered. *chuckles

Oh gosh the cuteness of women. They're too adorable. Even when they're being difficult I like them. I like how they are with children, with animals, with nature. I like that they seem to accept being emotional much better than men. I like how delicate they look- their hands, their neck and their lips. *sighs

Are you real life?

You're so nice!

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I love when a woman smells good and is clean. When you go in for a hug and you smell a beautiful fragrance and a delicious shampoo/hair product smell on her hair.

I thought the question said what are the few (/many) things we like about the opposite gender n few we like about our own. Or did it say what kind of traits in a women/men do we like? :/

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Characteristics/traits of the opposite gender?

Characteristics/traits of your own gender?

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You didn't get my question :/

I meant if I should say I like men/women because they're "blah blah" or do I say I like men/women who are "blah blah"? Did that make any sense? ? The answers confused me big-time

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I love when a woman smells good and is clean. When you go in for a hug and you smell a beautiful fragrance and a delicious shampoo/hair product smell on her hair.

I thought the question said what are the few (/many) things we like about the opposite gender n few we like about our own. Or did it say what kind of traits in a women/men do we like? :/

I also like a cute face, and someone who likes to cuddle and be touched.

😛

? Cuddling is something I love the most!! I'd like it even more than sex I guess(i mean i can only guess 😛 ) N if you think I've a cute face, we are wasting our time here 😛 ?

It's the Taurus moon.

I have that moon too so cuddling is a must lol.

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Really? I thought it's the Cancer mars.That's the only Cancer aspect I have.N I always read Cancer peeps are into cuddling ?

Lol at the men listing physical traits and not character traits....predictable as ever

For me ~

Intelligence

Quick witted and a bit eccentric

Rebellious (not a follower of the crowds)

Loyalty and honesty

Kindness

Charistmatic

Funny...have to be in company where we can laugh!

For both genders

Posted by confusingconfused
I could be wrong though 😆

Haha.Now you are confusing the confused ?

But I thought so too.As I said, the answers from few users confused me.Thanks though ?

I like men coz they're less drama n more practical n I like women coz we are more perceptive n also I think we're emotionally n mentally stronger. I'm proud being a woman n appreciate all the masculinity of men.

Ok..the posts relating to me being confused about the question have more content than this post.Bye 😛

Women can be the sweetest angels but they also can make the devil commit suicide. There is no inbetween with them. ^^

I like it when women act a little jealous when other women are around. I also like it when they ignore you because you did something wrong (but ONLY if you really DID something wrong). It just shows they are not indifferent towards you.

On the other side I hate nonsense drama and mind games. I also hate attention whores, who just need validation for like every 3 seconds. I also despise moodyness. I am ok with a little clinginess, controlling behavour and insecurity on a woman's part because it's better this way than as if the man acts like that. The ladder would never work in a relationship too well.

As for men:

We are god's gift to women!!!

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Posted by TheSag
Women can be the sweetest angels but they also can make the devil commit suicide. There is no inbetween with them. ^^

I like it when women act a little jealous when other women are around. I also like it when they ignore you because you did something wrong (but ONLY if you really DID something wrong). It just shows they are not indifferent towards you.

On the other side I hate nonsense drama and mind games. I also hate attention whores, who just need validation for like every 3 seconds. I also despise moodyness. I am ok with a little clinginess, controlling behavour and insecurity on a woman's part because it's better this way than as if the man acts like that. The ladder would never work in a relationship too well.

As for men:

We are god's gift to women!!!

Do you have a heavy Pluto?

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I don't even know what that means? lol

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Women can be the sweetest angels but they also can make the devil commit suicide. There is no inbetween with them. ^^

I like it when women act a little jealous when other women are around. I also like it when they ignore you because you did something wrong (but ONLY if you really DID something wrong). It just shows they are not indifferent towards you.

On the other side I hate nonsense drama and mind games. I also hate attention whores, who just need validation for like every 3 seconds. I also despise moodyness. I am ok with a little clinginess, controlling behavour and insecurity on a woman's part because it's better this way than as if the man acts like that. The ladder would never work in a relationship too well.

As for men:

We are god's gift to women!!!

Do you have a heavy Pluto?

I don't even know what that means? lol

Scorp sun, moon, Venus, Pluto squares, oppositions, conjuncts, 8th house stellium

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I only know about my Scorpio Venus, which is like my only water sign in my chart if I am not mistaken. I don't really get the other stuff. Why do you ask?

Posted by confusingconfused
boobs

Does man bewbs doe

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@confusingconfused and @Fragrance

you like boobs too, don't you? 😄

I'm an ass and legs woman. I don't discriminate on boobs size, but bubble butts and fleshy spankable behinds are a must.

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what's with the granny panty

Posted by tcta
favorite characteristics of men in my life:

confidence (swagger)

tall

dark

handsome

sweet smile

sexy lips

great eyes

a job

good communication

loves nature

loves food

laid back

and got to love animals and big booty

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Posted by JustJules
I forgot spooning, especially when it doesn't stay spooning. Yummy, just yum.

This is soothing my cancer sun and Taurus moon please stop lol.

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I know right, I love touching, cuddling, spooning, the whole thing ... I live so peacefully on 7 acres with a stream and a rock outcrop mountains pasture peace and quiet ... just so nice to come home too ... just starting to be able to touch my new Leebman - gave his shoulder a massage the other night ... so add to my list yes, I need a man who enjoys being touched - a lot - and vice versa !

You sound heavenly, hope he is taking advantage and giving you that back too.

Think i found a certain someone who feels like this with me too 🙂

thanks - good luck to you too!

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@confusingconfused and @Fragrance

you like boobs too, don't you? 😄

I'm an ass and legs woman. I don't discriminate on boobs size, but bubble butts and fleshy spankable behinds are a must.

Yo a Kim K fan? 😆

Not into silicone heavy butts though.

fair enough.

post a few of your ideal bubble butts here plz 😄

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A cute face & a sense of humor works quite well for me. I love muscles & tattoos but I never get that. I think it would bring out my obsessive side so the Lord is saving me from myself.

It's a pretty long list. Brace yourself.

I love a man who can cook. No need for foreplay, I'll watch you in front of the stove and that does it for me. I'm all the way there. We're not gonna make it to dessert. And I'll do the dishes afterward so win win.

Strong hands.

Big enveloping hugs. Makes me feel dainty and small, safe and protected.

Vocal in the bedroom. Especially when each moan and groan seems ripped from his throat. So so sexy.

The quite stolen moments. Resting my head on his shoulder. Holding hands under the table. Draping my legs over his. His head resting in my lap. Etc.

Post orgasm when we're too hot and sweaty to cuddle but he still reaches over to hold my hand.

Idk there's much more.

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Posted by RumiL
I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

pick one ROOM ROOM

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Nahiiii. lol.

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Posted by RumiL
I love everything about men ?

..it depends on the man, but still, i like so many traits.

pick one ROOM ROOM

Nahiiii. lol.

Kyuuuunnnnnnnnn

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xD

On serious note.. You never ask a pisces mercury to pick ONE thing 😄 😐

Posted by TheSag
Women can be the sweetest angels but they also can make the devil commit suicide. There is no inbetween with them. ^^

I like it when women act a little jealous when other women are around. I also like it when they ignore you because you did something wrong (but ONLY if you really DID something wrong). It just shows they are not indifferent towards you.

On the other side I hate nonsense drama and mind games. I also hate attention whores, who just need validation for like every 3 seconds. I also despise moodyness. I am ok with a little clinginess, controlling behavour and insecurity on a woman's part because it's better this way than as if the man acts like that. The ladder would never work in a relationship too well.

As for men:

We are god's gift to women!!!

I didn't ask what you hated, you stupid mofo.

Half of DXP is fucking retarded, I swear. Can't even answer questions right.

The ideal woman has soft perky boobs and a very light and nimble figure, prancing around in white satin lingerie...

Eyes

Smile / teeth

JFC, this is why I rarely make any general discussion posts here.

DXP in a nutshell-

Q- "What color is the sky?"

A- "Two."

Gold star to those of you who understood the question.

The rest of you should probably refrain from reproducing until your comprehension has improved beyond a 1st grade level. Not entirely too sure if that'd be an issue for some. If reading is difficult, I can't imagine how you'd be able to get a penis into a vagina successfully. :/

Posted by yupvirgoo
Besides boobies *chuckles

Their voices are more relaxing. They're feminine voice is like sweet honey to me. And they always smell SOOOO amazing. And in effect, stuff they have smells good- their clothes, their hair and sometimes even the things they touch. They just smell... nice. And they're more caring too. And they look so soft with their smooth skin and they're so pretty. So endlessly pretty. Plus they're so much more elegant and graceful too in the way they stand, the way they walk and the way they sit. How they're more diplomatic than men and how much more careful they are in handling people's hearts. And I like the way they giggle. How their eyes look when you compliment them, how some blush or even how they hit you on the arm gently when you get them flustered. *chuckles

Oh gosh the cuteness of women. They're too adorable. Even when they're being difficult I like them. I like how they are with children, with animals, with nature. I like that they seem to accept being emotional much better than men. I like how delicate they look- their hands, their neck and their lips. *sighs

no wonder some women were aggressive with you in real life lol

you are a man who truly appreciates women like my hubby w/ libra venus. lovely. (btw, i'm not flirting so please relax lol)

Posted by rockyroadicecream
JFC, this is why I rarely make any general discussion posts here.

Gold star to those of you who understood the question.

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
I like guys that show their feminine side and women that show their masculine side.

Same.

Was just talking to someone about this last night.

I am generally not attracted to men romantically, I go more for the physical aspects. A man who understands and accepts his feminine side, though, is a bonus.