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These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that, most people are attracted to the opposite sex, because that's how you make babies!!! It would take a lot to become open to the idea of gayness, you have to be open mentally, emotionally etc...on so many levels. But anybody can be gay or be "not gay". Just depends on culture and the shit that happened to you in your life.
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Posted by Tauruswithspunk
Posted by Gemitati
...that they aren't gay or lesbians if they had never had that experience?
Makes perfect sense... I did not think I was bi-curious until I was in a situation (which she was planning for a while since she saw me by the way). Before then I was like NO WAY.
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I was always curious but damn men alway gotten in a way...with their 'things' and I was distracted...by those ugly muscles and wide shoulders and tight asses! Whew!!! How could I everโ€” Still wondering...
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...that they aren't gay or lesbians if they had never had that experience?
Makes perfect sense... I did not think I was bi-curious until I was in a situation (which she was planning for a while since she saw me by the way). Before then I was like NO WAY.
I was always curious but damn men alway gotten in a way...with their 'things' and I was distracted...by those ugly muscles and wide shoulders and tight asses! Whew!!! How could I everโ€” Still wondering...
?? I'm gonna get you Tati โ€”?
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Let's get into business!

What are we going to call it?

Are we inviting @Whorpio?

Are we running as small Co or LLC?

(don't mistake with CC)...

We need plan!

@tomSawyer (he is a cheap bastard but he knows how to drive)

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For the same reason i know i aint into old geezers. You dont need to experience something to know you arent into it. Obvi.
You dumb! And it's not your fault. It's your parents. And teachers. Well...it IS your fault! I just can't be nice for free!
That made no sense whatsoever. Carry on as you were.
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Posted by CrimsonGirl
I think it comes down to more than a sexual experience. I think it has to do with emotional connection too and deep feelings. If I'm being honest, I've had sexual experiences with women, but that's all they were and that's all I would ever desire from them. When it comes to emotionally connecting with a chick, I just can't really do it and could never see myself wanting to be with one long term or even short term. It's just not what excites me. However I'm equally emotionally and sexually attracted to men, so that's how I know I'm not actually fully bi sexual. I would imagine that that's how it works for gays and lesbians too.
You are actually bisexual.

Bisexuals don't have to be emotionally AND sexually attracted to a person of the same sex. It can be either one or both.

I'm sexually attracted to men, but not emotionally attracted to them. So I can't develop anything long term with them, beyond friendship.
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Posted by Ram416
To address OP's question.

Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out.

Everybody is built differently.
It's not how we build!

When you drunk and you have only same sex person with you in bed - and you feeling like having sex - and that person is not repulsive to you - then what?
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Posted by hydorah
you need an ugly sweaty man to put his fingers in your ass and call you jed and before you can call the police, here you are : gay
Don't you dare call sweet @shitenyeryainmemtshow man 'sweaty'

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BTW if he licks his fingers fast enough...no evidence! No one is gay! Except that perv Jed!!! Takenhim away officer...and come back๐Ÿ˜‰

@HeavyEntertaimentShow ass...

I bet I misspelled that name! Tag him will you? ?
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Posted by CrimsonGirl
Posted by Ram416
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I think it comes down to more than a sexual experience. I think it has to do with emotional connection too and deep feelings. If I'm being honest, I've had sexual experiences with women, but that's all they were and that's all I would ever desire from them. When it comes to emotionally connecting with a chick, I just can't really do it and could never see myself wanting to be with one long term or even short term. It's just not what excites me. However I'm equally emotionally and sexually attracted to men, so that's how I know I'm not actually fully bi sexual. I would imagine that that's how it works for gays and lesbians too.
You are actually bisexual.

Bisexuals don't have to be emotionally AND sexually attracted to a person of the same sex. It can be either one or both.

I'm sexually attracted to men, but not emotionally attracted to them. So I can't develop anything long term with them, beyond friendship.
Yeah I guess I am then. I've never payed any attention to labels before though and I'm not starting now
Let us not jump to conclusions without first reviewing 'The Safe Space Terminology List (click here)'!

I am totally kidding; however, sadly, I'm not joking. There is such a list in existence ๐Ÿ˜

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Every time I hear the word safe space I just want an 80 year old man to walk in and say "Back in my day the only safe space we needed was a glass of whiskey and a smoke. In the privacy of our own home."
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I never liked the idea to begin with. I was never attracted or curious to try it with girls. But one of my friends is bi-curious. I didn't know this before.

But we were once having a girls' nightout. I went out to stand on balcony. This friend of mine walked behind me, shuffled my hair(I didn't bother till this point coz she's touchy in general n usually always keeps smelling my hair coz she loves it) n kissed my nape. I got goosebumps...in a negative way...like I felt so annoyed. I just moved away n gave her a look like WTF?! It was such an odd n weird feeling...like something was crawling all over my skin... that annoying feeling didn't leave me for a couple of days I guess. So I sure know I'm not bisexual ?
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I don't think you need to go all the way but I think you know if you've never ever had the blood rush down to certain parts just from

Interacting with someone from the same sex .

But even that could come later in life .

You hear stories like that all the time

Women who thought they were straight until their 30s or 40s when they met someone who turned their world upside down
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by bricklemark
These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that, most people are attracted to the opposite sex, because that's how you make babies!!! It would take a lot to become open to the idea of gayness, you have to be open mentally, emotionally etc...on so many levels. But anybody can be gay or be "not gay". Just depends on culture and the shit that happened to you in your life.
Um wtf NO. That is some real baloney right there. If your following that fucked up line of reasoning then you could use that bullshit to manipulate people to do everything on earth...

"Well if you just open your mind you'll see that you really actually do like licking a chockolate bar off the ground. Its just cause people tell you its gross, but like really dude just be cool and open your mind. Dont be all uncool.Like get with the times man."

Fuck no.

And one more thing

"These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that"

If you follow that dumb reasoning then everyone would just be fucking straight and no one would have been gay in the first place.

And this anti label bull mentality gots to go. No matter which way you wanna slice it the ***facts*** of it are that; Im straight. Im a fucking girl. My race is white. Period and thats the end of all this fuckery.
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People CAN be manipulated to do anything on earth, l mean look at us!!!!

People pay others to kill 300 million animals a day, violently, unnaturally with a knife. 300 million murders. Every day.

Of course people are conditioned, into EVERYTHING!!!!!

Yes chocolate bars can ABSOLUTELY be licked off the ground. The part you're licking hasnt even touched the ground.

And even if it has, you wont even be sick! I lived on the street for a few days, in college, l went 5 days without money or food. Well l ate a sandwich that was on the ground. I didnt give a shit, l was STARVING!!!

Anything is possible.

Homosexual sex is unthinkable in a world where reproduction is the result of sex, and there are people of the opposite sex around, and yet people do it.

The gay community started when people started having too much sex, and basically "turned into" the other gender. Or there was an anomaly in the genetics or smth.

But there are anomalies in society, like communism and cannibalism...
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Ram416
To address OP's question.

Some people don't need the experience to know what they like. They just know. They don't need to go through a trial and error phase to figure stuff out.

Everybody is built differently.
It's not how we build!

When you drunk and you have only same sex person with you in bed - and you feeling like having sex - and that person is not repulsive to you - then what?
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Not repulsive to me and I am drunk. If it's not an FWB or my partner I wouldn't even consider getting in bed with the person if I'm drunk. Drunk sex is only for FWBs and/or my partner.

Otherwise it's the couch or the bathtub for me.
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by bricklemark
These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that, most people are attracted to the opposite sex, because that's how you make babies!!! It would take a lot to become open to the idea of gayness, you have to be open mentally, emotionally etc...on so many levels. But anybody can be gay or be "not gay". Just depends on culture and the shit that happened to you in your life.
Um wtf NO. That is some real baloney right there. If your following that fucked up line of reasoning then you could use that bullshit to manipulate people to do everything on earth...

"Well if you just open your mind you'll see that you really actually do like licking a chockolate bar off the ground. Its just cause people tell you its gross, but like really dude just be cool and open your mind. Dont be all uncool.Like get with the times man."

Fuck no.

And one more thing

"These labels make no sense, itls just culture, if everyone in your culture was gay or bi, you'd just do it without a second thought, but we are not used to that"

If you follow that dumb reasoning then everyone would just be fucking straight and no one would have been gay in the first place.

And this anti label bull mentality gots to go. No matter which way you wanna slice it the ***facts*** of it are that; Im straight. Im a fucking girl. My race is white. Period and thats the end of all this fuckery.
People CAN be manipulated to do anything on earth, l mean look at us!!!!

People pay others to kill 300 million animals a day, violently, unnaturally with a knife. 300 million murders. Every day.

Of course people are conditioned, into EVERYTHING!!!!!

Yes chocolate bars can ABSOLUTELY be licked off the ground. The part you're licking hasnt even touched the ground.

And even if it has, you wont even be sick! I lived on the street for a few days, in college, l went 5 days without money or food. Well l ate a sandwich that was on the ground. I didnt give a shit, l was STARVING!!!

Anything is possible.

Homosexual sex is unthinkable in a world where reproduction is the result of sex, and there are people of the opposite sex around, and yet people do it.

The gay community started when people started having too much sex, and basically "turned into" the other gender. Or there was an anomaly in the genetics or smth.

But there are anomalies in society, like communism and cannibalism...


Why were u on the streets. Social experiment?
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No