Change your lip color.
I think my lipstick and body language screams I want to hook up. But I dont. (Page 2)
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Posted by Lifepath8PiscesNo not really. @op I say change the lip color and see what happens. Men are visual. She might attract more of what she really wants. Go nude, lips of course.Posted by ListenlearnteachIt's more her body language, and the lip color adds to it as well.Posted by ladylibra21Change your lip color.
Ok so my favorite shade of lip stick is a deep plum and if I wear it on the date I notice the guy cant stop starring at my lips and they always say you are so sexy and no I am not on here to brag I a genuinely annoyed because I am naturally a laid back person so if I am at a bar 9 times out of 10 I am leaning on it and my hand is on my hip. I had a guy (Pisces) tell me last night that my body language screamed that I wanted to sleep with him and I am not even attracted to him I we only met up to discuss Astrology actually because he is just learning this stuff and I was explaining some things, but I told him it would just be a friendly visit. He had only had one drink so I knew he wasn't drunk but the first 30 mins I am there he is rubbing on me the 3rd time he did it I slapped his hand and he was embarrassed and was like did you just swat my hand away and I was like hell yeah you keep touching me! But this is not the first occasion someone has been mesmerized by my lip color. I had a guy I was dating tell me you lipstick makes me want head which turnt me off because I wasn't sure of his intentions of course now I know, but damn I shouldn't have to change my lipstick because guys are butterty!! Plus the guys I keep meeting are broken in someway. Why are they finding me!
If she wants attention, no big deal, get it , enjoy it and stfu.click to expand
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesHow many unwanted, freak ass advances have you had to deal with in your life.Posted by ShadowAbsorberoh yea, blame it on those ragging slut pisces men now. lol
haha guys are just sleazy in general.
And the Pisces guy... well, he's a Pisces guy, they will hit on anyone (from my experiences).
Don't you dare change your lipstick color.
Just cut people off.
Have the right people rise to your standards, and they get to stay in your life. That's what I'm enforcing these days, but then again I'm a bitter, sensitive, vindictive emo.
I had people on here tell me to change my default pic because it might be the "reason" I'm attracting guys who just want to hook up. But no, I can express my sensuality if I want. That doesn't give people an excuse to just want to hook up. That's a reflection on THEM, not ME. I'm not going to change my own happiness just to avoid straight disrespect & abuse.
Btw, I took my pix down just for confidentiality purposes and to protect my career and identity.
Good luck, stay strong & attractive, woman. Kick them out of your life!
If you dress like a clown, act like a clown, give vives of a clown, you will be treated like a clown. very simple to understand, and no need to blame others.click to expand
Examples?
I wouldn't be that bothered. It should be a gift that you're so attractive. Plus, if they're attracted to you, its them! Not you. Keep on doing what you're doing, they're just reacting to whatever they feel. Its not like you intended to look like you wanted a hook up.
Posted by KoialaDude, I have resting bitch face. I have no idea why these weirdos come running after me like this haha.
@rockyroadicecream, at this point, I don't know what to tell you except that I share your bewilderment.
In a previous post you said something about some people maybe appearing softer, as in having nice resting face - I went through moments of wondering if this was the case about me and tried to toughen myself up accordingly. Kind of like how OP came in here doubting herself. But I've had to come to the conclusion since that it happens to most every woman, no matter what. Someone early on in the thread jokingly mentioned a burqa as the ultimate solution. But, women who wear burqas... They will still get told that they threw a provocative glance or acted inappropriate. They get groped and harassed, too.
Men just need to wrap their heads and all other parts of their anatomy around the concepts of respect, mutual consent and personal space.
If some women enjoy that type of interaction, yay for them, but men must ascertain first whether that is the actually the case. Unless lipstick is used to explicitly write an 'Eff me' note on paper, it in no way, shape or form constitutes an invitation to touching someone.
Women here and elsewhere who are putting the blame on other women, they're going to raise their sons to think of their own mothers, sisters, significant other as a somewhat inferior creature whose last little action on this earth is aimed at them. Probably because that's how they perceive themselves and live their lives. That's so warped and sad I can't even.
It's not so much appearance but just overall "vibe" one gives off. We discussed this in the Aries forum awhile back- how we're like freak magnets. We figured it was something along the lines of having an "innocent" vibe along with the friendly, outgoing bit. Predatory dudes think this is a green flag that we'd be easy to take advantage of or some shit.
That burqa comment amused me because it's about right, tbh. Maybe they have something right about that. "....fuck it, look like Charlie Brown's costume. We can't figure out how to make this shit stop, so we're just going to make you look like a sack of potatoes!" haha.
All of this shit is socialization in our society. I was in MIDDLE SCHOOL when some guy in my class just randomly reaches over and feels up my leg. I immediately slapped the shit out of him for that. He looked bewildered that I was offended he just randomly touched me like that. It's like who the fuck do you think you are? All throughout growing up, a woman is seen as something to obtain. Obtain this pretty object for your own desires and fantasies!!
I agree though, it's sad as fuck when you have women just excusing it and lining up to blame the woman for the gross behavior of the dude who can't keep his penis under control. Too much of "that's how they are" mentality beaten into their heads their whole lives. Of course, this is going to take awhile to beat out of society considering the 50s and the women's rights movements are still relatively fresh in history and society. People who grew up with the old mentality are still raising kids/grandkids currently, so it's no shocker the same mentality is still lingering as if it's just "normal." ...it's not.
Posted by Lifepath8PiscesYou're one to talk. You're one of the most ignorant ones in this thread.Posted by rockyroadicecreamsigh. you can't argue with stupid. not today.Posted by Lifepath8PiscesHow many unwanted, freak ass advances have you had to deal with in your life.Posted by ShadowAbsorberoh yea, blame it on those ragging slut pisces men now. lol
haha guys are just sleazy in general.
And the Pisces guy... well, he's a Pisces guy, they will hit on anyone (from my experiences).
Don't you dare change your lipstick color.
Just cut people off.
Have the right people rise to your standards, and they get to stay in your life. That's what I'm enforcing these days, but then again I'm a bitter, sensitive, vindictive emo.
I had people on here tell me to change my default pic because it might be the "reason" I'm attracting guys who just want to hook up. But no, I can express my sensuality if I want. That doesn't give people an excuse to just want to hook up. That's a reflection on THEM, not ME. I'm not going to change my own happiness just to avoid straight disrespect & abuse.
Btw, I took my pix down just for confidentiality purposes and to protect my career and identity.
Good luck, stay strong & attractive, woman. Kick them out of your life!
If you dress like a clown, act like a clown, give vives of a clown, you will be treated like a clown. very simple to understand, and no need to blame others.
Examples?click to expand
"Well it's what you're wearing. Don't dress the way you do and you won't get this attention." How can you NOT see what's wrong with this mindset?
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