@aquapiscescusp
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Men who give women gifts
not necessarily because you know why its three scenarios. you have guys who buy gifts to get in your pants, you have guys who buy gifts because they don't know what else to do (stay away from them theyre inexperienced) and then you have the one that youll be able to distinguish im talking about a guy who buys "meaningful gifts" not roses, chocolates, jewelry, teddy bears and etc. meaningful in the sense that they pay attention and they bought a gift for you for a special occasion. for example i don't go buy red roses all the time i studied the meanings and colors of all roses. those type of guys make good lovers because theyre different, they are attentive, they apply to your needs and wants. and this doesn't just include me but that's the best way i can explain. those type of guys are emotional available so like i said they apply themselves to your needs and wants. i once bought a girl a card. mothers day card now this girl has no kids but it was for mothers day, a condolences card in respect to her mother passing away letting her know that theres someone who is here for her that feels her paini. she was flattered those type of guys pay attention to all your needs even in the bed having sex theyre not just thinking about themselves
makes them suckers
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Make better lovers?
Umm... thank you?
Posted by SUT3point0
Opposite. It means dey gots a small pee pee, and whole tongue game is wack.Real muhfuckas beat it down and dont buy any gifts, yet she still comes around.
This is so true. Some females keep seeing their broke men & keep a Santa Claus on the side to buy them gifts and give them money..money which they use to buy the broke guy stuff with.
Posted by SUT3point0
Opposite. It means dey gots a small pee pee, and whole tongue game is wack.Real muhfuckas beat it down and dont buy any gifts, yet she still comes around.
in my experience, a guy that is a gifter also puts the d in big daddy.
Posted by kalin
Btw, he was good in bed too. That's how he kept up w multiple women. There was a time he wanted to test out how many times he could have sex within a day. Eleven times!!! He is still the record keeper. Never met another guy who could just go again and again and again after 5-10 minutes break.
LOL. It must be an air sign thing because my ex used to sometimes watch the clock during sex, to beat his previous "record" ofcourse. Lame.
i bought shoes,a ring (not a wedding ring) & a car for only one woman before..and i'm still with her,lol
every chick before her,at the most, only got a meal,alcohol,drugs, and good sex
Posted by kalin
Btw, he was good in bed too. That's how he kept up w multiple women. There was a time he wanted to test out how many times he could have sex within a day. Eleven times!!! He is still the record keeper. Never met another guy who could just go again and again and again after 5-10 minutes break.LOL. It must be an air sign thing because my ex used to sometimes watch the clock during sex, to beat his previous "record" ofcourse. Lame.
I agree!! My ex did that too. He'd be like, Ok, we are going to do it for a whole hour (then he'd look at the clock to make sure) 😆
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Was he a leo mars lol? They're annoying when it comes to sex. Always trying to "outshine"
Posted by geminicandle
Lol @ chicks got drugs.SMH!
How about std's??
na i never gave nor received that lol..what about you?
Posted by DAMEN VI
i bought shoes,a ring (not a wedding ring) & a car for only one woman before..and i'm still with her,lolevery chick before her,at the most, only got a meal,alcohol,drugs, and good sex
I hope it wasn't a lemon.
Depends on the gift...
If it's something generic or where they clearly got the idea from a movie, no, not so much. If they come up with something that they've noticed you need/want and don't already have which you didn't have to ask for, or that you wouldn't get for yourself, then maybe. Something that they've handmade or done on their own, hell yes. Surprising you with doing the dishes and vacuuming under the couch, please God take me now! LOL
Posted by DAMEN VI
i bought shoes,a ring (not a wedding ring) & a car for only one woman before..and i'm still with her,lolevery chick before her,at the most, only got a meal,alcohol,drugs, and good sex
I hope it wasn't a lemon.
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she's still driving it
Posted by geminicandle
Lol @ chicks got drugs.SMH!
How about std's??
na i never gave nor received that lol..what about you?
I give out Zithromax 1 gram and Acyclovir 800 mg daily...it's my job. I see too many std cases to be disgusted, trust me.
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yea my gf works in a pharmacy and she tells me some crazy things from time to time..
Posted by tiziani
I do the handmade thing all the time. I dont remember extra effort going it myself. I learned the habit from my father. He used to handmake a card and out it on top of an extravagant gift for every family member. He truly covered all bases lol
Posted by DAMEN VI
i bought shoes,a ring (not a wedding ring) & a car for only one woman before..and i'm still with her,lolevery chick before her,at the most, only got a meal,alcohol,drugs, and good sex
I hope it wasn't a lemon.
she's still driving it
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To the corner doesn't count. LOL! Never mind Damen, I know you wouldnt give the poor girl a citrus car.
Posted by DAMEN VI
i bought shoes,a ring (not a wedding ring) & a car for only one woman before..and i'm still with her,lolevery chick before her,at the most, only got a meal,alcohol,drugs, and good sex
I hope it wasn't a lemon.
she's still driving it
To the corner doesn't count. LOL! Never mind Damen, I know you wouldnt give the poor girl a citrus car.
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yea i can't have my girl out here riding a bucket..plus her sisters riding slick cars so she gotta keep up with them, even thou she'd never admit it,smh
Posted by DAMEN VI
i bought shoes,a ring (not a wedding ring) & a car for only one woman before..and i'm still with her,lolevery chick before her,at the most, only got a meal,alcohol,drugs, and good sex
I hope it wasn't a lemon.
she's still driving it
To the corner doesn't count. LOL! Never mind Damen, I know you wouldnt give the poor girl a citrus car.
yea i can't have my girl out here riding a bucket..plus her sisters riding slick cars so she gotta keep up with them, even thou she'd never admit it,smh
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🙂
That's sweet.
Posted by kalin
Btw, he was good in bed too. That's how he kept up w multiple women. There was a time he wanted to test out how many times he could have sex within a day. Eleven times!!! He is still the record keeper. Never met another guy who could just go again and again and again after 5-10 minutes break.LOL. It must be an air sign thing because my ex used to sometimes watch the clock during sex, to beat his previous "record" ofcourse. Lame.
I agree!! My ex did that too. He'd be like, Ok, we are going to do it for a whole hour (then he'd look at the clock to make sure) 😆
Was he a leo mars lol? They're annoying when it comes to sex. Always trying to "outshine"
I just looked it up. Actually Mars Aquarius. Hmmm
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Where's your mars?
"We're all just cheap knockoffs of our fathers." - Peter Petrelli
LOL
I think I know the feeling, tiz, albeit somewhat in reverse. My father is probably going to go down with the ship that is my parents' marriage, loyal to the bitter end when it might have been better to have cut his losses. I don't want to end up like that either.
Now that I think of it, one of my Libra exes were super generous too, but he was a cheater too :p
He bought me 101 roses, front row concert tickets, necklace, etc..We were just students and he sometimes spent his whole pay check on me, but still, he cheated and my sister was the one who caught him going out w another woman.
Aww, don't judge too harsh though. Some of us men simply "love" ALL women... and too much!! *sigh*
Posted by kalin
@watercup: my mars is Sag... Why?? :p
Just curious 🙂
I believe that generosity and "service-mindedness" go hand in hand.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Men who give women gifts...make better lovers?
(Taking this at purely face value...)
No.
If it were so, then that was merely an exchange, business. Money can buy temporary contentment; be it for sex, company and 'love' but in regards to true, sincere and genuine commitment - love?
Forget it.
Being financially endowed, or generous in those aspects does not necessarily equate to one whom carry the personality traits (without malicious intent) that makes them a better lover. Although there are enough men around whom have but convinced themselves otherwise and there are just as many women out there whom seek their kind. If they find each other, why, the perfect match up, compatible to the nth degree.
[shrugs]
To each their own, if it makes them happy and keeps their bed warm enough, who is one to judge or criticize. Otherwise...
Posted by handsome101
not necessarily because you know why its three scenarios. you have guys who buy gifts to get in your pants, you have guys who buy gifts because they don't know what else to do (stay away from them theyre inexperienced) and then you have the one that youll be able to distinguish im talking about a guy who buys "meaningful gifts" not roses, chocolates, jewelry, teddy bears and etc. meaningful in the sense that they pay attention and they bought a gift for you for a special occasion. for example i don't go buy red roses all the time i studied the meanings and colors of all roses. those type of guys make good lovers because theyre different, they are attentive, they apply to your needs and wants. and this doesn't just include me but that's the best way i can explain. those type of guys are emotional available so like i said they apply themselves to your needs and wants. i once bought a girl a card. mothers day card now this girl has no kids but it was for mothers day, a condolences card in respect to her mother passing away letting her know that theres someone who is here for her that feels her paini. she was flattered those type of guys pay attention to all your needs even in the bed having sex theyre not just thinking about themselves
This makes sense, more attentive....
Giving that mothers day card was a nice gesture but over the top? How did she react?
Posted by SUT3point0
Opposite. It means dey gots a small pee pee, and whole tongue game is wack.Real muhfuckas beat it down and dont buy any gifts, yet she still comes around.
It's not about the gifts but damn it's really not about mothafukers either.
Posted by geminicandle
I dated a wonderful and very generous Capricorn guy who gave THE BEST gifts I have ever received.Sadly, our sexual chemistry was 0:/
The chemistry was off, but had it been there?
Posted by kraft
-_-More attentive?
Women need attention the way plants need sunlight.
🙂
Posted by Libra911
The more the man invests (financially), the more he will be attached
Men hate losing good investments lolOnly if he only invests on you though:p
Now that I think of it, one of my Libra exes were super generous too, but he was a cheater too :p
He bought me 101 roses, front row concert tickets, necklace, etc..We were just students and he sometimes spent his whole pay check on me, but still, he cheated and my sister was the one who caught him going out w another woman.
Whole paycheck? who cares if he cheated LOL!
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Some cheat and give you zilch, look at the bright side?
Posted by enfant_terrible
I believe that generosity and "service-mindedness" go hand in hand.
I agree...
I couldn't post yesterday...
Posted by filipinoprince
aww man my post didn't go in.short version: guys, gift her moon sign.
hmmm? yeah maybe.... gift me technology, and I'll probably blow you everyday for a week, but a typical Taurus perfume gift could get you a real nice, awww thanx babe!
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hahaha love this....
Posted by feby16aqua
I love receiving gifts: not just in the physical sense, but full spectrum. I also like giving as well. Makes them a better lover? Well a man who gives me gifts will be a better lover because I will want to show him how much I appreciate his gifts 😄
For sure!!! I do love giving gifts also 🙂
For sure!!! I do love giving gifts also 🙂
Me three. I perfer giving over recieving. Though once you start taking my gestures for granted, I lose interest. Like once when my ex started taking my generosity for granted, I didn't even get her a birthday present.... 😛
I don't much like recieving gifts. I don't know how to react. No one could ever accuse me of being an over-actor, let's put it that way. lol
Posted by feby16aqua
I think all men love women. I've always wondered how I would be if I was a man? I see women all around me and I always always check them out and imagine what they look like naked and how they would look in sexual positions. Is that weird? LOL 😛
(And here I thought I was the only one 😉 )
Girl, I want to party with you! We should go cruising together someday 😄
Posted by feby16aqua
I think all men love women. I've always wondered how I would be if I was a man? I see women all around me and I always always check them out and imagine what they look like naked and how they would look in sexual positions. Is that weird? LOL 😛(And here I thought I was the only one 😉 )
Girl, I want to party with you! We should go cruising together someday 😄
Mediterranean? Meet you in Venice?
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Lol, I meant "cruising" as in picking up chicks... but sure whatever rocks your boat 😉
Posted by handsome101
not necessarilybecause you know why
its three scenarios.
you have guys who buy gifts to get in your pants, you have guys who buy gifts because they don't know what else to do (stay away from them theyre inexperienced) and then you have the one that youll be able to distinguish
im talking about a guy who buys "meaningful gifts" not roses, chocolates, jewelry, teddy bears and etc.
meaningful in the sense that they pay attention and they bought a gift for you for a special occasion. for example i don't go buy red roses all the time
i studied the meanings and colors of all roses. those type of guys make good lovers because theyre different, they are attentive, they apply to your needs and wants.
and this doesn't just include me but that's the best way i can explain. those type of guys are emotional available
so like i said they apply themselves to your needs and wants.
i once bought a girl a card. mothers day card
now this girl has no kids but it was for mothers day, a condolences card in respect to her mother passing away letting her know that theres someone who is here for her that feels her paini.
she was flattered
those type of guys pay attention to all your needs
even in the bed having sex theyre not just thinking about themselves
Good post, and you're right; it totally depends on the nature of the gift-- the motives.
It's hard to be grateful when you know they bought you something that was really for themselves, or when it's something you hate, and they ought to know better.
🙂
TAKING ALL THIS IN WITH MY COFFEE.
THE GREATEST GIFT A PERSON CAN GIVE IS TO GIVE OF THERESELF
DO FOR THE ONE YOU LOVE OR CAREFOR ITS WIRTH MUCH MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE.
You can easily spot the stingy ones^
xxx
THEIR ARE SOME WHO COULD ASK FOR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING AND GET IT
Posted by CluelessCancer
The only gift I want or need is his presence.
This.
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