My mums on her deathbed.... and she insults me...

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Posted by bricklemark
I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
I know you must be extremely upset about your mother about to pass away. I can't imagine the pain you are going through and how frightened she must be. She sounds like she has accepted that she will pass and therefore believe your suggestion to be futile. I would seek therapy as soon as possible because you need someone to talk to. Do you have other family members or perhaps siblings?
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I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
Must have been holy water
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Posted by bricklemark
I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
I know you must be extremely upset about your mother about to pass away. I can't imagine the pain you are going through and how frightened she must be. She sounds like she has accepted that she will pass and therefore believe your suggestion to be futile. I would seek therapy as soon as possible because you need someone to talk to. Do you have other family members or perhaps siblings?
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Dont patronize me you pieceof shit
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Posted by bricklemark
I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
She sounds depressed
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She's retarded
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Posted by bricklemark
I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
Must have been holy water
For real.. like wtf is this...
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Have you tried cold water you fuckin retard?
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Posted by Wonderlesswave
If my mom was dying i wouldn't get upset with her for not listening to my crap advice a bit delusional don't you think ?

If cold water cured death

Bitch (not calling you one) we would all be singing hallelujah

Maybe you're not sure how to cope , but if this is real i recommend you pull it together ASAP
Crap advie? Delusional? You all belong in straight jackets...jesus fucking christ.
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Posted by bricklemark
I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
My condolences. Notwithstanding your situation, though, it helps to think things through before hitting the "post message" button. Not an easy thing to do when one is under such strain, but the last thing one needs (especially in your case) is regret.

You're caring for someone who is dying. You can't expect them to react reasonably at all times. Some handle their mortality with impressive aplomb, while others struggle - quite understandably - with the reality that everything perceivable and conceivable will end for them much sooner than they imagined.

I lost my father to cancer in May of 2014. He had good days and bad days. Some days he was calm, while other days he lashed out at everyone, sometimes violently. But God bless him, that person wasn't him. It was the disease.

You're upset because you want to help her - to try to make her see reason for her own good. For someone in her situation, however, achieving this is just a bonus, and it's best to treat it as a happy accident rather than an expectation. Summoning up as much compassion as you can, no matter how she behaves, will make this hard road a little easier for the both of you.
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All you do is try and provoke people now, you're all mental. I hope you all die.
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Posted by Wonderlesswave
If my mom was dying i wouldn't get upset with her for not listening to my crap advice a bit delusional don't you think ?

If cold water cured death

Bitch (not calling you one) we would all be singing hallelujah

Maybe you're not sure how to cope , but if this is real i recommend you pull it together ASAP
I think it's sad he's calling her pure garbage when she must be in so much pain.. especially if she's accepted her fate.

She needs emotional support, not scolding and resentment.

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YOU are less than dogshit. There are no words in all the languages to express how stupid and low you people are. We reached the limit of language before you arrived.
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If my mom was dying i wouldn't get upset with her for not listening to my crap advice a bit delusional don't you think ?

If cold water cured death

Bitch (not calling you one) we would all be singing hallelujah

Maybe you're not sure how to cope , but if this is real i recommend you pull it together ASAP
I think it's sad he's calling her pure garbage when she must be in so much pain.. especially if she's accepted her fate.

She needs emotional support, not scolding and resentment.


Its very sad i dont know the relationship but who says butter like that—

I hope he's not all she has

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You judged my method/suggestion immediately right off the bat. You talk big for such a small insignificant piece of dogshit.
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Posted by Wonderlesswave
If my mom was dying i wouldn't get upset with her for not listening to my crap advice a bit delusional don't you think ?

If cold water cured death

Bitch (not calling you one) we would all be singing hallelujah

Maybe you're not sure how to cope , but if this is real i recommend you pull it together ASAP
I think it's sad he's calling her pure garbage when she must be in so much pain.. especially if she's accepted her fate.

She needs emotional support, not scolding and resentment.



YOU are less than dogshit. There are no words in all the languages to express how stupid and low you people are. We reached the limit of language before you arrived.


Just to inform you I was trying be sympathetic towards your situation because I, myself have a mother who's on her death bed but I would have to say @Tom_Sawyer is right, you really do have issues.
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Yeah you were really tryin to be sympathetic...it's a good strategy to hit someone when they're down, that's when you score the most points!!! —
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Posted by Deedee86
My grandpa just told me to get the hell out of his house and leave him the hell alone because I tried to get him to eat something.

Don't take it personally. They are just lashing out. It is scary to face your own mortality.
Well she certainly doesnt need me. And we'll face our own one day, so theres no need to pity them, we should be scared instead.
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My grandpa just told me to get the hell out of his house and leave him the hell alone because I tried to get him to eat something.

Don't take it personally. They are just lashing out. It is scary to face your own mortality.
Well she certainly doesnt need me. And we'll face our own one day, so theres no need to pity them, we should be scared instead.
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How are you doing through all of this?

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I really am.

Try not to be angry in these last few moments you have together. I don't know your history with her but she'll be a long time gone. For your sake, let the last memories you have of her try to bring you peace.

Sorry.
I SO don't care. I really don't.
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I believe you.

But you might one day. When you're 60-70, you might look back on this period and wished it had been different.

Be sure to look after you. I wish you all the best.
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My grandpa just told me to get the hell out of his house and leave him the hell alone because I tried to get him to eat something.

Don't take it personally. They are just lashing out. It is scary to face your own mortality.
Well she certainly doesnt need me. And we'll face our own one day, so theres no need to pity them, we should be scared instead.
How are you doing through all of this?

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Scared of my own mortality.
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Posted by bricklemark
I tell her to take freezing baths, cause the cold heals everything, it literally reverses the onslaught of time, l experienced it myself, l got real bad melanoma a year ago, l put my arms in freezing water... and it healed!! It literally healed.

And she tells me lm crazy. Like mocked tf out of me... scorpios... you are pure garbage. May you all die promptly.
Must have been holy water
For real.. like wtf is this...
Have you tried cold water you fuckin retard?
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You haven't answered me.