bkbella86
@bkbella86
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Not putting I in front of statements
Posted by PossessionStLmfaooo
There was that one poster
Am driving
I see people do this shit all the time. Tf is a am?
I think they're trying to say I'm but didn't learn that along with am? Idk
Those are the basics.
Posted by PossessionStI know but isn't that learned in grade school?Posted by bkbella86They omit the IPosted by PossessionStLmfaooo
There was that one poster
Am driving
I see people do this shit all the time. Tf is a am?
I think they're trying to say I'm but didn't learn that along with am? Idk
Those are the basics.
Instead of I am driving
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The people Im referring to know when to put an I so it's not a matter of bad grammar.
Idk but when I write on people's Facebook walls for their birthday or somethin I leave the "I" out because I don't want to make it about me.
Posted by Whorpio
Idk but when I write on people's Facebook walls for their birthday or somethin I leave the "I" out because I don't want to make it about me.
But if you texted your mom, you would say I love you mom not love you mom?
The I holds weight to me, it's a declaration.
Posted by EllygantLmaooo
Some languages eliminate the I out of sentences, part of their grammar.
Also I think it's stinking cute that you're an Aries and posting this. ? 'I am.' 😄
This is very Aries of me
But the people I'm talking about speak English and it's their first language. That's not an American thing.
Posted by ShadowcatI'm sensitive and I pay attention to the subtle things. They mean something to me.
Lol so nitpicky. And this is coming from the person who views repeated "Iloveyous" as cheap.
I don't need to hear repeated I love yous, that's wack. But when you do say it, leaving the I off makes it fake to me.
Posted by PossessionStNothing is more annoying than your HBD
There was that one poster
Am driving
Posted by bkbella86Posted by Whorpio
Idk but when I write on people's Facebook walls for their birthday or somethin I leave the "I" out because I don't want to make it about me.
But if you texted your mom, you would say I love you mom not love you mom?
The I holds weight to me, it's a declaration.click to expand
I guess if it's more casual and not someone's special day I will add the "I". Though with acquaintances that also changes because I don't want to smother them ??
Posted by ShadowcatWhy am I sensitive?Posted by bkbella86Posted by ShadowcatI'm sensitive and I pay attention to the subtle things. They mean something to me.
Lol so nitpicky. And this is coming from the person who views repeated "Iloveyous" as cheap.
I don't need to hear repeated I love yous, that's wack. But when you do say it, leaving the I off makes it fake to me.
But why?
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Isn't the I a little redundant in some cases ?
Idk I don't see the point
Idk I don't see the point
Posted by ShadowcatThey didn't take ownership of the statement.Posted by bkbella86Why does it make it feel fake?Posted by ShadowcatWhy am I sensitive?Posted by bkbella86Posted by ShadowcatI'm sensitive and I pay attention to the subtle things. They mean something to me.
Lol so nitpicky. And this is coming from the person who views repeated "Iloveyous" as cheap.
I don't need to hear repeated I love yous, that's wack. But when you do say it, leaving the I off makes it fake to me.
But why?
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I makes it personal to me.
And if you just received the same statement with an I why not give it back?
It's almost like the person doesn't want to put them self out there. That's fake.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by ShadowcatI'm sensitive and I pay attention to the subtle things. They mean something to me.
Lol so nitpicky. And this is coming from the person who views repeated "Iloveyous" as cheap.
I don't need to hear repeated I love yous, that's wack. But when you do say it, leaving the I off makes it fake to me.click to expand
Aka sometimes you feel like being petty as hell ?
If I was your SO and you started bitching about me dropping the I in I love you I'd honestly want to drive my car off the nearest bridge
Posted by brianafaylol...I don't think I would say something to them about it, I just keep it in the back of head.Posted by bkbella86Posted by ShadowcatI'm sensitive and I pay attention to the subtle things. They mean something to me.
Lol so nitpicky. And this is coming from the person who views repeated "Iloveyous" as cheap.
I don't need to hear repeated I love yous, that's wack. But when you do say it, leaving the I off makes it fake to me.
Aka sometimes you feel like being petty as hell ?
If I was your SO and you started bitching about me dropping the I in I love you I'd honestly want to drive my car off the nearest bridge
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Posted by TheTinManWhy is it hard to tell your love ones you love them?
it's hard for me to even say the words "I love you" to anybody let alone put an I on it. with that said I don't see what's the use. like whats the purpose for it or better yet why does it matters.
I don't get it
Posted by Ellygantlol it's not a rulePosted by FreeloaderOh haha! Thanks?Posted by EllygantPosted by FreeloaderScorpio. Idk the degree off the top of my head tho. What's important about the specific degree?Posted by Ellygant
And college beat it into me that declarative I statements are bad writing as well.
Quite often, especially on dxp where there's a broad audience perspective wise, when editing posts I go back and re-write I statements differently.
Where's your Mercury? Degree sign
Idk I just had to start off the conversation somehow.
Just a secret admirer xoxo
Secret's out. 😛
The secret is out?
Don't want to break OP's rules in her own thread. 😄click to expand
I rather have an I miss u than just miss u but I know not everyone views it the same
Posted by TheTinManActions are good but I wouldn't assume you loved me unless you said so.Posted by bkbella86look. I'm gonna be real here. if I tell anybody including my loved ones I love them they would look at me with a stunned look as if they are surprised by those words coming out of my mouth. I usually show my love to them. and if my woman were to ask me if I love her of course I will say yeah. but if she ask me to say it to her, the words just wouldn't come out right for some reason making it sound...yes fake. I much rather show my love and appreciation to anybody rather than talk the words "I love you". just wouldn't sound right coming from my mouth. sorry but that's just how it is.Posted by TheTinManWhy is it hard to tell your love ones you love them?
it's hard for me to even say the words "I love you" to anybody let alone put an I on it. with that said I don't see what's the use. like whats the purpose for it or better yet why does it matters.
I don't get it
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Posted by bkbella86I absolutely agree.Posted by Whorpio
Idk but when I write on people's Facebook walls for their birthday or somethin I leave the "I" out because I don't want to make it about me.
But if you texted your mom, you would say I love you mom not love you mom?
The I holds weight to me, it's a declaration.click to expand
Not using "I" is impersonal and non-committal.
Aries-Pisces
LEO-Pisces
Stands to reason. ?
Posted by TheTinManNothing says I love you like a fancy dinPosted by bkbella86even if it come out fake? a surprise fancy cuisine to a nice fine expensive restaurant still would prove of his love for you?Posted by TheTinManActions are good but I wouldn't assume you loved me unless you said so.Posted by bkbella86look. I'm gonna be real here. if I tell anybody including my loved ones I love them they would look at me with a stunned look as if they are surprised by those words coming out of my mouth. I usually show my love to them. and if my woman were to ask me if I love her of course I will say yeah. but if she ask me to say it to her, the words just wouldn't come out right for some reason making it sound...yes fake. I much rather show my love and appreciation to anybody rather than talk the words "I love you". just wouldn't sound right coming from my mouth. sorry but that's just how it is.Posted by TheTinManWhy is it hard to tell your love ones you love them?
it's hard for me to even say the words "I love you" to anybody let alone put an I on it. with that said I don't see what's the use. like whats the purpose for it or better yet why does it matters.
I don't get it
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Posted by MontgomerySisssss! You feel me. That's exactly how I feel.Posted by bkbella86I absolutely agree.Posted by Whorpio
Idk but when I write on people's Facebook walls for their birthday or somethin I leave the "I" out because I don't want to make it about me.
But if you texted your mom, you would say I love you mom not love you mom?
The I holds weight to me, it's a declaration.
Not using "I" is impersonal and non-committal.
Aries-Pisces
LEO-Pisces
Stands to reason. ?
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Posted by MontgomeryYeah, I usually omit the "I" when I want to be more casual. However, it's not always insincere. I think it really depends on the overall tone and delivery, rather than the actual words.
I absolutely agree.
Not using "I" is impersonal and non-committal.
Posted by FleshpotSee seePosted by MontgomeryYeah, I usually omit the "I" when I want to be more casual. However, it's not always insincere. I think it really depends on the overall tone and delivery, rather than the actual words.
I absolutely agree.
Not using "I" is impersonal and non-committal.click to expand
Posted by Gob_ShiteOf coursePosted by bkbella86
For instance if you say I miss you and they someone responds with miss you, does that irritate you? Does it hold any meaning to you?
It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.
But it can also be fake with the 'I' included...
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Posted by bkbella86I have never thought about this. Im going to start doing that.
For instance if you say I miss you and they someone responds with miss you, does that irritate you? Does it hold any meaning to you?
It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.
Posted by bkbella86Does 'lov' irritates you too for missing e?
For instance if you say I miss you and they someone responds with miss you, does that irritate you? Does it hold any meaning to you?
It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.
Posted by LushIt has nothing to do with writing style .
My writing style isn't that great, so critiquing another writer would be pointless. It does bother me though, if the writer is worse than me. I won't admit this to the writer though. Hah
Maybe you should try to understand the reason as to why they write that way, before being annoyed?
If they're lazy then, sure, be annoyed. If they have a learning disability or if they were brought up differently, lacked an educational support system / weren't resilient enough to take it upon themselves to learn how to write then try to be a little more understanding and patient. I admit my writing sucks, but I have a legitimate explanation as to why and my hope is that you would be more understanding and patient even without knowing why communicating isn't my strong point.
Posted by GemitatiI see luv and yes. I never see people say lovPosted by bkbella86Does 'lov' irritates you too for missing e?
For instance if you say I miss you and they someone responds with miss you, does that irritate you? Does it hold any meaning to you?
It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.click to expand
Posted by LushI don't agree. I think it's deeper than thatPosted by bkbella86Writing style includes sentence structure and choice of words. Maybe it is a mix of writing style and the essentials. Writing style includes the manner of what you intend to say, whether it's I miss you vs miss you--the way you tell themPosted by LushIt has nothing to do with writing style .
My writing style isn't that great, so critiquing another writer would be pointless. It does bother me though, if the writer is worse than me. I won't admit this to the writer though. Hah
Maybe you should try to understand the reason as to why they write that way, before being annoyed?
If they're lazy then, sure, be annoyed. If they have a learning disability or if they were brought up differently, lacked an educational support system / weren't resilient enough to take it upon themselves to learn how to write then try to be a little more understanding and patient. I admit my writing sucks, but I have a legitimate explanation as to why and my hope is that you would be more understanding and patient even without knowing why communicating isn't my strong point.
you miss them is a 'writing style .'click to expand
Posted by bkbella86They do. Due to trying to txt quickly before people start asking questions. ?Posted by GemitatiI see luv and yes. I never see people say lovPosted by bkbella86Does 'lov' irritates you too for missing e?
For instance if you say I miss you and they someone responds with miss you, does that irritate you? Does it hold any meaning to you?
It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.click to expand
Posted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaUgh teena and her personality again ?Posted by PossessionStNothing is more annoying than your HBD
There was that one poster
Am drivingclick to expand
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I cringe everytime I read your hbd
Posted by PossessionSt??Posted by TeenaHbdPosted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaUgh teena and her personality again ?Posted by PossessionStNothing is more annoying than your HBD
There was that one poster
Am driving
?
I cringe everytime I read your hbdclick to expand
Suchha kiddo you are
Posted by PossessionStI'd have actually felt bad if you'd have said hbd then. Thanks for the favor. Nothing > hbdPosted by TeenaThat's your hbd greeting for your bdPosted by PossessionSt??Posted by TeenaHbdPosted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaUgh teena and her personality again ?Posted by PossessionStNothing is more annoying than your HBD
There was that one poster
Am driving
?
I cringe everytime I read your hbd
Suchha kiddo you are
Don't expect nothing when the time comesclick to expand
Posted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaOk I will say hbd then... if I can remember the date ?Posted by PossessionStI'd have actually felt bad if you'd have said hbd then. Thanks for the favor. Nothing > hbdPosted by TeenaThat's your hbd greeting for your bdPosted by PossessionSt??Posted by TeenaHbdPosted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaUgh teena and her personality again ?Posted by PossessionStNothing is more annoying than your HBD
There was that one poster
Am driving
?
I cringe everytime I read your hbd
Suchha kiddo you are
Don't expect nothing when the time comes
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You don't know my birthday to remember it Ands.. No one here does ?
Posted by PossessionStNah! Couch is too comfortable! Stay ?Posted by TeenaDuh I can trace itPosted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaOk I will say hbd then... if I can remember the date ?Posted by PossessionStI'd have actually felt bad if you'd have said hbd then. Thanks for the favor. Nothing > hbdPosted by TeenaThat's your hbd greeting for your bdPosted by PossessionSt??Posted by TeenaHbdPosted by PossessionStPosted by TeenaUgh teena and her personality again ?Posted by PossessionStNothing is more annoying than your HBD
There was that one poster
Am driving
?
I cringe everytime I read your hbd
Suchha kiddo you are
Don't expect nothing when the time comes
You don't know my birthday to remember it Ands.. No one here does ?
But it takes effort
Not sure I want to get off my couch for thatclick to expand
Posted by d0s3rwhat kind of someone? My loved ones? Why would they want to manipulate me for the sake of it? I've never experienced that.
u know someone can say 'i love you' knowing it will please you. then u just got manipulated
And anyone else who I know for a fact doesn't love me and vice Versa couldn't manipulate me that way.
So what do you mean?
Posted by DMVFor why?Posted by bkbella86I have never thought about this. Im going to start doing that.
For instance if you say I miss you and they someone responds with miss you, does that irritate you? Does it hold any meaning to you?
It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.click to expand
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It annoys me, it seems fake without the I.