Revenge Porn

Which sign is most likely to use it against you?

Posted by HeartofIce

Scorpio

Fuck. Fuck. Fuck.

That’s what I was afraid of. Welp...there go my political aspirations.

Scorpio men

I need a new identity.

Posted by Arielle83

Your face in it?

Yep. I’m even talking into the camera. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Fucking hell. I should have done a Brett Favre and just wore Crocs I could deny were mine.

Since you're a Cap and Caps are always so money-driven.......how about you just sell it to the highest bidder & laugh your candy ass off all the way to the bank?

I’m hoping...praying he wouldn’t do that. But I feel like he’s watching my every move from afar...waiting for me to give him a reason to incite revenge.

Things didn’t work out between us...but he won’t give or agree to closure. It’s just dead ass silence...which has me on edge. I mean...these are photos and videos that would have me relocating to another country.

Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Since you're a Cap and Caps are always so money-driven.......how about you just sell it to the highest bidder & laugh your candy ass off all the way to the bank?

I’d rather have my dignity. I don’t want strangers in mothball and cigarette smoke-smelling trailers fapping to my personal shit with their liver-spotted hands.

Posted by ClairDeLune

Reasoning with him won't help at all?

We’re no longer on speaking terms. 😕

Maybe a immature Scorpio might...but I see a cancer or possibly a Leo more so than a scorp 🤷.

This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

Rob Kardashian

Me

😂😂😚

I play dirty 😈💅🏾

Pisces

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Maybe a immature Scorpio might...but I see a cancer or possibly a Leo more so than a scorp 🤷.

This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

He’s 11 years my senior, so I hope he wouldn’t do something like that...but...he also loves having control and does feel slighted over things most people wouldn’t even think twice about. And I don’t think he’s started to date anyone else yet...so, I just have a strong feeling he’s watching me so he can feel validated about sabotaging us and gleefully “punish” me, as he liked to put it.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Maybe a immature Scorpio might...but I see a cancer or possibly a Leo more so than a scorp 🤷.

This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

He’s 11 years my senior, so I hope he wouldn’t do something like that...but...he also loves having control and does feel slighted over things most people wouldn’t even think twice about. And I don’t think he’s started to date anyone else yet...so, I just have a strong feeling he’s watching me so he can feel validated about sabotaging us and gleefully “punish” me, as he liked to put it.

You think hes gonna pull a reverse Pete Davidson? Send the video to your BF?

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I haven’t started dating either. He was always very distrustful in the beginning...I think because of the age difference and because of past negative experiences in his life. I proved to him that I was loyal to him, but in the end, he still had doubts.

So...I think if I happen to start dating or he sees someone on my social media being overly friendly for his taste, it’ll incite his anger...and he could send those photos or videos to...either that person or others. I don’t feel like he’s okay with me being with someone else. So, yes...I do think he’d try to sabotage anything with a new person and at the same time, affect my public image because he knows it matters to me.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Maybe a immature Scorpio might...but I see a cancer or possibly a Leo more so than a scorp 🤷.

This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

He’s 11 years my senior, so I hope he wouldn’t do something like that...but...he also loves having control and does feel slighted over things most people wouldn’t even think twice about. And I don’t think he’s started to date anyone else yet...so, I just have a strong feeling he’s watching me so he can feel validated about sabotaging us and gleefully “punish” me, as he liked to put it.

You think hes gonna pull a reverse Pete Davidson? Send the video to your BF?

I haven’t started dating either. He was always very distrustful in the beginning...I think because of the age difference and because of past negative experiences in his life. I proved to him that I was loyal to him, but in the end, he still had doubts.

So...I think if I happen to start dating or he sees someone on my social media being overly friendly for his taste, it’ll incite his anger...and he could send those photos or videos to...either that person or others. I don’t feel like he’s okay with me being with someone else. So, yes...I do think he’d try to sabotage anything with a new person and at the same time, affect my public image because he knows it matters to me.

Is there a way to get in front of it?

It would look worse on him IMO if he did.. every couple has sex, that's normal and nothing to be ashamed of.. it takes a petty SOB to release it cause their wittle feelers got hurt.. I do get where you're coming from though.

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I was thinking about that today. Thinking, “Everyone has sex. And I’m 34...of course I’m going to be participating in this kind of stuff. Why would people be shocked or think differently of me?”

But it’s because of the sheer raunchiness and darker-themed shit we did and he had me do on video that has me nervous as hell. Because it’s in stark contrast to who I am in my waking life. But, in trying to prove my loyalty to him, I trusted him with that level of vulnerability. Now I see that it may have been a way to keep control of me.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Maybe a immature Scorpio might...but I see a cancer or possibly a Leo more so than a scorp 🤷.

This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

He’s 11 years my senior, so I hope he wouldn’t do something like that...but...he also loves having control and does feel slighted over things most people wouldn’t even think twice about. And I don’t think he’s started to date anyone else yet...so, I just have a strong feeling he’s watching me so he can feel validated about sabotaging us and gleefully “punish” me, as he liked to put it.

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Well he sounds very immature then. Hopefully he doesn't but yeah, you may want to talk with an attorney so you know what you'll be dealing with if he does.

My best friend is actually an attorney, so I’ll get with him sometime this week just to get an idea of what my options would be should things escalate.

I think I’m just going to lay low and give the Scorpio some more time and space to disconnect from our experience. I’m leaving this city in a couple of months anyway. Maybe he’ll start dating and delete all my stuff.

Posted by Hapis

Lmao! This Akbar dude is a scorpio

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.tmz.com/2018/05/17/teairra-mari-lawsuit-sex-tape-leak-50-cent-boyfriend-akbar-abdul-ahad/

May give you some ideas. Change your SM passwords etc

Holy shit!

Dude...and the polyamorous bit. Oy.

The Scorpio, out of nowhere, asks me if I would ever participate in a polyamorous relationship. I told him that I NEVER would. I’m territorial as a mf, and if I’m with someone, that shit belongs to me and only me. And he’s EXTREMELY possessive as well, so that question came out of left field and left me feeling unsettled. He claimed he was just asking because he saw a film regarding a polyamorous relationship and was curious on my thoughts. 🙄

And now this story?? Ugh. My stomach is in knots. I’m glad she’s getting compensated, though!

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Maybe a immature Scorpio might...but I see a cancer or possibly a Leo more so than a scorp 🤷.

This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

He’s 11 years my senior, so I hope he wouldn’t do something like that...but...he also loves having control and does feel slighted over things most people wouldn’t even think twice about. And I don’t think he’s started to date anyone else yet...so, I just have a strong feeling he’s watching me so he can feel validated about sabotaging us and gleefully “punish” me, as he liked to put it.

You think hes gonna pull a reverse Pete Davidson? Send the video to your BF?

I haven’t started dating either. He was always very distrustful in the beginning ...I think because of the age difference and because of past negative experiences in his life. I proved to him that I was loyal to him, but in the end, he still had doubts.

So...I think if I happen to start dating or he sees someone on my social media being overly friendly for his taste, it’ll incite his anger...and he could send those photos or videos to...either that person or others. I don’t feel like he’s okay with me being with someone else. So, yes...I do think he’d try to sabotage anything with a new person and at the same time, affect my public image because he knows it matters to me.

If he was ALWAYS DISTRUSTFUL then why did you agree to get filmed and that too with all that raunchy sex?? 🙄

That's so UN-Capricorn like. I thought you guys always take calculated decisions and are hard to trick.

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I was completely out of my Capricorn element. There’s no one more cognizant of that than me. This past Mercury retrograde had me acting and feeling unlike myself. I’m back, though. I’m just trying to strategically and quietly gather the pieces of my mind that I momentarily lost.

At that time, I rationalized my actions by convincing myself that if I did a huge demonstration and made myself completely vulnerable, that he would trust it.

The issues are far bigger than me and have nothing to do with me. I’ve come to terms with that. Now I’m just trying to dissipate without trouble.

I’m a grown ass woman. I take responsibility for what I did. There’s no shame. I just chose the wrong person with whom to share myself. It happens.

Posted by Phantom_Limbo

Well, did you look good in it? Maybe this is that big break you've been waiting for.

Of course I did.

Capricorns don’t need or wait for “big breaks”. I’ve worked tirelessly where education and actual work is concerned to get to where I am. I like to keep any tangible evidence of my private life private, though.

Leo placements can be quite the little sluts if stimulated appropriately so I can somewhat understand why you don't want any of that public.

Now I'm curious what's in the video. 🙃

Better pray kittens don't see this. omg lol.

Never have. Never will.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11



This is why you don't do vids and pics.. especially with your face in it...can't trust anyone!!

+Gazillion

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I typically don’t. But...I was thinking with my heart and my lady bits, and wanted to oblige.

Lesson learned.

Posted by bkbella86

Pisces

false

Aquas.

Posted by Reciprocity8

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Since you're a Cap and Caps are always so money-driven.......how about you just sell it to the highest bidder & laugh your candy ass off all the way to the bank?

I’d rather have my dignity. I don’t want strangers in mothball and cigarette smoke-smelling trailers fapping to my personal shit with their liver-spotted hands.

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I'm in two minds about this.

On one hand, I'd say dignity is subjective & a matter of perspective. We fear these scenarios because we fear being judged. But since when did other people's opinions ever truly matter? It's not like they pay our bills.

Maybe I'm a little biased because I once made a video & was paid for it lol (though not sure if it ever got released publicly).

On the other hand, we've all seen how smear campaigns work on politicians......were you serious about pursuing a political career btw? Yeah it could be bad BUT there is plenty you can do to make sure it doesn't happen. Or if it DOES happen, there's plenty you can do to come down on him like a ton of bricks. And make a big wad of cash in the process.

Is there an update to the situation you feel like sharing?

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Since you're a Cap and Caps are always so money-driven.......how about you just sell it to the highest bidder & laugh your candy ass off all the way to the bank?

I’d rather have my dignity. I don’t want strangers in mothball and cigarette smoke-smelling trailers fapping to my personal shit with their liver-spotted hands.

I'm in two minds about this.

On one hand, I'd say dignity is subjective & a matter of perspective. We fear these scenarios because we fear being judged. But since when did other people's opinions ever truly matter? It's not like they pay our bills.

Maybe I'm a little biased because I once made a video & was paid for it lol (though not sure if it ever got released publicly).

On the other hand, we've all seen how smear campaigns work on politicians......were you serious about pursuing a political career btw? Yeah it could be bad BUT there is plenty you can do to make sure it doesn't happen. Or if it DOES happen, there's plenty you can do to come down on him like a ton of bricks. And make a big wad of cash in the process.

Is there an update to the situation you feel like sharing?

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If I wasn’t a mother, I might not care so much about the opinions of others...but I do, because my life decisions could affect my child too.

No update yet. We still haven’t spoken and I still think he’s keeping an eye to see if I move on too quickly for his taste.

I’ve worked in the past on a major political campaign staff, but relocating to attend law school and continue to pursue work in politics and advocacy. He’s a veteran too and most of my advocacy work is with undocumented immigrants and veterans...so, I’m hoping he would consider that before making a decision out of spite.

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Since you're a Cap and Caps are always so money-driven.......how about you just sell it to the highest bidder & laugh your candy ass off all the way to the bank?

I’d rather have my dignity. I don’t want strangers in mothball and cigarette smoke-smelling trailers fapping to my personal shit with their liver-spotted hands.

I'm in two minds about this.

On one hand, I'd say dignity is subjective & a matter of perspective. We fear these scenarios because we fear being judged. But since when did other people's opinions ever truly matter? It's not like they pay our bills.

Maybe I'm a little biased because I once made a video & was paid for it lol (though not sure if it ever got released publicly).

On the other hand, we've all seen how smear campaigns work on politicians......were you serious about pursuing a political career btw? Yeah it could be bad BUT there is plenty you can do to make sure it doesn't happen. Or if it DOES happen, there's plenty you can do to come down on him like a ton of bricks. And make a big wad of cash in the process.

Is there an update to the situation you feel like sharing?

If I wasn’t a mother, I might not care so much about the opinions of others...but I do, because my life decisions could affect my child too.

No update yet. We still haven’t spoken and I still think he’s keeping an eye to see if I move on too quickly for his taste.

I’ve worked in the past on a major political campaign staff, but relocating to attend law school and continue to pursue work in politics and advocacy. He’s a veteran too and most of my advocacy work is with undocumented immigrants and veterans...so, I’m hoping he would consider that before making a decision out of spite.

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But given his past behavior, he's one immature mathafaka so him acting like an adult and stepping away without incident is very unlikely in my estimation.

Good thing he hasn't done it YET. Which gives YOU time to take precautions, fence up. If you haven't seen your lawyer friend, do so asap. You shouldn't leave these things until the last minute. We always think we have plenty of time to take care of something that hasn't happened yet, but life likes to throw those curveballs around.

Call my Virgo moon a neurotic freak if you want, but I'd rather be prepared for all eventualities. I don't know if you moving to another city will placate him.

Even if he does do it, there's laws in place for that kind of thing. Cyber crimes is a major thing these days. He will get fucked up.

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow

Since you're a Cap and Caps are always so money-driven.......how about you just sell it to the highest bidder & laugh your candy ass off all the way to the bank?

I’d rather have my dignity. I don’t want strangers in mothball and cigarette smoke-smelling trailers fapping to my personal shit with their liver-spotted hands.

I'm in two minds about this.

On one hand, I'd say dignity is subjective & a matter of perspective. We fear these scenarios because we fear being judged. But since when did other people's opinions ever truly matter? It's not like they pay our bills.

Maybe I'm a little biased because I once made a video & was paid for it lol (though not sure if it ever got released publicly).

On the other hand, we've all seen how smear campaigns work on politicians......were you serious about pursuing a political career btw? Yeah it could be bad BUT there is plenty you can do to make sure it doesn't happen. Or if it DOES happen, there's plenty you can do to come down on him like a ton of bricks. And make a big wad of cash in the process.

Is there an update to the situation you feel like sharing?

If I wasn’t a mother, I might not care so much about the opinions of others...but I do, because my life decisions could affect my child too.

No update yet. We still haven’t spoken and I still think he’s keeping an eye to see if I move on too quickly for his taste.

I’ve worked in the past on a major political campaign staff, but relocating to attend law school and continue to pursue work in politics and advocacy. He’s a veteran too and most of my advocacy work is with undocumented immigrants and veterans...so, I’m hoping he would consider that before making a decision out of spite.

But given his past behavior, he's one immature mathafaka so him acting like an adult and stepping away without incident is very unlikely in my estimation.

Good thing he hasn't done it YET. Which gives YOU time to take precautions, fence up. If you haven't seen your lawyer friend, do so asap. You shouldn't leave these things until the last minute. We always think we have plenty of time to take care of something that hasn't happened yet, but life likes to throw those curveballs around.

Call my Virgo moon a neurotic freak if you want, but I'd rather be prepared for all eventualities. I don't know if you moving to another city will placate him.

Even if he does do it, there's laws in place for that kind of thing. Cyber crimes is a major thing these days. He will get fucked up.

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It’s difficult to read him. The first time I tried ending things, he seemed to take it well. It wasn’t until later that he expressed that I’d actually pissed him off and I “needed to be punished”.

I didn’t take it seriously; thought he was just going overboard in trying to assert his dominance because I know he felt strongly about me and it was unsettling to him.

But now, because I underestimated him the first time, I don’t want to do it again. I’m seeing my friend on Friday.