The New Age Women's relationship checklist

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Posted by Soul
What if he knows all that but wants to help cook meals and get into gardening? Like a team.

You can give me beers while I watch 100 youtube tutorials on how to fix a car, and eventually I will fix it because I honestly can't admit defeat.

That sounds like a dream come true.

When I was married, I did 100% of the cooking, cleaning and 90% of the kids stuff plus worked and made most of the income. I worked from home so he didn't consider it a real job. All I ever wanted was a real partner.

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Posted by Soul
What if he knows all that but wants to help cook meals and get into gardening? Like a team.

You can give me beers while I watch 100 youtube tutorials on how to fix a car, and eventually I will fix it because I honestly can't admit defeat.
hurry up and move to Oz
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I always think what it would be like to just drop everything I know and start new. It's just being so fixed as a human. My life style and everything that has come to this point feels like its set in stone. Deep down I have an urge to do something crazy and just say fuck it though. The idea of just escaping everything and going out on my own into the deep unknown excites me, but I feel bound to where I am. Mentally trapped to what I know and grew up around. I want to learn how to truly break away from everything I know and start over.
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Posted by Soul
I always think what it would be like to just drop everything I know and start new. It's just being so fixed as a human. My life style and everything that has come to this point feels like its set in stone. Deep down I have an urge to do something crazy and just say fuck it though. The idea of just escaping everything and going out on my own into the deep unknown excites me, but I feel bound to where I am. Mentally trapped to what I know and grew up around. I want to learn how to truly break away from everything I know and start over.
i feel you
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Posted by wagtail
Posted by Soul
What if he knows all that but wants to help cook meals and get into gardening? Like a team.

You can give me beers while I watch 100 youtube tutorials on how to fix a car, and eventually I will fix it because I honestly can't admit defeat.
hurry up and move to Oz
I always think what it would be like to just drop everything I know and start new. It's just being so fixed as a human. My life style and everything that has come to this point feels like its set in stone. Deep down I have an urge to do something crazy and just say fuck it though. The idea of just escaping everything and going out on my own into the deep unknown excites me, but I feel bound to where I am. Mentally trapped to what I know and grew up around. I want to learn how to truly break away from everything I know and start over.
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Do it!!!

Keep your savings that way you aren't struggling finding yourself and money at the same time. But it is refreshing and most of the time you create a better future for yourself and a Happy one.

You will only regret the risks you didnt take.

At the end it may not be what you were expecting but better.

🙂

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Posted by -elle-
I just need someone to fix my right rear tire because it keeps getting low and all I know how to do is take it to the petro station air kiosk.....and all my cap knows how to do is give me quarters for kiosk.

#pitfallsofrelationshippingwithacap
My Cap ex husband was not at all handy around the house. He would call his friends to help with projects and would end up supervising.