To sue or not to sue... (Page 2)

Posted by Aquariusgal80
No, that's not the case. We hang out with his best friend and brothers a lot and they are always very grateful to him and talk about what he did for them was the nicest thing anyone can do. They appreciate him and realize it was huge but don't know their dad hasn't paid the money. My boyfriend has money, I work too. We both make good money. The whole thing is yes, we can use that exta money for our future now. It's his money! I can't force him to do anything, I can only advice and make him understand, that he's tried the nice guy approach and now it's the tme to fight for what belongs to him. Like I said, he knows what to do but is being naive and he rather go after the money himself then taking legal action against the family he cares about.

If you're looking for validation then, yes-- I agree, it would be a good idea to talk to a lawyer.

But here's the thing: you're pressuring him, and tbh, even though the $ $ is rightfully his-- you're coming off as pushy and greedy.

No offense, but you're just going to piss him off if you keep hounding him.

And it isn't your place to inform his friends.

Let it go, for now-- he knows how you feel about it.

Srsly.

Posted by PVandJelleh
On a tangent whatever retrograde going on is hitting folks hard. Even P-Angel is more off than usual. And for once I'm the normal one. Yay!

😛 it's that mars libra retro thingy huh?

and that cardinal crossing stuff.

it's no more cray than usual. 😄

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by PVandJelleh
On a tangent whatever retrograde going on is hitting folks hard. Even P-Angel is more off than usual. And for once I'm the normal one. Yay!

😛 it's that mars libra retro thingy huh?

and that cardinal crossing stuff.

it's no more cray than usual. 😄

Haha. I have libra Mars retro in my natal. Business as usual for me.

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what are we expecting during these times?

thanks, PVAF. 🙂

there's a kind of weirdness in the atmosphere, as if it's hard to push forward.

Mars in libra is in detriment, technically, so yeah i get it. the retro stuff makes people want to cut the bullshit.

70k and he'd prefer not to push this issue?

lol ... I'm starting to smell bullshit

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Posted by atearth
How much money was it?

LOL TAURUS.

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What can I say, I need my facts

oh, it's just 70k, no biggie then 0__0

what's wrong with you people...that's like an apartment and a half here.

It's time for some Shakespeare.

"Neither a borrower nor a lender be;
for loan oft loses both itself and friend,
and borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."

-Act I Scene 3 of Hamlet said by Polonius to his son, Laertes

Posted by tiziani
I actually agree with the OP, it is the principle. The amount of money doesn't matter to me. If someone's going to do this to you over 70 quid or 70 thousand, same thing.

Will you go to court for 1 $ ?

There's a higher incentive, no matter the principle. They are talking marriage, that alone should prompt him to do smthg.