What are some good ways to get back at someone after/during sex?

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Lol you don't cook your boyfriend a great dinner, spending hrs on preparing it, yet tell him afterwards that he didn't deserve it, do you?



you can't get back at a guy when you allow him to sleep with you, because he got what he wanted

and after sex he will be in deep sleep anyway so he won't listen to you nagging at him

so next time you just don't sleep with him at all, that will hurt him!





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You mean as in revenge ?

Why would you want to *get back* at someone?
May be because the guy is too dominant in bed.
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He's been getting on my nerves lately. I have a feeling he's doing/did something behind my back. Lately he's been feeding me aphrodisiacs. I wanna get with him but I want him to be obsessed first so it'll hurt.
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Posted by TheSag
Lol you don't cook your boyfriend a great dinner, spending hrs on preparing it, yet tell him afterwards that he didn't deserve it, do you?



you can't get back at a guy when you allow him to sleep with you, because he got what he wanted

and after sex he will be in deep sleep anyway so he won't listen to you nagging at him

so next time you just don't sleep with him at all, that will hurt him!






That's true. I didn't think of it that way. But still, I want to find a way to where he feels like he lost me, rather than the other way around
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Posted by Lilianni
I wanna get with him but I want him to be obsessed first so it'll hurt.

Gurl who's really winning when you try to get revenge?

C'mon, you're supposed to be from the south! What happened to being humble and letting people be blissfully ignorant?

The best revenge is to just act like you don't know what he's doing, and let him think it's working so he'll make an ass of himself doing the same things with the next girl. (If you're lucky, the next girl will call him on his shit and he'll get all defensive and start missing you because you were an innocent angel who trusted easily).

Just my two cents, as someone too lazy to fight or get revenge. In the meantime, start looking for your rebound.
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Posted by EnochtheWise
best form of revenge is honestly for you to grow dafuq up and move on....

when you have to dig deep to even the score, it just shows them how much you care.....
Agreed. I'm a Scorp Mars and I don't plot to get back at someone. I just simply work silently and let success be my noise. That's the best revenge.

The reason being is that regardless of what you do, people with a certain mindset see you in a certain way...until you rise above the image they have of you. All of the benefits with none of the dirt

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Posted by Catullus
If you want the relationship to end then this would do the trick.

During sex- say his best (male) friends name while either orgasming or faking an orgasm, afterward 'confess' to sleeping with his friend. If you're super committed actually sleep with his best friend. Chances are he'll lose you and his best friend in one fell swoop.
Lol his best friend and him are super close. We all know each other. They work together. Kek
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Posted by EnochtheWise
best form of revenge is honestly for you to grow dafuq up and move on....

when you have to dig deep to even the score, it just shows them how much you care.....
Agreed. I'm a Scorp Mars and I don't plot to get back at someone. I just simply work silently and let success be my noise. That's the best revenge.

The reason being is that regardless of what you do, people with a certain mindset see you in a certain way...until you rise above the image they have of you. All of the benefits with none of the dirt

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I never thought about that. Thanks for the insight.