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Straight woman in gay bar
What Happens When a Straight Woman Visits a Gay Bar
When a straight woman enters a gay bar, she can expect a welcoming environment focused on LGBTQ+ community and socializing. Attitudes vary, but most venues are inclusive and respectful. Her experience depends on her behavior and intentions, often leading to friendly interactions or new social connections within the safe space.
Is this one of those jokes with no punchlines or what ever like
Why did the duck?
A. Because it had a wooden leg...
Posted by wagtail
Is this one of those jokes with no punchlines or what ever likeWhy did the duck?
A. Because it had a wooden leg...
Sorrie. I don't speak Australian...
I'm straight and frequent gay bars. Its nice to get wasted with your gbf and dance without inhibition or having to duck dudes sneaking up behind and grinding in your ass.
Whats your question??
Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm straight and frequent gay bars. Its nice to get wasted with your gbf and dance without inhibition or having to duck dudes sneaking up behind and grinding in your ass.Whats your question??
What gbf?
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?
So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
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If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
Posted by LadyNeptune
I'm straight and frequent gay bars. Its nice to get wasted with your gbf and dance without inhibition or having to duck dudes sneaking up behind and grinding in your ass.Whats your question??
What gbf?
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gay best friend
Love gay bars but it's the same as straight ones... the lesbians and dykes hit on you anyway ??
Nothing, really.
Unless there's a show, then it's more fun.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
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I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Love gay bars but it's the same as straight ones... the lesbians and dykes hit on you anyway ??
So youbare gbf? How ugly are you—
I have one thing to say....
POP DAT PUSSY... AYYEE POP PUSSY GEMITATI!!!
You dance while everyone cheers you on, saying "YAAAAASSSSSSS BITCH, FUXK IT UP!"
Posted by Cancan26
I have one thing to say....POP DAT PUSSY... AYYEE POP PUSSY GEMITATI!!!
Just one thing?
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Love gay bars but it's the same as straight ones... the lesbians and dykes hit on you anyway ??So youbare gbf? How ugly are you—
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Come again?
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
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Oh, well you could've been more clear! 😄
Even LadyNeptune thought the same thing, I think.
Never been to a dyke bar, probably wouldn't. Why?
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Love gay bars but it's the same as straight ones... the lesbians and dykes hit on you anyway ??So youbare gbf? How ugly are you—
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— I can't deal
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Oh, well you could've been more clear! 😄
Even LadyNeptune thought the same thing, I think.
Never been to a dyke bar, probably wouldn't. Why?
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Why dyke bar?
You know it's kind of degrading to say that?
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Love gay bars but it's the same as straight ones... the lesbians and dykes hit on you anyway ??So youbare gbf? How ugly are you—
— I can't deal
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Apparently no one can unless she had it on a leash...—
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Oh, well you could've been more clear! 😄
Even LadyNeptune thought the same thing, I think.
Never been to a dyke bar, probably wouldn't. Why?
Why dyke bar?
You know it's kind of degrading to say that?
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I don't think so.
Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Love gay bars but it's the same as straight ones... the lesbians and dykes hit on you anyway ??So youbare gbf? How ugly are you—
— I can't deal
Apparently no one can unless she had it on a leash...—
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Gemitati always come through fuck shit up and leave ?? woof woof —?
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
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Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You turn up with your gay boys and have a great night without getting hit on... unless you go to the Abbey and one of the gogo boys hits on you
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
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I think I would be ok in men place. But lesbian bar I am wondering if someone will hit on me and when find out I am not a lesbian (well, notnyet anyway?) will beat shit outnof me for intrusion.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Oh, well you could've been more clear! 😄
Even LadyNeptune thought the same thing, I think.
Never been to a dyke bar, probably wouldn't. Why?
Why dyke bar?
You know it's kind of degrading to say that?
I don't think so.
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Isn't dyke a masculine lesbian?
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
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Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
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Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
I feel like an accessory. He took me to a gay pool party the other day and showed me off proudly. I was legit the only straight person there lol
@Prince_Pisces
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
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Your obsession with me and my dog is cute. Kinda like your attempts at trolling.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
Your obsession with me and my dog is cute. Kinda like your attempts at trolling.
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I am just trying to make you feel like you matter...
I think it's cute when straight girls go to lesbian bars thinking they are confident in their sexuality until a handsome dyke stares into her eyes and says "I see you"......
I used to work at a predominately gay vegetarian restaurant in Melbourne, the only people who worked there were gay guys and girls, there was this one mythic Irish lesbian girl with blonde dreads that worked behind the bar and everyone had the hots for her, she could turn any straight girl she wanted and we used to love seeing her tune any of the new girls she likes.
I got such a crush on handsome lesbians, one time a saw one out and I thought she was a bad boy until I saw her tits and I was confused but I kept following her like a puppy, there's actually one in my hometown and she works for dominos!
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Oh, well you could've been more clear! 😄
Even LadyNeptune thought the same thing, I think.
Never been to a dyke bar, probably wouldn't. Why?
Why dyke bar?
You know it's kind of degrading to say that?
I don't think so.
Isn't dyke a masculine lesbian?
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I suppose. Things have changed since the days when I bothered myself with PC.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Oh, well you could've been more clear! 😄
Even LadyNeptune thought the same thing, I think.
Never been to a dyke bar, probably wouldn't. Why?
Why dyke bar?
You know it's kind of degrading to say that?
I don't think so.
Isn't dyke a masculine lesbian?
I suppose. Things have changed since the days when I bothered myself with PC.
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PC sounds familiar...what is that?
Penis cunt
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
Your obsession with me and my dog is cute. Kinda like your attempts at trolling.
I am just trying to make you feel like you matter...
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Why do you feel compelled to do that? I never asked you to look after my emotional well-being. I figure you have enough on your plate with the cap and the scorp.
But damn, all the free time on your hands...I'm starting to think they don't even exist.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
Your obsession with me and my dog is cute. Kinda like your attempts at trolling.
I am just trying to make you feel like you matter...
Why do you feel compelled to do that? I never asked you to look after my emotional well-being. I figure you have enough on your plate with the cap and the scorp.
But damn, all the free time on your hands...I'm starting to think they don't even exist.
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I have wild imagination...
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
Your obsession with me and my dog is cute. Kinda like your attempts at trolling.
I am just trying to make you feel like you matter...
Why do you feel compelled to do that? I never asked you to look after my emotional well-being. I figure you have enough on your plate with the cap and the scorp.
But damn, all the free time on your hands...I'm starting to think they don't even exist.
I have wild imagination...
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So that's a yes to them not existing? Thanks.
Posted by sultrykitty
You make some new friends and have a fantastic time without feeling like you're a piece of meat?So no one is hitting on you?
Do they know you are straight just because?
If they're men it doesn't matter if a woman is straight or gay, they're not interested in you that way. Most gay guys can spot a gay woman right off the bat though.
I meant lesbian bar. I know gay men not interested in women...that's kind of obvious.?
Theres not really any soley 'lesi' bars/clubs where we party (weho). Gay is gay is gay. And gay is about being inclusive.
You know damn well we aren't inclusive LOL! I've always wondered why a lot of gay guys get annoyed when a girl comes into a gay bar. Like why are you so threatened?
Not the bars I go too! Although we like the ones that have drag shows on wed nights. Where are my singles.
Try singles bar...they are all in there with their dogs...
Your obsession with me and my dog is cute. Kinda like your attempts at trolling.
I am just trying to make you feel like you matter...
Why do you feel compelled to do that? I never asked you to look after my emotional well-being. I figure you have enough on your plate with the cap and the scorp.
But damn, all the free time on your hands...I'm starting to think they don't even exist.
I have wild imagination...
So that's a yes to them not existing? Thanks.
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Sure. Anytime.
If you're a straight woman and you go to a lesbian bar, expect to get hit on.
Regardless if it's a gay bar, straight bar, or lesbian one, it's all a meat market.
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