@TheGreatSearcher
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What is the most valuable advice you can give about relationships?
Posted by DonJohn
Cheat first. Cheat often.Until u meet the 1
How will you recognize 'the one' if your always looking ahead for the next thing.
Posted by DonJohn
Cheat first. Cheat often.Until u meet the 1
Really? ?
If his mama dont like him, dont waste your time with him.
Posted by Capri-sun
Love unconditionally
Everytime i see this, i feel like screaming.
There's no better way to do a disservice to yourself and others, then to love someone unconditionally.
Might as well tattoo "doormat" on your forehead.
Understand no one is perfect or error free. We all make mistakes, it's part of what makes us human. Learn to accept yourself and others regarding this and it will make everything in life easier.
Also understand that placing undue expectations on another leads to unhappiness and heartbreak. Keep that shit realistic! Lol
Ps no one is a mind reader.... Tell them how you feel...as a fellow Aqua I know how hard that is...
Posted by DonJohn
Cheat first. Cheat often.Until u meet the 1
Nice advise to tell a youngster... I'm going to kick yer ass!
Sigh
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Title.I want to understand what to do with my life and how to treat people correctly.
Ask couples that have been together for over 60 years what their secret is.
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My grandma told me before she passed , what worked for them (childhood sweethearts who had close to 50 years married)
Don't go to bed angry and
Sex...
Lots and lots of sex
I died cause this was my GRAnDMOTHER talking about her sex life...—
I'll assume this is advice needed for relationship in general. I didn't get a chance, but just the other day I was going to teach my niece about compromise. I think its important to maintain healthy relationships. She is young, but I've noticed that she can be a little selfish like her auntie(me) so I think its best she gets a headstart so it won't be so hard for her to do in the future.
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by DMV
Posted by Capri-sun
Love unconditionally
Everytime i see this, i feel like screaming.
There's no better way to do a disservice to yourself and others, then to love someone unconditionally.
Might as well tattoo "doormat" on your forehead.
Great thanks!
Who cares, everything isn't about what you can get from someone.
That's how I choose to live my life and I have no regrets from doing so.
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Idk even what that ^ means.
But what i mean to say is, everyone loves their mate with conditions.
I mean you wouldnt to love a man sleeps with your sister and makes a baby with her.
Posted by justagirl
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Title.I want to understand what to do with my life and how to treat people correctly.
Ask couples that have been together for over 60 years what their secret is.
My grandma told me before she passed , what worked for them (childhood sweethearts who had close to 50 years married)
Don't go to bed angry and
Sex...
Lots and lots of sex
I died cause this was my GRAnDMOTHER talking about her sex life...—
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I like your GMA
Your lover is not your other half. He is not the other puzzle piece, but he is the piece that makes you happy and that you'd rather have with you.
Love comes and goes. It's a cycle.
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by DMV
Posted by Capri-sun
Posted by DMV
Posted by Capri-sun
Love unconditionally
Everytime i see this, i feel like screaming.
There's no better way to do a disservice to yourself and others, then to love someone unconditionally.
Might as well tattoo "doormat" on your forehead.
Great thanks!
Who cares, everything isn't about what you can get from someone.
That's how I choose to live my life and I have no regrets from doing so.
Idk even what that ^ means.
But what i mean to say is, everyone loves their mate with conditions.
I mean you wouldnt to love a man sleeps with your sister and makes a baby with her.
The same way you want someone to love you whether you choose to shave or not...that is loving without conditions. If he says I will only love you if you shave that is conditional.
Same as with the example you gave. I would already love the person. Once I love, it does not stop.
The difference between unconditional love and being a doormat is what a person tolerates. I can love someone through them sleeping with my sister and having a baby. Does that mean I will tolerate it and still want to be in a relationship with that person? No. I will however still love them. That's true love. Anyone I have given my love to can attest to that.
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Lmao @ shaving
Posted by justagirl
Posted by Seraphlight
Posted by TheGreatSearcher
Title.I want to understand what to do with my life and how to treat people correctly.
Ask couples that have been together for over 60 years what their secret is.
My grandma told me before she passed , what worked for them (childhood sweethearts who had close to 50 years married)
Don't go to bed angry and
Sex...
Lots and lots of sex
I died cause this was my GRAnDMOTHER talking about her sex life...—
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Yeah that's truth I heard about that too, and not to be so controlling either, and yeas sex.
Give everyone a chance regardless, be patient, learn about each other first before making a decision. And that will impact your life and experience.
We must go through hardships to become stronger.
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I want to understand what to do with my life and how to treat people correctly.