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I want to preface this by saying this isnt aimed at any one particular person, just a trend that looks glaringly obvious to me, from a perspective that literally dumped all social media aside from DXP (because as dumb as some of the users can be, there is some actual depth here, about real shit, and I appreciate that) for about 15 years and has recently got back on.

Now on with my thoughts...

We're all a product of our parents, both physically as in we exist because of them, but also our whole operational system is a product of how we were treated by them. It affects everyone, there is no escaping it, and we pass parts of this onto the nexte generation. And im not talking generational trauma in the traditional sense.. Theres a generational theme/pattern that really starts to show up every new generation - the boomers' parents shaped them, the boomers shaped generations X amd the millennials, gen X and millennial as are shaping this generation, so on and so forth... the world is constantly changing, amd not always for the better, and even sometimeswhen it seems its better it has unintendedconsequences that we pay for down the road. Dating apps and social media, along with a generation of kids whose parents told them to suck it up, or I'll give you something to cry about, or really only gave achievement-based attention to their kids oftentimes pitting one child against another to outdo the other for attention (narcissistictupe mothers whose validation cones from their kids). These folks are now grown and having children of their own.. all while dating apps and SM has made shallow validation an achievement within itself... DOPAMINE is really the biggest addiction we have today imo..

In the past month alone so many 30-to early 40 year old girls (because they're really just immature girls IMO) have sent friend requests (local chicks that I either know, or have ran into at some point) then asked me if I wanted to see them nude.. then asked if id subscribe.. like what? I found you boring before, why would I pay to be bored by you again, only naked? It seems predatory. But is this more of a state of where a lot of guys are? It does seem like a lot of guys aren't really seen by women, or they're passed over, or they have these lofty expectations of what they deserve looks-wise, so the girls just exploit that with a fantasy that these guys buy into? Like a dopamine tradeoff - the guy can pretend shes actually atrracted to him, and she has another fly in her web.. Im really not sure? But, what makes me wonder most is, these girls have children, most of them ive seen, and thankfully they do state upfront tgat they have kids, but these kids are learning from mom, here... clearly dad either isnt in the picture, or just isnt involved enough to know whats going on, or so it would seem..

One of the girls ive known for a while, she has a daughter around 10, she just gave birth to a baby.. dad isnt in the picture.. not that he isnt present in the baby or mom's life, but literally isnt in any pictures. There is no evidence this man exists, yet people who know them know they're in a relationship and have been for some time now.. this girl posts selfie basically daily, hustles her subscriber shit, but not a single Pic of dad/boyfriend... now I have seen 1 of these types of girls post their boyfriend and laughed because she had zero attention or validation from that1 particular post, and she deleted it.

Now im seeing the one girl's daughter, the 10 yo, wearing makeup, has her own SM pages, and shes posing just like mom... shes 10.. she's the next gen.. what happens when she has kids? How far do we fall? Just a bunch of women who couldnt keep a conversation going if their life depended on it, but as soon as they think youre loosing interest "wanna see my tits?".. peak bimbo culture IMO

I get its the throw away culture the world lives in. - dont fix, just trash and move onto the next, ive been there and guilty myself, unfortunately.. but what do you forsee ad the culmination of all this?

I still cant wrap my mind around the fact that society still bitches about millionaires through the lense of industrial magnates, yet many, many, many Only fans girls have surpassed their local business owners in wealth, who actually employ and help to build the communities they're established in. And its a bunch of simp men who are paying the way, and incentivizing the next generation, also..

I hate all the shallow shit. I fucking hate it with all the passion I have, i fucking hate it. And I just see it as a bottomless pit, with people digging and refusing to drop the shovel.
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The internet disrupted the gatekeepers of women’s sexuality. For a long time men controlled women’s sexuality by owning the companies, financing the production, controlling the distribution and decided what was marketable. Now social media allows women to bypass those men and monetize themselves directly. Some people will experience this as liberation for women. Some will feel resentment.

Brooke Shields was 10 years old when she was photographed for Playboy by Garry Gross. That was in 1975. That was 51 years ago.

Im not saying any of this is healthy or harmless but I guess I just don’t see it as a moral collapse point. I am worried about the impact, not because I think it will be worse than ever before , but because it’s different than ever before.
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I didn't read the whole thing I don't want to get brain dead reading all that in one day so I'll have to take reading this like a day at a time. But on to what I came here for. The boomer parents didn't take no shit. That's why I am the way I am. I'm hard on people and not one that's easily to get along with. I'm definitely not approachable either. You either love me or you either hate me I couldn't care less. That choice is yours. I don't know maybe it's because I was brought up by earth parents. They brought all that earthiness to me. Too bad today's kids didn't get brought up like we Gen xs did with a belt being whipped across all our asses if we so much as do the wrong thing. That's why youngins are out here on the streets getting in trouble with the law cus their sorry generation x parents don't care and don't have any parenting skills.
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Posted by PilatesBod
The internet disrupted the gatekeepers of women’s sexuality. For a long time men controlled women’s sexuality by owning the companies, financing the production, controlling the distribution and decided what was marketable. Now social media allows women to bypass those men and monetize themselves directly. Some people will experience this as liberation for women. Some will feel resentment.

Brooke Shields was 10 years old when she was photographed for Playboy by Garry Gross. That was in 1975. That was 51 years ago.

Im not saying any of this is healthy or harmless but I guess I just don’t see it as a moral collapse point. I am worried about the impact, not because I think it will be worse than ever before , but because it’s different than ever before.


It's a competition of who's holding the torch when it shouldn't be, in a world where we're supposedly striving for equality.
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I'm gonna speak from my own experience, for a long time I've been an advocate for equality and not treating men as a cash machine, where did that get me? Nowhere tbh

I don't know about the west but where I live it's a very patriarchal society, men here are at the centre of attention, equality between men and women is an illusion imo, most women do all the emotional labor, I was brought up to do so as well and it took me my entire life to realize that.

How different that is from the west?

More than 50% of billionaires in the world are men, so it'll always cater to them, they make the rules, so why shouldn't women profit off that? Oh wait they are called hoes and gold diggers when they do.

But for once these qualities are praised in social media and in society by men themselves, they follow Instagram models and they like their provocative posts, women notice that, so why should they take the high road when it leads nowhere?

I'm not defending all this, I'm just saying it's the result of living under capitalism and patriarchy.

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The internet disrupted the gatekeepers of women’s sexuality. For a long time men controlled women’s sexuality by owning the companies, financing the production, controlling the distribution and decided what was marketable. Now social media allows women to bypass those men and monetize themselves directly. Some people will experience this as liberation for women. Some will feel resentment.

Brooke Shields was 10 years old when she was photographed for Playboy by Garry Gross. That was in 1975. That was 51 years ago.

Im not saying any of this is healthy or harmless but I guess I just don’t see it as a moral collapse point. I am worried about the impact, not because I think it will be worse than ever before , but because it’s different than ever before.


I agree with what you said. I 100% do. I differentiate on how all this ends up as a society.

I think you and I have discussed my preference for women to be treated well because of their brains and not just for sex.. to me thats true equality. ill go ahead and say something I dont think ive ever mentioned on here... I grew up in an all women house.. my sister became a stripper (the whole family was blessed with looks, thank ya Jesus!).. the only thing she knows is selling sex, and now that shes older, and the looks are fading, she cant be as dismissive of people, shes having to learn skills now that shes never had to. Shes being humbled and has nothing she has developed as a personality or skill set other than looks. I get it, it does go both ways, I know a lot of my income revolves around looks also, but as a male, and unfairly probably, I still have the command and respect to not need to chase that. And thats what I think as a society we should be pursuing, not this stupid ass trade of the isea of sex for cash. I know men who have fucked actual animals, for a woman to seek validation by the meer fact that man finds her sexually attractive is such a low bar for women; theyll fuck anything. Like colleges have what like a 50% illiteracy rate on 4 year degrees? The same women who outnumber men in attending and graduating from colleges?

Im all for sexual expression, what im not for is pigeonholing yourself. Idk, I just feel like sex is a basic human need/urge not really something to build selfrespect or a career on. And this isnt even really sex, its the idea of sex. Its pandering to losers IMO. But then again, im not one who watches porn either.

Every country around the world the women have had some sort of sexual repression that they're just now coming out of.. along with all kinds of other repression..

I guess I just feel like most of this shit is basic bitch stuff, that still requires a man to give the attention youre cashing in on.. use your brain and earn your own without a man.

I don't resent anyone I just feel like as a whole ass society we can do better for everyone.



Stay tuned.. my next long ass rant is going to be why Americans still subsidize corn and soybeans for a industry that was sold out years ago, but not healthy edible food and how thats fucked our Healthcare system up, and we pay for it on both ends.. lol
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Society figured out how to monetize insecurity.

I blame the culture and platforms that reward shallow validation and transactional relationships more than the people caught up in it. I also don’t really see it as a generations issue or a men vs. women issue as much as just a bigger shift in culture that affects everyone differently.


I agree with this, and thats really my concern, but how do you not see it as generational? The generation pioneering this right now, is setting the tone for the next generation, and thats for both men and women. O see it as similar to the boomers in america who came back from Vietnam mentally fucked who tried to have families.. they weren't directly responsible, only a product of their circumstances... but there were ripples..
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I'm gonna speak from my own experience, for a long time I've been an advocate for equality and not treating men as a cash machine, where did that get me? Nowhere tbh

I don't know about the west but where I live it's a very patriarchal society, men here are at the centre of attention, equality between men and women is an illusion imo, most women do all the emotional labor, I was brought up to do so as well and it took me my entire life to realize that.

How different that is from the west?

More than 50% of billionaires in the world are men, so it'll always cater to them, they make the rules, so why shouldn't women profit off that? Oh wait they are called hoes and gold diggers when they do.

But for once these qualities are praised in social media and in society by men themselves, they follow Instagram models and they like their provocative posts, women notice that, so why should they take the high road when it leads nowhere?

I'm not defending all this, I'm just saying it's the result of living under capitalism and patriarchy.


I was hoping youd respond. I do think your culture adds a twist to what im saying vs the west. And ive told you before I think cultures like yours put too much respect (good or bad) on genitals.

Im curious on what you mean by emotional labor? Do you mean what i was referring to about suppressing your emotions to please society, like I referenced the boomers doing, or their parents to them? To me thats cultural. The west went from very conservative to more liberal, culturally, pretty quick once the ball started rolling. I feel like some cultures just lag behind.
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Quite ironic you should be condemning so called “shallow validation culture” while framing women’s worth primarily through whether they appear intellectually stimulating, sexually modest, maternally ideal, or aesthetically restrained according to your standards. That, in case it did not register, is also part taking, if not generating, validation culture.

Just from the opposite direction. Your argument also heavily reeks of misogyny... just sayin'

Edit to say, all the onus on women's actions/behavior meanwhile not a single word on 62 million ...
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I'm gonna speak from my own experience, for a long time I've been an advocate for equality and not treating men as a cash machine, where did that get me? Nowhere tbh

I don't know about the west but where I live it's a very patriarchal society, men here are at the centre of attention, equality between men and women is an illusion imo, most women do all the emotional labor, I was brought up to do so as well and it took me my entire life to realize that.

How different that is from the west?

More than 50% of billionaires in the world are men, so it'll always cater to them, they make the rules, so why shouldn't women profit off that? Oh wait they are called hoes and gold diggers when they do.

But for once these qualities are praised in social media and in society by men themselves, they follow Instagram models and they like their provocative posts, women notice that, so why should they take the high road when it leads nowhere?

I'm not defending all this, I'm just saying it's the result of living under capitalism and patriarchy.


I was hoping youd respond. I do think your culture adds a twist to what im saying vs the west. And ive told you before I think cultures like yours put too much respect (good or bad) on genitals.

Im curious on what you mean by emotional labor? Do you mean what i was referring to about suppressing your emotions to please society, like I referenced the boomers doing, or their parents to them? To me thats cultural. The west went from very conservative to more liberal, culturally, pretty quick once the ball started rolling. I feel like some cultures just lag behind.
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Yeah it's exactly that, women basically shouldn't have a voice here, it's not Afghanistan but it's women who should do all the housework and the raising of the kids, and work outside,

Things are changing but into what exactly?

It's not as great in the West as well or any part of the world,

Maybe I'm just being pessimistic
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I'm gonna speak from my own experience, for a long time I've been an advocate for equality and not treating men as a cash machine, where did that get me? Nowhere tbh

I don't know about the west but where I live it's a very patriarchal society, men here are at the centre of attention, equality between men and women is an illusion imo, most women do all the emotional labor, I was brought up to do so as well and it took me my entire life to realize that.

How different that is from the west?

More than 50% of billionaires in the world are men, so it'll always cater to them, they make the rules, so why shouldn't women profit off that? Oh wait they are called hoes and gold diggers when they do.

But for once these qualities are praised in social media and in society by men themselves, they follow Instagram models and they like their provocative posts, women notice that, so why should they take the high road when it leads nowhere?

I'm not defending all this, I'm just saying it's the result of living under capitalism and patriarchy.


I was hoping youd respond. I do think your culture adds a twist to what im saying vs the west. And ive told you before I think cultures like yours put too much respect (good or bad) on genitals.

Im curious on what you mean by emotional labor? Do you mean what i was referring to about suppressing your emotions to please society, like I referenced the boomers doing, or their parents to them? To me thats cultural. The west went from very conservative to more liberal, culturally, pretty quick once the ball started rolling. I feel like some cultures just lag behind.click to expand

Yeah it's exactly that, women basically shouldn't have a voice here, it's not Afghanistan but it's women who should do all the housework and the raising of the kids, and work outside,

Things are changing but into what exactly?

It's not as great in the West as well or any part of the world,

Maybe I'm just being pessimistic
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Have you ever considered moving? You don't seem to really fit your culture in that regard.

I know some women want to be housewives and do that whole shtick, but youre clearly not that. I dont even take you as wanting to be a hoe when you talk about sexual liberation.. I get more, well, honestly, FA vibes where you dont want to be tied to something and make the wrong decision you cant get out of.. and thats a perfectly legitimate view, I think. How are divorces or separations handled in your culture? Are they allowed?

What the original post was about was really me saying I feel like current culture is more or less reverting back to singling out sex as the only thing women have to offer the world. And thats a step back in my opinion. And kinda, sometimes, I feel like you guys put yourselves in a box when you dont need to. Lien I get that its ingrained, but in the west anyway, many guys aren't as backwards and really do fuck with women’s brains in a good good way.. I mean, sex is good, im still on board with all that, but like I said earlier thats a basic biological need.. thats lizard brain shit.. why are we establishing an entire relationship in just that.. I guess if sex is terrible maybe a hard pass, but if its good or decent let's elevate ourselves above the beasts, I guess. But I guess that goes with having actual respect for a whole other person?

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I want to preface this by saying this isnt aimed at any one particular person, just a trend that looks glaringly obvious to me, from a perspective that literally dumped all social media aside from DXP (because as dumb as some of the users can be, there is some actual depth here, about real shit, and I appreciate that) for about 15 years and has recently got back on.

Now on with my thoughts...

We're all a product of our parents, both physically as in we exist because of them, but also our whole operational system is a product of how we were treated by them. It affects everyone, there is no escaping it, and we pass parts of this onto the nexte generation. And im not talking generational trauma in the traditional sense.. Theres a generational theme/pattern that really starts to show up every new generation - the boomers' parents shaped them, the boomers shaped generations X amd the millennials, gen X and millennial as are shaping this generation, so on and so forth... the world is constantly changing, amd not always for the better, and even sometimeswhen it seems its better it has unintendedconsequences that we pay for down the road. Dating apps and social media, along with a generation of kids whose parents told them to suck it up, or I'll give you something to cry about, or really only gave achievement-based attention to their kids oftentimes pitting one child against another to outdo the other for attention (narcissistictupe mothers whose validation cones from their kids). These folks are now grown and having children of their own.. all while dating apps and SM has made shallow validation an achievement within itself... DOPAMINE is really the biggest addiction we have today imo..

In the past month alone so many 30-to early 40 year old girls (because they're really just immature girls IMO) have sent friend requests (local chicks that I either know, or have ran into at some point) then asked me if I wanted to see them nude.. then asked if id subscribe.. like what? I found you boring before, why would I pay to be bored by you again, only naked? It seems predatory. But is this more of a state of where a lot of guys are? It does seem like a lot of guys aren't really seen by women, or they're passed over, or they have these lofty expectations of what they deserve looks-wise, so the girls just exploit that with a fantasy that these guys buy into? Like a dopamine tradeoff - the guy can pretend shes actually atrracted to him, and she has another fly in her web.. Im really not sure? But, what makes me wonder most is, these girls have children, most of them ive seen, and thankfully they do state upfront tgat they have kids, but these kids are learning from mom, here... clearly dad either isnt in the picture, or just isnt involved enough to know whats going on, or so it would seem..

One of the girls ive known for a while, she has a daughter around 10, she just gave birth to a baby.. dad isnt in the picture.. not that he isnt present in the baby or mom's life, but literally isnt in any pictures. There is no evidence this man exists, yet people who know them know they're in a relationship and have been for some time now.. this girl posts selfie basically daily, hustles her subscriber shit, but not a single Pic of dad/boyfriend... now I have seen 1 of these types of girls post their boyfriend and laughed because she had zero attention or validation from that1 particular post, and she deleted it.

Now im seeing the one girl's daughter, the 10 yo, wearing makeup, has her own SM pages, and shes posing just like mom... shes 10.. she's the next gen.. what happens when she has kids? How far do we fall? Just a bunch of women who couldnt keep a conversation going if their life depended on it, but as soon as they think youre loosing interest "wanna see my tits?".. peak bimbo culture IMO

I get its the throw away culture the world lives in. - dont fix, just trash and move onto the next, ive been there and guilty myself, unfortunately.. but what do you forsee ad the culmination of all this?

I still cant wrap my mind around the fact that society still bitches about millionaires through the lense of industrial magnates, yet many, many, many Only fans girls have surpassed their local business owners in wealth, who actually employ and help to build the communities they're established in. And its a bunch of simp men who are paying the way, and incentivizing the next generation, also..

I hate all the shallow shit. I fucking hate it with all the passion I have, i fucking hate it. And I just see it as a bottomless pit, with people digging and refusing to drop the shovel.


I've met orphans that lost their parents and have nothing. I don't envy their pain, they go through the most.

One that I met told me something I'll never forget.

"A child should never have to fight their parent's love, the parent should fight for their kid's love.

I'm done fighting for my parent's love, and I have been for a long time.

Some of the best advice I've ever received
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Here's another thing, so all this stuff about women and sexual repression, I have a question...

Why do women get embarrassed when the squirt or soak the bed.. isnt that what we're aiming for? Congratulations! High five!! Why are you apologizing?


You probably won’t love to hear this but the embarrassment was probably partly self protection from constantly hearing sentiments like your OP. Men policing the conditions it’s acceptable for them to experience or express sexuality and pleasure.

Don’t get mad at me here…it seemed to work exactly as intended. You seem to frame the experience with her as your accomplishment, which she has probably learned is safer for her than men thinking she is a very sexual person who is comfortable with her own pleasure.

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Let the woman squirt freely. That's why snorkels were invented.

Also most girls don't make that much from those sites unless it's in a foreign country where there's limited employment and a little bit goes a long way (no pun)

Plus that shits hard work. There's so much competition and the near constant engagement with people. But some people are hustling, putting in a lot of work. Good for them.

The positive thing is people are more open to niches and what wasn't publicly accepted as attractive before is now earning shekels. It's liberating and accepting AF imo and more attractive than having a greasy pimp tell her how to act towards people.

Plus women should be validated however they want and if they want imo. Like MLK use to say. Content of the character.

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I'm gonna speak from my own experience, for a long time I've been an advocate for equality and not treating men as a cash machine, where did that get me? Nowhere tbh

I don't know about the west but where I live it's a very patriarchal society, men here are at the centre of attention, equality between men and women is an illusion imo, most women do all the emotional labor, I was brought up to do so as well and it took me my entire life to realize that.

How different that is from the west?

More than 50% of billionaires in the world are men, so it'll always cater to them, they make the rules, so why shouldn't women profit off that? Oh wait they are called hoes and gold diggers when they do.

But for once these qualities are praised in social media and in society by men themselves, they follow Instagram models and they like their provocative posts, women notice that, so why should they take the high road when it leads nowhere?

I'm not defending all this, I'm just saying it's the result of living under capitalism and patriarchy.


I was hoping youd respond. I do think your culture adds a twist to what im saying vs the west. And ive told you before I think cultures like yours put too much respect (good or bad) on genitals.

Im curious on what you mean by emotional labor? Do you mean what i was referring to about suppressing your emotions to please society, like I referenced the boomers doing, or their parents to them? To me thats cultural. The west went from very conservative to more liberal, culturally, pretty quick once the ball started rolling. I feel like some cultures just lag behind.click to expand


Yeah it's exactly that, women basically shouldn't have a voice here, it's not Afghanistan but it's women who should do all the housework and the raising of the kids, and work outside,

Things are changing but into what exactly?

It's not as great in the West as well or any part of the world,

Maybe I'm just being pessimisticclick to expand

Have you ever considered moving? You don't seem to really fit your culture in that regard.

I know some women want to be housewives and do that whole shtick, but youre clearly not that. I dont even take you as wanting to be a hoe when you talk about sexual liberation.. I get more, well, honestly, FA vibes where you dont want to be tied to something and make the wrong decision you cant get out of.. and thats a perfectly legitimate view, I think. How are divorces or separations handled in your culture? Are they allowed?

What the original post was about was really me saying I feel like current culture is more or less reverting back to singling out sex as the only thing women have to offer the world. And thats a step back in my opinion. And kinda, sometimes, I feel like you guys put yourselves in a box when you dont need to. Lien I get that its ingrained, but in the west anyway, many guys aren't as backwards and really do fuck with women’s brains in a good good way.. I mean, sex is good, im still on board with all that, but like I said earlier thats a basic biological need.. thats lizard brain shit.. why are we establishing an entire relationship in just that.. I guess if sex is terrible maybe a hard pass, but if its good or decent let's elevate ourselves above the beasts, I guess. But I guess that goes with having actual respect for a whole other person?

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Yes divorces are allowed ofc, can be initiated by men and women, and they are on the rise,

I'd like to end up with someone but no marriage, I feel like it's a trap although I believe it is designed to protect women I see it as a trap as well,

I honestly have no desire in leaving the country, not that it's easy anyways, but I think the whole world is falling apart, financially I'm better off here.
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Going forward as a society we will always continue to develop platforms to exploit and market literally almost everything… And given how no one cares to take any action on the Epstein files, we have worst things to look forward to rising... But you know how annoying kpop got so big? It heavily relies on fans’ parasocialism. It’s so deep that the kpop idols aren’t allowed to openly date to maintain the illusion that they’re always available and accessible to their fans. A multibillion dollar industry heavily depended on strong feelings particularly from females/younger generations. The fans have a zero tolerance policy for any of their idols getting into a serious relationship, they have drove idols to divorce by stalking and other harassments... Many of the fans are batshit crazy and most likely have some sort of personality disorder or mental illness (also why I think they’re easy to profit off of).

However it never ceases to astonish me how much the average adult male is supposedly willing to shell out for things like onlyfans when so much porn is free? Do guys really buy into the whole personalized/custom experience that much? It’s also just a form of parasocial relationships with the girls… As of late 2025 and early 2026, studies indicate that between 48% and 69% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. OnlyFans hosts over 377.5 million registered users (about 50% being Americans).. US population is over 342.4 million… I find all this so interesting because the crazy big successes you hear from onlyfans come at the expense of others and clearly these subscribers have money to blow but the math don’t math when you look at the macroeconomics..?

All of it just reinforces for me that the average male will *always* have money to blow and that women should not fall for any broke claims (the simple truth being he just doesn’t want to spend it on YOU). Women should also have rightful entitlement to it when they have children with these males. Go forth and suck them dry before the onlyfans subscriptions do !

I feel like I just established the average male is not above a crazy teenybop kpop fan. They are two peas in a pod. Remember that ladies whenever you feel down.

TL;DR Women should not be stuck doing all the emotional and mental labor, most (if not all) of the childrearing on top of having to also make a living while he’s out there earning and spending it recklessly on shit like onlyfans because the stats just don’t lie.