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I think you need to press charges.
How dare she? Leg slapping? What’s next? Dick sucking? That woman is a savage! She is a danger to ‘want to be fit’ society! Lmao
Posted by GemitatiI think you need to press charges.
How dare she? Leg slapping? What’s next? Dick sucking? That woman is a savage! She is a danger to ‘want to be fit’ society! Lmao
Definitely press charges. How dare someone touch you!
This is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
Posted by ACsquareplutoEven when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.
Posted by MademoiselleFiskWhat are your goals and reasons for getting a PT? Do you just expected her stand 10 feet back and yell directions? They will get close to you to correct your form and spot you. Unless you just wanted a conversation buddy while speed walking on the treadmill.
I get correcting form. I really do. But slapping my leg to tell me I’m not as good at sit ups (granted it was playful) left me feeling annoyed as it’s someone not understanding my boundary.
Would you mind it in this particular context?
Posted by hydorahThis is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
Thank you for the prayers. I need them right now.
If you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.
Posted by SoftMachineIf you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.
Look at the particular context and then tell me what you think as it didn’t seem to be for the sake of more efficient PT.
It’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooDoing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
Good natured hazing is part of training in groups. Get fired up instead of feeling hurt.
She threw the gauntlet now pick it up and slap her with the gauntlet left and right.
Grow a skin
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ACsquareplutoEven when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.
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if the slap is unwelcome, just slap her back lol
Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full on brawl
Maybe first sesh is a bit full on. If it was 3 months in or something I’d understand a more playful attitude and it’d be fine.
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by SoftMachineIf you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.
Look at the particular context and then tell me what you think as it didn’t seem to be for the sake of more efficient PT.
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A lot of blah blahs
What was the bigger offense, the slapping or her comments
Posted by SoftMachinePosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by SoftMachineIf you don't hate them, they aren't doing their job right.
Look at the particular context and then tell me what you think as it didn’t seem to be for the sake of more efficient PT.
A lot of blah blahs
What was the bigger offense, the slapping or her comments
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The slapping
Posted by ParkourlerPosted by CoochiecoochiecooDoing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
Good natured hazing is part of training in groups. Get fired up instead of feeling hurt.
She threw the gauntlet now pick it up and slap her with the gauntlet left and right.
Grow a skin
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If I slap her back, she wouldn’t like it.
Posted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by hydorahPosted CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ACsquareplutoEven when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.
if the slap is unwelcome, just slap her back lol
Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full on brawl
Like a 3 Stooges shtick with 50 lbs dumbbells.
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No but be honest. How would a leg slap feel for not being able to do sit ups properly by a trainer you’ve just started with and met a handful of times several years ago
Posted by wagtailMaybe first sesh is a bit full on. If it was 3 months in or something I’d understand a more playful attitude and it’d be fine.
Would you feel a little irritated first session? Would you say anything to her next time?
I think she's attracted to you
Posted by ItsSupesIt’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?
Posted by hydorahI think she's attracted to you
I think you need to massage the hair follicles on your mountainous toes until you stimulate hair growth
Posted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by hydorahPosted CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ACsquareplutoEven when I'm well-acquainted with the person I consider them to practice poor judgment when they slap me to get my attention. That, or they lack respect for me to some degree
If you continue to see her I would tell her not to do it again
See this is what I mean. Two extremely opposing opinions, one on top of another. I didn’t like it because it had nothing to do with the training itself. It was more like a ‘ugh wtf, you should be able to do sit ups without struggling’ and then a little giggle after. I don’t like people slapping for attention or to be playful.
if the slap is unwelcome, just slap her back lol
Hopefully it doesn't turn into a full on brawl
Like a 3 Stooges shtick with 50 lbs dumbbells.
No but be honest. How would a leg slap feel for not being able to do sit ups properly by a trainer you’ve just started with and met a handful of times several years ago
My old trainer tapped me on the face with a boxing pad when I missed the count. And that was our 2nd session or something.
You're insisting your question on me like you want a different answer. But obviously people have different boundaries as you can see here. If it makes you uncomfortable, communicate it like ACsq had said.
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I’m not insisting for it to be a different answer. I genuinely want to detail the question with as much context as possible so I can get sincere responses of what people feel. I know it’s different for all and so I’m happy if someone genuinely has a different POV.
Also @ACsquarepluto how would you word it?
Are you the one that was upset about being complimented too much by that obnoxious lady or somethin like that?
Either way, I wouldn't be bothered but I'm also in the same line of work. And I might do something like that myself. If this kind of contact bothers you, you shouldn't have joined the class. Your personal trainer will have to touch you (appropriately) and a bit of teasing is likely. You could say hey I don't really like the teasing, but remember you signed up for something that might not always be the most enjoyable or comfortable thing but should help you get to your goal. And no I don't think it's a violation of your personal space lol.
Posted by FireStarterAnd no I don't think it's a violation of your personal space lol.
Safe space maybe
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupesIt’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?
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I definitely wouldn’t be taking it that way you’re taking it.
Did you take it sexually?
Posted by hydorahThis is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
That’s my man! Sorry...The King! 😍
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by MademoiselleFiskWhat are your goals and reasons for getting a PT? Do you just expected her stand 10 feet back and yell directions? They will get close to you to correct your form and spot you. Unless you just wanted a conversation buddy while speed walking on the treadmill.
I get correcting form. I really do. But slapping my leg to tell me I’m not as good at sit ups (granted it was playful) left me feeling annoyed as it’s someone not understanding my boundary.
Would you mind it in this particular context?
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I am wondering if you can get monetary compensation for pain and suffering and emotional abuse (giggling)...
So you might be able to retire and spend life in cozy rocking chair and will never have to sit up! Or stand up! Would be nice if you also wouldn’t FUCKING TYPE MORON!
Posted by ItsSupesPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupesIt’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?
I definitely wouldn’t be taking it that way you’re taking it.
Did you take it sexually?
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No. I took it as unnecessary for the actual training. Felt it was a little disrespectful as it wasn’t really part of achieving any goals.
Next sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupesPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by ItsSupesIt’s called motivation.
You must be a very serious person if someone isn’t even allowed to touch you in a joking manner.
How many pending lawsuits do you have against people?
Well a pat on the back is absolutely fine. But a slap on the leg when I barely know the woman is too familiar and I felt an invisible line being stepped over at that point.
Surely if you had a dude you were training with first time (after 7/8 years) and to take the piss he slapped your leg joking that you’re a little pathetic, you’d feel he’s being full on?
I definitely wouldn’t be taking it that way you’re taking it.
Did you take it sexually?
No. I took it as unnecessary for the actual training. Felt it was a little disrespectful as it wasn’t really part of achieving any goals.
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Wow
I'd be offended if she didn't slap my leg.
Posted by GemitatiPosted by hydorahThis is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
That’s my man! Sorry...The King! 😍
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I'm sorry that I'm not faithful to the queen, but I respect your commitment to the education of our retarded kids 👍
Posted by LadyNeptuneNext sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
If he had germaphobia he probably wouldn't be in a gym
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooI’m not insisting for it to be a different answer. I genuinely want to detail the question with as much context as possible so I can get sincere responses of what people feel. I know it’s different for all and so I’m happy if someone genuinely has a different POV.
Honestly I think it falls into rape terrritory
Posted by hydorahPosted by LadyNeptuneNext sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
If he had germaphobia he probably wouldn't be in a gym
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Even germaphobes deserve to get their squat gaines on
I'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
Posted by hydorahPosted by GemitatiPosted by hydorahThis is disgusting, and you should contact the fbi asap
my thoughts and prayer are with you and your family
That’s my man! Sorry...The King! 😍
I'm sorry that I'm not faithful to the queen, but I respect your commitment to the education of our retarded kids 👍
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It’s not about fidelity your Hineys. It’s aboit title. And I apologize for admitting that those kids aren’t yours...I hope you aren’t going to lose your erecrion over this fact and continue your reign without getting back into drinking. Forever yours...and others...😍
Posted by hydorahPosted by CoochiecoochiecooI’m not insisting for it to be a different answer. I genuinely want to detail the question with as much context as possible so I can get sincere responses of what people feel. I know it’s different for all and so I’m happy if someone genuinely has a different POV.
Honestly I think it falls into rape terrritory
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OP is insisting on a ‘context’ which I am afraid we keep failing to deliver...
Whatever ta fuck it is...
Posted by TxOgalI'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
Posted by LadyNeptuneNext sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
Do you feel it is an over reaction on my part personally? Or would you just expect it as part and parcel of the PT game.
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by LadyNeptuneNext sesh just tell her you have some germaphobia thing and you need her to warn you before she touches you, like a doctor does.
"ok now I'm gonna give your leg an encouraging tap, dat ok?"
Do you feel it is an over reaction on my part personally? Or would you just expect it as part and parcel of the PT game.
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Idk. Never had a personal trainer.
A slap on the leg wouldn't bother me I'd like to think. But who knows.
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalI'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
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Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalI'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
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Just now? Damn you slow...!!!
Posted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalI'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
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Tell the truth of your feelings.
Posted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalI'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
Tell the truth of your feelings.
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Tie me to a chair
Posted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalPosted by CoochiecoochiecooPosted by TxOgalI'd be so pissed that I'd change the gym even
I’m tasting a metallic taste of sarcasm in my mouth at the moment.
Tell the truth of your feelings.
Tie me to a chair
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Kinky.
Wouldn't bother me. Just need to understand people have different personalities and humour. Can't be so sensitive to things from people before you get to know them well enough to understand them. If you pick away at every tiny thing someone does that you don't like, you'll end up very lonely with no friends. We all have flaws and quirks. No one is perfect or behaves exactly the way you want. Think of it this way, if it's not intentional hurt because the person is malicious or spiteful, then you gotta let it go and be more tolerant or you'll miss out on getting to know what could be really awesome people.
next time, bring a rape whistle and maybe a tazer.
Don't tazer your ass while squatting, although it could have good effects for the training
Well I don’t want her to become too familiar. I want her to stay with in her boundaries and stay professional with me.
Also to reiterate to you all it wasn’t a tap, it was a slap on the leg. Not a touch but with a little force behind it.
Posted by MademoiselleFiskPosted by PowerDonutPosted by CoochiecoochiecooDoing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?
How will a female spot you?
Females is it possible to spot a male? Say he lifts 200 squats 400
lmao. OP is a dude? I didn't know...
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My lack of phallus would beg to differ.
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Doing personal training classes with a female I trained with back in 2010.
Started up sessions. First sesh I was struggling with sit ups, she ‘playfully’ slaps my leg and says ‘my God blah blah, when was the last time you did sit ups blah blah’.
Verdict on this playful slapping and butter? When you barely know the person. Violation of your personal space?