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Gemini Moon cheating reputation?
My sister's cancer ex had a gemini moon and not only cheated but hid two marriages from her. So yeah checks out.
lol I kid. Nurture over nature when it comes to shit like this.
Bs!My mom has a gem moon...so does my sister. Never came across people who can be more loyal honestly. Not everything comes down to astrology afterall I guess.
Every Gemini moon I've known is a cheater or is really two face
Posted by everlynnYour a gem sun and moon. What's your ascendant?
Interesting thread and responses from everybody thus far.
Nevermind me. I'm just gonna sit on this one and enjoy reading everybodys comments on my moon sign.
I just drop by to show my faceless self 😛
Please chime in. Ever cheated?
Posted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.click to expand
Posted by everlynnHey I respect you for being honest. Theres probably a lot of people here who have cheated but will never admit it because of the backlash.Posted by LadyNeptuneYeah I've cheated before and got busted. I'm not gonna sit back and lie and act cute. I was young and dumb back then and didn't know no better. My rising is Libra. Since I'm not familiar with moon signs too much, I blame that on my rising sign Libra. I love by my rising sign model...two is better than one.Posted by everlynnYour a gem sun and moon. What's your ascendant?
Interesting thread and responses from everybody thus far.
Nevermind me. I'm just gonna sit on this one and enjoy reading everybodys comments on my moon sign.
I just drop by to show my faceless self 😛
Please chime in. Ever cheated?
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Have you ever been cheated on?
Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.click to expand
Posted by aquarius_beautyAhh that sucks. But don't blame those who try to step up their game to get you 😉Posted by Mimi24Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars. 😢Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.
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At least they trying 😛 but i totally understand honey!
Everyone is capable of cheating.
Some people are reckless while others can hide such things without any trace.
Negative stereotypes create a blind spot for others that may be slowly destroying you for years.
I think if we live in an open society, some people can finally express themselves without hiding in the closet (those that simply want variety). Of course, not everyone cheats because they want variety.
Some people are reckless while others can hide such things without any trace.
Negative stereotypes create a blind spot for others that may be slowly destroying you for years.
I think if we live in an open society, some people can finally express themselves without hiding in the closet (those that simply want variety). Of course, not everyone cheats because they want variety.
Posted by everlynnWhen you say you were young and dumb back then, what do you mean? Curious what the motivation behind it was.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by everlynnHey I respect you for being honest. Theres probably a lot of people here who have cheated but will never admit it because of the backlash.Posted by LadyNeptuneYeah I've cheated before and got busted. I'm not gonna sit back and lie and act cute. I was young and dumb back then and didn't know no better. My rising is Libra. Since I'm not familiar with moon signs too much, I blame that on my rising sign Libra. I love by my rising sign model...two is better than one.Posted by everlynnYour a gem sun and moon. What's your ascendant?
Interesting thread and responses from everybody thus far.
Nevermind me. I'm just gonna sit on this one and enjoy reading everybodys comments on my moon sign.
I just drop by to show my faceless self 😛
Please chime in. Ever cheated?
Have you ever been cheated on?
Actually, no. Not that I can recall.
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I am sag sun with gem moon.
In my teenage reckless years, I usually had two lives with two different boyfriends. Almost like a split personality, but just dual lives. One, my family knew and loved. He brought out a side that was politically correct, always law abiding, good grades, goody two shoes girly. The other brought out a wild and crazy side of me. The boy I snuck out at night to see. We would drive around, hang out on the rooftop drinking, whatever felt right.
As I have become older I do better at blending these two sides of me into one person, but I won't lie. I feel tied down a lot and seek a thrill every so often. Doesn't have to be another lover. Just a thrill of some kind. Something to spike adrenaline. When I don't fulfill these cravings, I feel like I'm almost smothering, withering up for death. That is when I fight with my own conscience. Heart vs head, and it usually ends with some sort of dependency. So I have to have someone who understands these urges and has an adventurous nature to do things out of the ordinary every now and then. That is how I stopped cheating. Finding thrills elsewhere.
I haven't been a cheater since high school. I refuse to be that person again. But I do crave the thrills of danger and excitement.
In my teenage reckless years, I usually had two lives with two different boyfriends. Almost like a split personality, but just dual lives. One, my family knew and loved. He brought out a side that was politically correct, always law abiding, good grades, goody two shoes girly. The other brought out a wild and crazy side of me. The boy I snuck out at night to see. We would drive around, hang out on the rooftop drinking, whatever felt right.
As I have become older I do better at blending these two sides of me into one person, but I won't lie. I feel tied down a lot and seek a thrill every so often. Doesn't have to be another lover. Just a thrill of some kind. Something to spike adrenaline. When I don't fulfill these cravings, I feel like I'm almost smothering, withering up for death. That is when I fight with my own conscience. Heart vs head, and it usually ends with some sort of dependency. So I have to have someone who understands these urges and has an adventurous nature to do things out of the ordinary every now and then. That is how I stopped cheating. Finding thrills elsewhere.
I haven't been a cheater since high school. I refuse to be that person again. But I do crave the thrills of danger and excitement.
We get bored.
Assholes among our midst will cheat, sure. As much as any other dude or chick out there with 11 other moon signs.
I can ask same question of your Leo sun, OP. Probably same amount of users on here will go "yeah they do! I knew my sister's twice removed cousin who did it!" Or "my ex cheated on me, so obviously the rest are just like him/her!"
Lol. Get serious.
Assholes among our midst will cheat, sure. As much as any other dude or chick out there with 11 other moon signs.
I can ask same question of your Leo sun, OP. Probably same amount of users on here will go "yeah they do! I knew my sister's twice removed cousin who did it!" Or "my ex cheated on me, so obviously the rest are just like him/her!"
Lol. Get serious.
Posted by RamOfPeaceLol someone wake up from the other side of the bed today lmao. I just ask a damn question, don't get on your high horses. Geez
We get bored.
Assholes among our midst will cheat, sure. As much as any other dude or chick out there with 11 other moon signs.
I can ask same question of your Leo sun, OP. Probably same amount of users on here will go "yeah they do! I knew my sister's twice removed cousin who did it!" Or "my ex cheated on me, so obviously the rest are just like him/her!
Lol. Get serious.
Posted by Mimi24Daft questions prompt sarcastic answers, imo. What else did you expectPosted by RamOfPeaceLol someone wake up from the other side of the bed today lmao. I just ask a damn question, don't get on your high horses. Geez
We get bored.
Assholes among our midst will cheat, sure. As much as any other dude or chick out there with 11 other moon signs.
I can ask same question of your Leo sun, OP. Probably same amount of users on here will go "yeah they do! I knew my sister's twice removed cousin who did it!" Or "my ex cheated on me, so obviously the rest are just like him/her!
Lol. Get serious.
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Posted by RamOfPeaceLmao, okay honey stay pressed! 😉Posted by Mimi24Daft questions prompt sarcastic answers, imo. What else did you expectPosted by RamOfPeaceLol someone wake up from the other side of the bed today lmao. I just ask a damn question, don't get on your high horses. Geez
We get bored.
Assholes among our midst will cheat, sure. As much as any other dude or chick out there with 11 other moon signs.
I can ask same question of your Leo sun, OP. Probably same amount of users on here will go "yeah they do! I knew my sister's twice removed cousin who did it!" Or "my ex cheated on me, so obviously the rest are just like him/her!
Lol. Get serious.
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Posted by Mimi24Dated two gem mooners & both were loyal to the core.
I kept reading that apparently people with a Gemini Moon are more than likely to cheat?
What do you guys think?
Gemini Moon here. Only cheated once and it was in a very emotionally abusive relationship with a Stellium Scorpio. I made out with his friend out of pure spite. Not my personal best. I am loyal to a fault to those I love in general though.
Depends.
My brother has a gem moon and he is the most faithful man I know. He would never cheat on his girlfriend due to his high moral standards.
I've never cheated in a relationship when I felt good and content, but I get ideas shortly before I feel the urgency to break free. My Cap Venus/Scorp Mars only let me sleep with one person at a time, so when I'm having/stop having sex, I change the game completely for me and my partner(s). It's like my body senses emotional reshuffle first.
My brother has a gem moon and he is the most faithful man I know. He would never cheat on his girlfriend due to his high moral standards.
I've never cheated in a relationship when I felt good and content, but I get ideas shortly before I feel the urgency to break free. My Cap Venus/Scorp Mars only let me sleep with one person at a time, so when I'm having/stop having sex, I change the game completely for me and my partner(s). It's like my body senses emotional reshuffle first.
I only cheated on my first serious gf as a adult she was a Gemini. She cheated first which from what I know was just kissing. I caught her again in a lie where she "kissed" another dude during a few month long distance thing. I'm a Aries and I still stayed lol. But then I did the same thing and couldn't stop and cheated on her a lot until I told her she couldn't handle it an things split.
I don't cheat now tho i believe in loyalty over everything and won't allow somebody actions to change that. I'll just leave now. I do flirt and have a wondering eye tho I can't help it. I stay single tho 🙂
Sun - Aries
Moon - gem
Asc - gem
I don't cheat now tho i believe in loyalty over everything and won't allow somebody actions to change that. I'll just leave now. I do flirt and have a wondering eye tho I can't help it. I stay single tho 🙂
Sun - Aries
Moon - gem
Asc - gem
Posted by aquarius_beautyI can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.Posted by Mimi24Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars. 😢Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.
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I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...
Posted by AbbyNormalYou guys are too damn picky lolPosted by aquarius_beautyI can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.Posted by Mimi24Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars. 😢Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.
I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...click to expand
Posted by Mimi24picky or stupid, you decide ... i cant ?Posted by AbbyNormalYou guys are too damn picky lolPosted by aquarius_beautyI can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.Posted by Mimi24Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars. 😢Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.
I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalHoney, i'm dealing with someone like this. I understand lol. You guys need to chill ?!Posted by Mimi24picky or stupid, you decide ... i cant ?Posted by AbbyNormalYou guys are too damn picky lolPosted by aquarius_beautyI can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.Posted by Mimi24Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars. 😢Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.
I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...click to expand
Posted by tizianiLol!! Do you tend towards being a nihilist by any chance Tiz?Posted by PootyButtNah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!
Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
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Posted by tizianiSometimes yeah. I can't pinpoint what made me feel so but I found that interesting tbh ?Posted by TeenaPosted by tizianiLol!! Do you tend towards being a nihilist by any chance Tiz?Posted by PootyButtNah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!
Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
Lol not at all. I certainly hope not. Is that how I come across?
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My ex had a gemini moon, I am a gemini but we had a very toxic relationship and i'm 90% sure he cheated.
Posted by tizianiI think that I can understand why you wouldn't want to share that if that's the response you get. What do you think would work best for you -- what kind of response would make you feel like your feelings are okay to share? For example, I've noticed that some people just want to be heard and respected for their feelings, without much comment from the listener, and others don't mind hearing a response that shows that the person listening might understand them based on things they've experienced themselves, that they share at the time. Those are the two things that pop into my mind, but I'm sure that there are many others.Posted by PootyButtNah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!
Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
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Posted by aquarius_beautyi have been called a flirt bc I'm overly nice lol I've tried to reign this back some bc you just cant be too nice to some guys or they get the wrong message lolPosted by AbbyNormalYeah, I don't think I would consider myself a cheater. I'm faithful to a fault but my Gemini moon sometimes gets all worked up when seeing a good looking guy. Can't help but flirt sometimes. But those are really RARE instances. Most guys don't float my boat.Posted by aquarius_beautyI can relate haha. gemini moon in the 12th with venus opposite mars smdh... i find reasons why every single person i date is not right for me.Posted by Mimi24Ugh, but I'm soo picky without me wanting to! I heard it's because my venus is square my mars. 😢Posted by aquarius_beautyI know logically speaking but life is a mystery at Times. People i wasn't initally attracted showed me another side way way down the road that changed my view on them. Depends on the circumstances lol.Posted by Mimi24Maybe. I mean don't get me wrong I do get a lot of guys after me. But it's just like, if I don't feel an attraction towards you...chances are i'm not gonna waste my time. Don't see the point lolPosted by aquarius_beautyMaybe they are thinking the same thing. LolPosted by EvoxxxscorpioVery true. I need to find that someone who will be worth my time and love. Don't find many to be quite honest.Posted by aquarius_beautyGeminis not the only one who can have a lil fun lol Scorpios need lovin too ?. Jp there's always time for a serious relationship when you're ready and there's also time playing the field if you're not there's nothing wrong with it.Posted by EvoxxxscorpioReally? why is that?Posted by aquarius_beautyI like your answer ? Lol
Not gonna lie. yes, I do have that capability of cheating simply because I tend to like more than one person. But my sun, venus, and mars block my capability to do so. since they're all fixed.
Gemini just wants to have a little fun. 😉
This is why I try to remain free of obligations or relationships...so it won't be called 'cheating'.
I have to say that I did a lot of uncharacteristic things while i was grieving and heavily on drugs.... including cheating which i will regret the rest of my life. So glad to have myself back and never have to be in those situations again. I had surrounded myself with people and a life style that was appalling bc, well, i didnt want to live... i dont find other gemini moons superficial cheaters tho. mine was a decision made out of confusion and I've learned all too well the consequences of my actions...click to expand
i was very "the grass is always greener " in my younger years so I dated a lot but never slept with more than one man out of those. and when i felt like i wanted that from another person, i told that person up front and ended it. no use dragging someone through useless emotional drama by hiding something.
now that my libido has died down some lol and im older and wiser, i can find myself attracted to a personality a lot quicker than anything looks wise. either way, it takes a lot to wow me... my self control and rationale is much stronger as an adult so I've found myself to enjoy more the monogamous life for the right special person or alone. either is acceptable.
Posted by tizianiI hear you.Posted by CopperDoveYeah with me it's that, as far as people I've known and met personally goes, everyone I care about has a reply waiting. Or a question. Anything other than listening.Posted by tizianiI think that I can understand why you wouldn't want to share that if that's the response you get. What do you think would work best for you -- what kind of response would make you feel like your feelings are okay to share? For example, I've noticed that some people just want to be heard and respected for their feelings, without much comment from the listener, and others don't mind hearing a response that shows that the person listening might understand them based on things they've experienced themselves, that they share at the time. Those are the two things that pop into my mind, but I'm sure that there are many others.Posted by PootyButtNah if I talk about how I feel, no one in my life listens. They just react by arguing, or asking me to justify and explain why I feel the way I do. So i find it is simpler not to talk. People I care about just use it as an opportunity to talk about themselves either way. You may as well stay quiet and let them have their attention with less aggravation.
Virgogent and that Tiz guy strike me as very mature guys who are able to talk about their emotions. Aren't they both Gem moons? Of course, maybe it's an illusion!
Actually, that's learned helplessness right? My bad.
And to answer your other post, I'm been trying to figure it out before. Because if it's something happening with "everyone else" then it's really me who has to change. But I haven't figured out what I'm meant to do differently. I've asked, and I've spoken about it and pointed it out.
Even if someone tells me how they feel and I don't understand or see it the same way, I'll say ok I accept that's how you feel and leave it at that.
I don't mind if people cannot accept how I feel. Or if I don't have to talk about it.
But being told I should open up more and talk about what's going on with me, then doing that and being met with no acceptance from the very same people asking, that's an annoying combination. I'm not even trying to analyse it, just describing it here but it's not something I care to deal with right now with anyone in my life. It's held me back enough as it is. Sometimes you just have to stop talking or answering to people and move with your priorities and that's me right now.
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I LOVE all my gem friends, so an article of appreciation I found cute.
https://dose.com/7-amazing-perks-of-moving-in-with-a-gemini-fbbfad76376d#.9hu2yh3qq
she might retire, as her MOJO is gone...since the Libra stellium took down her MOJO....
Libra stellium holly holmes took her down a year ago or so?? And no one is talking about the Women's MMA as much.
and she just got taken down by a Gemini sun,
i had a fling with one and he almost ruined mine and my mans relationship of 4 years at the time.... dont know why he would do that when he was my mans main friend and my man helped him so much when he moved out here and had no one yet he still nearly rui
Can someone tell him l was gonna analyse his comment l was just waiting to have more time...
Aries
http://68.media.tumblr.com/e97db899032efa0f70d0f07abc7ef38c/tumblr_nix0wct49m1r36jpso1_500.gif
Taurus
http://68.media.tumblr.com/34c52638a71b9555be05f714665f4d13/tumblr_n0ump0Zdna1r36jpso1_400.gif
Gemini
http://68.media.tumblr.com/6a0b28d7c
Post your sign, and your significant other's as well...
She's a virgo/libra cusp
I'm Gem-Cancer
If she initiates a convo after 1 year of no communication and says she is thinking about me.
Serious or not? I actually love this girl but never told her this because I don't want to scare her off with my e
Your opinion about each girl in the zodiac wheel
Aries-nice and adorable
taurus-never met one
gemini-too social and talkative.likes being online
cancer-3 gfs all of them cancer,very caring,moody,best sence of humor ever
Leo-good heart,loves
Any tips?
Hi guys,
I don't know if it's Geminis that are having a hard time or a hard year like in my case :-( this year has been awful....finances not up to par, my parents not having luck. Even my brother... This year not romantic interest. I have been so lonely
So I'm an Aquarius. Me and my friend are really close but sometimes I get mixed messages from her. I'll text her and she won't reply. The only time she replies is when she's the one who texts me first. Also there are times where I'll be talking to her and
Whats the word or phrase that comes to your mind when you think about zodiac signs ?
Let me start
Aries: Impatient
Taurus: stable
Gemini : talkitive
Cancer: Sensitive
Leo: Kings (always the centre of attention )
Virgo: Nitpicky
Libra: Indec
since everyone else was doing it ....lol
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with 10 awards
thats right count it .....10 awards!
The only Time my LOL was literal :
Sexiest DXP Personality
Most Artistic User
DXP King 2016 :
Best Female Cancer 2016
Best Female Pisces 2016
Best Female Gemini 2016
Best Female Aries 2
Your forum is always dead so I decided to spice it up a bit. My mom is a Gemini and so is my best friend. Although there are some rough times, I love Geminis!
The December 13-14 Full Moon falls in the airy sign of Gemini and will be culminating events, feelings and emotions that took place around the Sagittarius New Moon back in November.
December’s Full Moon is actually another Super Moon that has been part
It's has been about 6 months that my friend keeps complaining about her new boo. Now before I start, I know how Gem's are... You guys will vent to your friend and then do whatever you want to do afterwards...
So, my Friend( She's a Gem..let's call her
Asking for a family member. I'll show her this. I don't know how to do it completely.
Man planets >
Sun in 29° Leo
Moon in 24° Sagittarius
Mercury in 17° Virgo
Venus in 14° Cancer
Mars in 11° Aries
Jupiter in 4° Gem
So when i looked back at my 2015 solar return, the theme was the 3rd house. Alot of gemini and virgo placements. Things read true bases on my experiences.
Now 2016 solar return, the theme is sag and the 1st house.
So advances in who i am and my pl
What do you guys think?