Why are you here and when do you live life's?

This topic was created in the Paranormal forum by Gemitati on Wednesday, January 11, 2017 and has 67 replies.

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@Gemitati
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I've chosen this forum because I think is being here IS pretty paranormal

The question is WHY are we here so much?

I have all the questions answered.

I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...

My life sucks at the moment. I am chilling.

WHY are you - young, spunky, horny, opinionated, funny, smart, not so smart...stupid even...why?

And don't tell me winter! I saw you here in a summer...

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@lisabethur8
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i'm here now because I sprained my back muscles working out earlier today, and I am drinking a glass of wine to feel better and it sucks cause my back hurts and i'm bothering my man in bed cause the pain HURTS. so i'm gonna take medication when I head to bed.

and this place is comfy. you get used to it.

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@hydorah
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by hydorah
become a ninja.

It's several years of training, and then, you can accomplish useful goals.

Your life won't feel empty.

I haven't ask what to do.

I've asked what YOU bozo doing here all preppy happy like if...

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I'm here to train the next generation of ninjas.

We accept all kind of people even alzheimers. Ninjitsu is an ideal of life.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by hydorah

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by hydorah
become a ninja.

It's several years of training, and then, you can accomplish useful goals.

Your life won't feel empty.

I haven't ask what to do.

I've asked what YOU bozo doing here all preppy happy like if...

I'm here to train the next generation of ninjas.

We accept all kind of people even alzheimers. Ninjitsu is an ideal of life.

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I forgot to say moronic answers don't need to be posted. Sorry. My bad

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Posted by Vageenka
I had a mental and emotional breakdown near the end of High School that completely changed my life for the absolute worst. It's been years of hell but I'm finally getting out of this awful stage! During that time I really got into the interwebs ?

Before that I was a typical never-at-home social Gemini. *shrugs*

aww

really??

that sucks.

in my early days, I was AMBITIOUS as hell. 2 jobs, going to school full time. I was wearing myself thin.( edit I am ADD so I had a hard time in school too, in high school ect) but in college I did great.

I just wanted to get out there and work my butt off and make money and be independent.(I was also unhappy)

I got involved with crappy men too.

I always dreamed to have a good man who would take care of me too. it was a simple wish and dream.

cause I want to be protected and loved.

what's your dream come true for the future, vageenka??

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Vageenka

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Vageenka
I had a mental and emotional breakdown near the end of High School that completely changed my life for the absolute worst. It's been years of hell but I'm finally getting out of this awful stage! During that time I really got into the interwebs ?

Before that I was a typical never-at-home social Gemini. *shrugs*

aww

really??

that sucks.

in my early days, I was AMBITIOUS as hell. 2 jobs, going to school full time. I was wearing myself thin.( edit I am ADD so I had a hard time in school too, in high school ect) but in college I did great.

I just wanted to get out there and work my butt off and make money and be independent.(I was also unhappy)

I got involved with crappy men too.

I always dreamed to have a good man who would take care of me too. it was a simple wish and dream.

cause I want to be protected and loved.

what's your dream come true for the future, vageenka??

Honestly. I just want to be able to improve my anxiety to the point where I can pursue the things I'm interested in 100% .

Kind of feels like I'm trying to accomplish my goals with a 50 pound wrecking ball chained to my legs. ?

Super frustrating but I'm still young and people change. If I can get rid of or improve this "hindrance" holding me back I know the sky's the limit.

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So you are here getting rid of your balls?

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@pinkbird03
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I'm here because I live alone and it helped when I was lonely. Now I'm kind of addicted. Thinking about taking a break though! There's other things to do when I'm lonely.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Vageenka

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Vageenka
I had a mental and emotional breakdown near the end of High School that completely changed my life for the absolute worst. It's been years of hell but I'm finally getting out of this awful stage! During that time I really got into the interwebs ?

Before that I was a typical never-at-home social Gemini. *shrugs*

aww

really??

that sucks.

in my early days, I was AMBITIOUS as hell. 2 jobs, going to school full time. I was wearing myself thin.( edit I am ADD so I had a hard time in school too, in high school ect) but in college I did great.

I just wanted to get out there and work my butt off and make money and be independent.(I was also unhappy)

I got involved with crappy men too.

I always dreamed to have a good man who would take care of me too. it was a simple wish and dream.

cause I want to be protected and loved.

what's your dream come true for the future, vageenka??

Honestly. I just want to be able to improve my anxiety to the point where I can pursue the things I'm interested in 100% .

Kind of feels like I'm trying to accomplish my goals with a 50 pound wrecking ball chained to my legs. ?

Super frustrating but I'm still young and people change. If I can get rid of or improve this "hindrance" holding me back I know the sky's the limit.

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do you take medication for anxiety?

I hope you get rid of it too!

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@Gemitati
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Posted by PVandJelly

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PVandJelly
Bored. I'm between promotions.

You mean you wrote one Promotion here and waiting for a new to come up?

I tend to get promoted a lot...sun trine jupiter. I'm applying for a promotion in two separate departments at work. Both supervisors want to hire me. Both jobs sound good. I haven't interviewed for either, but feel my chances are good for both. I deleted from dxp to stay focused at work. But then I rejoined because I need a distraction to keep my mind off of obsessing over this promotion.

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So it's like your job to be between promotions?

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Vageenka

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Vageenka

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Vageenka
I had a mental and emotional breakdown near the end of High School that completely changed my life for the absolute worst. It's been years of hell but I'm finally getting out of this awful stage! During that time I really got into the interwebs ?

Before that I was a typical never-at-home social Gemini. *shrugs*

aww

really??

that sucks.

in my early days, I was AMBITIOUS as hell. 2 jobs, going to school full time. I was wearing myself thin.( edit I am ADD so I had a hard time in school too, in high school ect) but in college I did great.

I just wanted to get out there and work my butt off and make money and be independent.(I was also unhappy)

I got involved with crappy men too.

I always dreamed to have a good man who would take care of me too. it was a simple wish and dream.

cause I want to be protected and loved.

what's your dream come true for the future, vageenka??

Honestly. I just want to be able to improve my anxiety to the point where I can pursue the things I'm interested in 100% .

Kind of feels like I'm trying to accomplish my goals with a 50 pound wrecking ball chained to my legs. ?

Super frustrating but I'm still young and people change. If I can get rid of or improve this "hindrance" holding me back I know the sky's the limit.

do you take medication for anxiety?

I hope you get rid of it too!

Thanks sweety ?

And yep. Since around October. It has helped a great deal.

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What is it? I want some!

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by Gemitati
I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...

My life sucks

The only one holding you on that couch is yourself. Slavery is outlawed, you can get a divorce.

Or did you sign a prenup?

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@Gemitati
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Posted by PVandJelly

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PVandJelly

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PVandJelly
Bored. I'm between promotions.

You mean you wrote one Promotion here and waiting for a new to come up?

I tend to get promoted a lot...sun trine jupiter. I'm applying for a promotion in two separate departments at work. Both supervisors want to hire me. Both jobs sound good. I haven't interviewed for either, but feel my chances are good for both. I deleted from dxp to stay focused at work. But then I rejoined because I need a distraction to keep my mind off of obsessing over this promotion.

So it's like your job to be between promotions?

LOL. Pretty much. I'm double mutable, but it only manifests itself at work where I am constantly seeking change. I master things quick and get bored.

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So you don't work between promotions?

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Vageenka

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Vageenka

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Vageenka

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Vageenka
I had a mental and emotional breakdown near the end of High School that completely changed my life for the absolute worst. It's been years of hell but I'm finally getting out of this awful stage! During that time I really got into the interwebs ?

Before that I was a typical never-at-home social Gemini. *shrugs*

aww

really??

that sucks.

in my early days, I was AMBITIOUS as hell. 2 jobs, going to school full time. I was wearing myself thin.( edit I am ADD so I had a hard time in school too, in high school ect) but in college I did great.

I just wanted to get out there and work my butt off and make money and be independent.(I was also unhappy)

I got involved with crappy men too.

I always dreamed to have a good man who would take care of me too. it was a simple wish and dream.

cause I want to be protected and loved.

what's your dream come true for the future, vageenka??

Honestly. I just want to be able to improve my anxiety to the point where I can pursue the things I'm interested in 100% .

Kind of feels like I'm trying to accomplish my goals with a 50 pound wrecking ball chained to my legs. ?

Super frustrating but I'm still young and people change. If I can get rid of or improve this "hindrance" holding me back I know the sky's the limit.

do you take medication for anxiety?

I hope you get rid of it too!

Thanks sweety ?

And yep. Since around October. It has helped a great deal.

What is it? I want some!

Effexor

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Is it a curse word?

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@pinkbird03
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by pinkbird03
I'm here because I live alone and it helped when I was lonely. Now I'm kind of addicted. Thinking about taking a break though! There's other things to do when I'm lonely.

Like masturbation?

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Haha. Like painting, watching favorite movies, try new cooking recipes, going out to the bar down the street, go shopping, maybe try to get back into video games, other hobbies. Just feel like I need to change things up. Ready to move on from this rut I'm in

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@Gemitati
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Posted by PVandJelly

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PVandJelly

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PVandJelly

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PVandJelly
Bored. I'm between promotions.

You mean you wrote one Promotion here and waiting for a new to come up?

I tend to get promoted a lot...sun trine jupiter. I'm applying for a promotion in two separate departments at work. Both supervisors want to hire me. Both jobs sound good. I haven't interviewed for either, but feel my chances are good for both. I deleted from dxp to stay focused at work. But then I rejoined because I need a distraction to keep my mind off of obsessing over this promotion.

So it's like your job to be between promotions?

LOL. Pretty much. I'm double mutable, but it only manifests itself at work where I am constantly seeking change. I master things quick and get bored.

So you don't work between promotions?

?? Of course I work.

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So you can't be promoted because you can't even answer the question!

Simple question!

Why are you here? Because you have to BE here before you get promoted?

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I divorced. Got comfy living alone.

Then started thinking about relationships, so I looked for a relationship themed website to read about other people's problems. Found DXP.

It cured me.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by AneemA
Heck I was on holiday in Bali just recently and still was being online from time to time to check out dxp and talk to a friend (was my host) around the same time. I still talk to my friends, mom, and everyone else in my life as well.

I also think and take actions of other matters in my life as well.

So I know it's not just out of boredom. It must be something else then...

Oh gawd! Alright, then just say I'm dxp addict hahahaha

*btw do you guys ever checks out those ads slipped in between threads? Or at the bottom of topics?

You aren't here half the time as others'

So you can relax. Lol

No ads checking. Why? Do we have to?

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Posted by hydorah
I divorced. Got comfy living alone.

Then started thinking about relationships, so I looked for a relationship themed website to read about other people's problems. Found DXP.

It cured me.

Check out AFF!

But don't tell I sent you...

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I come here for exposure.. human nature is expressed here too just as in real world.. and I'm in a sort of protected bubble in real life, TBH, no exposure to some sides of life 😐 ..

And, I like to sit, think about topics, form my own opinions, read others' ways of looking at things it's like an exercise for me, forming opinions, trying to express in a constructive - understandable manner.. I mean, there some of the most absurd of topics/questions on here that one does not come across in real life. So, gives me an opportunity to think, ask myself what I think of a certain topic/issue.. and trust me, I have learnt much not just from seeing most wise/beautiful posts to the most ugliest of posts but, also from observing the changing ways of life, today.

It gets out of hand when I lost track of time or lose my discretion and start trolling 😭

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I'm still very much into astrology. I like observing peoples' behaviors in comparision to their charts. It has genuinely made me deathly afraid of leo moons. Once in a blue moon people will post threads for me to discover new things but I mostly learn from outside of here. So why am I here? Idk I kind of find you all warm and fuzzy yes even u Geminati and as an INTJ I'm a cynic who usually can't tolerate people irl. Maybe not exactly a cynic but I like to believe having low expectations would lead to a much lower chance of one being disappointed and all. People are just so fake, being fake nice and all in return is draining. Idk where I'm going with this but right now I'm also really confused with figuring some things out with my life but once I set that straight I'll be gone. I would never want to be here in my 30s, that would scare me... rn I mostly know what I don't want vs what I want and I guess I want to virtually kill ppl on mafia so far

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Posted by Gemitati
I've chosen this forum because I think is being here IS pretty paranormal

The question is WHY are we here so much?

I have all the questions answered.

I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...

My life sucks at the moment. I am chilling.

WHY are you - young, spunky, horny, opinionated, funny, smart, not so smart...stupid even...why?

And don't tell me winter! I saw you here in a summer...

Threw the dice upon the board.

Then mispelled a word on search

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...lack of self-control, that is why 😒 ...ahh, makes me sun/venus in 10th and scorpio moon so ashamed of myself.

I would've stayed away but ..I'm not well actually.. so, ended up on DXP today. Somehow, I like commenting on various topics, reading various posts.. :-) even though I don't like it! I feel split!!

I logged out an hour ago but here I am again.. I will logout soon.. I rather complete my book..

...usually when I am not here I am studying, reading, watching movies, working and other stuff.. I want to take a break from DXP again and focus and devote each second on personal development...

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@Deedee86
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I'm here to unwind. I'm here when I'm bored and I'm here to procrastinate.

Right now, it's 645am. I should be in the shower to start my day but instead I am still in bed playing on my phone.

Last night, I was here while I was in bed but couldn't sleep.

Sometimes, I am sitting in the car or a gym waiting for one of my kid's games to start or practices to end. If there is no one there to chat with I play around in here.

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Posted by RumiL
I come here for exposure.. human nature is expressed here too just as in real world.. and I'm in a sort of protected bubble in real life, TBH, no exposure to some sides of life 😐 ..

And, I like to sit, think about topics, form my own opinions, read others' ways of looking at things it's like an exercise for me, forming opinions, trying to express in a constructive - understandable manner.. I mean, there some of the most absurd of topics/questions on here that one does not come across in real life. So, gives me an opportunity to think, ask myself what I think of a certain topic/issue.. and trust me, I have learnt much not just from seeing most wise/beautiful posts to the most ugliest of posts but, also from observing the changing ways of life, today.

It gets out of hand when I lost track of time or lose my discretion and start trolling 😭

oooooh. i forgoy I commented here πŸ˜„ haha

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"In a life as stagnant as mine, that I can amuse myself at all is an evolutionary marvel." - from a popular romance movie

I also appreciate the fact that I learned a good deal of American slang here πŸ˜„

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Posted by RumiL

Posted by RumiL
I come here for exposure.. human nature is expressed here too just as in real world.. and I'm in a sort of protected bubble in real life, TBH, no exposure to some sides of life 😐 ..

And, I like to sit, think about topics, form my own opinions, read others' ways of looking at things it's like an exercise for me, forming opinions, trying to express in a constructive - understandable manner.. I mean, there some of the most absurd of topics/questions on here that one does not come across in real life. So, gives me an opportunity to think, ask myself what I think of a certain topic/issue.. and trust me, I have learnt much not just from seeing most wise/beautiful posts to the most ugliest of posts but, also from observing the changing ways of life, today.

It gets out of hand when I lost track of time or lose my discretion and start trolling 😭

oooooh. i forgoy I commented here πŸ˜„ haha

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πŸ˜† πŸ€— I forget sometimes too and often have to go through the pages to check -_-

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Posted by bubbythewhale1
I like people watching and occasionally spilling my guts to said ppl

Learning more about astrology to share with people, entertainment, break from reality

Posted by Harukka
Astrology

Fun

Laugh

English

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lol same.

I sometimes feel if I pour my past experiences, I don't feel so judged. lol

and I like to see, read, how other people in the world think and feel about stuff.

from all over the world too, even parts of the U.S, and Asian countries ect.

to read their biases, their interests, their activities and why they love astrology.

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Posted by Fragrance

Posted by RumiL

Posted by RumiL
I come here for exposure.. human nature is expressed here too just as in real world.. and I'm in a sort of protected bubble in real life, TBH, no exposure to some sides of life 😐 ..

And, I like to sit, think about topics, form my own opinions, read others' ways of looking at things it's like an exercise for me, forming opinions, trying to express in a constructive - understandable manner.. I mean, there some of the most absurd of topics/questions on here that one does not come across in real life. So, gives me an opportunity to think, ask myself what I think of a certain topic/issue.. and trust me, I have learnt much not just from seeing most wise/beautiful posts to the most ugliest of posts but, also from observing the changing ways of life, today.

It gets out of hand when I lost track of time or lose my discretion and start trolling 😭

oooooh. i forgoy I commented here πŸ˜„ haha

πŸ˜† πŸ€— I forget sometimes too and often have to go through the pages to check -_-

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πŸ€— πŸ˜†

..we better watch out what becomes of our brains when Neptune transits our mercuries Fragrance 😐

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I came here originally to browse astrology questions, but now it's more like a social media site and people don't talk about astrology any deeper than the first five planets..

Which is alright, I mostly log on when I need a break from the real world. I like the Internet drama you guys got over here..

Kudos if i stumble across a serious discussion.

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@lisabethur8
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Posted by Gemitati
I've chosen this forum because I think is being here IS pretty paranormal

The question is WHY are we here so much?

I have all the questions answered.

I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...

My life sucks at the moment. I am chilling.

WHY are you - young, spunky, horny, opinionated, funny, smart, not so smart...stupid even...why?

And don't tell me winter! I saw you here in a summer...

@gem, I can't take you seriously at times.

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@Librajean
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I enjoy this site more than Facebook because everyone is so real with their feelings.

I'm here because I've always loved astrology and like the Astro spin on things.

Why assume because people are on here they have no life? Everyone using their life differently. I stay home a lot because I'm raising my daughter and this is a good way for me to connect with others while being safe at home.

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Posted by BubbleLeaf
I came here originally to browse astrology questions, but now it's more like a social media site and people don't talk about astrology any deeper than the first five planets..

Which is alright, I mostly log on when I need a break from the real world. I like the Internet drama you guys got over here..

Kudos if i stumble across a serious discussion.

actually they do get deeper.

just go to the astrology houses forum section, too, that gets much deeper than placements, there's also aspects too.

it's just the basic sun sign forums that kind of remain sun but if you ask the peeps what placements, ect. then people get a deeper understanding, at the very least.

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I can't remember if I done responded to this thread. with my previous account that is. my memories sometimes fail me. but I'm basically here just for fun, shits, giggles and dramas.

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@Lindaaaatje
11 Years

Posted by Gemitati
I've chosen this forum because I think is being here IS pretty paranormal

The question is WHY are we here so much?

I have all the questions answered.

I am old, married, in love, depressed, want to get out of watching stupid TV with my husband...texting with unmentionables...

My life sucks at the moment. I am chilling.

WHY are you - young, spunky, horny, opinionated, funny, smart, not so smart...stupid even...why?

And don't tell me winter! I saw you here in a summer...

You're funny !

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Posted by RumiL

Posted by RumiL
I come here for exposure.. human nature is expressed here too just as in real world.. and I'm in a sort of protected bubble in real life, TBH, no exposure to some sides of life 😐 ..

And, I like to sit, think about topics, form my own opinions, read others' ways of looking at things it's like an exercise for me, forming opinions, trying to express in a constructive - understandable manner.. I mean, there some of the most absurd of topics/questions on here that one does not come across in real life. So, gives me an opportunity to think, ask myself what I think of a certain topic/issue.. and trust me, I have learnt much not just from seeing most wise/beautiful posts to the most ugliest of posts but, also from observing the changing ways of life, today.

It gets out of hand when I lost track of time or lose my discretion and start trolling 😭

oooooh. i forgoy I commented here πŸ˜„ haha

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πŸ˜†

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Posted by blackphase

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by blackphase
Because I have no life and am sad and lonely.. I wanna laugh at myself, but it's true.

πŸ€— x100

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Oh god I love you!!!! You know the ways of my heart πŸ˜„

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I thought I may have overdone the hugs for your Scorp moon and was about to suggest to take them down to 10 but it doesn't look like you mind lol

Love you, have a good and pleasant day ❀️️

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Posted by RumiL

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by RumiL

Posted by RumiL
I come here for exposure.. human nature is expressed here too just as in real world.. and I'm in a sort of protected bubble in real life, TBH, no exposure to some sides of life 😐 ..

And, I like to sit, think about topics, form my own opinions, read others' ways of looking at things it's like an exercise for me, forming opinions, trying to express in a constructive - understandable manner.. I mean, there some of the most absurd of topics/questions on here that one does not come across in real life. So, gives me an opportunity to think, ask myself what I think of a certain topic/issue.. and trust me, I have learnt much not just from seeing most wise/beautiful posts to the most ugliest of posts but, also from observing the changing ways of life, today.

It gets out of hand when I lost track of time or lose my discretion and start trolling 😭

oooooh. i forgoy I commented here πŸ˜„ haha

πŸ˜† πŸ€— I forget sometimes too and often have to go through the pages to check -_-

πŸ€— πŸ˜†

..we better watch out what becomes of our brains when Neptune transits our mercuries Fragrance 😐

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"...watch out what becomes of our brains" lol

I meant to ask you about that actually 'cause you follow/understand transits more than me...

Could this be linked to me feeling so woozy, slow, launched into space lately. At times I even lose sense of my physical body, like it's not there... have you ever felt this way?

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