bet it all or run??

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I’m in the very beginning stages here with a Pisces boy. Now, I’m a scorpio ascendant/sun/venus, just your very typical scorpio. My gemini moon makes me a little bit more easy going though, and talkative! When I like someone, I like them HARRRRRDD and I go all in. If I get hurt, it literally takes forever for me to recover and it really gets the best of me so I avoid it at all cost.

Now, I know you should never judge someone completely based on their chart. But I’ve been hurt so much in the past and this guy’s chart is SCREAMING that it’ll hurt me. We have to similar things in our charts: both have leo in mars and gemini moons. Now the fact that we both have gemini moons should make us more compatible right? But he’s pisces sun, gemini moon, aquarius venus and aquarius mercury. That to me screams of indecisiveness, flighty and infidelity. I want something strong, passionate and reliable and I don’t feel like someone with this combo could get me that. My scorp trust issues are already there lol. Should I pursue this, or actually use astrology to my advantage for once and walk away? (he’s already showed signs of his indecisiveness, flightynessss and unreliable nature)
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Posted by scorpiosnow

I’m in the very beginning stages here with a Pisces boy. Now, I’m a scorpio ascendant/sun/venus, just your very typical scorpio. My gemini moon makes me a little bit more easy going though, and talkative! When I like someone, I like them HARRRRRDD and I go all in. If I get hurt, it literally takes forever for me to recover and it really gets the best of me so I avoid it at all cost.

Now, I know you should never judge someone completely based on their chart. But I’ve been hurt so much in the past and this guy’s chart is SCREAMING that it’ll hurt me. We have to similar things in our charts: both have leo in mars and gemini moons. Now the fact that we both have gemini moons should make us more compatible right? But he’s pisces sun, gemini moon, aquarius venus and aquarius mercury. That to me screams of indecisiveness, flighty and infidelity. I want something strong, passionate and reliable and I don’t feel like someone with this combo could get me that. My scorp trust issues are already there lol. Should I pursue this, or actually use astrology to my advantage for once and walk away? (he’s already showed signs of his indecisiveness, flightynessss and unreliable nature)



If you want someone strong, loyal and consistent, I'd say Taurus energy would be better fitting here.

With Aqua + Pisces energy this guy would crave some space though...

The choice is yours
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This is exactly why I would never date someone that takes astrology that serious.




Then what the FUCK are you doing in this forum?

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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The thing is, every placement can manifest itself in different ways. It’s up to the individual and their upbringing and choices that will decide how they’re going to channel their placements. So it would be very foolish to judge a chart without knowing the person behind it.

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This is exactly why I would never date someone that takes astrology that serious.




I learned this lesson the hardest way->, to stop using astrology to understand someone but to experience them and get to understand them.
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Lol I speak from personal experience more than anything. There are things in my chart that absolutely do not ring true about me in general, even if I’ve seen people with the same placements act in the stereotypical ways of said placements.

Upbringing and choices play such a big role, we’re not slaves to our charts.
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Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by Mhmmm

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by Mhmmm

This is exactly why I would never date someone that takes astrology that serious.




Then what the FUCK are you doing in this forum?

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


The thing is, every placement can manifest itself in different ways. It’s up to the individual and their upbringing and choices that will decide how they’re going to channel their placements. So it would be very foolish to judge a chart without knowing the person behind it.




Negative. I had my birth chart (06 December 2017) interpreted by Froggie AKA @Squish (I cut and pasted):

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Hi Eva!

Despite your Pisces placements, the planetary placements show someone who will put out their wishes ahead of other things and won't be remorseful of cutting ties. You can be stubborn about things that matters to you... And

you also have the ability to go after what you what. Very interesting to see your second house ruler on your MC and then we have MC ruler Conjunct ASC ruler in your 8th House/Virgo... Along with that IC ruler Venus Conjunct 6R moon in the first house! Are you a part of an organization that is like your home? Do you handle their accounts or deal with their resources? Venus Moon connection shows who would love what she wants or a personality type who wouldn't chase what isn't theirs?

Looking at your chart, Sun in late Virgo could hold a major sexual appeal initially but it would lead to power struggle later on... early Virgo could be a tender placement for you provided other planets fall nicely in the

synastry.

A Gem Sun could be attractive, then again it I'm not seeing it for long term. Same with Sag Sun. Your best pick would be an EARLY Cancer Sun(Gem-Cancer cusper) with their Venus on your IC or a very early Taurus Sun or a Scorp Sun.

With your Desc in Leo and Jupiter right on IC, I won't be surprised if you find fire energy attractive, there could be a mutual respect for each other's high spirits... I won't pick a fire placement but a Leo Asc would be a great pick for you.

The thing is, even with your Pisces placements, your Sun receives aspects from masculine planets from a practical sign, it gives you a no nonsense dating profile... So meeting the right guy would matter a lot because from what I see, when you have to walk away, you will walk away instead of trying too hard. Doesn't mean you won't try once you are committed, you would but

practicality will come into play.

My suggestion would be to avoid mutable sun signs... Even if the attraction is there. Although early Virgo should work provided other planets don't aspect your stellium harshly. Avoid anything touching or squaring your Chiron and Mars/Pluto/Uranus stellium.

Early Cancer Sun with moon in early Taurus or Scorp

Early Scorp/late Taurus moon or Taurus Sun with moon in early Scorp

Leo Asc or a Sag Asc

I would avoid mutable suns despite intense attraction but mutable early Venus or moon should be ok.

All the best!

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Fuck fire sun signs (EXCEPT Leo/Saggy Ascendant) 😉
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Posted by scorpiosnow

Now, I know you should never judge someone completely based on their chart. But I’ve been hurt so much in the past and this guy’s chart is SCREAMING that it’ll hurt me.


Sounds like a personal issue.

Your not ready to be in a relationship cause you got trust issues to work through. Call it what it is.

Don't blame his chart because your scared to let him in. Thats weak af.
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Posted by Squishy

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by Mhmmm

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by Mhmmm

This is exactly why I would never date someone that takes astrology that serious.




Then what the FUCK are you doing in this forum?

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva


The thing is, every placement can manifest itself in different ways. It’s up to the individual and their upbringing and choices that will decide how they’re going to channel their placements. So it would be very foolish to judge a chart without knowing the person behind it.




Negative. I had my birth chart (06 December 2017) interpreted by Froggie AKA @Squish (I cut and pasted):

---------------------------------------------------------------------

Hi Eva!

Despite your Pisces placements, the planetary placements show someone who will put out their wishes ahead of other things and won't be remorseful of cutting ties. You can be stubborn about things that matters to you... And

you also have the ability to go after what you what. Very interesting to see your second house ruler on your MC and then we have MC ruler Conjunct ASC ruler in your 8th House/Virgo... Along with that IC ruler Venus Conjunct 6R moon in the first house! Are you a part of an organization that is like your home? Do you handle their accounts or deal with their resources? Venus Moon connection shows who would love what she wants or a personality type who wouldn't chase what isn't theirs?

Looking at your chart, Sun in late Virgo could hold a major sexual appeal initially but it would lead to power struggle later on... early Virgo could be a tender placement for you provided other planets fall nicely in the

synastry.

A Gem Sun could be attractive, then again it I'm not seeing it for long term. Same with Sag Sun. Your best pick would be an EARLY Cancer Sun(Gem-Cancer cusper) with their Venus on your IC or a very early Taurus Sun or a Scorp Sun.

With your Desc in Leo and Jupiter right on IC, I won't be surprised if you find fire energy attractive, there could be a mutual respect for each other's high spirits... I won't pick a fire placement but a Leo Asc would be a great pick for you.

The thing is, even with your Pisces placements, your Sun receives aspects from masculine planets from a practical sign, it gives you a no nonsense dating profile... So meeting the right guy would matter a lot because from what I see, when you have to walk away, you will walk away instead of trying too hard. Doesn't mean you won't try once you are committed, you would but

practicality will come into play.

My suggestion would be to avoid mutable sun signs... Even if the attraction is there. Although early Virgo should work provided other planets don't aspect your stellium harshly. Avoid anything touching or squaring your Chiron and Mars/Pluto/Uranus stellium.

Early Cancer Sun with moon in early Taurus or Scorp

Early Scorp/late Taurus moon or Taurus Sun with moon in early Scorp

Leo Asc or a Sag Asc

I would avoid mutable suns despite intense attraction but mutable early Venus or moon should be ok.

All the best!

----------------------------------------------------------

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: Fuck fire sun signs (EXCEPT Leo/Saggy Ascendant) 😉


Wow! My dating profile for you.

I have come a long way since those days.

Follow your heart. Love who your heart desires.

Ditto, Doll (!)

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🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by scorpiosnow

Now, I know you should never judge someone completely based on their chart. But I’ve been hurt so much in the past and this guy’s chart is SCREAMING that it’ll hurt me.


Sounds like a personal issue.

Your not ready to be in a relationship cause you got trust issues to work through. Call it what it is.

Don't blame his chart because your scared to let him in. Thats weak af.
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omg you must hold quite some power to judge if someone is "weak af" just based on a comment I wrote in a haze. Yes I have trust issues, which I bloody wrote in my first post if you ever read it through properly. I am not blaming his chart, but this is an astrology forum after all, it's the one god damn place we get to filter through the likelihoods of things according to astrology so pls let us do that if we desire 🙂 thanks!
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still better to regret the things you did, not the ones you didn’t


Yeah that's something I usually stand by too. It's just that he's already shown signs of being unreliable/flaky and that's why I asked for advice in the first place, because it's a matter of going against my intuition with this boy or not. I've also been with heavily aquarius influenced guys before (one of my ex's were aquarius ascendant and aquarius venus aswell) and that did noooooot end well.



I'm also trying to figure out if our common Gemini moon is something that would bring us closer or something that would make things even harder. So if anyone shares a Gemini moon with a partner I'm all ears!
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still better to regret the things you did, not the ones you didn’t


Yeah that's something I usually stand by too. It's just that he's already shown signs of being unreliable/flaky and that's why I asked for advice in the first place, because it's a matter of going against my intuition with this boy or not. I've also been with heavily aquarius influenced guys before (one of my ex's were aquarius ascendant and aquarius venus aswell) and that did noooooot end well.



I'm also trying to figure out if our common Gemini moon is something that would bring us closer or something that would make things even harder. So if anyone shares a Gemini moon with a partner I'm all ears!




he might not be affectionate based on his aqua placements

but emotionally wise you both may understand each other at least a little bit lol

how old are you both?
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Yeah that's what I fear, as I defo need loads of affection lol. He's giving me such mixed signals because he seems to have a very romantic nature (he's pisces sun after all, and his aqua venus is in the 12th house, my scorp venus is in 12th house too). But it seems as soon as we hit a hard "emotional" topic he needs to kinda joke and lighten the mood/change subject which is hissing them cold aqua red flags for me

Both of us are 23, although I'm a few months older than him as I turn 24 in October.
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Posted by scorpiosnow

Now, I know you should never judge someone completely based on their chart. But I’ve been hurt so much in the past and this guy’s chart is SCREAMING that it’ll hurt me.


Sounds like a personal issue.

Your not ready to be in a relationship cause you got trust issues to work through. Call it what it is.

Don't blame his chart because your scared to let him in. Thats weak af.


omg you must hold quite some power to judge if someone is "weak af" just based on a comment I wrote in a haze. Yes I have trust issues, which I bloody wrote in my first post if you ever read it through properly. I am not blaming his chart, but this is an astrology forum after all, it's the one god damn place we get to filter through the likelihoods of things according to astrology so pls let us do that if we desire 🙂 thanks!

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Yeah your reasoning is weak af to me. So what?

Your really gonna act shocked that people have opinions? This prolly isn't the place for you...
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Posted by scorpiosnow

Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by scorpiosnow

Now, I know you should never judge someone completely based on their chart. But I’ve been hurt so much in the past and this guy’s chart is SCREAMING that it’ll hurt me.


Sounds like a personal issue.

Your not ready to be in a relationship cause you got trust issues to work through. Call it what it is.

Don't blame his chart because your scared to let him in. Thats weak af.


omg you must hold quite some power to judge if someone is "weak af" just based on a comment I wrote in a haze. Yes I have trust issues, which I bloody wrote in my first post if you ever read it through properly. I am not blaming his chart, but this is an astrology forum after all, it's the one god damn place we get to filter through the likelihoods of things according to astrology so pls let us do that if we desire 🙂 thanks!




Yeah your reasoning is weak af to me. So what?

Your really gonna act shocked that people have opinions? This prolly isn't the place for you...
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I'm not schocked at all, just think you're negative energy and judgy af, it's not like you know my entire situation down to a T.

And telling someone "this prolly isn't the place for you" sounds so entitled, again - who are you to say that lol? You should be able to ask for astrology advice without this kinda drama, so unless you have something constructive & helpful to say, just find something better to do with your time. Thanks 🙂