Bouncing back

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WateryGem
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I don't think her flirting with a man is indicative of her not mourning and being in grief still. I think after 22yrs, she has to feel pretty lonely and maybe, needs to feel something more than the emptiness she feels alone at night. That's just my guess, obviously, I don't know this person but sometimes we have to think a little more than what is on the surface to try to understand someone.
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Posted by WateryGem
I don't think her flirting with a man is indicative of her not mourning and being in grief still. I think after 22yrs, she has to feel pretty lonely and maybe, needs to feel something more than the emptiness she feels alone at night. That's just my guess, obviously, I don't know this person but sometimes we have to think a little more than what is on the surface to try to understand someone.
Oh, I have no doubts that why she's doing it. Taking her mind off of it has to feel great at this point. I'm not even knocking her for it either.
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Posted by P-Angel

You've made the assumption that this lady was in emotional turmoil.

And "yes" Pisces bounce back quickly with every emotional obstacle, whether turmoil was involved or not ... so long as the Fish doesn't have a Piscean moon.

Piscean mooners seem to never recover, and are cursed to spend the remainder of their lives in tatters
You are correct. I did make that assumption. Spending 20 something years with anyone (should) cause some type of turmoil, loving them or not.

Even a beaten dog still loves his owner, although he's glad to have a loving home elsewhere.
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Not a Fish, my dear.

We are never fully ever there ... it's not uncommon for a Pisces to flip an emotional switch.


and just like the snap of a finger ... we are able to disassociate.


You can have any come back you want, trying to convince me that you know ..... I'll listen ๐Ÿ™‚


But you're still wrong ... because you can only decide what puts you in emotional turmoil.

You aren't capable of knowing something you don't know.
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Posted by Sssupes
Do you Pisces bounce back from emotional turmoil fairly quickly? There's a lady that works in the admin bldg and she just lost her husband of 22 years a month ago. Today, I clearly heard her flirting with another man. Seems quick to me but I don't know what the home life was like.
People respond to grief in different ways. Just because you wouldn't express grief by throwing yourself at another person doesn't make it invalid.

Oftentimes those with the biggest smiles are hiding the most pain...
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Posted by P-Angel

Not a Fish, my dear.

We are never fully ever there ... it's not uncommon for a Pisces to flip an emotional switch.


and just like the snap of a finger ... we are able to disassociate.


You can have any come back you want, trying to convince me that you know ..... I'll listen ๐Ÿ™‚


But you're still wrong ... because you can only decide what puts you in emotional turmoil.

You aren't capable of knowing something you don't know.
Last attempt!

In order to "flip the switch" there needs to be a reason to flip it in the first place. รฐลธโ€˜โ€ฆ