@AntiSocial
9 Years500+ Posts
Break Up
Are you still seeing the side chick?
It is normal to be friendly and civilized and even to miss each other, if the relationship was OK and the break up mutual.
Posted by Undine
It is normal to be friendly and civilized and even to miss each other, if the relationship was OK and the break up mutual.
Is it normal to be talking everyday since the break up, look i broke up before most girls don't even like to know me or just the sense of me irritates them after a break up I 'm not a great dude, but this is the 1st for me
Posted by Whorpio
Are you still seeing the side chick?
No I'm actually sad about this, but her being there and not breaking contact w me is like buggin me, maybe cuz I care how she is regardless
Oh by the way, I'm the one that got dumped.
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.
Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Well here's a Pisces woman who could help you @LadyNeptune
Don't fault her for behavior your are initiating/participating in.
Posted by AntiSocial
I keep maintaining contactclick to expand
You say you hate games. So don't play. Go no contact.
If you want her back this gives her space to realize that she needs you in her life. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that.
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
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She can have feelings for you and still not want to be with you, js.
Feelings are natural and grow with exposure. She'd have to be made of stone to not feel, and she's a Pisces so she probably feels too much.
Tell her you need to go no contact for awhile to process the breakup.
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Well here's a Pisces woman who could help you @LadyNeptune
Don't fault her for behavior your are initiating/participating in.
Posted by AntiSocial
I keep maintaining contactclick to expand
I'm not putting the blame game on no one cuz im not even sure if she does still have feelings, all im sayin is she said she misses me towards the end of our phone call last night
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Well here's a Pisces woman who could help you @LadyNeptune
Don't fault her for behavior your are initiating/participating in.
Posted by AntiSocial
I keep maintaining contactI'm not putting the blame game on no one cuz im not even sure if she does still have feelings, all im sayin is she said she misses me towards the end of our phone call last night
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Again, she can miss you and still not want to BE with you.
Whats your end game here? Like in an ideal world what do you want from her??
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
She can have feelings for you and still not want to be with you, js.
Feelings are natural and grow with exposure. She'd have to be made of stone to not feel, and she's a Pisces so she probably feels too much.
Tell her you need to go no contact for awhile to process the breakup.
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I will probably put it out like that & say I can't talk to you no more. That's the nature of the game rightt , sucks I can't be honest about like how always do
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Well here's a Pisces woman who could help you @LadyNeptune
Don't fault her for behavior your are initiating/participating in.
Posted by AntiSocial
I keep maintaining contactI'm not putting the blame game on no one cuz im not even sure if she does still have feelings, all im sayin is she said she misses me towards the end of our phone call last night
Again, she can miss you and still not want to BE with you.
Whats your end game here? Like in an ideal world what do you want from her??
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I want her to just hate my guts don't pick up my calls don't say things like u miss me so she just can move on
, eventhough I do miss her so we r both messin up
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Well here's a Pisces woman who could help you @LadyNeptune
Don't fault her for behavior your are initiating/participating in.
Posted by AntiSocial
I keep maintaining contactI'm not putting the blame game on no one cuz im not even sure if she does still have feelings, all im sayin is she said she misses me towards the end of our phone call last night
Again, she can miss you and still not want to BE with you.
Whats your end game here? Like in an ideal world what do you want from her??
I want her to just hate my guts don't pick up my calls don't say things like u miss me so she just can move on
, eventhough I do miss her so we r both messin up
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Is that what you really want??
Posted by Jayc3on
Maybe she hasn't lost all of her feelings that she had for you.Well that's the thing if she hasn't don't play games, I hate that
Well here's a Pisces woman who could help you @LadyNeptune
Don't fault her for behavior your are initiating/participating in.
Posted by AntiSocial
I keep maintaining contactI'm not putting the blame game on no one cuz im not even sure if she does still have feelings, all im sayin is she said she misses me towards the end of our phone call last night
Again, she can miss you and still not want to BE with you.
Whats your end game here? Like in an ideal world what do you want from her??
I want her to just hate my guts don't pick up my calls don't say things like u miss me so she just can move on
, eventhough I do miss her so we r both messin up
Is that what you really want??
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Oh I forgot ur a Pisces too...see it's not about what I want it's about what could benefit her more, & I got feelings of course I reciprocate how i feel immediately if she said she miss me n yeh i think about us, but if she said she hates me then im gone
lol you're confused af. I thought you wanted her to dump you?! ?
You are being honest. You got dumped and hope she gives you a sign that she wants to be with you again.
A "miss you" is not such sign, I'm afraid. But if she says it again, ask to see her and you'll get a better feeling about what she wants from you. If you don't like it, stop answering her texts or whatever she sends you.
Posted by Undine
You are being honest. You got dumped and hope she gives you a sign that she wants to be with you again.A "miss you" is not such sign, I'm afraid. But if she says it again, ask to see her and you'll get a better feeling about what she wants from you. If you don't like it, stop answering her texts or whatever she sends you.
"But if she says it again" lol then what go on n say i know u miss me haha forget that
You want her to hate you...?
I don't know any Pisces who hates someone for longer that a second at a time. Not long enough for a text, you will need to be face her if you want to hear it.
I guess it's me not her, hell if I said I miss you to someone better be damn right that I want u here asap so yeh I guess y'all r right it doesn't mean she wants me, and that's good though
Posted by Jayc3on
@LadyNeptune why did you hide your post when you quoted me?
It was a double post.
jesus you sound confused - maybe both of you
stop playing games and just be real
it's on or it's off - just the way it's got to be
Posted by AntiSocial
Oh by the way, I'm the one that got dumped.
YAY!
She probably wants to be friends with you, she's probably scared of losing you or maybe she regretted breaking up with you, and doesn't know how to tell so she keeps communicating with you
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Me a Taurus and Pisces gf broke up...but how come she just keeps maintaining contact and I keep maintaining contact .. Is this even normal
PS I said I miss her and she was like I miss you too, Hella confusing