Do Pisces like many people at the same time?

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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
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You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
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That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.
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I would advise that although Mercury is no longer moving backward it still has not come forward to the place it originally started it's retrograde.

This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...

I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.

I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.

By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.

Best of luck

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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.
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Lol I wouldn't say its positivity, per se. But don't jump ahead of yourself and assume that him getting texts means..x,y, or z. If you want to know if he likes/values you call him (at a time you know he isn't at work) and see if he takes your call.
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I would advise that although Mercury is no longer moving backward it still has not come forward to the place it originally started it's retrograde.

This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...

I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.

I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.

By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.

Best of luck

PM
Thank you! I am not ready to be intimate with him so I guess I will keep observing him then.

I know there is this girl who broke his heart not too long ago. He said she led him on for months... maybe she will come back.
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.
Lol I wouldn't say its positivity, per se. But don't jump ahead of yourself and assume that him getting texts means..x,y, or z. If you want to know if he likes/values you call him (at a time you know he isn't at work) and see if he takes your call.
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Thanks. Yea, I guess it's better not to make assumptions. I just don't want to make myself a fool by thinking he likes me but only to find out that he talks to everyone the same way... =.=
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.

I stalked my pisces 😐

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uh oh.. what did you find out?
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Btw, it takes a long time for a Pisces to move on, right?

He did tell me about this other girl he used to spend a lot of time with who led him on. They were seeing each other for months, but she kept telling him she's not ready for a relationship (He told me he thinks she was using him for sex). I think he's probably not over her. Pisces and I have been talking for just 3-4 weeks.
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.

I stalked my pisces 😐


uh oh.. what did you find out?
Lol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my back 😄

He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
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This is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.

I stalked my pisces 😐


uh oh.. what did you find out?
Lol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my back 😄

He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
This is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.

Um, he probably means it because they can be dramatic in general, the emotions behind the dramatics I find to be genuine.

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I see. The Pisces I am dealing with is extra cheesy though 😆

Well, I guess it's always good to give people the benefit of the doubt.
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.

I stalked my pisces 😐


uh oh.. what did you find out?
Lol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my back 😄

He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
This is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.

Um, he probably means it because they can be dramatic in general, the emotions behind the dramatics I find to be genuine.


I see. The Pisces I am dealing with is extra cheesy though 😆

Well, I guess it's always good to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Cheesy....sounds like he's running game lol

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That's what I am afraid of... =.=
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how do you know the texts he was getting were from people he 'likes' ?
I guess I just assumed if they are not welcomed to text him, they wouldn't be texting him all night? 😕

I mean, I don't text people unless I know I am gonna get a response lol
You do realize that he can't control another persons actions right?
That's true... well, I hope he doesn't have a stalker then, if that's the case 😆

Thanks for the positvitiy.

I stalked my pisces 😐


uh oh.. what did you find out?
Lol nothing interesting. He did more damage in front of my face than behind my back 😄

He was a very open individual. I just never could tell the truths from the lies. His stories were so far fetched sometimes, but hell their imagination is so vivid. To this day, I still can't tell when he's lying or telling the truth
This is what I am afraid of... I can never tell if he means it or he's just being dramatic.

Um, he probably means it because they can be dramatic in general, the emotions behind the dramatics I find to be genuine.


I see. The Pisces I am dealing with is extra cheesy though 😆

Well, I guess it's always good to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Cheesy....sounds like he's running game lol


That's what I am afraid of... =.=



What's your sign?

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scorpio. I think that's why I am very skeptical 😢

I don't like to have to worry so much.
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Yes we do and also depends on your intellectual level.. Lower the more people around.


Good to know. He also has a lot of female frineds.

Do you have a lot of guy friends?
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Yeah. I'm pretty flirtatious too. Having multiple choice is always better as you can settle for the best and if something goes wrong you can replace without wasting time and energy looking for someone else.

Love doesn't come easily and we are perfectionists, not the best combo. If you wanna keep him be perfect, simply perfect.
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Yes we do and also depends on your intellectual level.. Lower the more people around.


Good to know. He also has a lot of female frineds.

Do you have a lot of guy friends?
Yeah. I'm pretty flirtatious too. Having multiple choice is always better as you can settle for the best and if something goes wrong you can replace without wasting time and energy looking for someone else.

Love doesn't come easily and we are perfectionists, not the best combo. If you wanna keep him be perfect, simply perfect.
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Haha. I think you and he are very similar.
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Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
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Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
I agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.
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Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
I agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.

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Yeah the same with me 🙂 I think usually us as pisces we let other people know that we are not available in one way or another. But I rarely cut people out of my life if they don't push over the line that I show them 🙂
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No if my eyes are set on someone they have my full focus and attention. The best way to tell us how quick he replies to messages. The higher on my priority list the quicker I respond.

I do have a lot of guy friends and they are just friends, not friends with benefits so yes don't jump to conclusions.
Good to know there's no firends with benefits 😆

Regrading how quickly he replies to messages... hmm, I think it is not very consistent, varing between immediately and a couple of hours later.... but usually he replies within 20-30 minutes.
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Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
He did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
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Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
I agree with a lot of that. If I'm seeing someone my tone changes when talking to others and I make it clear that I'm not available.

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I guess I will have to pay attention to how he talks to others then. thanks 🙂
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I don't, but I can't speak for everyone.

When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
^ What she said. But that depends on a lot of other influences so, as Pisco said, there are different Pisceans.

Edit: Nah, i thought she was referring to romantic relationships.

If i am into smb i am fixed and can like only that person but i still continue communicating with a lot of people. If i see someone has interest in me i always tell them i am unavailable as soon as i feel there might be something on their side.

Oh, and i check my phone a lot because a lot of ppl are writing but when i am with someone i try to be polite and dont touch my phone.
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That's good to know, thanks.

How if you like someone but you are just getting to know each other?
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Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
He did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
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Yeap, that does seem very similar to what we do. Granted if you two would be in a relashionship for a very long time (couple of years) than I am sure he would push them out of his life one way or another. Just don't push him to do it, because that will push him away from you 🙂
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I would advise that although Mercury is no longer moving backward it still has not come forward to the place it originally started it's retrograde.

This means communication is not the best. I would advise go slower as yes Venus is in Pisces with Neptune where there was a conjunction which can bring the illusion of love...

I will also say that It depends largely on other placements besides just the sun as well as someone's personal vibration.

I know it is never what anyone wants to hear but feeling are normally only hurt that bad once physical relation has started. It is always then you see if a man will actually stick around or not. Once they had it or have had enough of it either you will be worth the effort to him or not.

By taking 30 days or 2 moon cycles and understanding that he could be emotional during these times... and negative qualities can come out. It is then to see how he treats you. As well as during a Mercury retro because yes x's come back often.

Best of luck

PM
30 days including the retrograde that just LEFT on the 8th?! Good God!!!! 😭

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: I know, I know! P-A-T-I-E-N-C-E
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Posted by Roana
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
Roana is spot on! 😎 That's why we Pisceans (women) do NOT sleep with our "friends"; even exes. I am NOT friendly w/any of my exes since I don't want them in my life. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Good to know there's no firends with benefits 😆

Regrading how quickly he replies to messages... hmm, I think it is not very consistent, varing between immediately and a couple of hours later.... but usually he replies within 20-30 minutes.



Friends with benefits doesn't work for me. I don't do hook ups either. That might be more of a girl thing but I don't jump into bed with just anyone.

I'm not purely a looks based person, obviously there has to be a physical attraction but personality is a big deal. If you can make me laugh you've already caught my attention.

Obviously there will be times when he's busy and can't reply immediately but it sounds like he's interested.
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Posted by Roana
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
He did tell me that he kept sevearl girls in his life because he wanted to continue helping them... He told me that even though it hurts him to keep them, he still wants to be there for them because they want him in their lives... I guess this matches the doctor-patient relationship you described... He told me his ex gf was very angry about the situation, but he could never drop those people for her.
Yeap, that does seem very similar to what we do. Granted if you two would be in a relashionship for a very long time (couple of years) than I am sure he would push them out of his life one way or another. Just don't push him to do it, because that will push him away from you 🙂
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Thanks! I will just have to see how this is going 😉
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I don't, but I can't speak for everyone.

When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
^ What she said. But that depends on a lot of other influences so, as Pisco said, there are different Pisceans.

Edit: Nah, i thought she was referring to romantic relationships.

If i am into smb i am fixed and can like only that person but i still continue communicating with a lot of people. If i see someone has interest in me i always tell them i am unavailable as soon as i feel there might be something on their side.

Oh, and i check my phone a lot because a lot of ppl are writing but when i am with someone i try to be polite and dont touch my phone.
That's good to know, thanks.

How if you like someone but you are just getting to know each other?
It doesnt matter how much i know the person if i like them. I have to know some stuff in order to get to like them though. But if i do, im fixed and dont think of others that way.
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He has told me he likes me... but how if an old flame comes back?

I know a girl broke his heart not too long ago before we met. He was really into her but she didn't want a relationship. I think he didn't talk to her as much after we met, but how if she changed her mind and wanted to give it a shot? Hypothetically, if it was you, what would you do? 😕
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Posted by Roana
Well I can't speak for all Pisces, but I know that for some (me included) and some male friends who are Pisces it's pretty simple. If I am not in a relashionship and we are just on we are getting to know each other phase than I will talk with other people too. Now if the person that I am talking to is somewhat special even if I am not in relashionship with him) than I won't stop talking to other people, but my tone with them will change - no flirting, just friendly banter. If I am in relashionship than I will let them know that and will show that I am for sure not available.

Granted there is a chance that he does like you and you are special to him, but he had those people in his life before he met you, so he will remain friendly (not in a sexual way) with them, and therefore you will see him getting messages and so on 🙂 But if Pisces genuinly are interested in you trust me you will be their priority, and they will value you over those other people.

But know that never ask Pisces to cut ties with anyone, we usually bring people into our lives for many reasons, so sometimes by asking us to cut ties with people is like telling a doctor to drop a patient (as bad as that sounds we usually have a lot of people in our lives that we are healing even if we are not realising it).

I know from my own experience and from my male friends that when they become interested in someone they no longer feel attraction to other people. So alot of times when pisces say we are just friends it really does mean we are just friends 🙂



So don't overwork yourself and see if he prioritises you over other people. if he does than you can be calm about it 🙂 He likes you and others are just on friendly terms.
Roana is spot on! 😎 That's why we Pisceans (women) do NOT sleep with our "friends"; even exes. I am NOT friendly w/any of my exes since I don't want them in my life. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Thanks for the affirmation, Eva!

What would you do if you met someone new but an old flame came back and wanted to work things out?
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Posted by WonderWoman14
Good to know there's no firends with benefits 😆

Regrading how quickly he replies to messages... hmm, I think it is not very consistent, varing between immediately and a couple of hours later.... but usually he replies within 20-30 minutes.
Friends with benefits doesn't work for me. I don't do hook ups either. That might be more of a girl thing but I don't jump into bed with just anyone.

I'm not purely a looks based person, obviously there has to be a physical attraction but personality is a big deal. If you can make me laugh you've already caught my attention.

Obviously there will be times when he's busy and can't reply immediately but it sounds like he's interested.



Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.

After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.

What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?

I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.
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Posted by cvurko
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Posted by Pisco
I don't, but I can't speak for everyone.

When I like someone, they are the only person I want to talk to and get to know.
^ What she said. But that depends on a lot of other influences so, as Pisco said, there are different Pisceans.

Edit: Nah, i thought she was referring to romantic relationships.

If i am into smb i am fixed and can like only that person but i still continue communicating with a lot of people. If i see someone has interest in me i always tell them i am unavailable as soon as i feel there might be something on their side.

Oh, and i check my phone a lot because a lot of ppl are writing but when i am with someone i try to be polite and dont touch my phone.
That's good to know, thanks.

How if you like someone but you are just getting to know each other?
It doesnt matter how much i know the person if i like them. I have to know some stuff in order to get to like them though. But if i do, im fixed and dont think of others that way.
He has told me he likes me... but how if an old flame comes back?

I know a girl broke his heart not too long ago before we met. He was really into her but she didn't want a relationship. I think he didn't talk to her as much after we met, but how if she changed her mind and wanted to give it a shot? Hypothetically, if it was you, what would you do? 😕
Yeah, i cant speak for him but normally if smb breaks my heart or hurts me its game over for me. I move on pretty easily. (To decide to move on is the hard part for me)

And im very picky as well so if i find a trait i really dislike and is against my principles i instantly stop liking the person.
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Thank you! This is very helpful!
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Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.

After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.

What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?

I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.



That's a tough one and male/female might view things differently. Also break his heart? How is that possible when they weren't even dating?

If someone wanted me back suddenly because they weren't getting my attention I wouldn't be interested. I don't need anyone, I want them. If I feel it's not reciprocated I'll walk away. I'm at an age where I won't settle for less than I deserve.

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I hung out withe Pisces yesterday. He got A Lot of incoming messages. He tried not to check his phone too frequently but still... =.=
Well I'm not a pisces. But I am someone who fancies multiple people at a time. It's rare that even one of them have my number though. Are you two dating?
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Early stage... just getting to know each other and hanging out. I want to assess the situation first to decide if I should invest emotionally... obviously, I don't want to end up having a broken heart... (=da rebound girl)
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Posted by WonderWoman14
Thanks! I have another question. I know there's this girl just broke his heart not too long ago before we met.

After we met, I think he didn't talk to her as much. She didn't want a relationship.

What do you think he'd do if she decided that she changed her mind and wanted to date him now?

I suspect that she didn't want to date him because she knew he was very into her (too much for her). Now that he's not giving his full attention, maybe she'd want to date him now.



That's a tough one and male/female might view things differently. Also break his heart? How is that possible when they weren't even dating?

If someone wanted me back suddenly because they weren't getting my attention I wouldn't be interested. I don't need anyone, I want them. If I feel it's not reciprocated I'll walk away. I'm at an age where I won't settle for less than I deserve.





I guess he felt heart-broken because he thought evenfully she'd want a relationship with him. I think they were in a FWB situation. He had true feelings for her, but she was not over someone else so she didn't want to committ... I appreciate that you shared your perspective 🙂
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But in all seriousness,

whenever I hear "you can't like more than one person at once"

is like hearing,

"I only poop butterflies!"

Of course you can fancy more than one person. But the degree of your crush can vary.

Also, when I'm in a relationship,

I am as loyal

as possible.

But I can also understand how someone saying they're "in love" to multiple people in a short period time can be really..really annoying.

Like this one guy who claimed to be "in love" with me

after meeting me the first day.

I understand chemistry can make that happen,

but I could tell this guy was just needy.

All in all, there's two sides in a coin.
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